₦airaland Forum

ibinaboonline:
I already told her I'm not kneeling and she responded she didn't ask me to. So, chill😄.

You don't even have to propose.... whether standing or kneeling. It's not in our culture. Not even biblical or Islamic if you are the religious type.

hopefulLandlord:
which scientist proved all first time sex lead to pregnancy? cite the source here sir. also you seem to misunderstand the "forgiven" part. I said "they're hardly, if ever, forgiven". I didn't say they're never forgiven.

Try hard!
I can see that you don't know the meaning of storytelling

pyyxxaro:
This must be a Joke

Where is Seychelles located in Africa?

Where is the noodles pack

KingintheNorth:
Guys I'm asking for a friend , if you are based abroad and earn 2.5 million naira after tax, what would you invest in Nigeria??

land n building...You can never go wrong with it

naice:
I find myself facing a difficult situation in my marriage and would greatly appreciate your insights and advice. The issue at hand revolves around my wife's unwillingness to listen to me. I'm at a loss as to why she behaves this way, and it's starting to take a toll on our relationship.

To provide some context, my wife has a strong-headed personality, which often leads to conflicts between us. No matter how gently I communicate my concerns or requests, she seems to disregard them and even does the opposite. This behavior frustrates me and leaves me questioning our compatibility.

One possible explanation I've considered is her background as an orphan. She lost her parents at a young age and had to take on the responsibility of caring for herself and her siblings. While I understand the challenges she faced, it seems like her self-reliance has translated into a resistance to accepting input or guidance from others, including me.

At this point, I have contemplated divorce, but there's a significant factor holding me back: our children. I love them deeply and cannot bear the thought of being separated from them. As much as her strong-headedness affects me, I firmly believe that domestic violence is never an option.

I'm reaching out to this community for reasonable opinions and advice on how to navigate this situation. Have any of you experienced a similar dynamic in your relationships? How did you cope with a spouse who doesn't listen? Are there effective strategies to foster better communication and understanding in such circumstances?

Thank you in advance for your support and guidance. Your insights will be invaluable in helping me make an informed decision about the future of my marriage."

Talk about it, don't command her. Respect her opinion and let her know why you think your opinion is better. Respect is reciprocal, you don't demand for it. You ve got to earn it.

hopefulLandlord:
Mount Zion films, I remember them. in their movies all one time sex always lead to pregnancy.


The indoctrination in their movies is top notch. sins in their movies are hardly, if ever, forgiven by the god in the movie

Liar

Was Isawuru not given a second chance in Agbara Nla? And you claimed you know their movies.

2. What is wrong with one time sex leading to pregnancy? If it's scientifically proven, then you have no point in watering down the storytelling.

ibinaboonline:
Quick question for married people: take the woman to see your parents before proposing to her, or propose to her before taking her to see your parents? In what order is this culturally appropriate?

Proposing to the person you intend to marry isn't cultural bind. It was imported into our system.

Culturally, we don't do proposal, dating, white/court wedding. These stuff are foreign to our culture .

Tell your woman your intentions and if she agrees with you, introduce her to your family and vise versa. Fixed a date for traditional wedding and after that both of you can start living as husband n wife .

All these "kneeling on one leg to propose" , "giving her engagement ring " etc are mere paparazzi

Obainoman6:
The moment you involved God in it i knew it was all giberish

You saw the thread before you opened it, stop complaining

xbuddie:
The fact that something is different from your traditional belief system does not mean it is bad.

There is nothing in the bible that says use of technology is a sin.

Afterall, we use projectors, speakers, mics, amplifiers, electric instruments, computers, we display bible on screen.
Even modern day pastor uses Google to research sermon.

As long as the word of God is not diluted, and other activities is there alongside,
I don't think this is a bad idea

This is wrong

Every teaching of the apostles were also inspired by the holy spirit apart from the written text. A great example was Stephen while addressing the crowd.

Can we say the same thing about AI, can AI be spontaneous?

LegallyBlunt:
Good day everyone. For a couple of weeks now, there has been issues where I worship.

Mostly between the Pastor and his assistant (presently former assistant). They had a falling out, which escalated to a point where the assistant stopped his duties.

Now, I managed to ask questions about the issue and the Pastor gave his version. I also got to know about the assistant's version.

However, here's the issue - they're not in speaking terms! Isn't that malice? Isn't that dangerous, and a deviation from what Christians ought to do? Are they not in danger of hell and manipulation from the devil and agents of sin?

What's even more painful is that the church just continues like there's no issue on ground. It's sad, really.

They lack maturity. You can be spiritual and not maturity. Maturity is what keeps you in check from time to time

sonnie10:
Is it illegal?

That's double salary from the government

NwaNimo1:
Nonsense reasoning.....

https://isaddedr.sirv.com/Images/3OJxW.gif

She's reasoning from down there

madridguy:
The useless boys should stop burning peoples source of livehood.

Bunch of Illiterate

Destroying the people and their properties, yet you claimed you are fighting for them.

The likes of Mandela et al didn't destroy their cities to get the attention of the government of the day

TemplarLandry:
The man is the culprit.

both
But only the woman was paraded

Alexxx2000:
As the headline post. Which of these transportation methods have you not used and why.

Let me go first.

I haven't used the aircraft because I never get money. The day I will use it, I frame it.

Also, if you have used the four, which one did you enjoy the most?

Used all...na camel remain

blazepascal:
Stop comparing yourself to the ladies.

We don't have the same privileges. They have all the chances to live and experience a better life.

They might never go hungry. They might drive the latest version of car, they might live in the best apartment in the city, use the latest technology, fly first class.

But you as a man will have to suffer to become someone or experience these things. Working should be your moto.

Suffer today so you can have a better life tomorrow, don't compare yourself with your sisters, don't hate the females in your city for living a life more than you.

We are different, a man must suffer to become someone of importance. That's why you must understand what is taking your time and little money and cut off with them.

You identify your wastrel in your life. In this journey of life, a man's worst enemy is idle time.

Let this message scare you, wake up and stop comparing yourself with the females. A broke man is nothing even to his family. A broke girls is something to her family members.

Don't be delusional, we are different and our chances are not the same to smile or be respected. A broke guy is not respected, he has no value to his community, they laugh at you when you walk by, the beautiful ladies call you loser. Get up.

Get up! Be scared of your future.



#BLAZE

crap
The likes of men below didn't suffer

Davido
B red
Kiddwaya
Seyi Tinubu
Paddy Adenuga

DamnnNiggarr:


Chai!

I'll never underrate any human being again.
The way this little up-to-no-good of a girl deceived me and my wife was out of this world.
I almost had very serious issue with my wife when I suggested that this girl could really forged her result, My wife almost requested for my head because I said such. Now, my wife has been dumbfounded ever since the findings by the Anambra State panel of enquiry came out.

Never trust, defend or underrate any human being, whether old, sick, young, poor, rich, girl child, boy child, intelligent, unintelligent, educated or not.

humm
Damn niggar has a wife

Dshocker:
You talk you lack common sense.

Now that the father has found out the truth, he took the right step by coming out to apologize.

Every Foolish parent would have done the same thing, by first protecting their own child.

fixed
I wasn't trained that way. Parents should be more intelligent than their kids.

These are the type of parents that follow their children to school to fight teachers after being disciplined.

Nonsense, charity begins at home.

NotCool:
Fellow nairalanders, this question got me thinking for a while now and I thought I should share it with you guys.
How do people make choice when they want to buy their first car?
Because sometimes I see people driving cars I don't think anybody can order with their hard earned money or maybe they were gifted.
The structure, the mod, the status, everything looks bad with these cars yet people purchase.
Hence my curiosity to find out about people's choice when buying cars.

low fuel consumption

Good clearance

Easy for KAZEEMS to understand

Cheap and available spare parts

Outside these four, whatever anybody add is secondary

ManU is making a big mistake if Onana is replacing De gea.

De gea has been ManU best player in the last 3-4 seasons

StrikeBack:
Things like this makes me shudder at the future of this country. We want the best but we keep doing things to undermine how to get there.
We want Nigeria to be the best country in the world and we don’t want to do away with unnecessary owanbe and the likes… smh

It will nigeria 200 years to get to the level of the Europeans

You can imagine what our future leader is up to

Lesson learnt
No be by innocent face or age. A criminal mind is a criminal

Shameless family

Instead of him to scold his child, he was busy defaming jamb and Nigeria as a whole.

Illiteracy of the mind

Illegal1:
There's this popular woman in the community were i stay here in Yenagoa, omoh.... This woman can speak almost 9 different dialects..

She came to the restaurant were I was eating this afternoon, and she was speaking Hausa with one hausa keke rider.... Ino knw wen i ask her" madam abeg were u 4rm? and she said, i'm a patrotic Nigerian..

The guy sitting next to me was lyk "madam u get beta ear ooh....i never even sabi speak my own dialect finish bt u dey hear/speak almost all nigeria dialect, no body fit sell u for dis country ooh.....she jst laff..

So guys, apart from your native dialect, how many other Nigerian languages can speak?

one. Pidgin

N3TRAL:
Oge Aneke welcomes a set of twins after six years of waiting for another child Fixed.

There's no way to verify that she married as a virgin.

Thanks for the fix. I was confused with the headline seeing her with a child already in the pix

tiger28:
Innoson himself is a total illiterate......have heard him speak? You will laugh.

So I don't expect much from him.

Honestly, the guy na money miss road.

But the girl na hardened criminal... what effontery

Benjaniblinks:
Aya.. that's poultry for you. Sometimes you gain or lose

Very risky business

radiolover:
I have sent possibly more than 80 applications and fortunately, I got called by a few.

I have exhausted scarce resources to attend interviews, editing and re-editing resumes to fit a certain role and position, cost of transportation, I don't want to even mention having to trek a long distance sometimes due to lack of fund to pay Tfare. I mean someone is broke and hungry and trying his best to land a job but he's rather receiving rejection mails. What is this?

On Monday, I received a rejection mail from automobile company where I applied for a marketing role. On Tuesday, I received another one from a production factory.

Now I just returned from another job hunting only to open my mail and saw another rejection mail. This very one pain me most because I had high hope on it and i have spent so much on it too. During the second stage of the interview, I can remember how I waited from 8am till 5pm just to see 'Oga', and after seeing him, I began to walk my way home and got home late. I know i'm sounding sentimental here but it's so annoying that i went through all that 'ontop empty belle' and at the end, I wasnt offered the job.

Very very painful and morale killing.

I feel so bad right now.

Feels like the world has crashed.

Feels like everything has finished.

Feels like everything has ended.

Feels like more hunger for me ahead ahead.

Who has faced this before?

How did you comfort yourself?

You go again. While at it, look inward and find problem that you can be a solution to in your environment.

Unemployment rate is high in Nigeria, the probability of getting a NO will always be on the high side

slimfit1:
May we not kill our helper

"terrorizing "

Definitely, not a friendly visitor

nepapole:
What of Mmesoma?

she don confess

https://anambrapeople.com.ng/2023/07/08/anambra-committee-finds-mmesoma-guilty-of-forging-jamb-result-recommends-more-punishment-see-full-report/

iHateFraudsters:
Before opening the thread, I already knew it would be a black.

inferiority complex

White do worse to their kids

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/video/news/video-2938669/Texas-woman-charged-dragging-son-highway.html