Please permit me to share this thing my brother is doing to me.
As my life was about to become useless in the village, I came to the city to stay with my older brother and learn phone repairs.
My plan is to have this handwork so that when i gain admission, i wont rely totally only on education which has failed many in the country.
But my blood brother I'm staying with is behaving unkind to me as though i am a total stranger to him. Even total strangers deserve better treatment.
I'm only an apprenctice and yet to start making money. Most of the days, i trek to the place and return because I dont have transport.
He leave house first before me and return before me too. Before I would come back, he would cook noodles and finish it, washed the pot and everything and keep them clean as though nothing happened. Sometimes he eat outside and come back home and ignore me.
Except there's another way for me, that is how I would go hungry throughout the night and as early as possible in the morning, he would leave the house without reasoning anything food.
I'm seriously starving. I thought he would share the little he has with me till I also start making money. Is this how a senior brother should behave with the junior one?
He's being unkind to me and now I feel like hiding the Garri I brought from the village from him.
But is this how we should behave as blood brothers?
He can't even be there for me to free from this apprenticeship.
Discuss with him, if he doesn't change, report to your parents. If you have friends in Lagos that can accommodate you and understand your plight....please relocate
I keep saying that many people will just open the bible and read the opinions of Paul when he was writing letters to different churches and now want to enforce Paul letters as the standard of Christianity. Paul was not even amongst those that were with Christ and understood all what Christ was about. People like peter, James etc. Paul was an apostle like Barnabas and need validation from the disciples of Christ. Any time you want to see a pastor or anyone cap about the bible they will quickly open to one of the books written by Paul.
Many people don't know that the Hebrew or Jewish religious practice is nothing similar or close to Christianity, its even closer to Islam than christian.
Without data I'm very sure an Israeli can easily switch to practice Islam compared to practicing Christianity.
Ignorance dey worry you
If Paul was wrong, Holy ghost and other Apostles were there to correct him. Instead, it was Paul that corrected Peter. Without Paul the gospel wouldn't have gotten to the gentiles.
Only a hypocrite will discard Paul letters yet believed in the Holy spirit
The man is very useless. He's lost focus. That conversation between mohbad and his wife was recorded by her to playback to him cos mohbad was experiencing memory loss
Undilutedme: Hello nairaland family. I trust you guys are doing fine. I have a little problem and I need a piece of advise on how to handle it.
I have a very wonderful mother. She's caring, sweet, compassionate, name all the good characteristics of a good woman, she's got all but there's this problem I'm still having with her. SHE NEVER APPRECIATES ME, NO MATTER HOW HARD I TRY. My mom will never appreciate me for anything I do, even if she does, she does it nonchalantly like it doesn't matter. She compares me with friends at every slight opportunity she gets.
There was something that happened. Momsy travelled sometime around this year and stayed for close to two months and she has a shop that she manages. The shop's generator has been bad for sometime and it's really stressful for her selling with dim lights but she refused repairing it again because according to her, the generator is consuming her money because of too much repairs every time. So I wanted to surprise her, I called a friend that fixes generator to come help me fix it so when she comes she'll see that it has been fixed. My friend came and fixed it. When momsy came back and I told her that I fixed the generator for her, she told me that, she didn't send me to fix generator for her and that she is not going to use it. According to her "I send you make you fix gen?. I say I nor wan use the gen again". I swear I was really hurt.
On another occasion was during the just concluded UTME exam. My friends wrote before me, a friend of mine had 330 so I told her, she was very happy. She was like, I pray you get something like this. Fast forward, 3 days later, I wrote mine and result came out. I scored 314, when she came, just happily told her, instead of being happy, she just hissed and said "You nor fit get reach 330?". My spirit just died immediately. She likes comparing me with my friends.
There are many occasions things have happened but I'll not bore you with unnecessary talks. It's really eating me up emotionally and psychologically. How well can I make my mom appreciate me more?. How can I please her?.
Ps: Please nobody should throw insults at her. I beg you in the name of whoever you serve. Thanks.
I can tell you for free that she does appreciate you. She doesn't want it to get into your head, that's why she's not showing it. That's how African mothers behave.
If you really want to know if she does, spy on her while discussing you with her friends, she ll be using you as bragging right
YourBestWriter: Good day everyone here. Please I need mortuary job anywhere in Nigeria with accommodation. At the moment I am eager to recover everything I have lost over the years, and a job in the mortuary as a mortician is what I am asking for.
Presently I am in onitsha, but i can relocate to anywhere in Nigeria as long as there is accommodation. Please guys kindly link me up.
God bless you all.
To recover all....it has to be mortuary job? Did they ask you to go n bring some body parts ?
specialofficer: I have been having some issues in my room, I live with my mum and sister , it's a 3 bedroom flat, we pay 1.4m yearly and we've paid 3 times, last payment was in may.
My landlord increased the pressure point of our water in the compound and now water gas been leaking, pipes got burst in the wall and water has been coming out from walls and pop, I started complaining last month but they didn't do anything about it, it got to a point when the water was too much in my room, I wanted to get my landlords attention so I had to spoil our pumping machine and I brought out all the dirts in our dustbin, I acknowledge my mistakes but it was out of anger.
My landlord confronts me and we got into an argument and we insulted each other, I know i was wrong but if I didn't spoil that pumping machine, the landlord wouldn't have called plumber to repair the issues I was having in my room, I even discovered that i wasn't the only one experiencing such thing, my neighbors too were also having that same issues.
According to my landlord, he said he's not the one collecting money from us, we paid money to agent and if we have any issues we should contact the agent, this particular agent is his elder brother but this my landlord is living in our compound with us, though he has numerous houses.
Now my landlord said he doesn't want to see me again in his compound and has threatened my mum with quit notice, he said it's either I leave the house or my family would leave , he instructed the gateman not to open gate for me again or else he'll sack him. My fellow nairalanders I really need your help, how will I go about this?
Modified; The landlord threatened to call police if he ever sees me in his compound, he said he'll win me in court and it's malicious damage to his property, mind you, there's no evidence that I committed the offence, our gateman was the only eye witness.
Go n get another house, you guys can never be on the same page again
BloomingDale: You guys should go seek help for your strong envy of successful women. Envy leds to hatred and eventually leds to murder.
successful indeed. We all know her body work is what is attracting those gifts. It doesn't last anyway, I will be here to read the news when everything go south
The content of the drug in his blood stream would be revealed
Probable cause of death would be revealed
And I personally want to see how they intend to link Naira Marley and Larry who are abroad into this case, how the Mobs want to spin this and tag Naira Marley for murder
They have finally embarrassed MohBad alive and in death
They posted his sick dying picture, posted his corpse with twisted neck, still posted his exhumed body all on the internet where his son would grow up to see
They have humiliated his father and subjected him to all sort of ridicule
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Which of them didn't do drugs? Why are they not dead by now
Babypal: Is it possible for a biological parent to get jealous of a child's success? Using mobads dad for an instance some claim he may be aware of the circumstances leading to his child's death.
DevilishMan: Bunch of talentless illiterates made popular by their fellow illiterates otherwise tell me how these touts ended up making money from music.
Unfortunately, the educated are the ones enriching them. E.g
Why can't you live in the village or small town with very low cost of living?
Must everyone live in the city?
Must everyone live in Lagos, Abuja, Portharcourt, etc?
Some people are living in the interior villages but they're so rich and financially stable that they can feed those in the city who pay house rents and all kinds of city bills that people in the village don't pay.
If things are not going well for you in the city, why can't you swallow your pride, move back to the village, secure your farmland and begin farming and see how God will bless you within a short time??
Stop wasting your life.
Start farming, it's very profitable and reliable. Far better than wasting all your life in the city because you want to belong or do what others are doing. Don't mind what people will say, but start farming to build a better future for yourself and your family.
I come in peace.
Village is relative, some villages don't have banks, Internet, safe drinkable water , light, good schools etc.
Raydos: Why are Most buildings in Nigeria especially commercial towers fenced off?
From the Downtown of Lagos, To The most Affluent areas of Abuja, They all have something in Common, All the Skyscrapers are all fenced off and not open to the public!
This make the city look ugly, In modern society, Skyscrapers down floors are rented out for restaurant, Boutiques, e.t.c, Which makes window-shopping possible!
Photo 1: Madina towers, Lagos
Photo 2: Eko hotel towers, Lagos
It's no brainer
Security is important in this part of the world. We are not ready for fenceless structures
TechCapon: Am beginning to believe that nairalander that said Tinubu's henchmen are deliberately over flogging this mohbad's issue just to distract the masses from the grim reality that is confronting the country because what is this na? You know how many people have died since last Tuesday that mohbad died? Am tired of this matter
I m tired of hearing this cliche that you are being distracted. Did your reaction change anything when you were focused? You are tired of blaming BBN, now it's mobahd death that's being overflogged
Family › Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by phemmyfour: 1:49pm On Sep 23, 2023
Agaba ędun has started again.