Same thing was done to my girlfriend now wife, back in Benin city in 2016 during her IT. She boarded an audi 80 from ring road headed to new Benin, inside there were two men, one man inside d vehicle was claiming he had a diamond worth millions of naira while d driver negotiated his share just like in d video above, and promised my girl almost 5 million naira share. That once they give her d money, she should use it to assist her parents, greedy girl fell for it. She spent close to 7 hours with these criminals, she was Lucky she wasn't rape cos she was hypnotized completely. Long story short, they took my girl to d nearest babalawo, to swear swear to secrecy of d deal. Followed her to a firstbank ATM machine, my woman withdrew all d money in her account, money we both saved to Open a shop and handed it over to them. Why they didn't took her phone is because she told them she had more money at home, hence they told her to go home, get d money and return to them, that she must not tell anyone else she will run mad. I forced her to tell me everything after long hours of argument, I had to escort her to a church where she confessed everything right before me and a preacher man, she actually believe she would run mad since she had visited a fake native doctor's house with d criminals. And these tactics are carried out everyday in Benin by people's father's, advance men. It's well

BERNIMOORE:
End of an Era!
Onyeka Onwenu and Yvonne Chaka-chaka were one of the leading African's finest Voices in the 80's, and their evergreen Music still unmached with original voices, these Legends dominated the Music scenes for two decades from 80's to late 90's......when the voice speaks unlike Today when Nudity and Heavy make-up has taken over the scenes and we don't hear natural & powerful voices because the Gen-zs thought that mere looking like the westernised women will help their career....Kudos to these women..... Natutal hairs, No long eye-lashes..no heavy powder or heavy make-up, they are just Natural. not even looking weird
Onyeka will be surely missed..

She has an elder sister who is a lecturer in unilag, she is so proud of her baby sister Onyeka

What they actually mean is:

'I NEED A PROVIDER'

Well sorry, Guys re getting wiser by the day.

raphemmanuel:
Good day sir, do you mind if I contact you. I want to start up a phone accessories business, but I'm just looking for someone to put me through.

I can be of help in anyway I can, where's your location?

Gggjhhj:


Generator fit frustrate you out of business, betshops are closing day by day, the ones that could not afford solar, generator half engine is 80k talk more of new generator

Exactly bro, it's easier said than done, practical is always different from written recommendation, my friend who owns a betnaija shop close to my phone accessories shop, installed solar with 4.2million naira in his bet naija shop, just solar installation o. Today he has no problem with buying of fuel and the business is booming, but how many business staters have 4.2m to buy solar? business is not easy as people think, shops are closing up everyday, selling their stuffs away at giveaway price, you can loose ur capital in months and be back to square one if God is not on your side, anyone with good paying job should value it o, u can combine salary work with business that way u will be on a safer side, and the business will have room to grow and pickup over time, all thanks to my wife who is a government worker and a salary earner, don't know where I would have been by now. I run my business with 90% of her money, won't talk about the loan she has taken for me.

abelee:


Start a phone charging business. Out of that money, you can buy a small generator of 1.8kva for like 150k. Next up get a carpenter and an electrician to construct a table fitted with about 50 sockets where people can plug their phones, power banks, headset, rechargeable fans to. Next up reserve 50k as running expenses that last you for at least 2 weeks
Just imagine you charge 150 per phone and you can charge at least 50 phone per day.
That's 7500/day. Multiply that by 30 = 225000

If you add other gadgets to it, you can make up to 250k every month

As the business grows, you can add a business center to it (printing and photocopy)

This is a good suggestion. However there's a lot of exergeration as regard the monthly turnover. In business, there's what we call 'operational expenses' and "unforeseen expenses" you don't say this plus this is equals to this as if you are in a mathematics classroom. The 7500 daily turn over for 50 phones charged u didn't mention fuel money, fuel that's 660 per liter, u didn't mention generator weekly service or two weeks interval. Any generator you engage in phone charging business is as good as gone in matter of months, the chargers/desktops u engaged for the charging will get burnt from time to time and would need replacement,speaking from experience. Have done the business before, let me not mention phone theft,or people who refuse to pay u because their phones isn't exactly 100 💯 charged

I have had to buy a customer a brand new android phone of about 80k because of N50. How the phone disappeared from my custody I cannot tell...Yes phone charging then was N50 per phone.

abelee:


Start a phone charging business. Out of that money, you can buy a small generator of 1.8kva for like 150k. Next up get a carpenter and an electrician to construct a table fitted with about 50 sockets where people can plug their phones, power banks, headset, rechargeable fans to. Next up reserve 50k as running expenses that last you for at least 2 weeks
Just imagine you charge 150 per phone and you can charge at least 50 phone per day.
That's 7500/day. Multiply that by 30 = 225000

If you add other gadgets to it, you can make up to 250k every month

As the business grows, you can add a business center to it (printing and photocopy)

This is a good suggestion. However there's a lot of exergeration as regard the monthly turnover. In business, there's what we call 'operational expenses' and "unforeseen expenses" you don't say this plus this is equals to this as if you are in a mathematics classroom. The 7500 daily turn over for 50 phones charged u didn't mention fuel money, fuel that's 660 per liter, I didn't mention generation weekly service or two weeks interval. Any generator you engage in phone charging business is as good as gone in matter of months, speaking from experience. Have done the business before, let me not mention phone theft,or people who refuse to pay u because their phones isn't exactly 100 💯 charged

blackpanthar:


Abeg na pls Before opening your MOUTH, pls consult your brain. If you don't know how to HUSTLE, PLS BE QUIET.
IF there is a will, there will always be a way. YOU DIDNT OFFER SOLUTIONS, you just came to attack the ones I gave

I learned to drive with someone else's car at two different times and I didnt have a bicycle, I had a vision to learn how to drive before my next birthday.
Marriage/old age doesn't slow down learning... it is only a lazy mindset that does.


I MASTERED SQL DATABASE LANGUAGE IN 21 DAYS.... Other programming languages took me less than a month as a poly student and a bricklayer.

YOU MAY BE SLOW, because you are not driven. If you read my text well, I was going to offer him a remote job to earn in dollars and work weekly. You just come here to type rubbish without thinking it through.

TECH DOESN'T TAKE YEARS.... its months or even weeks, based on your hunger and determination.

Whatever that's Worth doing at all, is Worth doing well. You can't learn anything trade, Craft or skills within few months and master it, except you just wish to be a jack of all trades and master of none. Go and study the lives of the Igbos, they are good at whatever they do or engage in, when you take your time and learn something good , be it driving or database as u call it, when you are good at particular thing there's a way money follows naturally. People will be the one to market you as a matter of fact. I have a car, I didn't learn how to drive in weeks, let alone, going into commercial driving that requires serious driving experience. Do you think knowing traffic signs, how to accelerate or match your brake is what driving is all about? This is how you people fail in business /what you do and turn around to blame village people for your predicament main while no one is after you. Who even told you Uber is still a lucrative venture?

Like I said before, no insults intended like u assumed, you are completely out of point!

blackpanthar:
I commend your courage sir, to remain with that woman, talk more of being faithful or patient is really a herculean task.
Now to the main matter...
YOU WERE ACTUALLY POOR....(Passing Over Opportunities Repeatedly) in your past but this year EVERYTHING WILL TURN UP FOR YOU.

Do not blame her sir, blame yourself for not understanding the COMMITMENT DEMANDS of marriage before jumping into it.
I wouldn't want to go deep into how this our generation has EXALTED MARRIAGE beyond limits.... it feels like singleness is a disease yet the truly married ones do not publicize the HEAVY WORK involved.
Before marrying, read books, go to conferences and ask questions... you will discover THERE IS NO HONEY WITHOUT MONEY.

Now let me give my 50cent solutions/ideas (asides what other great minds in this forum will offer)

1) Move out of that house... send her to stay with your parents for a while and then you can go manage with a friend. THEN SUBLET THE 3 BEDROOM(you will get enough money for a tank and more)

2) buy more drums

3) buy 25k POS and give her to start work........ so she will know how hard it is to make money and begin to appreciate you

4) learn how to drive, then offer UBER SERVICES to people who own cars... YOU WILL BE DRIVING FOR THEM AND PAYING THEM 25K OR 30K WEEKLY WHILE THE REST IS YOURS. (this is more better than the meagre salary you earn)


5) Learn how to use the computer well and learn skills like DATA ANOTATION, DATA ANALYSIS and I can help you with a REMOTE JOB.

6) LEARN WEB DESIGN and GRAPHICS and inform people of your skills by word of mouth and you will get jobs/contracts

7) GO TO GOOGLE and type cysed jobs you can apply if you are in the selected states and get a higher paying job with more recognition.


I hope this helps you bro... keep pushing... you will own houses one day. Stay Inspired.

You are typing nonsence, there's no worst advice on this forum that these ones you drafted out. To think that your opening statement seem intelligent, but u see those numbers from one to the last number are completely out of point.

Learning how to drive, master it for commercial purpose when he doesn't have a personal car or predriving experience. Data coding learning and the likes will take nothing less than 3 years on the average. So how will a married man provide for his household all those years? You are even suggesting the wive moves to husband's parent house, SMH.

whippersnapper:
Polygamy only favors the man you go knack tire but na your children go suffer ahm. Especially this day’s wey women dey visit babalawo up and down. E done be for your first wife children them go use jazz kill all of them i fit bet my balls on this

You're too correct bro. I can relate.
You must be prepared to bury 4 out of 10 children before old age, meh it's that bad. I don't wish polygamy for any man, it's a trap too costly to fall into. The lesson is for us all to see women as number one problems of this world, they are the reason this earth can never be a paradise no matter how long it takes. Everyday I wonder how women love thier biological children so much yet feel hatred for another woman's child knowing fully well it takes d same effort to bring all children into this world? And this is not an issue of 'Some of them' it's general.
My childhood friend from a polygamous home was killed in a bike accident immediately he bought a brand new bike(bike o, I didn't say car o), April 2016. He just left my house on a rainy morning to show me the bike, he died on d the spot, the custom officer he was carrying died two weeks later in the ICU. To show u how severe the accident was. He uses okada business to support his schooling after being born by a useless polygamous Father.He earlier told me his step mom make an open threat over his life but I didn't take him seriously.

Anybody that believes a woman's rape story is a capital fool

Ofadaman:
Told a close colleague I'd be resigning and moving to a new job gave him details about the new company, colleague legit sorted out my prospective employer info, and called them to inform them that he's also interested in the job and he has more to offer than me, since he's has more experience , dude also told them I lied about my achievements, new HR called me to inquire, I was shocked but the HR told me ,I need to be careful about whom I speak to about my job searched until I've signed an agreement.
Colleague also reported to my line supervisor who has made life really hard for me, even though I know about his betrayal I've never mentioned to him that I knew what he did, instead I just wonder how callous people can be, he constantly ask about the status of my new job and consoles me whenever my supervisor acts up.

I don't keep friends
I stopped keeping friends since secondary school.
As I speak with you, I don't have a single friend.
The only person that I exchange calls with are my mom, my wife, my sisters and brother, ordinary call o. I can stay 2 years straight I won't dial your number but I have it on my phone, if u call me self, there's no guarantee I will pick your call. Am married with two kids, my wife is my best friend and confident and of course she's working for my interest only because she knows whatever affect me with not only affect her too, but the kids.

Humans are unbelievable!

Bye bye to side chicks
I have cut off from keeping side chicks exactly December 2023 and it must be permanent. Infact this is not just a new year resolution, but a permanent economic resolution hehe. I can't be spending money on what I have in excess at home.

I noticed something, there has been more progress in my business and my family happier. Married Guys, there's a spiritual tie to extra marital affairs, no jokes. Follow my footsteps if u can and u won't regret it.

Kilometres:



You will end up having sex with him.

It has happened to me.

My girl has this guy as friend and any time I tease her with him she would say never even in her dreams.

You know what? When dey started having sex, I didn't know... but later found out from her phone and she confessed it.

She said I was the reason... that each time I make her angry she would cry to the guy's arm.

I could have sworn by anything that my girl can never have something to do with that guy... even if she was going to cheat, I could swear it would be with some other guy not that her bestie

They're like that generally, very hypocritical.
My wife, during our dating phase had so many male friends, uncountable. Guess what? Only one out of her numerous male friends didn't ask her out.

Kingrshd3:
My brother this is d greatest mistake I made in my life for not learning a skill after my first degree .. you know this ego of graduate na u won't want to work under sun or life a mere skill labour instead we would prefer office job with tie.
Although I found one later one but the pay is nothing to write home about till dates.



Now for me to go back and restart or restrategise the process ehn 🤔
I found it too difficult because am married now with kids 😢

For those of you talking about business and skills, using the money for MS.c to start a business, you think it easier on that side? I have never submitted my CV to any company since 2017 I graduated. But You all really think that doing business in a volatile country like Nigeria is easy? Well, be my guest. because you just met a graduate who took d part of skill acquisition after nysc, hope you know how much it cost to rent an empty store in a fairly busy location, not talking about renting Inside a market? Let alone stocking it in this inflation driven period? I have been through it my friend, and still in it, some of my aunties still encourage me to keep searching for a gov job, although no regret so far, Sometimes when inflation is bitting hard, and customers who never moved pass elementary 5 starts to insult you over N1500 workmanship from a phone u fix for him more than 3 months earlier, you just cannot do anything order than to wish Nigeria was a better country. Before you say jack! It's time to renew store rent again. House rent is there also, waiting for renewal, aren't you going to feed? This kinda make me to start to respect most directors/CEOs/owners of companies. Please let's take a moment to appreciate employers of labour, it's really not easy for them. Your employer is a business man, be it a lawyer who owns a firm or a medical doctor who owns an hospital. What graduates care about is salary increment, how huge the salary offer is, not considering if the place you work is having a smooth business operations to sustain its existence. The grass is not always greener on the other side.

2special:
How can you buy this for ₦2,000

E wan chop for big man restaurant nah hehe. Can't u see d type of tiles in that place

ravensckar:
I thought I was the only one that saw the part were the father was there. A whole me? Stand and let somebody burn my child in my presence? I swear to God, I'll grab one of those policeman's gun and kill as many of those terrorists as my bullet permits. Nonsense father!

I hate weakness and helplessness! Man for that matter sha. Shior! He's not even taking any action. For what reason? Fear!

Exactly my thought.
Though the father tried in his efforts, running to the station to invite d police, DSS and others but to witness my child's murder and cremation is not something I will take lightly at all. It can't happen in my front, not in my front. I can't stop imagining it.
They will have to burn me first. Anybody I see I will grab and kill, even it's one person am able to lay my hands on, na rest in peace o. I don't care about any fucking armed army, civil police. Am a bad loser, when I lose, everybody loses, you can't fight crowd, yes! But I swear with my life, myself and some of those satanic Muslim people present there will have to die first before my daughter gets killed.
How will I even sleep after the incident, how will I eat, what will I tell my wife, family members, friends and relations, that my child was killed right before my very own eyes? If the Muslims thinks they re d only one with a wicked mind, then they haven't met some southerners, anyone I mark his or her face there, if I make it out of that scene it will be an eye for an eye o, including those hopeless coursemates that incited it.
Contrary to his claims, the man is feeling terribly bad, plus he's talking too much. The worst thing that can happen to any parent is to bury your child. Our children should bury us, not d other way round. God forbid!

adewaleadeyemi8:
After this plenty sex, how many babies have you both gotten, or it's abortion and pills. After marriage ba it's going to be a very boring sex life

I didn't want to comment Before but i must remind you that cohabitation is not a determinant as to whether the sex life will be interesting or boring in marriage. Am a married man, truth is, even people who didn't cohabit before marriage can experience boring sex at times in their matrimony. Eating so so egusi egusi soup every now and then, is boring, Lol. Take it or leave it. It's not a matter of cohabitation!

dawnomike:
Sorry about that... You fell for a bad one.

Serves him right, I keep saying it, there's no free money anywhere, even the yahoo yahoo people burns money thru Data and subscription and doesn't sleep at night, before small money drop. you want to earn Free 50k weekly without work. Lazy youth!

Wettoid123:
are u just knowing that marraige is a distraction to good hustling in making success, i just told my wife that i want to be doing uber with my toyota camry instead of depending only on salary but she strongly oppose it saying that upon the school i went to i want to be doing driving work i was shock!

Lol
Exactly the same thing my wife said when i wanted to go into transport business with my sienna as a side hustle. I had to give it out on hire purchase, the man I gave the vehicle has bought another car for his wife now barely 16months later, with my sienna... that's after deligently paying for the vehicle o.
Women think we re still in the olden days when White collar jobs are more respected than dirty jobs, it's dirty jobs that money is now. But they believe as long as you have a BSc (A degree that's now like waec and neco of those days) the world is at your feet. Woman expect too much from thier man, worst if you are a 'graduate'. They want to make sure your hustle is something they can brag to their friends, when in reality the money making is all that truely matters!

michaelbills:
What’s the name of the snake that hardly bites?

Puff adder

Mercychen:
To me, nothing really special about marriage because I've moved closely with married people and all i see is stress, stress and more stress!

Imagine the daily routine of a woman. Especially those who are not working.

Wake up early ( when youre not ready)
Prep the children for school.
Prepare their food breakfast.
If hubby is nice, he'll help drop them off otherwise, you do the school runs.

You get home and start putting the house in order. And attend to other chores staring you in the face. Time is ticking

Get ready to prepare lunch.
Then before you know it, it's time to go pick the kids.
Come back, freshen them up.
Serve them
Attend to their home work.

The you get set for dinner so hubby can have something to eat when he gets home. Before you know it, the day is gone and you're fagged out. Same thing continues tomorrow and on and on until....

Imagine if you're a working Mom and now have to combine all these with work...

Now tell me what will make a single viewing all these want to get married?

Truth be told, that's another thing I calculate and i relax and continue enjoying my single life.

Many married women are not happy. They are silently crying!!!
Forget all that fake smile they wear when they come out. They are not happy

Even the men are not 100% fulfilled. Responsibility wan break their neck.

Let's tell ourselves the truth. Even if you're rich, it's still not that easy.

I've seen a rich couple who both drove madly to school at the same time to pick their ward and were reigning heavy curses at each other at the gate because they both argued earlier on who's going to pick the son. So it's like non of them wanted to come and it was already evening and the boy was still in school.

I guess they called the house and the nanny who was babysitting their twin babies then, told them the boy was not home.

Omor.. see the speed they drove into the school compound with. Wify packed one side, hubby parked the other way and they both jumped out of their cars rushing Into the school and abusing each other.

Wife : " You shouldn't have come" useless man" As she stormed into the classroom

Man: ori e ko pe. why did you come? You should have remained at work"

Hmmm... So much hype about marriage. Abegi!

Hahahaha hahahaha Lwkmd. Everything you said is true. I am a married man and I must tell u quickly that what u described is a family that's a little comfortable and has some money to sort things. If not that am busy I would have created time to discribe a typical Nigerian home with little or no finance, it's even worse for those in this category.

That's why till today I admired the igbos so much, although most Igbo men marry late, when they do, they make sure there's enough money to carter for the family, and by extension, his relations and his wife's relations. All these things u mention, whether u want to believe it or not, can be made easier with money, u agree with me right? You can get a house help, but is it not family that are well to do that can afford a maid? You can get a driver? same thing apply as above. Conclusively, marriage is sweet, sweeter and sweetest when there's money. Let me emphasis that it's usually women that pushes men into marriage, so when talking about stress for a woman whose Lifetime dream has been accomplished, multiple the stress for the man by cube root of ten.

Hmmm

ameristu:
Hair salon
Car wash
Dry cleaning (Laundromat)
Uber/bolt driver
Selling ice block
Poultry business
Selling akara
Food canteen
Business center, photocopy, printing and scanning, lamination of documents.
Vulganizer! Yes vulganizer!!

of the things I mentioned, only Uber/bolt is really correct in reality

Sophiebabe85:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PAy15UZDvQI

Yul Edochie pleas for financial support for the treatment of veteran nollywood actor Emeka Ani who is bedridden with Diabetes and stroke



https://www.instagram.com/tv/CVckTm7AuYj/?utm_medium=share_sheet

Ogbakaja.... please get well soon. My prayers re with you. Loved him from the movie ₦SnakeGirl

Bruno3000:
You don't understand; the rule of the game is 'none of of ur close relatives are to benefit from ur wealth/financial proceeds, otherwise you'll be at a lose or you could run out of luck or even run mad or the cash simply stops flowing etc'. Its the rule.

Na wao

oazeez1991:


Sm parents knownin d illegal source of dia son's wealth made it an act not 2 accept monetary gift or any oda 4rm dem regardless of dia penury status as a way of lettin dem (son) know dey r not in support of such evil money.

Yes, this makes sense also but what about the siblings, same is noticeable in them too if you look closer

PARADIZEPRIEST:
WHICH YAHOO BIG BOYS,STOP GLORIFYING EVIL.ANY MONEY YOU CANT USE ON YOUR FAMILY IS USELESS MONEYEFULEFUUUU LIFE !

We re saying the same thing sir

Bruno3000:
You better wake up from thy slumber. You know nothing.

If one cannot spend directly (cash giving), at least they should do it indirectly (gift buying)
There's a way you will dress your parents up in good clothes, they will look rich. And people will in turn respect you for it. How about that?

Polynek:
They may hv enough Moni in there account, but it won't be enough to solve family problems,

More than three people have given this same answer now, well I think there's sense here

DontBullshitMe:

IGNORANCE.

There is no soap or charm anywhere that aids scam or internet fraud. If there is, they (Yahoo boys) won't be targeting vulnerable and lonely persons to defraud rather they will defraud anyone without restraint but that is not the case.

Lol

Sorry, I know some people might find this a little offensive. But it has come to my observation, that some big boys (mostly internet fraudsters aka Yahoo or G boys) who live very comfortably have parents and siblings that appear needy, unkept, poor and miserable yet thier sons live large in d city or town where they are and are doing well for themselves. Why? Exactly what's the essence of having money, living large and still watching your dad drive that same old bike he's been driving for the past 16 years or living in the same old house he inherited from his father while you live in Mansion, drives exotic cars and spend recklessly on cars, friends and women.

I don't get it, please someone should enlighten me