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mejourity of them select too much, they want a just perfect man, while waiting and waiting age will be increasing as well but they are too ignorant to know that they are not gettting younger, i wonder what a mr right means to them, is't really possible to marry a just match as a husband? after waiting to long seeing that time is no longer their friend, they will be looking for aged divorced or any1 can sarve men to hold on to,i know 3 girls like that, funny but too silly of them as they are regreting it now.  To those young shine shine babe out there, use ur time well, don't be too selective but be wise though.

happy xmas to you all 9ralanders, here is a dancing father christmas for u cheers.

[quote author=Charles A. link=topic=203321.msg3192633#msg3192633 date=1228651011]la bonte et la merci m'apperedon, tu le jour de mon existence. one love![/quote]Je n'ai rien fait de mal, je viens juste d'essayer d'être drôle avec toi, il n'y a pas du mal dan mes mots, je suis gentile avec toi c'est tout.
bon je viens de te donner une autre cadeau pour noêl, j'éspére que ça te plaira cet fois, le voila, un pére noêl qui dance, c'est drôle non?

Quit nice and touching, good one there.

His manhood should be cut off, what kind of father is that? wonders shall never end

[quote author=Charles A. link=topic=203321.msg3176528#msg3176528 date=1228324908]@ plappville, hey! christmas and the new year is near so please it's either you make a wish or you don't.[/quote]OK here is my gift for u becarefullllllllllllllllllllllllll shutttttttttttttttttttttt himmmmmmmmmmm puffffffffff
i hope u like my wise

Arlington:
God i Beg oh do you have any idea what you just said? just pray that God never lets you see wahala in marriage . If you marry a man who already knows you have this attitude you are finished.some men can frustrate a woman to the extent she will almost go crazy and vice versa. i don't care what it is , if i don't feel fulfilled in my marriage, i am leaving what is this life all about, That i have to stay sad, till the day i drop dead ,just for the fact that i said i do.One of the fundamental goals for the human race is to have some sort of happiness and your marriage definitely holds one of the keys to happiness and if the man shows me to the heaven everymorning and uses my head to sweep the floor , or mentally abuses me and disrespects me i should endure? Long hisssssssssssssssssssssssss some women just turn them selves to door mats .

Well said my sister. gone are those days when women surfer in their matrimonia home all because of children, i am not ready to live a slavering life with any man oooo, if u are enduring certain character like him not helping with the home keeping, it may be understood but not that punching bag, been nonchanlant about my needs, cheating on me and disrespect my rights. I will really prefare to be alone and be happy, than to be with a man and be sad for the rest of my life all in the name of endurance. A BIG HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

@ firsty: I didn't have the chioce to refused the money, becos i needed i needed it urgently and the fund was already tarminated befor they told me how much it was, the stock broker knew i needed my money despirately, the way and manner she behaved befor she gave me the money was really suspicious but then i could say anything to her because i am not in the country to find out the trust. all thesame it's a lesson for me i say goodbye to IBTC investment stuffs and all that they are thiefs.

dash88:
what kind of oshisko talk be this? this na naija,

@poster, get a good koboko or horse whip if u like, and beat the living-'gay'-light out of his stupid mind, even God go happy with u (spare the rod n spoil the child),
abi are u ready to be ur son's gay partner?

you funny ooo, i laugh fall for grand ooo, u no think say the boy involve is an adult?

I have one best friends that i trust, she can be called a sister as well i love her so much so i don't hid anytime from her, we've been friends for 9yrs now. she is

you no get land for delta state?? ur lands are very cheap ooo.

I think the both should overlook thing some times, the wife doesn't have to act foolish while the husband wise in order to make a happy family. if hand join wash hand na hand dey clean abi.?

angelina08:
How can you marry a wife you love, after getting married to her, you change and started maltreating her, while. Give you live to Christ so that God will take over all your problems and if you have a hot temper, keep praying to God.

Wife for give him and come back for him, remember he is your husband, and he love you, so come back home.
don't for get to pray together with him always.

Thanks.

are u sure u read what the poster wrote very well

Angolobabe:
if she is that religious then she wouldnt have slept with her fiance before marriage
the pregnancy is only in the early stage and it wont even show during her wedding unless she tells people,its better to keep the baby and abortion is not allowed religiously ,she is not a true christian for requesting an abortion.

na wetin i be wen talk ooo, his kind of christian wen dey hid do the thing,, god don catch her, abeg make she no kill that baby oooo, becos god go vex more.

@ADAM you have said the truth but try to take it easy with the lady involve.
Like i said befor, a lesson for other girls out there, the way and manner they abort babies is uncalled for, what i asked is if they were aborted by their mother will they be born to earth?? i pity the girl shall but i think she need to cry to God for forgiveness first befor thinking of having a child.

it means tha jesus birthday was presumed, i think it's better for christian to do the work of God than abiding to this christmas thing, the celebration does not even signify Jesus birth, that day is a day where people do all sort of drastrus and useless themselves in club and with alcholic, even non christians celebrat it more, so i don't think a true true believer of the gosper of jesus christ should even fancy or celebrate christmas at all.

strange but true, dont stop calling dem it might be that they feel calling u regular is no longer funny as befor, not only becos u ve a baby but also becos u are married. try to call them still don4t just conclude that it's becos of ur baby. old friend are old friend.

na today!!!!

so sad, i read that this morning on the onlinenigeria web page. i wonder what is has come over those killers.

Are girls in the house reading this thread? it's quit touching but i know that God can STILL make things work out for both of u, a doctors has told some1 i know a things like this, but at the end the lady still got pregnant, although it all depense on her age, it hurts when i read stories like this because each time i come across threads like[b]my boyfriend said i should abort the baby[/b] , i feel pity for girls who falls in the hands of heartless boyfriends that think only for themselves( see what is happening to ur wife now, she did lots of aborting for some nasty not wort it guys in the past, today she found a guy that wort it but having problems in giving him a baby. Like i said befor, if u love ur wife go for her and win her back home, marriage is not only for making kids, if u so desire to have kids and want the happiness of ur wife u both could adopt, it's dsame thing a child is a child, biological or adopted.
I wish u good luck why trying to get her back.

Is it normal to invest 250k in purchasing an equity trust fund from the IBTC chatered bank, after 1 year of the investment u decided to tarminate it for an argent reason, and the bank could only give u back 185k telling u that the global credit crunch affected the nigeria economic, and that they could not help giving more than 185k, i see myself to be a big loser, i ve lost 65k of my own money, no profit i don't understand this is hapening to me

A friend who is a nairaland member introduced it to me, It's a fun place, a must be a member site 

Lil J:
sista, sista, kila gbe, ki le n ju, wetin i talk wey pass my mouth?
abi the poster na ur brother? why puttin up a defence for him, wey we go put hands togeda scold this wicked guy
afta takin advantage of d poor girl, I'm wan come pursue her, haba,

U make me laugh, i no say u talk anything wen pass ur mouth, i just dey asked weder u know the poster, u be real funny person shall, i hale ooo.

It's not a new thing, most men are like that, my hubby use to help in doing some house work, he prepares his breakfast for himself but the bed arranging stuff i do it because he wakes up earlier than me, u can make him adjust his not giving u a helping hand at home habit, try to talk with him while u guys ll be on bed, men listen to their wife more when they are on bed. show him a big smile, feel his skin in a slow mode befor bringing up the topic, if u see that he is not please with ur discussion forget about it and continue to do the house work. ONE question are u working? if no there is no need expecting that ur hubby will help in the house work. u can try to arrange his breakfast on the table at night befor going to bed so that u will not ned to wake up that early to prepare him, after all i don't see any reason why a man can not prepare his breakfast himself.

For the second round thing don't u think he is too tired after work, if he try to do 1 round e try na, abi? take it easy wit him, u re surposed to know him perfectly well in this area befor marrying him.

A man is someone who can take responsibility, provide for his family, hard working, show respect, walk away from a fight, moralistic, Treat his woman right, be able to defend himself, be himself and above all be a good role model for his children.

almost every1 that is close to me has oneway or the other enjoyed it.

God forbid, do u know how he got initiated?? Well i will do my best to make him hate and desist from that evil act, anyway if he knows God he will not find himself in this act, draw urself and ur child closer to God by the time he start hear the word of God he will repent from homosexuality.

What on earth could make a woman wash her husband's car when there is public car wash station? na love or madness?  for me i do clean inside only because of how our kids eat and drop things, as for washing the car my hubby does that in the car wash station.

hanen:
Wow. This is a tough one. . . Let me see.

But you're probably right. The man owns the kid. After all, his contribution isn't just easiest part of having a baby. The woman is just a delivery van. I mean, she JUST carries it for 9 months, and then pushes it out, and then feeds it. All that crap is IRRELEVANT. Do you know how much EFFORT the man put into spawning that kid? She shouldn't feel the need to claim an equal custody on her child. What is she thinking? The audacity!!!

/end sarcasm

You surprised me, are u really a woman? do u really know what it takes to carry a baby for good 9 months and bring him to a new world let me tell u something, a woman can kill her baby during delivering how? ok, imagin u close ur legs very tight just when he baby is head comes out don't u think the baby could die?? again haven't u heard how some women died during giving birth to a baby and the baby will survive?? Have u ever held that a man died only becos his wife couldn't deliver their baby, i am not saying it's right for a woman to claim a child to herself cos i believe that a child need his both parents, except in a different case. i advice u add respect when talking to mothers, it's not as easy as u mentioned here.

The woman is just a delivery van. I mean, she JUST carries it for 9 months, and then pushes it out, and then feeds it.

Do u know how breast feeding affected many women?? Most women with flat breat is as a result of breast feeding. b/4 u have a baby u see ur beautiful round oranged shape or apple breast, ur sweet flat tommy, Just once a baby got feed by the breast it loses shape even if it's not complete but it can't remain Dsame and the tommy looks biger with stresh marks and all that. does having a baby affect a man's look?? NON, again a man can deny to be responssible for a pregnancy, but a woman NON, why becos she is the one carrying the baby, u can qoute me if u think i am wrong cos i like learning new things i don't know thank u.

U have heard it all, u can get married in a court without inviting people it wont cost u anything much, OR do the pay bride price thing, God will bless ur marriage, it doesn't matter if is not the priste, I too got maried in the court and my marriage is a blessed one, so try and go and register ur thing and do it in a cool way.