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Travel › Re: My Friend Just Got Convicted In The USA, Will He Be Deported? by phemmyfour: 8:33am On Aug 30, 2023
Onefornaija24:
My primary school mate just got convicted in the USA for 36 months.

It had to do with money laundering, aza man issues about 200k USD.

He has a green card but not a citizen.

He has been in the USA since 2017.

He has 2 kids he gave birth to there with naija wife.


He impregnated an akata, akata oyibo woman gave birth while he was in prison because he was already in detention till the court conviction last week.


WILL HE BE DEPORTED after serving his jail terms?
And when he returns, what guarantees do you have that he won't continue to Yahoo
Politics › Re: Oba Of Benin Visits Former President Muhammadu Buhari In Daura by phemmyfour: 8:18am On Aug 30, 2023
MrSinister:
Oba no dey go transfer grin
let them they deceive themselves. Culture changes with time. The other day, he was in Abuja with BAT
Foreign Affairs › Re: Military seizes power in Gabon by phemmyfour: 8:14am On Aug 30, 2023
StrongAlphMale:
The earlier Africa is recolonize, the better for us all.
Seconded. No respect for constituted authority
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Kalidou Koulibaly: I Joined Saudi Arabia League For Money by phemmyfour(op): 7:05pm On Aug 29, 2023
𝐊𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐝𝐨𝐮 𝐊𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐢𝐛𝐚𝐥𝐲 🗣️"I won't deny it, I agreed to Saudi Arabia for the money, and I will invest it. I'll be able to help my family live very well. I've started building a pediatric clinic in the village where my parents were born and got married.

I'm a Muslim, and I'm going to a country that is ideal for me and my family. Mecca is close, and I'm going to feel better." 🇸🇳

Safe to say 99% of players who've moved to Saudi Arabia have done so for the money.

Family › Re: How I Paid My WIFE Back For Her Deeds. by phemmyfour: 6:50pm On Aug 29, 2023
1Sharon:
It can go either way. But a Nigerian is more likely to call on Jesus than do any of that.
That's true sha
Travel › Re: Nigeria’s Train To Nowhere Shows How Not To Build Public Transit - Bloomberg by phemmyfour: 6:49pm On Aug 29, 2023
turmacs:
The train in heading in the same direction as Nigeria, "to no where" grin
We will get there someday....both Nigeria n the train grin
Family › Re: I Made My Ex-girlfriend(who Is Now A Single Mother) A Deal, Would You Take It ? by phemmyfour: 6:46pm On Aug 29, 2023
beekind:
I am in my mid 30s, very comfortable and a dual citizen of Nigeria and a first world country.
I decided to relocate back to Nigeria because of starting a family and having my own children.
Since arriving the country and based on my experiences so far, my plans have changed.

I decided to first focus on having children as I found out that the Nigerian society has become almost worse than the west in terms of sexual debauchery.
People have sex for indomine, girls commit abortion without remorse, the worst thing is that no one here uses protection and by the time your average Nigerian girl reaches 30 years old, she has aborted 4 times, slept with almost 100 men and contacted several stds in the process.

What this means is that disciplined men like me are left with these category of girls, worst still is that they come very entitled and empty and can even ruin you with their lifestyle as they are usually impossible to reform.

Solution:
I had to go back to the drawing board and re-evaluated my plan, I have an ex-girlfriend (29 years old) whom I am very close with. She fits the bill in terms of who I want as a life partner but she is a single mother.
So I gave her a choice.

Have 2 children for me, those 2 children will automatically become dual citizens and I might consider marrying you and adopting your child but even if I don't marry you, your 2 children that you have by me will be taken care of and being dual citizens of a developed country they can turn to a blessing for you and your whole family in future.

Now, let me explain, I still love this lady and my decision was premised on how uncertain I am of what my choice will be in the future as such I wanted to be very open from the beginning, but even at this point, I can not guarantee I will marry her but I could depending on what happens in future.

She's going to give me a feedback later and I am quite positive she will take the offer.

If it were you faced with this option, what would you do ?
If you still want her, go for her and stop all these conditions attached. Besides, you can lose these privileges that is making you feel ontop of the world in a twinkle of an eye
Romance › Re: Should Couples Have Access To Each Other's Social Media Accounts? by phemmyfour: 6:41pm On Aug 29, 2023
Dexy4yah:
Some couples feel it's vital to allow their spouses to have access to their social media accounts.
While, others are seriously against it.

Would you allow your spouse have access to your WhatsApp, Facebook, IG etc at free will?
No one rules for all. Let each couple decides what works for them
Family › Re: How I Paid My WIFE Back For Her Deeds. by phemmyfour: 6:37pm On Aug 29, 2023
1Sharon:
Awww..I love your relationship. This is also my style of humour
It's risky, he could be stabbed or hurt with a sharp object...adrenaline rush
Politics › Re: Tinubu: Did Chicago State Univ Delete 1979 Yearbook from its website? - FactChec by phemmyfour: 6:24pm On Aug 29, 2023
fuckingAyaya:
All eyes on the judiciary
City man must be protected at all cost grin
Family › Re: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by phemmyfour: 6:23pm On Aug 29, 2023
Versitee:
I have been feeling like my husband has been cheating on me with our neighbors daughter. She is just about 23 years.

Yesterday which was Sunday, I went to our neighbors house around 6pm to ask if I could use their oven.

Their compound is not fenced so I just walked in straight to their backyard if I would see the man's wife.

I overheard this girl making a call. Apparently she was the only one at home and she wasn't expecting anyone.

She was asking the man over the fone who was sexualy better between his wife and her.

My attention was arrested immediately. I stopped to hear more of the conversation. When I had enough, I made my presence known. She quickly hung up and tried to put up an innocent face.

I also pretended like I heard nothing, I asked to use the oven and left .
Getting back home, I was worried if that was my husband that girl was talking to, so I decided to find out.


I got my husbands fone later that night and went through the call log. The time that girl was making that call was few minutes past 6. I checked my husbands fone and there was a number he called around that time.

The number was not saved on the fone so I decided to call that number on my own fone and my true caller identified the number as "Vicky hookup".

Guess what, the girls name is Victoria.

I was surprised because I have the girls number saved on my fone. But I guess the number I have is for her family and friends. The one my husband has is for clients.

I opened his WhatsApp and found no chat with the girl, so I decided to check his telegram. ( Normally I don't like telegram so I never open it on either my fone or husband's)

My husbands telegram was locked. I was surprised cos that is the only app locked on his fone.


To cut the long story short, I found a way to open the app, and I saw his chat with that girl.


It pains me to say that my husband has been having sex with that girl without protection.

I want to go for HIV test tomorrow. Please how do I confront my husband about this.

Also I am scared I might be infected with an sti.
Go ahead and forward the telegram screenshot to him. You don't need to be verbal about it. That girl is a professional hook up, that's why true caller revealed her name as saved by her client. It's just so unfortunate, hopefully you will come out std free
Sports › Re: Concerns Mount Over Super Eagles’ Next Head Coach by phemmyfour: 6:16pm On Aug 29, 2023
robosky02:
We have less than 10 days to our match against
Sao Tome and Principe in a 2023 Africa Cup of Nations (AFCON) qualifier on September 10th


This NFF should be bold and announce

A local breed

Emmanuel Amunike as head coach

Finidi George as assistant

Forget the Passiro man and also forget

Augustine Eguavoen, from coming back to coach the team. Let's move forward
Eguavon should come back. Eagles played better under him compared to all these low budget foreign coach.

Results can be deceptive atimes
Health › Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by phemmyfour: 6:09pm On Aug 29, 2023
Yugoslavia247:
Same people that castigate single mothers

Will come and castigate her.

She does not want the society stigma

Please don't mention me.

Either we change the stigma or we experience this.
It has nothing to do with stigma, she doesn't have means of taking care of the baby. We have proud single mothers taking care of their kids in today's world. It’s more about the financial needs
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I've Just Been Employed As A Teacher, What Should I Do Next? by phemmyfour: 3:15pm On Aug 29, 2023
TrustNone:
thanks brother.
Please teaching aids, give me insight please
Visuals are easy to students to remember. Use teaching aids like slides, charts, videos, objects etc
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Five (5) Reasons Why Some People Are Unemployable - Odewale Adesoye (Green Man) by phemmyfour: 12:42pm On Aug 29, 2023
gabbytabby:
Read to understand unemployable.
The wrong choice of word is "unemployable"

The right word is unselectable
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Five (5) Reasons Why Some People Are Unemployable - Odewale Adesoye (Green Man) by phemmyfour: 12:41pm On Aug 29, 2023
Odewaleadesoye:
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Rubbish

Vacancy: 20 people needed

Application received:1000

You mean 980 applicants were disqualified because of the reasons above
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I've Just Been Employed As A Teacher, What Should I Do Next? by phemmyfour: 12:36pm On Aug 29, 2023
TrustNone:
Hello guys, I graduated earlier this year but couldn't serve as I wasn't eligible for NYSC as I was above 30 years of age when I graduated.

Coming back to Port Harcourt, I applied as a Subject Teacher in several schools, went through several interviews and made it, after going through their salary rates, I had to go for the highest bidder which is 40k and I'll be Teaching two subjects..

Now the thing is, I lied heavily that I'm a experienced Teacher during the interview and added imaginary and non existent schools to my CV, what made me scaled through the interview here was that I researched and also went through several threads and noted down all what could possibly be asked and I also obtained lesson notes and lesson plan samples from one lessonnotes moniker, researched, practiced, found a topic and revised and scaled through the micro teaching, the next day I was offered the job.

Now schools would be resuming two weeks from now and I don't need to fumble, guys please any insight on what is expected of me as teacher?

How often should I give assignments?
Where do I get the syllabus and textbooks?
How often should I teach a topic, should it be one week per topic?
Any other thing I need to know?
Your inputs would be so highly welcomed.
Teaching is very easy. Don't be dogmatic, choose your style and make sure your students enjoy the class.

Assessment and assignments depends on the kind of feedback you get in class, time and the length of the syllabus .

Prepare for every class, teach yourself and answer every likely questions before meeting your students. Make your class interactive and support your lesson note with teaching aids.
Travel › Re: 5 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Come To The UK Right Now by phemmyfour: 5:55pm On Aug 28, 2023
loliapoopy2013:
People think there are no opportunities in other European countries.
There are better opportunities there even with cheaper tuition fee instead of spending almost 20m naira on master degree in UK.
Sports › Re: Champions League Group Stage Draw Date, Time And Pots As Arsenal Await Return by phemmyfour: 3:51pm On Aug 28, 2023
obembet:
If your team no dey champion league, stay away from this thread grin


Nlfpmod
Up Chelsea, don't worry we know you won't get pass the group stage
Car Talk › Re: Which Of These Cars Should I Go For As My First Car? by phemmyfour: 3:48pm On Aug 28, 2023
Bomberman:
I want to buy my first car and i have just two in mind which is the lexus es330,2006 and the Toyota Camry 2010.which of them should i go for?
camry for now, go for suv in the future cos of the clearance....you don't want to be meeting panel beater every week for exhaust leakage
Travel › Re: 5 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Come To The UK Right Now by phemmyfour: 3:36pm On Aug 28, 2023
Why always UK...Nigerians should explore other European countries
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Can He Still Be Considered 26 Years old or not? by phemmyfour: 7:48am On Aug 28, 2023
eepeepook:
Na education fail people for this forum? I really want to know.

Unlike him, I claim my new age on the first day of the new year. I don’t see the point waiting till my birth month.

Let me quote the topic for reference.
You are wrong, until you hit your birth date, you are your previous age and X months old
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Can He Still Be Considered 26 Years old or not? by phemmyfour: 7:46am On Aug 28, 2023
fryo4life:
My younger brother was born on November 6th, 1996. He became 26 years old last year November. He is worried if he can still apply for bank graduate trainees vacancies in which the criteria for the fresh graduates is that they should be not more than 26 years old. Because he will be 27 years on November 6th this year. Just few months to go.


Can he still be considered 26 years? Or is he above the age limit?
It depends on the criteria.
He's above if he will be 26yrs old by Dec of the year of the application(Assuming that's application criteria). Even if your brother is 26 from Jan to November but turns 27 by December, he is ineligible.

But if the criteria mentioned only 26yrs as at last birthday, then he's eligible.

Yet again, this is Nigeria, anything can happen. There is no harm in trying. Rules can be amended at anytime, protocols can be overlooked
Family › Re: Should Nigeria Limit Children Born Into Each Family In This Economy? by phemmyfour: 7:37am On Aug 28, 2023
ideamonster:
It's no surprise that things are getting harder every year in Nigeria. Even before the subsidy removal, the cost of everyday items are on the rise.

You may have noticed that the size of bread that sold for N200 about 5 years ago now goes for N1000. This means that families today need to allocate 5 times amount of money to bread than they used to five years ago. What even makes it harder is that every year since 2015, Nigeria has added a minimum of 7 million children every year. This is more than the size of singapore. It is worth nothing that 63 million Nigerians are alive today, who had not ben born when Muhammadu Buhari was elected in 2015. And with Nigeria's current fertility rate of 5.31 children per mother, each additional birth is creating an increase in the number of people who need to be fed.

In light of the following, several people are exploring the possibility that should Nigeria place limits on child size per family similar to such a policy enacted by the government of China in the late 1970s. In the special report exploring this topic below, population scientists, policy analysts, statisticians and everyday people ask the question: Is it time for Nigeria to start limiting children born into each family in this economy?

Do you agree? Do you support it? What alternatives to such a policy exist?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X9NqnySifX8
May be in the North cos in South, an average family size is 5. Yet the economy is biting hard.

If corruption isn't tamed, even if you're the only citizen of this Country, whatever belongs to you will still not get to you
Politics › Re: President Kagame Attends Nigerian Governors' Leadership Retreat In Kigali by phemmyfour: 7:30am On Aug 28, 2023
hammerT:
Sit tight and deliver, no problem.
There is a problem. Staying in power for that long deprive the Country of input of other qualified citizens that are perhaps better than him.

Irrespective of the good things he has done, abuse of power is inevitable
TV/Movies › Re: Tolanibaj Evicted From The Big Brother Naija All Stars by phemmyfour: 8:08pm On Aug 27, 2023
nlfpmod:
Tolanibaj has been evicted from the Big Brother Naija All Stars.
Ship don wreck
TV/Movies › Re: Frodd Evicted From The Big Brother Naija All Stars by phemmyfour: 8:08pm On Aug 27, 2023
Long overdue....the new born and his wife need him more
Food › Re: Indomie Generation Doesn't Know The Drink Called Goldspot And Olo by phemmyfour: 8:02pm On Aug 27, 2023
Dancebreaker:
The Zing thing.......Goldspot. grin
When you need a drink....limca!
Food › Re: Indomie Generation Doesn't Know The Drink Called Goldspot And Olo by phemmyfour: 7:57pm On Aug 27, 2023
guobe:
From boys to men there was a drink called Goldspot and olo.Kids then love the drinks but they faded away fast.
Indomie generation and Genz will not know what these drinks look like.
Limca n gold spot were my favourite.

Loved that India limca advert


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zwBwxNXYZm4?si=YOLJNd0i7l4rDxFA
TV/Movies › Re: 10 Things You Probably Missed In Jagun Jagun by phemmyfour: 7:56pm On Aug 27, 2023
economania:
Where went your manner, I said domesticated means they got ideas from Chinese films"domesticate" blending it to suit our culture. Be careful you indommie generation people.
Ignorance
Go and read about Oyo vs Dahomey war

Collect your L and run along
TV/Movies › Re: 10 Things You Probably Missed In Jagun Jagun by phemmyfour: 6:15pm On Aug 27, 2023
economania:
A domesticated Chinese films in Nollywood. E ku se, with 100% paraphrasing to claim the originality of the work. Kudos to the all participants.
mumu
Chinese don't even you charms in battlefield
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija: "You Can Have Cross, He’s Not Worth Fighting For" – Ilebaye Tells Kim O by phemmyfour: 4:17pm On Aug 27, 2023
IconicR:
Cross is an ashawo man, I don't like him .
He's ready to sleep with anything and everything.
By the way nairaland guys are dickheads
men don show you shege...you go explain taya

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