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"I am a Nigerian student living in Scotland, A Nigerian Christian guy got in touch with me via WhatsApp and asked for a relationship, saying he got my number off a church whatsapp group that I haven't been to for almost a year now. He said he's prayed about me and God has told him we are good to go. He is a student too.
I was single at the time and haven't been with a Christian brother before, so I decided to give it a chance. It's roughly 2 months and I am at the point where I want to quit.

We got talking on the platform and also through calls, about a week into our relationship/talking stage he asked me to come to his place and cook for him so he can have enough food for the coming week. I was surprised because we hadn't even seen each other at that at time. I told him I cannot, he made a big deal out of it and said stuff like it's not a big deal for me to do that as his wife to be. We got over that and arranged to see for the first time, he suggested my house and I said I don't feel comfortable with either of us seeing for the first time in our houses and we finally concluded on a Bugger King outlet which isn't far from my house. This didn't go well with him tho.

We met for the first time and talked, after that he said he wanted to know my place as it isn't far from Burger King. He came to my place and stayed in my bed till around past 10pm, he tried touching and kissing, I told him I wasn't comfortable and he needed to leave because of time. He got annoyed said his intentions was to stay over at my place, he already told his housemate he isn't coming back home and it's so late now to go back. I told him I cannot allow him sleep at my house for the first time we're meeting, I have a small single bed and you intentionally didn't even say you'd sleep over before. He grudgingly left and dropped 3 packs of youghurt and a bag of unfried chips which I later discovered where all expired at the time he dropped them.

I told him about it and he made a mess out of the situation. He attends a pentecostal church and critisizes other churches, he doesn't really believe in adult taking responsibility for their actions as the devil is most likely responsible for everything, we simply have to pray against the devil.
He's asked for sex multiple times in less than 1 month, I stopped talking to him one time for about 2 weeks and we picked up again. He said he doesn't have to penetrate, we can do every other things to satisfy our flesh. He said doing all that with him is the proof of my love for him which I have strongly disagreed. Sex isn't a prove of love, we are adults and can have protected sex with anyone without loving them.
The only single thing I enjoy about him is that we communicate well, he talks a lot too and that makes our communication half argument, he finds fault in any little thing and blows it out of proportion. I have told him I don't have strength for argument in marriage since we won't be arguing over minute things that get him pissed off now.

Both of us have been getting multiple 12 hours night shifts from work and two nights ago, he asked me what he was going to eat when he gets home the following morning, I knew he was up to something. I told him I can't say, we don't live together and I don't know what you currently have at home. I suggested he buys bread on his way back home. He then asked me to cook for him to eat the following morning, I sincerely let him know I have no soup or stew myself. His response changed and he later called me on same subject, citing how I don't care enough about him to be concerned about how he is gonna eat since he's been working few nights now, he compared himself to a married man that always brings food to work at his workplace. Even gave the guy his phone to talk to me, that one too said I should do things in my power to make my man happy.

I tried to make him understand he isn't married and it might be difficult to enjoy what his married frnd is enjoying. Youve never bought me foodstuff, you haven't worked before and sent me 50 pounds or less for groceries, we are both working night shifts and I sort my own food, why are you angry I can't make out time out of my rest period to come cook at your house to stuck your fridge?

I have been in relationship where I cooked, I personally enjoy cooking, but I have never been with a man that feels to entitled to me doing that for him. He says I'm supposed to be the one cooking for him. He also believes in women abroad sharing bills, but he is too traditional to share house chores"

He's in a hurry to hit n run. I know how difficult the UK can be relationship wise, but this guy here didn't cut it at all. He's a disaster waiting to happen. Move on, the right man will come.
How have you been doing multiple night shifts of 12hrs, except you are not under student visa

Hanndye:
Apart from human disasters, Africa is generally not known for large scale natural disasters. This fact is well known but maybe you are not enlightened enough. The politics you are playing keeps blinding you.

Ignorance
It's your type that claimed corona virus won't come to Africa because of the intensity of the sun
Don't patronise me with your level of IQ

isan:
Did he rape them ?

It's against the ethics of his profession

Doremii:
If the name on someone ssce certificate is Tope Adam Folorunsho and his bsc and birth certificate is Folorunsho Tope Adam, is there a problem or the person can use the ssce like that ?

Will the person be denied a job? If so, what can the person do?

Get affidavit and submit it along side your credentials else the interviewer will see your certificate as forged

Hanndye:
Well, Africa didn't often have such. Of recent we have Morocco, Abuja, and now Libya.

They do.

Mud sling, flood and quakes especially in North Africa cos they are closer to Europe

ufotty2001:
what about their performance in world cup

That's a fluke. After the World Cup, how consistent have they being

ufotty2001:
Morocco is the biggest among all

Unfortunately, Morrocco isn't bigger than those teams in the history of AFCON. They ve won it once as far back as 1976

robosky02:
https://punchng.com/full-list-24-countries-qualify-for-2023-afcon/?utm_source=top-story&utm_medium=web&amp

All regulars, no newcomer

Hanndye:
Maybe God has remembered Africa, to 'repay it according to its deeds'. We need to repent of our ways.

There was disaster in Europe and every other part of the world. It was earthquake in Syria-Turkey around February

It's now a ringtone

lexy2014:
Did u hear of 6000 people dying as a result of flood during gadaffis reign?

Gaddafi isn't a messiah. We have more disasters now due climate change et al. Few days ago, it was Morocco

The disaster was triggered by Storm Daniel, which raged across Greece, Turkey and Bulgaria before hitting Libya at the weekend, bringing with it torrential rain and strong winds that caused damage and flash floods

GeneralPula:
Libya people will forever suffer Gadaffi’s loss..

They were brainwashed and they fell for it..

So, no flood in Gadaffi era

Gaddafi isn't a messiah. We have more disasters now due climate change et al. Few days ago, it was Morocco

The disaster was triggered by Storm Daniel, which raged across Greece, Turkey and Bulgaria before hitting Libya at the weekend, bringing with it torrential rain and strong winds that caused damage and flash floods

Princessstee:
So sad, the government of Lybia could not take care of that small population with all those oil wells.

Imagine losing thousands of people to flood out of just 6 million people.

There is little to nothing you can do to prevent natural disaster. All Countries have theirs

treesun:
https://guardian.ng/news/officers-only-extort-young-nigerians-with-ingenuine-means-of-income-police/

Shameful man. Must you extort at all

Reelmii:
....i wish he had relocated his family before now,,, make i know weather them go go abroad to meet her and collect the documents....

They did not even do autopsy for the boy to ascertain the cause of the death...i tot he was a Muslim reason for the rush of the burial....but wen i see pastor dey pray gor graveside and also he was buried with a coffin,, i was convinced he was not a Muslim.. so why them rush the burial

I no know say yorubas dey follow drag property, i think say na only igbos dey do am


They didn't even bury him like the celebrity that he was😪..na street still bury am....but its all good....

Them of light,, but light still dey...because his son will still on the light back..

I heard them shouting one cult slang for background after the burial....i hope this will not turn to a full blown cult war.....i just dey talk sha

So mohbad case is your standard to judge all Yorubas....smh

TemplarLandry:
Let Atiku and Mr. HoeBee keep wasting their time and money.
None of them can ever become Nigerian President.

Jagaban!

Did he graduate? Anybody can be your classmate but not all can be your graduate set

JuanDeDios:
Right. It's business and tourism that bring travelers.

We need to do better in that area

ahnie:
I want to apply to GWR as the most Calmest nairalander.


Seun pls take note

You n vawulence are 5 n 6

doggedfighter:
We are back to the GWR season again !

The man carrying him can register for his own GWR on how long he can can carry a grown man on his shoulders.


Don't think it's easy.



Congratulations,Tonye !

That book don suffer from Naija hand

BobbieZion:
The family na alcoholics?
Why beer,gin and wine full everywhere like that.....

Shameful family, they could not even demand for something valuable. Exchanging their daughter for alcoholic drink

MrsTwrite:
Nigeria no work. Very un-serious country.

No activities to attract people to the country

Nyanabo:
Mehn... looks too young to be retiring. Maybe she wants to start her family.

Exactly, for women, not easy to have baby and come back into the sport

jmoore:
They announced it in English too.

One would think with all the noise, they will ban English.

English is Nigeria official language. Both are used side by side as its obtained in non native English speaking Country. That's a way to preserve our nativr language and hand it over to the next generation

doggedfighter:
Nobody is saying what happened to Mohbad.




Was he sick ?

Or battling addiction ?

There's this seemingly oath of silence on the cause of death.

He was so promising !

Drug addiction

Nyanabo:
How old is she ?

29

naptu2:
oparanozie desire @oparanozie9

Time to make babies, expecting Odega to follow soon. She already gave us a clue after the world cup

TemplarLandry:
These paper tigers again??

They ve lost their voice

Woodshot:


Northern Nigeria should be learning how things are done in the new age... Not their archaic way of believe... She's gonna play without Hijab...not that there ain't Christian girl walking Streets of Sokoto with open hair, but I think Muslim North has got a lot unlearning and learning to do.

Imagine if Northern Nigeria allowed their girls to participate in sports, Super Falcons would have been stronger than this....they are limiting Nigeria potentials

kerry57:
I love the passion she has for what she does. Keep it up lady

passion for money

naptu2:
Ashleigh Plumptre @ashplumptre

Even women are going that way....everyone loves money

LewisHamilton15:
Last week I proposed to my long time girlfriend and fiancee and she accepted me.

We discussed a whole range of topics and we are convenienced that we can live our lives together. But one thing we disagree on is the issue of house: she said we must build a house together before settling down but I suggested we tie the knot and live in a rented apartment before planning to build our personal house but she insisted we must build.

She said we will contribute money to build together, she won't leave me alone in the project. She even suggested withdrawing her savings of #250, 000 so we can buy land. I have the money and apart from my daily hustle I have other side businesses that springs me money occasionally.

I want to settle down as soon as possible but she cited the problems that comes along with living in a rented apartment. I really wish to settle down but this lady won't agree.

I don't want to cause problem between us so how do I go about convincing her?

wetin 250 wan buy....she must be a joke

Forget about savings, except you guys are planning to build a hut, you need bulk money to erect a structure

EmdRizy:
My name is Gba Peter Ternenge, I just graduated with a first class in Industrial Physics. The only student with a first class out of over 200 students in the department.

The quality of your statement of results is terrible. Your school should do better

Congratulations