₦airaland Forum

Laurene:
Stay in your shithole country, we don't need you in India.

India calling another country shithole.
Naija don suffer😄

AndrewTate:
It's just pure foolishness to keep thinking because it's more of one tribe that are always caught doing things like this then they will bear the shame alone... You think an indian man who reads this and meets a hausa or yoruba man tomorrow will be happy with them because they're not from that tribe?
Foreigners don't give one f about that... You're all Nigerians and that's it!
It's high time we face the truth and fact that the higher percentage of Nigerians in general are grossly dishonest even though religion is such a big deal here.
That's what the description of the average Nigerian is whether you like it or not... It's reality!!!

Especially Yorubas and Igbos, Hausas and Fulanis are somewhat honest

The flaw in the plan: you'd have to be sleeping with someone that disgusts you for years, pretending you love her. The obese and exremely jealous "hambeast" will quickly know your game, hate you for it and do all she can to sabotage you.
Better plan: work hard illegally and pay someone or pay a lawyer to arrange someone.
Another plan: marry for real - if you can find someone you want who also wants you

Larrywoo23:
Adults only please! No long talk, i seriously need a nice sugar mummy that can take good care of me and I'll service her with all my power in return. I'm 24 and very neat in and out with a really good 😌 gbola satisfied enough. Dear mama, please locate me, I'm ready to be your dog. Age of 30/50 my number 07089676028
Watsapp line. ‪+1 (913) 735‑5731
Name:David Larry
Age: 23
Location: egbeda / iyana ipaja
Hookup age: 30/50
Hookup location: around egbeda or Lagos axis

@bolded, you can't even get your age straight and I'm supposed to DM you!

Cooleasy:
Is there any man here who has ever been called by a lady through this process?
Any single case?

I am just trying to have an idea whether this process works for anyone or some people.

As you can see, the answer is NO!
All wasting their time.
Not ONE single testimonial!

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NeoWanZaeed:
Trump isn't a Christian
USA isn't a Christian nation
Israel isn't a Christian nation

Get that into your skull asslickers

And what good is "Christian nation" when Nigeria, the number one Christian AND Moslem nation in the world is also the most corrupt!

Massiveglory:
No druggie will lead Nigeria. The embrassment will be much more than this.

Everybody has been saying the same thing as shown below

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bc6COWi65hU

Katcall:
hmm. may your wisdom never run dry

As a man, when in a relationship with a woman try to always remember you are dealing with someone stronger (expert in all sorts of manipulations, sex utilization, emotional blackmail, guilt-tripping, gaslighting etc). If you take things lightly you don't stand a chance. What happens all the time will happen - the woman will have the real power, be in control of everything, while the man is the ceremonial head!

40Bullets:
Not TRUE...Not ALL Men

Not true at all. Depends on the circumstances. Sometimes no one believes a woman precisely because she is a woman, and many times women are also falsely accused. Why many women bear abuse in silence, because of non-belief and stigma

Hambivert:
Imo State have long time rejected the demonic APC.
In the upcoming Imo State gubernatorial polls, the Hopeless Uzodinma will come a distant 4th once again.
This time there would be no Supreme court to rule in his favour

Don't be so sure. You are talking a genius in rigging, the grandmaster of all riggers!

Persephone1:
This is you taking me back to 1400 where women are blamed for men's infidelity and promiscuity and I'm not biting.

A man is responsible for his actions and decisions just as a woman is. Take your debate to any group of mindless creatures you find.

1400 years ago a man could have as many wives/women as he could afford and who were willing, and men did just that - because that's how NATURE made them. Women on the other hand would rather sleep with just one man but be flirtatious and admired by lots of men. Now, you want men to curb their polygamous nature but women continue to maintain their flirtatious nature. The fair thing would be that women dress in that moslem black burka covering them head to toe!

Persephone1:
You may be right, I've seen ladies date married men. But you will be completely right if you say most married men leave married women alone.

Guys are digging married women big time and sometimes it isn't for money but fun.

There is something you are all missing - a woman can easily make herself unapproachable. By simply being consistenly formal, serious, and taciturn she will turn men away from her. Any man that tries her will quickly regret it.
Bottom line: it is women that control sex not men. Whenever sex happens just know it began with a woman displaying that she is open to it and available!

eazzzy1:
There’s nothing like one last sex, the sex will continue even in marriage.

Depending on how close they are and how the marriage goes.
Just accept you can't control what someone else does with their body

SundayNightGist:
Hmmmmmn! Too much sense...
So e mean say las las women no be weaker sex kankan then
Na wa!

At all. It is a great deception on men. All you have to do is look at when a child is living with his father and stepmother compared to when a child is living with his mother and stepfather. Women are stronger

Persephone1:

Open marriage in Nigeria, an Igbo man ooo . LoL 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 . Open marriage indeed!

Na people wey dey marry Nigerian men i hail!

Ok, maybe his wife is not fully aware of it, but if he says he's in an open marriage then he's in an open marriage
But let's be honest, most women will go after a man that has qualities they want, marriage or no marriage!
Most men on the other hand, leave married women alone

SundayNightGist:
Not neccessarily, but you and I both know that it's usually the men that initiate this move firt most of the time.
Abi I lie?

Maybe you are the only one who hasn't seen videos of single ladies saying they prefer married men.
The world in general tend to think women are less powerful than they really are. If you analyze things carefully you'd realise women are actually the stronger sex. If you always bear this in mind as a man you may be able to even things a bit.

A woman can seduce a man (sometimes easily) who doesn't even like her into sex. But a woman will not have sex with a man she doesn't like unless she's getting something she wants in exchange!

LeeSmart:
OP no vex oo, but why can't u be urself? own ur truth.. Which one be my friend will be reading this in the comment section haba.
Like i have said make u no vex o.

It's amazing how many friends there are on Nairaland.
And in many cases these friends know intimate things only the OP can possibly know!

Graceful101:
It seems moving on is the only option i have left. I will move on but i am deeply hurt.

Aww, I sympathise. Do you find writing hard?

Geekop:
Congratulations...
More Testimonies

This na the testimony nau

Congrats OP!
And also congrats for making front page for first time.

Original thread below

Slynation:
It's quite important, so many ladies in Nigeria are damaged beyond repair due to the advent of Yahoo...So it's quite necessary to confirm the womb is intact before delving into any marriage...

Modified : so who come resurrect this post after 13years 🤡🤡

I really wanted to know. I can be curious like that.
But I'm sure the OP is onto her tenth NL moniker by now, and has totally forgotten she once had a moniker called boomii

Hollyb:
I am older and wiser, but my answer still remains the same.

Wow, you deserve some sort of award for maintaining the same moniker all this time. I'm sure most of the other original commentors have even forgotten they once had those monikers.
As for your answer, well, no one else agrees with you.. Remember, there have been a dramatic increase in barrenness, rituals, yahoo plus, etc since you made your comment

Sooo, they are sleeping with married women and single ladies without their consent. They're raping them? Or you are leaving out one half of the equation?

Graceful101:
Your type will always find fault. Even if it were to be a man it is still not ok. It is never ok for any human with conscience to cheat anyone.
It is not fair that you will leave the topic at hand and start picking fault.

Awww, you sound hurt. I'm just tired of hearing that "a woman like me" add-on. A woman was just telling me how it pained her extra that a woman like her disappeared with their group money. Then I came online to see same line...
I sympathise with you. Try to forge ahead without regret. Things like this are bound to happen from time to time. Learn whatever lesson in it, then move beyond it. Other doors will open...

So learn how to boss her or it won't work. The minute she senses the way you fee about her (that she's superior to you), it's over

litigator:
Love is a drug. I whole new kinda high. It does way more shit to your dopamine and adrenaline than any other street drug ever would. It feels us with divine madness. And with every new hit comes this sweet crazy kinda heavenly feeling.

Of course. Why do you think Yahoo boys keep cashing out and it seems like magic?

litigator:
Life happens when you are not looking.

But have you sat up in the dark with a cup of coffee or vodka and wondered if this is who you are actually met to be?

Somedays, I am certain I am on the right part and life is fun. At other times, it sounds so monotonous and I am tired of the routine. I want something new.

Relationships shouldn't be this boring, right? No

But is this who we are met to be or become?

OP which one be "met to be" or is that some sort of a joke?

litigator:
Divorce is a legal process that brings the marriage contract between two individuals to an end. In Nigeria, divorce is a

Good one OP, and no clickbait
Keep it coming

Graceful101:
I wish i can but already in my mind i was going to use that money to buy my makeup and some other little stuff. My peace will be disturbed if a woman like me cheats me like that.

@bolded, I always hear this. So if a man cheated you it'll be a-ok?

Wagwanbrethren:
🤣
Wetin the guy dey even think sef, abi na too much India movie cause this one! 🤷‍♂️

Desperation. He figured he had a slight chance - better than outright suicide!

Nazgul:
Possible reasons why barrenness is more rampant these days include..

1. Multiple abortions

2. Side effects of drugs that delay menstruation. (Some girls use drugs to delay or stop their mensuration if they get hooked up with a big catch who's willing to pay them hugely). This is common with runs girls.

3. Side effects of long usage of postinor 2 and other pregnancy prevention pills.

4. Side effects of over treated STDs. When you keep contacting and treating gonorreha, syphilis, staphylococcus...etc, with time your reproductive system would begin to misbehave. You might start experience irregular mensural cycle, awful discharge, inability to conceive...etc.

5. Excessive intake of alcohol and drug abuse. Most girls these days consume more liquor and weed than guys. Unfortunately, this has a very terrible side effect on their kidneys, liver and womb.

To your second question how we can reconcile it back to Christianity...

Christianity in Africa is just business, churches are opened for the sole purpose of making money for the headquarters than salvation. Pastors align their messages to favour people so that they bring money.

Churches theses days don't preach about chaistity, they don't encourage young girls to go into their husbands house as Virgins. What you should know is that churches are breeding grounds for sexual immorality.

From the choir, to the youths, to members, everyone has someone they're nacking. These days, people go to church for the sole purpose of getting a girlfriend and not to hear the word of God.

Wow, you said it all!
As for the church thing, you are right, but I mean you yourself as an individual - how do you reconcile the two. See, it is one thing to err (konji), but it could be quite another to be pointedly trying to get her pregnant!

Below is one of the first replies

Wahala!
When they add this to that contractor Ahmadu Bello's tape. Wahala