₦airaland Forum

2009 Predictions
Five Speakers to be impeached, three SSGs sacked
• A prominent Yoruba leader will die
…Juju musician also
• Two Actresses will pass on
• Alaafin of Oyo should pray hard
• Terrorists will attack
By Olajiire Ishola
Sunday, December 28, 2008

Cant he do better thins with his thinking faculty?? and what did he predicted for himself?? A BIG HISSSSSSSSSS

Good question: but is there no forgiveness God said we should forgive so that we will be forgiven.
This family need Gods intervention or else it will continue from generation to generation like this.

Take heart life goes on, cos even if u cry from now till 10 yrs time the person will not come back to life. so learn not to think too much, occupy ur day with other friends and try contibuting in table discussion by so doing u will feel less pain of ur lost loved one.
Hope this help.

CCC
My dear u have heard enough advice from fellow nairalanders, pray hard for God to direct u to a bible believing church, I wonder how long it will take CCC to deliver a witchcraft spirit away from some1 they claimed she is a witch. Or are u stronger than them than them lolllllllllssss The truth is that, they liars, feltish and powerless, they are not doing what the bible instructed them to do so therefore find ur way to a place where u will have the fullness and divine spirit of God. may God continue to strenghten u.

spoilt:
*Yawn*
You havent gone to your bank and you are raising dust here. Or you just want us to know you have 155,000 naira?

u no funny @ all oo, person dey cry u dey tell am say if he want make nairaland know say he get 155,000 naira.
that is not a huge amount of money to announce. he alone needed some advice from us.

@ topic: go to ur bank first and confirm, no matter wat the case dont kill any1 plz, good luck.

[b]romeo:[/b]Do you even know what percentage is? 95 staggering percent of Naija men are losing their pride? Tell me where they lost that pride and i will go and pick them up, remove sand and hand them back to Naija men.

This shit is all over the world and not just a Naija thing.

To pick the pride u will have to travel all over the world oooo.
Point of correction, i never said that only 9ja men are involved in beating wife, sure it's a world wide thing, but it's too frequent with some of our 9ja men, if we see bad thing happening in our land, we had better try to condem it than to praise and make this men feel they are not the only men involved in this act. I know that in 9ja a man can beat his wife without fear or favour, nothing will happen, but in the europe, like here in France where i live, u dare not beat ur wife except u wanna go to jail and pay ur wife some sum of money. I think there could be more beatting wife thing here than in Niger if not for the law, Maybe 9ja should try and apply a law against wife beating.

[b]romeo:[/b]What made you think educated Nigerians will not go to France? Are you ok dude? Where are you based? let me tell you why most people do not go there. People have choices when it comes to where to live and study. And some people like challenges that new languages bring and not cowards that hide under English language in English speaking countries, Making them believe they are educated and are staying in the right place.

So when people smoke Hemp they become Riff Raffs? You are a complete joke.

TELL THE GUY WETIN E NO KNOW JARE.

I used to fight alot, i mean if u cause me those days in school u no go go free ooo. i also used to defend my our last daughter alot from my immediate younger brother, how do i do that looooooooooooooooooooooos. each time she cry to me for help i wont even mind what happend i will just go and beat up the boy, until one day the boy became stranger than me and beat me up messlessly.
Something happend one day, My immediate senior sister had problem with one guy and she felt she is too big to fight the boy she called me to come and beat the boy, i tell u, i was beaten by this boy and even dislocated my left hand , i was immediatly rushed to the huspital, since then i deseased from fighting. i now happens to be a peace maker all my life no matter how i am wronged.

Its pointless comparing marriage, imagin one comparing NIGERIA TO DUBLIN
9ja na 9ja, Dublin is Dublin jare.

The ability to contibute to the sucess of my family, to be a creative mother and wife, organise family vacation and children health checkup. the ability to still look sexy even though i am a mother.

there is no need trying to find out if ur man cheat on u, this ur link is not suitable will only lead to divorce, trouble dey sleep IYANGA DEY GO WAKE AM.
if he is cheating let him cheat until i will trap him myself. i don't need any link to make me start suspecting my husband.

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Na woo for Nigeria ooo, wonders shall never end, i will call my people to inform them ooo.

thanks so much for the info.

I advice u call ur wife and tell her about it, but that doesn't mean u should think forther,(I mean, take a divorce out of this) she is ur choosen one, for better and for worse, what happend was her past, u should try to make her know that she has liad to u, maybe this will make her tell u more about her past and this could build u both up. Good luck.

JustGood:
If you only find yourself with those kind of men, it's because you also belong in their category. You can't speak about the majority of Nigerian men. You can only speak about the majority of men you are attracted to. Most of my friends have never had such problems and the girls I know in Europe are not likely to fall for such irresponsible men. They date Nigerian men without dating the idiots. If you decide to date and marry idiots because they have impressed you with their smoking habits, gangster lifestyles, worn out jeans, knee high jeans and their blings, you should not think that majority of men are like that.

You are in France as well. How many educated Nigerian men will go to France? Not a lot. . . so you are talking about all those who could not make anything and are probably hemp smokers in Nigeria. These are not real men by my own standards in Nigerian terms because I did not grow up seeing such riff raffs and I don't rate such them - men or women.
If a woman is always with such men, it shows that she is just like them.

You have made lots of mistakes by thinking me for those guys same way u though for benincity. that we spoke about the bad behaviour of most Nigerian guys does not mean that we have benn victims. As for me i didnt even date any Nigeria guy here befor i got married. but i do have friends both here in France and some other parts of the europe that alway complain of their Nigeria boyfriend or husband maltreating them. It is true that all of them are not bad,but u know that bad news spread faster than good news, so it's the smell of the bad eggs that is affecting the innocent once that are nice and have good intention to settle and take responsibility as a husband and father.

You are in France as well. How many educated Nigerian men will go to France? Not a lot. . . so you are talking about all those who could not make anything and are probably hemp smokers in Nigeria. These are not real men by my own standards in Nigerian terms because I did not grow up seeing such riff raffs and I don't rate such them - men or women.
If a woman is always with such men, it shows that she is just like them.

Point of correction, what makes u think an educated Nigerian will not come to France?? Do u know about the French educational system?? be informed that 5 of my Nigeria friends here in France are graduates and are all married men but non is married to a Nigeria woman. due to conversation i understood why 3 of them didn't succeed in marrying nigeria girl., they were refused by their nigerian girlfriend several times, its not all about education, a man that has the habite of hiting a woman will continue to hit even if he is the most educated or wealthy man on earth, it's in his blood. 

Maybe u are not in this category of men, count urself lucky, but don't think it's because u are educated that makes u a different man, but maybe because ur nature hates to hurt a woman.

The Refugy boy i told u guys about has his masters degree, but what makes him beat up his white girlfriend even if she aborted a pregnancy so my dear Education no get alot to play in here oooo. many educated Nigerians are here in France ooo.

ifyalways:
Mine do but in a funny way " Thank you Ifeoma,for remembering to give back to us,all that we have given you"
when they thank me after serving them food,i get this funny feeling and i don't get to reply most times. lol _{i do feel i should be the one doing the "thank you" job.}

funny are u suposed to give back in return, why are all african parent been demandeful? they always expect their chidren to pay pack what they spent on, this is a very bad culture.

@ topic: my mum will say thank u and even pray for me and bless my family, she didn't work my money, if i extend it to her she should at least show appreciation, there is no culture thing to say thank u when a parent recieve help from their child. When u thank God he will give bless u more abi??

benincitys:
be happy i said 50 % i know another Nigerian girl who lost her baby on the same case , in her case it was worst because she was 7months pregnant, so brother is not my bad luck that bring him to me,  is it not the same nigerian man  who  kill his wife for #40, another kill his wife for leaving him,
i was not marry to the idiot dating uncountable men is not my thing i am not  blaming all Nigerian men my father is a Nigeria i have 3brothers who are Nigerians too, my father is marry to my mother for 30 year  he never
punch my mother  ,  i m marry to my husband for 4year he never punch me, that your prayer will not come near me in Jesus name .

I wanted to correct him of this too but thank God u did.

Justgood, I don't thing benincity said anything wrong, she spoke out of experience, it is true that mejority of Nigeria men are good in using their hands in nothing but to hit their wife, how dare a man who cannot even surport in feeding his family have the gots to beat a woman that feed both him and his child?? Is it because she is white nonsence indeed, that is the last thing i would tolerate from a man.

95 persent of Nigeria men here in the europe are lossing their pride because of these beating thing, most Nigerian girls do not fancy dating them anymore, as some of them only know how to beg their wife or girlfriend for money and even beat them. If they don't wake up and live in the current world they will be left behind with shame, I know one Nigeria refugy that came to France and dated one white girl, when the girl got pregnant she dicided to abort the baby and the boy needed the baby to ve a regular situation as the law demands. so the girl removed the baby and the boy beat her up like sheet, she was rushed to the hospital immediatly and the boy was jailed. The bad blood still dey run for some of their body.

It is hard to hid secrets once we are in love, Even Samson in the bible loses his power to a woman because he sold out his secret to her. But I think it's safer to keep secrets away from our relationship, [b]if u are not asked what killed ur father why telling it? [/b]to love is not to be stupid up to letting out the cat out of the bag.

@ topic, is not all women that do that after marriage, the women that dress only on wrapper maybe the once that are not used to mixed fashion, if a man noticed his wife is not been sexy as she used to be, why not call her and tell her what he likes on her, like for me, my hubby always tell me when he is not satisfy with my dressing, but that is only when we go out, and it's vice versa. At home it's even better for women to dress more sexy, i mean looking more and more sexy to ur husband will make him apprecaite and love u even more. 

190:
hiv test ke
hiv test ni

never
wetin person nor know nor dey kill am

may God no let ur mouth put u for where u no belong, ignorance is more deadly than hiv itself. go for the text befor marriage and if possible every 6months.

what can i say

with the family of course, if u have friends they are equaly welcome.

how many times will u post this topic

I tired for these parental control thing for an adult child oooo, one thing i know is that if u and ur guy re really meant for each other, u don't need to panic, the ball is in ur court, opportunity missed by someone will be taken by someone else, dad and mum re happily married, call ur dad and asked him why he married ur mum( i am talking out of experience) if he tells u why, tell him u would love to marry ur guy for the same reason.
some people are saying parents are always right Marriage is a thing of lucky, even if u select and select until they are satisfied with ur choice, what will happen will always happen so i don't fancy this kind of parental control thing for an adult of 23 years. I advise u to use ur head don't try to hurt ur heart or ur parents eaither, i believe they will comply just take ur time.

that is life for us, when the going was good this man wouldn't dare do that to his g/f, anger no dey born better pikin oo, expecially those wen no know God. may God direct us to the right partinar.

na waoooo re u really ashamed of urself like u said? if yes why did u post this thread, if the thing too crash u, u 4 at least burn it with hot water than doing it with ur blood brother.

didn't u know about their law befor u went there? like Benincity said, help urself if u no want make dem half ur leg ooo.

Eastbay:
Ronny is so far away from Jay-Jay, it's almost unbelievable.Heck he chased him out of PSG. Isn't that enough?

u said my mind.

@ topic: they are not in thesame class at all, big difference

chika98:
Which one is "blee" again? The Lord Blee people??

Haba @chika98: U suposed to know say na mistake, he was to write bless, instead he wrote 'blee', no one is above mistake.
@ topic, tatooage is a sin, mark of the devil spreading gradually into the heart of some christians who are ignorant of the promises of God but run after worldly fashion.

SeanT21:
I can not wait to be a mother.Motherhood is wonderful!!

you will be most welcome ooo, but make sure u tire ur belt very well cos it's a new world entirely
@ topic: u can't talk on the phone without hearing noise around me.
: u sleep and keep my ears wide open to be sure they are sleeping.
: u can't have enough time to makeup and go out to places u used to visit, e.g : cinema,club, travelling etc.

you know you are a mother when you can no longer do things u used to do, they are uncountable.

Even the good book said it read below:

Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.( Proverbs 14:1)

To men out there this verse in the bible didn't instruct women to be slave in their husbands house, husband should also learn to help his wife in building their home.

I think only a NICE and FAITFUL hubby would call himself back in this ur situation, some times it does't pay some women will do all they can to keep their family but will still end up loosing it, it's just by the devine intervention of God for both minds to recommunicate and have a change of mind. It's not good to be too hasty in taking any decision expectially when it's a divorce isue. I hope men/women will learn something from ur experience.

Thanks for sharing.

I call him mon coeur while he calls me chére