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[quote author= post=125692774]https://www.nbcnews.com/news/sports/coco-gauff-set-latest-black-american-woman-make-mark-us-open-rcna104090[/quote]Good for until Naomi Osaka return

odutolu1:
Don't say what you dont know. It's right if you've made investigations and found they are what you think they are. What do you know about them? Let's hear

You don't even know me. Why make your assumption about me right. If you think they are legit, go ahead and do biz with them, I will be here to drink your tears when you open a thread of lamentation

Acidosis:
Nairaland don dey promote scammers.

In that thread, somebody attacked me of spoiling other people's business

We too dey allow emotion to cloud our judgement in this Country. Seun should be careful with what he brings to the fp cos he will be charged as an accomplice when the matter reach court.

Nukilia:
Dem wan knack the man something

African mentality

So jazz no fit touch am in Oyo State

The best jazz he needs right now is to resign and face his health

onlinediva:
A client was interested in this Toyota Corolla and he invited my team at Autos and Cartalk (Limited) to inspect it for him.

On getting to the car, it has about 300,000 miles on its mileage and this has been done to its battery compartment.

Will you still buy it despite all that?

No way!

It has been Kazeemed.

I am sure that there some hidden damages that's beyond repair elsewhere

Kongaone:
Considering current fuel situation and cost of maintenance, which car should I buy between Toyota carry 2012 and corolla 2014.

Help me with their prices where possible

2014 is an upgrade to 2012

Price of new, fairly used tokunbo or fairly used naija?

fineboynl:
If a man doesn't marry when he is broke. Marriage become difficult when he is rich. Especially getting the right one without money influence or family interference.

Ask any successful rich guys they will admit the simple fact about getting the right one since everyone is drawn to success.

Marriage remains a mystery. It doesn't follow any pattern or rules. Even broke people do get it wrong, pray you don't fall into the hands of a troublesome woman

LaSenior:


Na this flight wey everybody go enter

E no need Visa

E no need flight fee

Just book your flight off you go

In this life..you come N you go

No ucl for arsenal ladies

Wodu89:
Neymar the football pitch swimmer

In his time, Brazil will not win the World Cup.

The samba Boyz needs another hero

illicit:
Ondo state Governor signing bills in Ibadan

Common

Baba should go n rest. E too dey form activity to validate his fitness

Corrinthians:
https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cw-z12NtsAF/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

You will just die for nothing in no man's land....you are shouting "shoot now". Yeye dey smell. If it happens now, you ll be looking for Àbíke Dabiri to bail you out

jeromestarks:
I have an Aunty who is single at 37 due to the fact that she's a cripple. She walks around with crouches. She literally can not move her toes but the legs are there. Just there.

Yesterday, a kind-hearted man promised to buy her a car and she asked me the kinda car that will suit her. Honestly, I don't know. I don't know much able cripples and/or physically challenged people.

So, I decided to come here to seek your opinion.

Which car can a cripple in Nigeria drive?

SUV...it roomy and more comfortable

TheOldGods:
In this picture, each administration that ascends there is is fuel price increase, no single adminstration has ever brought down fuel to what it was.

Pray that your children won't ask same question cos we will be buying fuel @ 2k per litres or more if we keep relying on imported refined crude

BoldBrainz:
You even know their slogan..😂

National for life

Oṣodi ó ní bajẹ....o bajẹ tì

nlfpmod:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2023/09/nollywood-actress-moyo-lawal-ignores-trending-s3x-tape/amp/

The guy's performance was below par though

walefresh3:
their is a different between Lagos State and Lagos City...
Lagos City was the FCT
Which comprised Lagos island and eti- osa local government areas....

The other 18 local government areas are under Lagos State governor...

The term fct is not synonymous wíth Lagos as capital. What we had then was Lagos as CAPITAL....Qed! Nothing like Lagos FCT . It never existed

The Federal Capital Territory (FCT) is a federal territory in central Nigeria. Abuja, the capital city of Nigeria, is located in this territory. The FCT was formed in 1976[4] from parts of the states of old Kaduna, Kwara, Niger, and Plateau states, with the bulk of land mass carved out of Niger state. The Federal Capital Territory is within the North Central region of the country

Westerhoffe:
I see two female nairalanders coming in to insult your life and hygiene.

This, I have seen.

false prophet, its wrong to have 2 or more monikers on NL

Rule 19

Don't use alternate accounts to access Nairaland after being banned. If you do, make sure we don't find out.

TheCeasar:
I discovered it this night and I was shocked, please is it bad?
Is it a sign of infection? Or just normal rashes please I'm scared

And the attached pix?
To make your story attractive or what

Okoroawusa:
You are explaining it wrong to him. There were too Lagos. There was Lagos the FCT and Lagos the state. Inside Lagos the state you will find Lagos the FCT. Lagos the state was created in 1967 but Lagos the FCT was there since the colonial times and it was an island.
The scenarios of Lagos the FCT is quite different from Abuja the FCT.
When the idea in 1976 was to have a place called the FCT but later Abuja was added to it (I can't tell where the name came from).

You are wrong

Nothing like Lagos the fct. Lagos was both a State and a capital. Qed! That's how we grew up to know Lagos State until ibb moved capital to fct after the failed coup.

The word "federal " was never used , it was just "capital "

Procashtips:
Advantage here is that most remote income earned in Nigeria hardly get taxed.

Exactly, and the fact that you earn in foreign currency and spend in naira

Prettycute90:
Since we got married, everything about the upkeep, rents, bills, feeding, general upkeep. I mean everything is on me and he has refused to provide for us as he always claimed he doesn't have. I have always be an understanding person who believe, I should be doing while I can, pending when things gets better for him.
I never knew he was getting little little, but was gambling away with it.

We really do not date for a long time before we got married. Because I knew him back then in school from a far distance. And we liked each other but didn't date. So, meeting again after graduation and in a different environment, made me believe I already knew and the fact that we already liked each other.

He was struggling with a little job when we got married. My foresight then was to grow with him. I supported him in all ways. Infact, during our wedding, most support came from friends and relatives.
Because I'm not the type of a wife that pressurized, It took me a very long time to know the nature of habit he had that has kept him low even before I married him.

He is a chronic gambler.
No money stays with him. He wouldn't even care about himself so long as he can afford little money to gamble.
Now, I don't have a job and too much burden has crippled my business.

To be honest, I'm losing myself. Sometimes I feel I need a therapy myself.
My husband has refused to change or make effort to make this marriage work.
Before I had my second child, he was pretending as if he has changed. But immediately I took in, he continues this lifestyle. I almost died due to emotional breakdown and responsibilities shouldered by myself.

I have done everything, (both family members have adviced him severally, I have prayed, fasted, cried, shouted, talked with a calm voice, all my efforts. but non is working.


Presently, since two weeks ago now, I don't cook for him. I source for food for just myself and my children. We barely have decent conversation in this house. I can't even remember the last time we had intimacy.
I always avoid him, each time he tries to get close. Because of the situation of things in this house.
We had two children and I don't intend having any other.
The cost of taking care of myself and the children all by myself is emotional hurting me so much.
School has resume and I can't even afford all the expenses of taking my first son to start a new school and I know, he would watch our son stay back at home. He wouldn't care.

We're in the house, but he's only concern is how to get little money to gambles.

Are these not enough reasons to divorce him?
During one qurrel we had recently, I told him I want us to separate for now, so we can work on ourselves, and he said he will be with our children not me.
I see that as way to make my children suffers.

What can you advise please?

I just want peace of mind.

I don't want to waste my youthful life in a loveless marriage. Where myself and my husband can not support each other to grow in Love. Rather, stressing me.

You married a gambler? It is finished. Your marriage was built on a faulty foundation. A gambler doesn't save irrespective of how much he earned. It is safe to divorce him if he doesn't change.

The scripture says that:

A man that fails to provide for his family is worse than an infidel 1Tim 5:8

MrsTwrite:
Why do most Nigerian women stigmatize those ladies that gave birth through CS?

Does it mean that because a woman gave birth through CS she's not a real woman?

Na ignorance dey worry them

They should go out more, in abroad , CS is even their first option. Nobody is ready to risk either mother or baby's life anymore through push

Ge0grapher:
Mehnn guys, I know it's probably only me that feels this way.. I don't consider myself a happy person, I wan commot this country like mad!!
Do you know in the mid night I go on TikTok scrolling through of videos of Nigerians way dey japa (TikTokers in the house would know what I am talking about, when they hear that sound SIKEEE!! Japa japa)

I used to love reading through nairaland Japa threads also but nowadays una way dey commot no dey post am for here again (not cool ).. e get one kan joy way e dey give seeing those pictures of y'all in the plane with your food and sweaters, airports, plane wings, air hostesses, the landing view.. the background.. I don't know if it's weird but I totally love it.

But unfortunately I am coming to terms with reality that I might be stuck in this hell for a long time, cos I no get the facilities to commot at all. In the mean time, Abeg una way dey ball out, try to dey create threads with pictures, make we dey here dey do vivid imagination..
The God way help una go help me too 🙌😀
Japa!!

Those japa pictures can be deceptive, some of them are still struggling. It takes an average japarians at least 2yrs to settle down. Especially those on study visa

officialwdhtv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WvtQeKO3SPo

Things are not going well for us. We need your blessings - HappieBoys apologise to OPM Apostle Chinyere

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv

They are just capping, who take them serious again

Procashtips:
Thank you for the honest answer.

So if he also include shift, maybe it would take him less than 4yrs then.

Exactly, but then your tax goes higher. Its not worth the stress in the long run but if you're pursuing a target, you don't have a choice than to take those extra shift

erico2k2:
Bro I have smallies here remitting2,5M home each months like this

That's good, once you don't spend above 50 percent of your earning , you can save easily.

Even while earning in naira , I made my first million via savings in 10 months (100k each month) . Its possible when you don't have any other responsibility

Zyxsc:
I'm a software engineer working remotely from Nigeria. I earn a 7-figure monthly salary.
With my salary only (at an average exchange rate of 850/$), it would take me about 6.6 years to save up 100 million, provided I have zero dependents and had to cater only for myself throughout those years. It's quite a naive way to project this though because a lot of things can happen along those years. But it still gives an idealistic comparison base.

So my question goes to Nigerians currently living or have lived abroad. Can you tell us the country, the job title, and how long it would take to save up to NGN100 milliion, assuming you have zero dependents and have to cater for only yourself. Do remember to factor in taxes if any and other living expenses for yourself alone

The reason for my question is not far-fetched. I'm just wondering if it's worth it to sell ones' properties worth milliions just to JAPA and go start over again. Please, refrain from dragging the country's situation into your answer or any other reason to JAPA. Kindly focus on answering the question as best as possible.

Thanks.

100million naira is around 100k pounds. That should take me 100000/12000 after tax...
That's 8yrs but if I m taking extra shift, that's 100000/18000, that's around 5yrs

Naijaboy18:
He doesn’t need that stupid award

So he should reject it

Racoon:
Always using religion as the opium of the masses.This is the usual rhetorics when the demonstrate extreme cluelessness, ineptitude and incompetency.

Meanwhile, they don't need any funding prayer or fasting in order to entrench and perpetuate their stench oozing corruption of stealing monies meant to provide security .

Meanwhile, they still goes about with armed-to-the-teeth retinue of security agencies providing security for then. The poor downtrodden masses are simply @ the mercy of kidnapping gang of terrorists the same government top shots said are just doing business.

That's what they always say to hide their ineptitude.

Incoming Grammy winner