𝐊𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐝𝐨𝐮 𝐊𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐢𝐛𝐚𝐥𝐲 🗣️"I won't deny it, I agreed to Saudi Arabia for the money, and I will invest it. I'll be able to help my family live very well. I've started building a pediatric clinic in the village where my parents were born and got married.
I'm a Muslim, and I'm going to a country that is ideal for me and my family. Mecca is close, and I'm going to feel better." 🇸🇳
Safe to say 99% of players who've moved to Saudi Arabia have done so for the money.
beekind: I am in my mid 30s, very comfortable and a dual citizen of Nigeria and a first world country. I decided to relocate back to Nigeria because of starting a family and having my own children. Since arriving the country and based on my experiences so far, my plans have changed.
I decided to first focus on having children as I found out that the Nigerian society has become almost worse than the west in terms of sexual debauchery. People have sex for indomine, girls commit abortion without remorse, the worst thing is that no one here uses protection and by the time your average Nigerian girl reaches 30 years old, she has aborted 4 times, slept with almost 100 men and contacted several stds in the process.
What this means is that disciplined men like me are left with these category of girls, worst still is that they come very entitled and empty and can even ruin you with their lifestyle as they are usually impossible to reform.
Solution: I had to go back to the drawing board and re-evaluated my plan, I have an ex-girlfriend (29 years old) whom I am very close with. She fits the bill in terms of who I want as a life partner but she is a single mother. So I gave her a choice.
Have 2 children for me, those 2 children will automatically become dual citizens and I might consider marrying you and adopting your child but even if I don't marry you, your 2 children that you have by me will be taken care of and being dual citizens of a developed country they can turn to a blessing for you and your whole family in future.
Now, let me explain, I still love this lady and my decision was premised on how uncertain I am of what my choice will be in the future as such I wanted to be very open from the beginning, but even at this point, I can not guarantee I will marry her but I could depending on what happens in future.
She's going to give me a feedback later and I am quite positive she will take the offer.
If it were you faced with this option, what would you do ?
If you still want her, go for her and stop all these conditions attached. Besides, you can lose these privileges that is making you feel ontop of the world in a twinkle of an eye
Versitee: I have been feeling like my husband has been cheating on me with our neighbors daughter. She is just about 23 years.
Yesterday which was Sunday, I went to our neighbors house around 6pm to ask if I could use their oven.
Their compound is not fenced so I just walked in straight to their backyard if I would see the man's wife.
I overheard this girl making a call. Apparently she was the only one at home and she wasn't expecting anyone.
She was asking the man over the fone who was sexualy better between his wife and her.
My attention was arrested immediately. I stopped to hear more of the conversation. When I had enough, I made my presence known. She quickly hung up and tried to put up an innocent face.
I also pretended like I heard nothing, I asked to use the oven and left . Getting back home, I was worried if that was my husband that girl was talking to, so I decided to find out.
I got my husbands fone later that night and went through the call log. The time that girl was making that call was few minutes past 6. I checked my husbands fone and there was a number he called around that time.
The number was not saved on the fone so I decided to call that number on my own fone and my true caller identified the number as "Vicky hookup".
Guess what, the girls name is Victoria.
I was surprised because I have the girls number saved on my fone. But I guess the number I have is for her family and friends. The one my husband has is for clients.
I opened his WhatsApp and found no chat with the girl, so I decided to check his telegram. ( Normally I don't like telegram so I never open it on either my fone or husband's)
My husbands telegram was locked. I was surprised cos that is the only app locked on his fone.
To cut the long story short, I found a way to open the app, and I saw his chat with that girl.
It pains me to say that my husband has been having sex with that girl without protection.
I want to go for HIV test tomorrow. Please how do I confront my husband about this.
Also I am scared I might be infected with an sti.
Go ahead and forward the telegram screenshot to him. You don't need to be verbal about it. That girl is a professional hook up, that's why true caller revealed her name as saved by her client. It's just so unfortunate, hopefully you will come out std free
Yugoslavia247: Same people that castigate single mothers
Will come and castigate her.
She does not want the society stigma
Please don't mention me.
Either we change the stigma or we experience this.
It has nothing to do with stigma, she doesn't have means of taking care of the baby. We have proud single mothers taking care of their kids in today's world. It’s more about the financial needs
TrustNone: Hello guys, I graduated earlier this year but couldn't serve as I wasn't eligible for NYSC as I was above 30 years of age when I graduated.
Coming back to Port Harcourt, I applied as a Subject Teacher in several schools, went through several interviews and made it, after going through their salary rates, I had to go for the highest bidder which is 40k and I'll be Teaching two subjects..
Now the thing is, I lied heavily that I'm a experienced Teacher during the interview and added imaginary and non existent schools to my CV, what made me scaled through the interview here was that I researched and also went through several threads and noted down all what could possibly be asked and I also obtained lesson notes and lesson plan samples from one lessonnotes moniker, researched, practiced, found a topic and revised and scaled through the micro teaching, the next day I was offered the job.
Now schools would be resuming two weeks from now and I don't need to fumble, guys please any insight on what is expected of me as teacher?
How often should I give assignments? Where do I get the syllabus and textbooks? How often should I teach a topic, should it be one week per topic? Any other thing I need to know? Your inputs would be so highly welcomed.
Teaching is very easy. Don't be dogmatic, choose your style and make sure your students enjoy the class.
Assessment and assignments depends on the kind of feedback you get in class, time and the length of the syllabus .
Prepare for every class, teach yourself and answer every likely questions before meeting your students. Make your class interactive and support your lesson note with teaching aids.
Bomberman: I want to buy my first car and i have just two in mind which is the lexus es330,2006 and the Toyota Camry 2010.which of them should i go for?
camry for now, go for suv in the future cos of the clearance....you don't want to be meeting panel beater every week for exhaust leakage
fryo4life: My younger brother was born on November 6th, 1996. He became 26 years old last year November. He is worried if he can still apply for bank graduate trainees vacancies in which the criteria for the fresh graduates is that they should be not more than 26 years old. Because he will be 27 years on November 6th this year. Just few months to go.
Can he still be considered 26 years? Or is he above the age limit?
It depends on the criteria. He's above if he will be 26yrs old by Dec of the year of the application(Assuming that's application criteria). Even if your brother is 26 from Jan to November but turns 27 by December, he is ineligible.
But if the criteria mentioned only 26yrs as at last birthday, then he's eligible.
Yet again, this is Nigeria, anything can happen. There is no harm in trying. Rules can be amended at anytime, protocols can be overlooked
ideamonster: It's no surprise that things are getting harder every year in Nigeria. Even before the subsidy removal, the cost of everyday items are on the rise.
You may have noticed that the size of bread that sold for N200 about 5 years ago now goes for N1000. This means that families today need to allocate 5 times amount of money to bread than they used to five years ago. What even makes it harder is that every year since 2015, Nigeria has added a minimum of 7 million children every year. This is more than the size of singapore. It is worth nothing that 63 million Nigerians are alive today, who had not ben born when Muhammadu Buhari was elected in 2015. And with Nigeria's current fertility rate of 5.31 children per mother, each additional birth is creating an increase in the number of people who need to be fed.
In light of the following, several people are exploring the possibility that should Nigeria place limits on child size per family similar to such a policy enacted by the government of China in the late 1970s. In the special report exploring this topic below, population scientists, policy analysts, statisticians and everyday people ask the question: Is it time for Nigeria to start limiting children born into each family in this economy?
Do you agree? Do you support it? What alternatives to such a policy exist?
guobe: From boys to men there was a drink called Goldspot and olo.Kids then love the drinks but they faded away fast. Indomie generation and Genz will not know what these drinks look like.
economania: Where went your manner, I said domesticated means they got ideas from Chinese films"domesticate" blending it to suit our culture. Be careful you indommie generation people.
economania: A domesticated Chinese films in Nollywood. E ku se, with 100% paraphrasing to claim the originality of the work. Kudos to the all participants.