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 Family › Re: How Do I Know What's In My Dad's Will? by plappville(f): 3:46pm On Feb 05, 2009 |
BidenFan:I'ts all ok, do what ur heart tells u but i don't think it's a good thing to have thought of his will while he is still alive. |
| Family › Re: Can I Tell Him The Truth Now? by plappville(op): 3:33pm On Feb 05, 2009 |
JJYOU:Thank u for this wonderful words, my old woman is kind, she has never been a borden, she desarve even more. |
| Family › Re: Can I Tell Him The Truth Now? by plappville(op): 3:20pm On Feb 05, 2009 |
Well i thank u all for throwing in one or two words, actually i didn't sold my family birth right like some u are saying, I did what i did for my betterness and for theirs, if u must know, i am the 11th child of the family, i am senior to two people only, Dad was that strugling fellow befor he died, he was well to do but after his death, things became very tough for us, expecially we the younger once, Do u know how painful it is to have a senior once whom were never there for u when u were young?? I droped out of school because i have no one to help. Today i sacrefies my trust and confident just to make things work out for them and some of u are saying, I sold my family out. [quote author=amebo no.1 link=topic=229139.msg3429221#msg3429221 date=1233835673]dis is d problem we naijas have,is it a must to have a stay,so becos of stay u sold ur family jeeezz if it were a man its understandable,but a woman haba paper no be by force,obodo oyibo no be everybody arrrggggggg  [/quote]U don't understand, i saw hall and pains befor i left Nigeria, i ve always wished to study fear but i couldn't becos of lack of fund, dad wasn't there to help and the senior once weren't ready to help as they were been lazy to work. So i got the opportunity to make a good living for me and still extend it to them and u want me to throw it in the dustbin?? think befor u talk. @ IFY i know u do understand the situation, thank u for ur advice, i will keep praying that God will make hubby understand the reason why i told him lies, but i don't know when i will do this. If it is God's wish for him to leave me so be it, but if it is not, he will only distrust me. @ everybody, i am not here to exposed my family because i know how some members insulted me once for bring family matters here, if u ve bordens and needed to do away wit it, u ve to share it with people, and beside's this is a family section so i see nothing wrong in posting my worries here as long as i can get releaf of it. |
| Family › Re: Husband Arrives Home At 7.00am by plappville(f): 9:53pm On Feb 04, 2009 |
7am? this is serious, what is keeping him outside till this time? what a patient woman, but maybe she knows what her husband is doing till this time or the man do call her to inform her he wont be home till 7am who knows. |
| Family › Re: Can I Tell Him The Truth Now? by plappville(op): 9:50pm On Feb 04, 2009 |
[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=229139.msg3426972#msg3426972 date=1233779995]The fact that you are thinking about it, means that you might mistakenly blurt it out in fear or anger. If you are not ready to tell him yet, push it to the back of your mind and find something else to occupy your time.[/quote]Ok but, this thought will keep eating me up as usual, until i will let him know, but i don't know when. |
| Family › Re: How Do I Know What's In My Dad's Will? by plappville(f): 9:07pm On Feb 04, 2009 |
BidenFan:dont eat me raw plz, i just told u the truth, ur prayer and love will do better than talking about his will while he still lives, if i may asked, how old is ur dad? it doesn't matter if he is old, God can still prolong his life, u just need to show him love by thinkingless of his will. |
| Family › Re: Can I Tell Him The Truth Now? by plappville(op): 8:52pm On Feb 04, 2009 |
[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=229139.msg3426617#msg3426617 date=1233774558]Okay, maybe you did not understand me properly, but its all good, i don't speak french well too. Why are you scared of telling him though? He is definitely not going to be happy and start wondering what other lies you have told him. I don't think you should tell him at the moment, try and get your self a job so that you can be self-sufficient first in case he gets upset with you and tells you to leave, or leaves the house for you @ Iyalode* I am scratching my head    Talk to him, ask him, I believe he is open to negotiation  .[/quote]All ok, sorry for misunderstanding u, [b] try and get your self a job so that you can be self-sufficient first in case he gets upset with you and tells you to leave, or leaves the house for you.[/b]yes i am searching for a job but not for this reason, Like i said b/4, i just don't feel free becos of this, that is why i asked this question, is not that i there is anything astake at the moment. |
| Family › Re: Can I Tell Him The Truth Now? by plappville(op): 8:01pm On Feb 04, 2009 |
[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=229139.msg3426527#msg3426527 date=1233773328]You have spoken  I fainltly remember the OP's story once, about one of her brothers hounding them for money.@ Plappville If you have a job/are working, why is this a problem? I am not advocating anything, but it is known for women to buy something for $20 and then tell their husband they paid $150 for it  Why dont you use your feminine ingenuity to deal with the situation? https://emoticons4u.com/crazy/245.gif[/quote]I am not working, and we are not rich, we re living a normal life, living with only one salary, what kind of 20 dolars for 150 dolars thing is that? don't i ve other things in my head than thinking of how to save 20 dolars and other, plz don't refare me to that thread, i just want to know what i have to do in this present situation thank u. |
| Family › Re: Can I Tell Him The Truth Now? by plappville(op): 7:46pm On Feb 04, 2009 |
I will say yes but it's not directly, i do that with what i get from him, but the way and maner i demand after the normal monthly fund, this really pist him off he always asked what i do with money, is true that too many family is too many problem i know what i am saying, even myself i go crazy sometime. |
| Family › Re: Can I Tell Him The Truth Now? by plappville(op): 7:34pm On Feb 04, 2009 |
Sisi Jinx:Is not what u think, if u are in the europe u will understand, i needed to have a stay, but i wanted it with a guy i love not just to have it, so i couldn't choose to lose another oppotunity that came my way, This white guys are not very understanding, u won't understand. I will not do this if i had met a black guy, I ve always thought in my heart that i will let him know the truth but when and how do i start is what i dont know. yes he does relate well with them like every other inlaw out there. |
| Family › Can I Tell Him The Truth Now? by plappville(op): 7:13pm On Feb 04, 2009*. Modified: 1:17am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Just want to be brief, I am happily married with two |
| Family › Re: How Do I Know What's In My Dad's Will? by plappville(f): 6:06pm On Feb 04, 2009 |
Wonders shall never end, u see why u are seen as the black sheep of the family? why should u be thinking of having access to his will? That is his privacy, don't take what is not givien to u by force, wit the look of things here i can feel ur kind of person. I advice u not to be idle minded, u have to look for a job and stop caring about dad's will, Dad work to get rich so u could do thesame. Pray that God heals him cos he can still recover with ur prayer, love and confort instead u are digging his grave on his behave. u are lucky i don't know that man i could ve told him ur plans. |
| Family › Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by plappville(f): 5:18pm On Feb 04, 2009 |
Lami05:u dont know, the guy might be scared of his veryself been impotent too ? |
| Family › Re: Please What Can I Do To Put On Weight by plappville(f): 5:14pm On Feb 04, 2009 |
Tgirl4real:  , but food na the fastest way na |
| Politics › Re: Cliford Orji Is Back! by plappville(op): 5:06pm On Feb 04, 2009 |
Tgirl4real:You re right, thks for moving it, all thesame it's shocking. jamace:Na so i see am oooo. |
| Family › Re: High Increase In Divorce Rate In Our Society: Women The Cause, Why? by plappville(f): 6:42pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
Nwaka77:You are right my sister, i wonder when women will have a right in their matrimonia home in Nigeria, the most annoying one is when the husband dies befor the wife, it is always the wife that killed him, but when the wife dies first, no one cares even if it's the husband that killed her no one will suspect him[b] it's crazy[/b]. @ poster U are wrong to have said in ur topic women the cause, why? if u were to be a woman that got married to a cheating husband and a punching bag husband, would u keep him simply because u do not want to divorce?? if the men play a good role, i think the rate of divorce will reduce, its not a thing to pass blame on women only, as they are not slaves, women desarve to be treated tenderly and with respect, expecially the nigeria husband family thing, passing other to a woman in her marimonia home, what a nonsence. |
| Family › Re: Is It Normal? by plappville(f): 6:09pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
sweetmum:Everything starts in a day, ur guy might have told his parents about u, if he is asking u to visit them then tell him to call when u will be with his parents for the first time so that he can formally introduce u on phone, this could reduce ur shyness or whatever it maybe. |
| Family › Re: Would You Prefer A Nigerian Lady For Marriage? by plappville(f): 5:38pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
There is no need breaking heads here, @ poster, it's not all nigerian women that are bad or are frustrating their husband, i can tell u that i ve two friendhs whom are not even married to NIGERIA men, their husbands are not ver caring, they complains olot but still keep their home and hoping things will change one day. it all depend on individual, I am a nigerian and married to a european, i dont maltreat my hubby and vise versa, my few nigerian friends that are married are also playing a good role in their matrimonia home, why others no!! i think one should look b/f leaping. So STOP generalising it. Mistakes most men make is that they are after names: my wife is from a rich family, she is a master's hold, she is very beautiful not minding her behavious, its not possible for a nice woman to just change after her marriage THE HUSBANDS SHOULD CHECK THEMSELVES TOO. STRANGE WORLD WE LIVE IN |
| Family › Re: Is It Normal? by plappville(f): 5:14pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
Hey, if u know u love that boy and he is asking u to visit his parents, don't wast time, do u know how many girls have lose their friend all in the name of distance?? the guy want his parent to seeu, he will have more confident if u will frequent and be friendly to his parents. There is no abnormality in this, grab ur opportunity my dear. |
| Family › Re: How Do I Tell My Mother Am A Lesbian by plappville(f): 4:45pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
i pray the lord deliver u from this demonic thin u mentioned her AMEN. |
| Politics › Re: Cliford Orji Is Back! by plappville(op): 4:40pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
jamace:i was shocked too of the articles, but his picture was posted as well. |
| Family › Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by plappville(f): 4:07pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
It's not right for a guy to asked that, except the guy thinks he could hock her down with that. The normal thing is get married befor pregnancy but in some case it can happen that u get pregnant without marriage, i don't buy a guy asking a lady this kind of thing. |
| Politics › Cliford Orji Is Back! by plappville(op): 4:00pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
Nigeria’s most celebrated suspected cannibal, Clifford Orji, has appealed to president Umar Yar’Adua to order the judiciary to release him because he did not commit the offences he was accused of. He told P.M.News in his Kirikiri cell that he is fed up with staying in the prison and wants to be set free now. According to him, “please help me tell president Umaru Yar’Adua to order the judiciary to release me now because 10 years after I was arrested and charged to court, nobody has been able to prove that I committed the offences leveled against me.” Orji quoted from a portion of the Bible (1 John 8:32), which, according to him, his pastor instructed him to read everyday: And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free. ”Now I have known the truth, I think I should be allowed to walk away as a free man,” he added. After quoting the Bible, Orji went into a trance and was saying some strange things to some unseen spirits. None could fathom what he said. Commenting on Orji’s behaviour, Deputy Comptroller of the prison, Mr. I. A. Ogunmola, said Orji cannot be taken seriously. ”His medical report stated that he is insane. You, too, can see,” the prison official added. Orji, now 43, was arrested in February 1999, by the police, under the bridge along the Apapa-Oshodi expressway. He was subsequently charged before the Ebute-Metta Magistrate’s Court, on 19 February. Items reportedly found on him at the time of his arrest are a cheque for the sum of N88,000; cell phone, allegedly sent to him by his brother, Linus, Managing Director, Crocodile Nigeria Limited. Other items were identified as fresh and roast human flesh, bones and some women underwear. His arrest was celebrated in the media. At a time, it was speculated that he had died in custody. |
| Politics › Endtime Signs: Read. by plappville(op): 3:41pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
Iceland has announced a new government that will be headed by the modern world’s first openly gay leader. Johanna Sigurdardottir was named new prime minister by the country’s coalition political parties, the BBC reported on Sunday. Iceland’s previous coalition cabinet of PM Geir Haarde collapsed last month under the strain of an escalating economic crisis. Sigurdardottir’s government said on Sunday it would immediately start to tackle Iceland’s crisis. “The government inherits enormous difficulties due to the banking and systemic collapse as well as considerable and rapidly increasing foreign debts and liabilities of the national economy,” the new coalition said in a statement. It said its priorities would be replacing the board of governors of the central bank and to ask a parliamentary committee to look at the possibility of entering the European Union. Sigurdardottir, a former social affairs minister, is the member of the Social Democratic Alliance. According to the BBC, the 66-year-old’s appointment as interim leader - until elections in May - is seen by many as a milestone for the gay and lesbian movement. “I don’t think her sexual orientation matters. Our voters are pretty liberal, they don’t care about any of that,” Skuli Helgeson, Social Democratic Alliance’s general secretary, told the BBC. Sigurdardottir - who has never hidden her sexuality - is, nevetherless, very private about her personal life, never discussing it in public. |
| Romance › Re: Schew: I Hate All This Valentines Day Threads! by plappville(f): 6:20pm On Jan 31, 2009 |
the thing dey chark all those young lovers na their time, carry gooooooo! |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Who Is A Christian? by plappville(f): 6:13pm On Jan 31, 2009 |
Individual may ve his/her own way of difining a christian according to one's believe, as for me i will say that a CHRISTIAN is a follower of Jesus' teachings,one who have accepted Christ as his/her savoir, and baptised in Christ as a new creature. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Did Jesus Dance And Sing? by plappville(f): 6:00pm On Jan 31, 2009 |
the thing become a mooslim and chritian (joke) anyway it's interesting to read when these mooslim talk about their mohammed , dance or not what is important is doing what pleases God, Jesus is our lord and saviour so lets follow his steps. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Is It Wrong For Musician To Be Paid In The Church? by plappville(f): 5:40pm On Jan 31, 2009 |
Was he a musician b/4 he came to the church or he became a musician as soon as he b/come a member of the church? it all depend, if he became a member and choose to do the work of God by singing, i see no reason why he should asked to be paid, except he is not doing it for God but for money. If he was a musician b/4 he came to the church and he asked to be paid befor he play music, if the church needs his service then they could pay him, in this case he is seen as employed by the church to sing. I don't know if this king of songs will be for the glory of God shal. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Obama And The Antichrist by plappville(f): 5:05pm On Jan 31, 2009 |
Image123:good talk, u re blessed. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Obama The Antichrist by plappville(f): 4:27pm On Jan 31, 2009 |
@ poster, ur topic stated that OBAMA is the antichrist, well i advise u don't just conclude without rael facts, although u stated some articles which are similar to the character of the antichrist to be. u maybe right but try to react slowly and be watchful a a christian, he is just swon in few weeks ago, there in no much evidence yet to believe if he is the one or not. as for people comparing him with JESUS, what was his reaction?? May JESUS name remain glorified. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Deeper Life Bible Church: Why Avoid Us? by plappville(f): 3:54pm On Jan 31, 2009 |
[quote author=dudu-bobo link=topic=12813.msg2723858#msg2723858 date=1220012619]Shaking your head till you feel something come out? Is there any scriptural basis for that? I just hope many dont develop problems with their heads/brains later in life[/quote]How can a hand shake make one develop brain problem? na waoh for u oo, Deeper life is a church where the true word is preach, the teaching is very educating and christlike, there is no fashion thing there, brethrens see themselves equal, i'm not suprise to see that a deeper life member is disliked, even Jesus said it, that In my name they will hate u and say all sort of things, So my fellow deeper life members, keep on moving, the lord is ur strienght. |
| Family › Re: If Your Ex Wants To Marry Your Sibling, What Would You Do? by plappville(f): 3:31pm On Jan 31, 2009 |
merit007:Does this answered the topic?? Well @ poster, i will make sure i talk to her about my ex, i see no reason why my sister will want to marry a man that has already slept wit me, it's a dirty thing, nature forbid it, and even the thought will remain, but if she insist marrying him, i will let them be, cos i wouldn't want to stand on my sisters destiny. |
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