₦airaland Forum

Lil J:
Nawao, nothing wey we no go see 4 nairaland, when we talk now them go say we get bad mouth, abi?
u be ole n olosha, single girl bunkin wt single guy, afta u don chop am for 6 months, u wan make she begin go, go where u r on your own, carry ur cross

why did u come to this conclusion, do u know the poster? it's not even all about having bad mouth, be sur u know him oo

Both owns the baby, it's true that a woman could lose her life while giving birth, why her husbands life continues, with the way pregnancy and birth given is painfull and risky to a woman's life, a woman can claim it but i don't see any sence after all she can't form a baby without her man.

kokoye:
I still kind of feel she did it on purpose - because she did not want anyone to know she was pregnant. _{could be wrong but this oyinbo people are crazy}

you may be right, there is a Belgium couple that sold their baby via internet to holland couple, they didn't tell how much money during their internet chat. OYIBO can do undo, OYIBO no get fear of God oooo,

snazzydown:
i know is beautiful but would u have to have only ur wife/husband for the rest of ur life?

YES if one has to respect the meaning of marriage. i see and understand it as a traditional union of one man and one woman. for better and for worse.

whatever90:
i don't like u does not mean i hate u,i just dislike d way u act smtimes

like coming at me when i did not even ask for ur trouble

I hear u. , and u think i liked d way u sounded at my thread?? anyway lets call it a past, i hope i am out of ur way in this nairaland, thank u.

i feel so good today because i passed my driving practical text after failing it twice. then after hubby took us to a bam resturant to celebrate my new driver licence so so

chika98:
lmfao! E be like sey the girl likes you oh

Am i surposed to hate her?

whatever90:
why did she not also by-pass my post?must she quote me?person wey wan correct person dey guilty of d same mistake,i don't like her so make she carrry her self comot ojare,make i attend to better people

Thank God u hate me, but that doesn't mean i should hate u in return, we are not in a war field here, who are the better people for u in 9raland? are u really sure u like yourself? if yes do u remember what the bible told us about loving our neighbour as ourselves?? so plz stop saying u hate someone, if possible u can say u hate the person's character not his being.

whatever90:
sorry poster,don't mean to be rude,but this qstion of urs is a very stupid qstion,and for that reason deserves this stupid reply i just posted

such qstions shouldnt even be asked,i don't do negativity,so get behind me u jobless woman

U TOO LIKE PROBLEM, MUST U REPLY HER POST? WHY NOT BYPASS IT IF U DO NOT LIKE THE CONTENT, NA WAO FOR U OOO, NO WONDER

Angolobabe:
My Favourite friend is GOD because he nevers fails me.

THIS ONE NA LIKE DAY AND NIGHT OOO U DEY COME I DEY GO FUNNY

Angolobabe:
mmm this is tough but considering that ur husband have a good business in nigeria and can give u and ur kids a good life in nigeria ,family should always come first,staying in UK without husband will destroy ur marriage and ur kids will grow up without there father which will affect them in the long round.
i think u and ur husband should sit down and discuss this issue, citizenship wont garantee u a better life.

wHER U DEY HID? I AM LOOKING FOR U EVERYWHERE FOR THE GOOD NEWS

It's very sad to hear that a nice lady of ur type that has good intention for marriage had it with a nonchalant, selfish and self centered man like ur hubby. i think u should try to be yourself it's not a easy situation but God will give u the strienght to take a right decition. it's soo

I advice u to go back to ur husband if really both of u really love each other as u claimed, distance can distroy feelings, and for ur kids, they need to also feel dad's love closer than it will be great for them to grow up with both parents, i live in the europe i know how difficult u re facing with these kids alone, it's not very easy to raise up kids how much more doing it alone. forget about paper thing, they will always have it in as long as they were born there. maybe u should register ur reason of relocating back to 9ja befor moving to avoid future stress.
Good luck.

That is one thing i hate and will never do it no matter how angry i am with hubby, if my husband cannot raise his hands up to slap me so why should i do that to him?? is not right anyway, be it the husband/wife we should try to ve selfcontrol when we are angry period.

Rendering help to the once that needed it most, ex:education, clothing etc.

chisomquee:
God

Na You win pass!!

which one be honeymoon again.abeg make she enter house make we look for money live.

lolsssssssssss u are funny, @ topic i think honeymoon is just a way to loose money to hotels and all that, the most important day is the day the ring goes in the hand, But if the couples enough, i mean sufficent money to give to hotel why not, as long as they are pleased with it .mejority of couples that fancy this honeymoon stuff are super stars. na only honeymoon, why not honeysun 

igwe 1:
Virus

very true, i don't take the risk clicking on this kind of links, @poster why didn't u write anythin just gave a link
Anyway i will say that to have an abortion is not a right, but a woman can decide werther to keep or abort a child.

there is no Serious commitment yet between the both of u, AND u are scared she might fall for her landlord son when u will be away why?? Do u know what u may come across in ur destination?? If u are hiding ur journey from her for some reasons best known to u GOOD, but don't be scared for her. time will decide for itself. If u really love her u can marry her befor travelling, i mean paying her bride price won't cost u anything if money is the issue.

How many boys don travel leave their girlfriend and end up been the heart breaker hope u wont ve one of them.

OLAADEGBU:
That is a good observation. The Bible puts it precisely below:

"Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands." Proverbs 14:1

But this doesn't means men should take their wifes forgranted, as the head of the family i think men should put more effort to save their home than wifes does

ahaha,  i can see how strange u are now.

what do u think about naming the boys in the family by a name called DEVIL or EVIL this will make me respect how strange u are

[quote author=d_oracle link=topic=126486.msg2139272#msg2139272 date=1207834131]we all have someone so very close to our hearts. Who is yours? [/quote]I thought the topic sais who is ur favourite friend, not who are ur favourite friends
@everyone, make one choice abi e too hard??

for me my favourit friend is J-E-S-U-S

be ur normal self and do things rightly.

I don catch u, so no be only me don tell u to walk out of my thread, ur yach don exposed lollllllllllllllllsssssssss

@ Bust_body: thanks for exposing her

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Too much hassle for her. So she's sticking to making sure her kids have good names. But definitely the boys in my family will be named after my brother the destroyer
I kindda like the name Lucifer or rather more specifically the name Lucien (a variation) means Light Bearer or bearer of Light
Lucifer in greek mythology means morning star. Same as i like the name Diablo [/color]

Please don't name boys in ur family after a distroyer brother, is it a good thing to call someone a destroyer? abeg give the boys goos name, they mustn't be like their brother.

You seem to like names with strange meaning, Diablo is not a nice name my hubby's aunty has a black cat called Lint, be became wicked for no reason so they change her name to Diablo.

origina9ja:
oluwadamilola that mi name
nd me proud love me self

@ poster
i don't think its a good idea to name a child according to what is going on around you.

you are right, it's a old school thing, parents do it those days though

If these kind of things don't take place how will the prophesy of Jesus Christ come to pass??

2 Peter 2:1-3: False Bible teachers would be money hungry. They would be smooth talkers, have many followers, and slur the Christian faith
"Like wetin dey happen these days with some pastors." Cant they spread the wealth to those motherless home or build free educational centers.

Homosexuality would be increasingly evident at the end of the age (2 Timothy 3:3)
the rate of homosexuality today is a prove.

Deadly diseases would be prevalent (Matthew 24:7). )
The worldwide increase in AIDS deaths is almost inestimable.
Over 160,000 Americans die of cancer each year. Many more evidence to prove that the endtime is here but still no 1 knows the time.

Christians shouldn't be ignorant of the truth, they should read more of their bible not only listening to the words of pastors and all that, forgetting that on the last day, Pastor go answer him papa name.

i can see why u deeper life are so primitive and backward. If u as a follow u will only
recognised ur kumuyi as the only man of God in the whole world.I wonder why u even came to the cybercafe when u people do not watch tv.He ask not to buy tv so that u can remain in ur primitive life.Very soon he will tell u not to use gsm because it it a sin .Any case u are u to decided who is a true man of God and who is not.U better drop ur primitive behavour and follow the bible and stop jurging people.I prayer God should forgive for critising a true man of God

You are doing thesame mistake as @ Poster did, why are u judging that Kumuyi asked them not to watch TV?? do u think watching TV has anything to do with been primitive? u should know that Kumuyi is a Math Lecturer in the universasity of Lagos he is not a primitive man and did not teach primitiveness to his members.

@ poster, Please try and withdraw the topic because it is wrong to judge in this manner, it's true that many men of God are not showing good example as Christ did, This is why we should be careful with the kind of temple we go to worship our God, let the spirit of God direct u to a true church but don't insult any1 all in the name of claiming to be the bast Christian.

OBVIOUS:
Good point made Horus and Gamine. Actually, if you're poor in Nigeria, rather than blame be on the corrupt

politicans and co who exploit the innocent masses, it is believed that the witches and wizards are after you, or that

you're not praying hard enough. In fact, some pastors recommend that you should fast until you reach the point of

death. If you complete all these instructions and still you are still poor. The evil powers are strong, and its either u're

committing or have commited a sin, your family members are after you, or that u're just not "holy" enough, and the

bogus continues until you get money some way (legal or through illegal means) and then give a testimony/ then continue

the cycle, pay your tithes or else, god may not bless you again.

Take a look at W.F. Kumuyi, a real man of God very humble and Giving nothing but the true doctrim of our Lord Jesus christ, he is a good example of Jesus nowadays disciple. Deeper life is the only church i ve seen that people are regards as equal, i mean both poor and rich, i feel there is God in that church, there is no fashion compitition, no rich sit in front while poor at the back in the church or telling congregation to pay a good offering, u will feel free in that church, they sometime do donation for some poor people who are not able to feed and do visiting brethren alots.
If one really want to follow God that place is good, PASTOR KUMUYI teach straightforward Bible-based message his preaching is really devine and Christians living and holiness is very serious and important to him.

I think there are some few good men of God out there, Just pray to God for him to direct u to the right place of worship.

OMO IBO:
SMH @ these 'born again' people.
u better accept the guy the way he is or buggar off.

u don't go into marriage hoping and praying to change someone. I don dey tire for these 'sisters and brother' in the Lord.

You just wake up from sleep? wetin sister/brothers in the lord do u?

I was wondering why christmas is said to be the birthday of Jesus christ when the bible stated that there was no record of the day/month/year he was born. Do real christians suposed to celebrate this thing called Christmas? read this articles and tell us what u think.


How Did Christmas Come to Be Celebrated on December 25?

A. Roman pagans first introduced the holiday of Saturnalia, a week long period of lawlessness celebrated between December 17-25. During this period, Roman courts were closed, and Roman law dictated that no one could be punished for damaging property or injuring people during the weeklong celebration. The festival began when Roman authorities chose “an enemy of the Roman people” to represent the “Lord of Misrule.” Each Roman community selected a victim whom they forced to indulge in food and other physical pleasures throughout the week. At the festival’s conclusion, December 25th, Roman authorities believed they were destroying the forces of darkness by brutally murdering this innocent man or woman.

B. The ancient Greek writer poet and historian Lucian (in his dialogue entitled Saturnalia) describes the festival’s observance in his time. In addition to human sacrifice, he mentions these customs: widespread intoxication; going from house to house while singing naked; rape and other sexual license; and consuming human-shaped biscuits (still produced in some English and most German bakeries during the Christmas season).

C. In the 4th century CE, Christianity imported the Saturnalia festival hoping to take the pagan masses in with it. Christian leaders succeeded in converting to Christianity large numbers of pagans by promising them that they could continue to celebrate the Saturnalia as Christians.[2]

D. The problem was that there was nothing intrinsically Christian about Saturnalia. To remedy this, these Christian leaders named Saturnalia’s concluding day, December 25th, to be Jesus’ birthday.

E. Christians had little success, however, refining the practices of Saturnalia. As Stephen Nissenbaum, professor history at the University of Massachussetts, Amherst, writes, “In return for ensuring massive observance of the anniversary of the Savior’s birth by assigning it to this resonant date, the Church for its part tacitly agreed to allow the holiday to be celebrated more or less the way it had always been.” The earliest Christmas holidays were celebrated by drinking, sexual indulgence, singing naked in the streets (a precursor of modern caroling), etc.

F. The Reverend Increase Mather of Boston observed in 1687 that “the early Christians who first observed the Nativity on December 25 did not do so thinking that Christ was born in that Month, but because the Heathens’ Saturnalia was at that time kept in Rome, and they were willing to have those Pagan Holidays metamorphosed into Christian ones.”[3] Because of its known pagan origin, Christmas was banned by the Puritans and its observance was illegal in Massachusetts between 1659 and 1681.[4] However, Christmas was and still is celebrated by most Christians.

G. Some of the most depraved customs of the Saturnalia carnival were intentionally revived by the Catholic Church in 1466 when Pope Paul II, for the amusement of his Roman citizens, forced Jews to race naked through the streets of the city. An eyewitness account reports, “Before they were to run, the Jews were richly fed, so as to make the race more difficult for them and at the same time more amusing for spectators. They ran… amid Rome’s taunting shrieks and peals of laughter, while the Holy Father stood upon a richly ornamented balcony and laughed heartily.”[5]

H. As part of the Saturnalia carnival throughout the 18th and 19th centuries CE, rabbis of the ghetto in Rome were forced to wear clownish outfits and march through the city streets to the jeers of the crowd, pelted by a variety of missiles. When the Jewish community of Rome sent a petition in1836 to Pope Gregory XVI begging him to stop the annual Saturnalia abuse of the Jewish community, he responded, “It is not opportune to make any innovation.”[6] On December 25, 1881, Christian leaders whipped the Polish masses into Antisemitic frenzies that led to riots across the country. In Warsaw 12 Jews were brutally murdered, huge numbers maimed, and many Jewish women were raped. Two million rubles worth of property was destroyed.

I think u should marry him the way he is and keep praying for God to touch him, don't force him to repent, believing in God alone is a good thing for him, with ur prayer and time he will do better.

Some people here say the poster is judging servants of God Doesn't the bible say, we should beware of false prophets?? and didn't the bible said in Matt 24:5 that For many shall come in my name, saying I am Christ and shall deceive many.   ? If we are ignorant of what most pastor do, we are then not follwing the instruction of Jesus christ.

I went to Christ embassy Benin branch years back, it was offering time, the pastor said

Do not give coins to God, if u give him coins he will give u coins, but if u give him note, he will give u note

i mean is this really what God asked them to do, i didn't feel the presence of God in that place i stop attending that church. i am not saying there is no God in Christ embassy, it all depense on who is heading each branch, same to other churches.

@POSTER let the spirit of God direct ur heart to the right place of worship, God judgement is on any pastor that is using his name to distrol others. they are suposed to win souls to God instead they win NAME and wealth for themselves.

I wonder if they do donate to motherless home, Jesus Christ was not as fashionist as they are, they drive the most expensive cars and wear the most expensive clothes, all in the name of[b]"our God is not a poor God". [/b]