Body4life:
Please, who knows when Immigration Service, NSCDC and Correctional service are doing recruitment?

If it's public recruitment you're speaking of, they'll conduct one next year. As for replacement, it's going on right now, if you have way push, three of my friends got their letters last Friday.

neoclassical:
Corruption is now a normal thing in Nigeria.
Buying and selling of job opportunity is now part of our life and no one sees it as corruption.
Godfatherism has now replaced merit and everyone is comfortable with it.
Jobs now go to the highest bidder, no exam, no oral interview, it is all about about money.
Yet, some people think this country will change for good.
How will there be increase in productivity, when merit and excellence have been traded on the altar of nepotism?
It is now a norm in Nigeria. Going to School is to fulfill the righteousness of getting the paper called certificate, then you look for a godfather or money to buy job.
Those who promised us CHANGE and the corruption fighters are now worse in the game.
Gush. There was indeed a country.

When they said CHANGE, and they outline all the changes they were going to change, they didn't outline a plan for said change, and it was hogwash from the get go anyway because, it's the same people who created the mess we're in that are promising us 'change' isn't this playing? 😂😂. Change is an empty promise that never held any value whatsoever because it can mean anything but true change and it will still be...change, never understood why y'all believed in it so much.

Wealthoptulent:

those who have 2 or more didnt die after their first BAGGING, so u no fit die, e jus dey do u like it ni
i am in LECTURING line, i had 2 to 3 back then in school, but it didnt stop me from becoming Who fit award Students carry over TODAY, but in my 9 years in the line i never dash anyone sha.
Ur case can't be worse than the case below init?

👀👀

Saintinoo:
I never knew that I will one day write about this, because, of all the advice I have been given, I taught it was love in the air.

Some months ago, I created a thread about how I can't get over my girlfriend and another thread where I confirmed that she was a narcissist. But now, I have not only confirmed that I dated a covert narcissist for four solid years, but I have come to learn a lot about narcissism and how to unmask them. Sadly, we have more narcissist both male and female going into serious relationships.
White you are thinking about the problems in your relationship, the fights everyday, the mental abuse etc, you might just be in a relationship with a narcissist and that is the worst thing that can happen to anybody.

HOW DO NARCISSISTS GET THEIR VICTIMS.

Be it male or female narcissist, they hunt for their victims same way. A narcissist targets an empath, they target people who have something they do not have, learn empathy from you just to use it against you.

They portray themselves as the best thing that can happen to you after egusi soup. Yes, my narc ex portrayed those traits, that wife material characteristics, godly and prayerful, dress decent and act same. Do not be deceived, they know that is what you want in a woman so they give it to you for the while.

They will always talk about forever with you, bring so many fairly tails and give you the soul mate feeling, this you will believe you have found a wife or a husband, then you start making marriage's preparation. They have successfully made you commit. Mine always use this word "forever is the goal". All these is to make you commit and when you have committed, they start the abuse stage.

The narcissist common aim, be it male or female is to get you trauma bonded to them. Trauma bond is a situation when you excuse abuse from someone, go back to your abuser because you are afraid to lose them. I cannot count the number of times I went back to apologize for doing nothing, that is trauma bond working for her.

The narcissist will never apologize for their wrong at the later part of the relationship, they will do wrong, and expect you to take it, when you try to speak up, they give you the silent treatment as a punishment. Yea,because they have groomed their victims so much through the various love bombing stages. I was given silent treatment every time, and yes,after going a week of waiting to see if she will apologize for her wrong, I end up saying sorry. I was groomed during the earlier days to not do without her.

The narcissist will love bomb you at the early stage of your relationship, this is not genuine love,it is a tactics to get you used to them and whenever you try to leave and think of the past memories, you will have no choice than to run back to them until they are ready to discard you. In my case,she calls every day to check on me, would spend over an hour with me on phone, gave me pet names and showed the world that she truly loved me. Those were all lies.

WHAT WENT WRONG BETWEEN I AND MY NARC EX.

For me, i thought she was the last bus stop, in fact I had been planning how our wedding even though I had limited funds at that time, I was ready to go against anybody just to wed my soulmate. But then, this problem keep coming. I felt someone was trying to control me, someone was doing wrong and do not apologize. We kept fighting almost every week, and yes, I kept apologising.

Early this year, I called her to discuss marriage plan, she disagreed with everything and went completely mute, I called the next day to resolve and ask for her opinion, she still went mute, the silent treatment increased. I vowed I am done and will not contact her again, went no contact. After two month, I saw her pic somewhere, and since I was trauma bonded to her and didn't heal completely, I went back begging her for over a week. That is was being trauma bond to a narcissist does, it completely makes you their slave.

During the cause of the discard from my narc ex, she knew that I have been trauma bonded to her and the sight of her pic will bring back memories, she used what is called " flying monkeys " to make me see her pics and believe that I will keep rushing back to beg her, because she enjoy all the abuse.

HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT YOU DATING A NARCISSIST; if you do any of those thing I did, you are dating a narcissist.

1. I beg for her attention when she gives silent treatment.
2. I felt like she is just the one.
3. I do not look at any other lady not even a friendly look because all my attention was around her.
4. Her eyes goes dark when she is angry.
5. She shouts and insults to any extent when angry.
6. When she wrongs me and I refuse to call and apologize for reacting, maybe for 5 days or a week, she rages in anger.
7. She belittles me when she is angry, this is a common trait with a narc, male or female.
8. From her story, during our love days, and from my findings her dad is a narc. Pls try and know your lover parent, narc is hereditary.


Did I talk about how I later confirm that my Darling angel was a terrible covert narcissist.

Early this year, I had a neighbor whose 2 years old daughter exhibited the same traits my ex exhibited, the anger, the manipulation, the gaslighing, everything.

Finally, narcissists are demonic, look for these red flags in your relationship and end the relationship the minute you confirm that you date is a narc, there is no changing them, I tried and got hurt. The narc know what he/she is doing.

Narcissism is hereditary and they are born that way, they keep getting worse by the day, so best is to avoid them.

Drops pen.

Her eyes goes dark when she is angry? please explain this place, is it all dark until the white disappear or what do you mean?

johnog4sure:
Another thing is, stop teaching its super boring, anybody can learn anything on youtube, and the internet, where we separate the boys from the men is putting an open source project on github and ask every of your student to contribute, the unserious once will ease out, the serious will become geniuses

This is the truth untold, most people think when they finish watching a 20 hour 0-to-Hero tutorial, they've actually become heroes. If only, if only.

PedoBear:
They're gradually getting rid of la cows


Kudos to the Nigerian air force at least they did something worthwhile

The day your whole family dies and the person who is responsible calls it a 'mistake' you'll remember this your worthwhile comment. You sorry excuse of a human being.

ddugeri:

Thanks for your advice, i really appreciate, well am thinking of risking it bcus he works in the presidency and one of those Tinubu's boys, he has come true for two of my friends. He said they gave him 1 slot for ndic and 1 slot for NFIU, so i choose ndic

Am I the only one who 👀 what I 👀 in this post? 🤔

lordkash123:
Good morning to all the bosses in the house

I just chop breakfast recently from ICPC, don't know if you do medical and passed appointment letter no sure 😅, e shock me. Although I no get connection sha.

Make una help my career 🙏

The innalillahi situation has struck again (happened to me earlier this year, and I had connect 😭), my brother. Take heart. It is written in the Holy Qur'an 'One hardship, two reliefs.' Have faith and power on to the next level.

Mohisah:
This one sef no be greed. Na breach of trust & contract. He/she don successfully block others from gettin such grace of slot dat won't require upfront payment.
The HR suppose order for his arrest for forgery of Apl😅

This kind of self-sabotage amazes me everytime I come across something like it and the thing is, I keep seeing more and more stories like this everyday.
I keep thinking, what is biting someone in the rear that they would do themselves wrong by themselves? Who do you blame after?
May Allah help us avoid self-sabotage, Allahumma ameen.

Xtruzz:
You are here reading this message. You pleaded APL and verification before you can make payment in raw materials at Maiatama. Out of pity. They agreed to help you hoping you’ll pay.
APL was sent to you after 6weeks of receiving your dry CV. You printed the APL in colored thinking you are smart. You verified it, you played smart to commence documentation after verifying the genuity without payment or keeping your word. You were asked at the documentation venue to produce the original APL before signing in. There you hocked. You are now pleading with your connect to forgive you for being smart and you will double the payment. Your name has been replaced. If make pim, I’ll mention your details here…

Aha, if the deal falls through and there's a way to exchange his name on that paper, I'd like to volunteer myself 🤓

Musty4ahmed1:
Is the labour demand for data analyst high? Where are they mostly needed?

I am already an analyst, I work contract gigs, that's how I survive while waiting for job from Allah. The math is not that shaking the world, it's mostly automated. DA is one of those jobs AI cannot replace without human help so, need I say more?

Mohisah:
Lol sm people are not too good with calculation. I hope data analysis be easy for his transition

But he's in finance, right? I thought there'd be some cal going on with that 🤔

Herdamorlar:
Did I still have hope of getting a federal govt job or a good private job at 37yrs old in Nigeria? I am already losing hope. I have an M.sc in Finance and I am just managing with warehouse work salary I am earning. Please help your brother here before I lose the fight

I'd switch to Data Analysis if I were you, it will be a helluva easy transition for you because of your background in finance. Backgroundless people have been able to switch in 3 months sef, image how easier it will be for you.

Amotolongbo:
You can buy them laptops to help their ministries.

FYI, their laptops were part of the assets they sold in Nigeria for them to ger there

And the iPhone's they are holding?

Julius223pounds:





Okay...but the link is not connecting. Please can you copy the link from the group and drop it here?

Link won't work cause NL uses URL shortener to dead WhatsApp links, try it and see for yourself sha 👉[https:///JDAO3ZYDVLfKPkoBPg2a0U] remove the spaces from my precious quote and jam the URL together in one long scribble, launch in Chrome please.

Julius223pounds:


I clicked on it but isn't responding. Please how do I use the link?

I saw your DM, so I DM'ed the link back

fail:
Comprehension is something else

😂😆🤭

westlius:

My dear my turn don come
U know how many people I have helped in this life without expecting or getting anything in return.

So you have helped many people, that was then, this is now. Although I totally understand the wisdom as to why you didn't help him.

Julius223pounds:


Okay, thank you a lot.
Please can you send the link of the Telegram group to me?

https://chat. whatsapp.com/
JDAO3ZYDVLfKPkoBPg2a0U

destinybbk:

I was able to login successfully.

Congratulations, you're the second one today 😆

Julius223pounds:
Please did anyone receive this mail from the FGN-ALAT Digital Skillnovation Programme?

Towards the end of the message, they said we should use our email and the password provided to log into our Dashboard to start the training.
If you check the mail very well, password was not provided, I tried to click on forgotten password to change it. The response was your password has been sent to your Inbox or Spam, I checked and there is nothing there.

Please did anyone here receive the message and he/she is experiencing the same thing?

Everyone received, the password is 'password' but no one has been able to log in yet (there's this telegram group with 500+ ppl inside and no one has been able to log in) let's wait a few days and see what happens first.

Magnoliaa:
Okay, so let me get this straight: when Nairalanders contribute their bizarre, strange, unusual and otherwise suggestions, what will now happen?

You will share the link to this thread with your friend? Or you'll help them call a family meeting? Abi you will tell your "friend" you posted on some site, and you got feedback? Abi you'll sit your friend down to give him tips on how to save her?


What is your business with her? Why are you so invested?

He likes her and wants to 'save' her for himself, obviously. That's if the story is even real. Friends of rich people are by extension rich themselves and don't have time spilling the beans on SM.

folake4u:
If I boil water for you, you go trip for me.

Folake, billionaire's are extinct in Nigeria o. You better enter YouTube and learn how to cook o, ehn.

Skyfornia:
White yam and sauce...

White and not Green, haba. You must learn to cook purple yam by fire by force! Na joke I dey joke o 😆

Lukepeter:

Like how much averagely to buy a Job, I wan sell my property.

I have no idea, sir.
I don't sell job,
I have no idea who does as well.
I have looked and only encountered scammers.
A tip I picked up from this thread is don't pay anything until you've confirmed from HR the authenticity of your letter and done documentation.
May Allah shower us all with his grace and mercies, ameen.

Saintinoo:
You see this FG job, I have no connect, not even 1G, but I believe I will get it. Connect go come.

For all of us, ameen.

PlsBanMe:
If NCE is earning more than degree that NCE must have worked for years and must have been on a level higher than the degree holder. At entry level, NCE can't earn up to a degree holder.

What he meant by levelling up is that the degree holder (if he did not study education) must do a PGD in education. Please understand that there are many people with degree in education that's in the system. Are you now saying they too will earn less than an NCE holder?

Every teacher either degree or NCE are expected to sit for TRCN exam but there are many in the system that are yet to sit for it.

I stand on my earlier stand that an NCE holder at entry level is placed on level 7 while degree holder is placed on level 8. Therefore the degree holder earn more.

Its a path I have walked.

Consider me thoroughly enlightened, thanks for taking the time to explain it out to me.
Guess my friends are salary inflation pedlars 😂😂

PlsBanMe:
Maybe you served in a wealthy state like Lagos or Rivers or perhaps FCT . Most secondary school teachers in Nigeria today who just joined don't earn 50k and that's a fact. And you are not even correct with this your info. No way NCE will earn more than degree in teaching. Degree will start on level 8. NCE will start at level 7. So degree earn more than NCE.

I served in the north, believe me I asked the same question. How come NCE earn more than degree entry level teaching. Principal told me it's because NCE are already qualified teachers, that to level up, the BSC are supposed to get one certificate of teaching like that.

PlsBanMe:
The person heading that department is probably earning less than 170k even after 30 years in service.

The person telling you that is Chief Liar!

I believe you, looks like he did come to oppress me like I suspected, but wait o. These your numbers have shocked me.
I served NYSC in a secondary school (state owned) and the lowest paid teacher there was earning 65k (entry level with degree) with NCE was more than that.

Amakachris95:

Thank you so much. I live in Abuja with my family

May Allah shower you with favour in his infinite mercy soon, ameen.

POLS:


170k for state....?..
What state is that please?
When a state is paying graduates (level 8 step 2) #45000

North, na revenue department he get and it's supposed to pay well, or he could be lying and wanted to oppress me 😩

Amakachris95:
Been so long here. I was touched to come here again. Please my destiny helper, locate me. Help me with a federal government job. Please 🙏🙏 I want to be busy, I don’t want to be idle 🙏🙏🙏

State nko? (don't misunderstand o, I'm asking simple question) cause yesterday someone came to show me letter from state, said the pay na 170k per month. Maybe try hustling state first, you'd be surprised what some of your family members/neighbours can link up to. From state, work your way up to federal using EH way possibly.