Business › Re: Naira Slump: Manufacturers’ Raw Material Imports Hit N8 Trillion by phemmyfour: 12:28pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
LikeAking: And we still believe Nigeria doesn’t manufacture. Not enough to serve over 200 million people |
Education › Re: Nigerian Family, The Imafidon Family Is The UK's Smartest Family (pictures) by phemmyfour: 12:16pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
turmacs: Nonsense....If their father remained in Nigeria and invested his money in business here, while he only went there for vacation, as some idiots here would say, heaven knows these kids would not have achieved half of their potential.. If you have money to jakpa from this country and you don't, may God punish you and i pray that that thing you're looking for, you finally see it. No one size fits all. Where are other Nigerian kids in UK that were trained at same time. How many of them are doing well |
Politics › Re: Nigerians’ll Soon Beg FG To Leave Them In Poverty – Shehu Sani by phemmyfour: 12:05pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
They love suffering n smiling ....and in the next 4yrs they ll put the same set of people there and disturbing God to turn things around for them. Bunch of comedians |
Politics › Re: If Niger Bordered Yoruba Land, Tinubu Won’t Ask For War - Northerner (video). by phemmyfour: 12:04pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
SmartPolician: Nigeria is soo culturally diverse that the north and south pronounce the name of the country differently. The guy sounds educated and enlightened though. He's an educated illiterate. Invading Niger isn't Tinubu' call....AU is involved |
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Politics › Re: Ondo: Akeredolu’s Planned Return Sets Acting Gov In Panic Mode by phemmyfour: 11:41am On Aug 23, 2023 |
TemplarLandry: I have a feeling that Ayedatiwa's hands are not clean. you didn't play any song Anyway play "Return of the Mark" by Mark Morrison |
Nairaland General › Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by phemmyfour: 11:37am On Aug 23, 2023 |
workchopNG: I don't know if this is the right section for this topic, but then, since it's about relationship/friendship, I decided to post it here.
So, I read a rumour of how a young girl who scored 9 As in her WAEC result was poisoned to death. I can't confirm the authenticity of that story, but it took me to memory lane... Maybe, it was her best friend that poisoned her to death out of jealousy. That led me to create this thread.
Back to the topic. “It is better to be alone, than to be in bad company.” – George Washington.
I had my taste of a very bad friendship which lasted for more than 10 years. We met in school (higher institution). He approached me during my first few weeks in school, and we became friends.
He had some good sides, but the bad sides makes me question the good ones. We study and sit together during exam. We share answers codedly in hall, but I'm now thinking he might have been giving me the wrong answers while I was busy supplying him with the right ones. 
All of this guy's effort was to have a better result than mine, and to make over 3.0 CGPA which he eventually succeeded at. There are times I could've gotten an A in some of my courses including a carryover, but this guy blocked it and have me got a C. I don't want to go into details.
Many things happened between us until few years ago when he referred me for a job, I got the job and was made the manager. The same company employed him a month later as a line manager. This is where he couldn't hide his true colour anymore and started being a thorn in my flesh in our work place.
Apparently he was pained that he referred me and I got a higher pay and position than he got. After many years of friendship, it was then I found out how dangerous that guy can be. I had to cut off that friendship few months into the job, and I'm never ready to have anything to do with that guy in my life again.
It's surprising how the same guy you dine with, drink with, party with, even travel to their hometown and sleep for days, has always been in competition with you without your knowledge. Such a person can kill out of jealousy.
We have to be careful of the kind of people we keep as friends. The funny thing is that I'm not even the best student while in school, why competing with me instead of the best students? Abi first class no dey sweet you Some people are perhaps and furthermore 😂🤣, even notwithstanding. 🤣😂😂
Una good morning o jare 20 children cannot play together for 20 years. In a workplace, you are all COLLEAGUES. Nobody is your friend. Do your work, mind your business and go home. |
Family › Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by phemmyfour: 11:35am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Loveabove: Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.
My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.
Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.
God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.
House rent has expired and problems everywhere.
Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.
Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.
Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.
Please advise me on what to do.
Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod Try reaching out to the family of the kid's father before taking the orphanage option |
Politics › Re: Roads Constructed Under Tinubu Will Last Minimum 6 Years – Umahi by phemmyfour: 11:35pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
TemplarLandry: Everything we do is standard.
I dedicate “Standard” by Reekado Banks to Jagaban. Great jam! Even the Sapá constructed is standard ....kontinu |
Sports › Re: Bukola Olopade Storms Budapest To Cheer Tobi Amusan, Others by phemmyfour: 11:33pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
No carry bad luck go there |
TV/Movies › Re: "I Need Head And I Am Sexually Frustrated’ – Doyin BBNaija Cries Out by phemmyfour: 11:31pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
b0rn2fuck: Wow , ogidi eponla tio destroy boris obo.. Onísọkusọ àgbàlagbà ni ẹ |
Politics › Re: Diezani Alison-Madueke Charged With Bribery By UK Police by phemmyfour: 11:26pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
SpartaOfLagos: This woman is a criminal
She should be sharing prison cell with Hushpuppi and Tinubu but ... What a man do, Denziani can do better  |
Politics › Re: God Will Build Nigeria Through President Tinubu — Kumuyi by phemmyfour: 11:20pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Wodu89: When prophets of old anointing make proclamation, God listens. It's what they declare God does ! yinmu Same way we were told that Buhari was the messiah After 8yrs, another declaration will come out again God will build Nigeria through........ Just fill the gap with the president by that time |
Christianity Etc › Re: 21 Churches Destroyed, Burnt In Pakistan Over Blasphemy Under 2 Days by phemmyfour: 11:16pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
meum: Religion of peace indeed.
The blasphemous statement wasn’t even made by a Christian according to the report. To them, every non Muslim is a Christian. That's why even on Nairaland if you say something against their religion, they ll attack Christianity without thinking that you could be a traditionalist or an atheist |
Christianity Etc › Re: 21 Churches Destroyed, Burnt In Pakistan Over Blasphemy Under 2 Days by phemmyfour: 11:10pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Ttipsy: Religion that promotes illiteracy  It defies logical thinking |
Celebrities › Re: Michelle Alozie And Davido Photo: Fans React by phemmyfour: 11:04pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
sylve11: She looks masculine and beautiful too.  She's a footballer |
Crime › Re: Ghana Police Rescue 12 Nigerians, Arrest 2 Masters, Seize 15 Laptops After Raid by phemmyfour: 11:01pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Supremos: Please @mods how does this quote of a thing work again?. I've been trying it. Click reply and type your comment after "[/quote]" To quote or bold part of a statement, use "[ b ]" and "[ /b ] " before and after the quote respectively. Alternatively, highlight the text and click on bold button B |
Family › Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by phemmyfour: 10:46pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena: Good afternoon Nl family Please pardon my epistle
My husband lost his job two years ago and ever since he has been so reluctant on getting another.. not to brag but I can say I have been the one keeping the family going ever since the job incidence (not like I ever complained) .
What I noticed about him is he now drinks and smokes and he is always hissing (obviously he is not happy and I try to always console him just to elate his Spirit)
Fast forward to last two months.. I got back from work and I was very tired.. I had to go pick the kids from school , bathe them, feed them and to make matters worst I wasn't feeling too alright .. (when I got home he (my husband) wasn't at home)
When I was done with the kids and fixing the house I was so tired I thought to myself to take a lil nap that was how I slept off (and this was around 9pm) ..
He got back around 10pm obviously drunk and smelling like a skunk.. he went straight to the kitchen. That was how the whole problem started.. first was insult.. then my phone, smashed it on the ground later my clothes he started tearing them .. saying all those things he was destroying was why I was feeling untouchable that he knows I have male friends sleeping with me..
I tried securing my items so he doesn't destroy more things that was how he pounced on me..
The next day I got him arrested he spent two days there.. but now I feel so guilty... He doesn't talk to me anymore.. I have apologized times without number
I don't just know what to do...
Nb: even while he was there I was still taking food to him It will happen again and you might not live long to come back to Nairaland to tell the story. Until he stops his drinking habit, a lot will continue to go wrong in his life and your marriage by extension |
Foreign Affairs › Re: African Union (AU) Suspends Niger Republic by phemmyfour: 10:40pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Henry22: Ebola looking for every reason to attack Niger What else do you want him to do? It's clear that Niger want war and they will surely get one. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu appoints Coker-Odusote as NIMC Acting DG by phemmyfour: 10:37pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
naijaboy756: That NIMC people be holding Nigeria to ransom Hope she will provide plastic NIN. Paper NIN is a no for me |
Education › Re: Abia State University: Statement of Results cease to be valid from 1st Dec, 2023 by phemmyfour: 10:35pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Wealthoptulent: Mmesoma loading. Long overdue. Nigeria universities should normalised issuing certificates immediately to graduating students. |
Autos › Re: Car Lovers!,can You Help Me Choose Between These Two Cars? by phemmyfour: 10:32pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
banjicom: Age is just a Number, at 90 years you can still buy a car if you are still alive. Buying a car is just a waste of time that is why God has given you your two legs remember it doesn’t use petrol. Even the almighty Jesus rode on a donkey into Jerusalem, where he was met by cheering crowds how much more an ordinary human like you. Let Jesus be your mentor!
I hope i have been able to motivate you today  At 90, you can't enjoy driving around. Some things are better enjoyed at younger age |
Autos › Re: Car Lovers!,can You Help Me Choose Between These Two Cars? by phemmyfour: 10:30pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Ibrahimlagosian: Hi guys,i'm an 18 year old medical student, I'm about to get a car for myself but i fell in love with these two cars;a 2017 honda accord coupe and a 2015 honda crosstour. From your experience which car do you think will serve me best in the university.My budget is 4.5 million. Go for crosstour...better clearance |
Music/Radio › Re: FM Radio Presenters In Nigeria In the 1980s, '90s And Early 2000s by phemmyfour: 10:26pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Ibiyinka90: Any list without Gbenga Adeboye(Alabefe Funwontan, Jengbetiele, Itu baba ita oko Rafa to na Cotonou) is a counterfeit. He was the most complete radio presenter in Nigeria then. And no one come close to him and Kolawole omo Olawuyi |
Music/Radio › Re: FM Radio Presenters In Nigeria In the 1980s, '90s And Early 2000s by phemmyfour: 10:26pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
TemplarLandry: I remember eLDee Tha Don and Kemistry.
I dedicate “Oya” by Trybesmen to them. Great jam! Toke Makinwa, Daddy freeze |
Travel › Re: 6 Strong Reasons Why Nigerians In The UK Are So 'stingy' by phemmyfour: 10:19pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
emmaodet:
 Honestly that no 6 is the real issue. Cheap food everywhere yet no purchasing power |
Properties › Re: How Do You Manage To Pay Rent In This Bad Economy? by phemmyfour: 10:09pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Birniwa: Comments like this do not add any value at all. The OP mentioned a fact we all know that cost of living has skyrocketed while salary has remained stagnant.
Do you want him and the family to stop eating or do you want the kids to stop going to school so he can prioritize? Use your brain He would have saved substantial amount if he started early before things skyrocketed |
Politics › Re: “No More Cows Grazing In Abuja City Centre.” - Wike by phemmyfour: 2:10pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
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Health › Re: Five Billboard Installers Electrocuted To Death In Port Harcourt (Photos) by phemmyfour: 12:10pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
jmoore: People will keep perishing for lack of knowledge.
So none of them had eyes to see the high tension wire? Honestly, they have no biz constructing anything under HT. Even to park my car besides 220v , I dey fear. Safety is key before embarking on such risky task |
Politics › Re: Edu: President Tinubu Is Determined To Lift 133 Million Nigerians Out Of Poverty by phemmyfour: 12:06pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Brendaniel: Same thing Sadiya Farouk said, same ministry, same position, same party, we all know how it ended....
Disaster Max and Pro Max with 7k I guess |
Education › Re: Check Out This Number Five Question From UNIUYO Philosophy Exam by phemmyfour: 12:02pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Kingosytex: It simply means that without evidence you go explain tire 😅 Now sef, you fit still get evidence dey explain.  Evidence is a receipt of anything you claimed to be or have in life. Evidence wey need explanation no be strong evidence. E.g If you claimed to be G.O.A.T, show us your World Cup else you go explain taya  |
Politics › Re: Brigadier General Ahmadu Falls, Dies While Running During Physical Training Test by phemmyfour: 8:35am On Aug 22, 2023 |
Penguin2: Are these the generals that we are taking to Niger?🤔 They focus more on physical test without going through medical test that will certify their body OK for the physical test |