₦airaland Forum

MrBrownJay1:
you are the one confusing the issue: focus on the below post by the OP... now check again the bolded part...and come tell us again that this man is looking for the love of his life and/or the mother of his future children (especially when he clearly states that this is all for "profit" as stated with #4).

I suspected as much. You are one of those who only read your mentions. You missed when the topic morphed.
Well, here it is below:

MrBrownJay1:
no, you are the one confusing the issue...these desperate immigrant dont NEED a marriage material wife, they just need "anyone" to marry them (whether fat/ugly or handicapped), in order for them to attain their goal (aka get a green card).

Ok, I see you did not follow from the beginning.
What we are discussing is a Nigerian immigrant marrying a woman FOR REAL, instead of just for green card or wayo marriage.
You get it now?

1Sharon:
Some are just not on the same wavelength of the women they desire. This includes, black, white, Asian women.

They come still fresh with their unsophisticati devious of critical thinking sprinkled with religious hypocrisy. The ways some of them express themselves reveals their lack of exposure. They don't understand western social cues either because they haven't been around long enough
A woman smiles at them and they immediately jump and approach. They dont understand smiling Is just a sign of friendliness.

As I said before, everybody in life eventually gets in where they fit in.

This your post says it all! People with all sorts of ridiculous pre-conceived notions!

What those other guys are doing is like saying any Nigerian can easily become a billionaire in US. But then when you look you only see one or two
billionaires!

MrBrownJay1:
a young and sexy babe does NOT automatically equate to a HIGH VALUE WOMAN... young and sexy babes are everywhere in the US, from trailer parks to projects...



i am just stating a simple fact...aka not all immigrants have bad attitudes and/or are desperate... but most importantly, there are 1000 times more people in the US than just Nigerian americans (who understandably feel they are better than Nigerian immigrants).
i never said i knew better than anybody else, i just gave my opinion of what i believe is the best way for a man to find a woman to date/marry in the US. you dont have to be born and bred in the US to know how easy it is to date (and possibly marry) in the US. just visit a few times and see how easy it is to get a woman, et voila!
again, many of the immigrants, whether legal (or otherwise) find women in the US to date or marry.



initially, the OP wanted to find a baby whale for easy marriage so her caliber really doesnt matter to the OP but, what you are now claiming is that, if a woman is not a high value woman, she is automatically a drug addict or prostitute?! the majority of women in the US (from all races combined) aint high value nor are they drug addicts or prostitutes. the majority are women who live simple comfortable lives (aka middle class earning between $40k to $150k per year)... but more importantly, even if that woman was a drug addict or a prostitute, do you really think these immigrants who are willing/able to marry fugly baby whales really care (so long as these women have a JOB, marry and give them the green card they need)?!

I think you've become a bit mixed up as to the point of the discussion. We are simply saying it is not as easy as people here think it is - to find and marry a marriage-material type in US. Especially not nearly as easily as a Nigerian can in Nigeria

1Sharon:
Lol..I was actually born in the UK but I know how it is on the other side

Oh ok, you were born accross the pond! Well same principles still apply - they don't have women anywhere lined up waiting to marry Nigerian immigrants, as people in Nigeria think!

Albertone:
Remove the word "struggling" and I'll tell you there is 50% chance that Nigerian immigrants will meet those criteria.
Do you want to say nobody meets that criteria in the whole of Nigeria? Remember these Nigerian immigrants are normal Nigerians like us.

If I tell you Chidiebere, Abdullahi, and Adewale are married to young and sexy white women, you wouldn't know them. So go there and see for yourself.
Meanwhile, check out Mikel Obi, a Nigerian immigrant's wife.

They come back to Nigeria for wives because having tasted white women, they feel Nigerian women are better.
White women don't have the culture of "a man is the head of the home and a woman must be submissive". It's their personal choice.

Well, if you tell us that Chidiebere, Abdullahi, and Adewale are married to young and sexy white women, we'd know you are lying because we know lots and lots of Nigerians in US and we don't know a single one that's married to a young and sexy white woman!

Same thing if you say they tasted marriage with white women before coming home, you'd be lying - it's simply not true.
As for why they come home, it has absolutely nothing to do with submissiveness or such, it is simply because that's their best option, all things taken together, or sometimes only option - unless u want a non-marriage-material.
Also remember, it is normal in US to be a single mother or baby mama or such. Girls are not desperate to get married as in Naija and some don't even want to get married, thus further reducing the pool of women available to the poor immigrant.
Also, it is mostly single men immigrating from all over the world to the same few places - therefore skewing the male-female ratio in those places.

As for Mikel Obi and other rich - proves my point. You don't see them going to Naija to look for wife!

MrBrownJay1:
the majority of immigrants eventually do find women to date and even marry... let us not pretend that most Immigrants (whether legal or otherwise) dont find women in the US.

as for you claiming that most "new" Immigrants are desperate and/or have bad attitude, i beg to differ. they are different than Americans, yes, but thats about it. majority of immigrants in the US are law abiding upstanding individuals. IMHO the reason why many US born Nigerians look down on these "new" immigrants is partly to do because they feel they are better than them.

as for Politeactivist who took the OP's original post about finding any baby whale to marry in the US (for a green card), and now shifted the whole subject to finding HIGH VALUE WOMEN to marry in the US, I laugh in Korean!

@bolded, see below how the post was shifted. I didn't shift it

Albertone:
Also, must it be a baby whale? Can't one see a young and sexy babe?

As for the rest of your post, so you know better than 1Sharon who was born in US?? She's telling you how they come accross to a US-born, and you are telling her what's in your head!
As for majority of immigrants eventually finding women to date and even marry. The question was never finding ANY woman. You could find a chain-smoking drug addict or prostitute. The question is what caliber of women are available to them!

Albertone:
They would pick him because he is a man in good shape, smart, responsible and successful.

Below are the only reasons they wouldn't pick him:
1. If he doesn't possess the qualities listed above.
2. If they are lesbians.
3. If they suspect he is only with them for papers.
4. If they don't do black men(not necessarily racism).

carsuperman:
People suppose to give someone like you chance. You are too negative and trying to position a person's mind against trying

Albertone:
Most scammers won't have anything to do with you if you're Nigerian. Because you're bad market for them.

To know whites that got married to black men, go look at black footballers and their wives.

1Sharon ask him how many struggling Nigerian immigrants meet those criteria.

Better yet, ask him why you don't see all over the place Nigerian immigrants married to "young and sexy" white women. Also ask him why Nigerian immigrant men who swore they hate Nigerian girls and never to come back to Nigeria, end up coming back to Nigeria to look for wife!

1Sharon:
You're right. There are Nigerians born in America and even they don't want to deal with those new immigrants because they sense their desperation and bad attitude.

Cc: MrBrownJay1

Please tell him. Not only bad attitude but also ignorance - they'd have a warped view of how things are and all sorts of stupid prejudices carried from home - like that white American women are lined up waiting for African immigrants to come and marry them!

MrBrownJay1:
think about it with an open mind....
A) so you wanna tell me that yahoo boys want to meet foreign women, and having a Tinder plus account (where you can connect with women from ALL OVER THE WORLD, with one single profile), wouldnt make more sense than having to create profiles on all dating apps available out there? you can even choose the age of the women you wanna connect with...
B) if you are Nigerian then chances are the babe will find out when she will meet you (unless you wanna marry a babe online or tell her you are Jamaican, lol)....so whats the big deal about letting her know you are African/Nigerian? do you really think Nigerian men abroad dont find proper women to date/marry (because of the reputation of yahoo boys)? if your location says you are in NY then chances are you will meet 1000s of American and foreign women looking to date. you just need to bring your A game, and not some yeye two bit skills

Are you serious?? They have dozens of Tinder plus accounts! That's nothing! They can technological change their voice to girl if they wish, and can be in any part of the world they wish, as even I can. If you call their American number they'd answer and their location will show US!

OK, here's a simple way to solve this:
We all know LOTS of American high value women and celebrities, sports women, female artists and musicians, politicians, etc. Mention ONE white that's married to a regular African immigrant.

MrBrownJay1:
yahoo boys are cheap mofos and dont want to spend the extra money getting Tinder plus (to connect with women from all over the world tobeas) and prefer sending yeye free emails instead.

You MUST be kidding. What is Tinder plus? Yahoo boys that invest thousands of dollars to set up. Yahoo boys that invest in technology whereby they'd be having a VIDEO chat with a maga and she'll think it's that successful handsome white man or the beautiful lady or whoever they wish.
People get more racist as they get older. It'd be hard to find an older white lady wishing to waste time and resources talking to a Nigerian on Tinder!

Albertone:
So you're inferior because you're black and they are white?
I just don't get how you're discriminating yourself.

If you are good looking, smart, living comfortably with a knack for success, I don't see why you can't compete with your white counterparts in their dating pool.

The fact you are a foreigner and lack the confidence of a son of the soil already makes you "inferior". Add to that, you are from an "inferior" country, thick accent - always annoyingly trying to speak like them, not generous because you always trying to save money (stingy), probably always working - at some menial job beneath you in Nigeria - and therefore no time nor money for relationship.
All those things combined make you an "inferior" person!

Don't worry, Illuminati will find you - if your soul is worth having!

Raheeqilmaktoom:
😅

This looks a better alternative, atleast just commit to someone in desperate search for love.

It is also the most honest plus u don't have to worry about karma. The only flaw is that you'd probably marry down or "ugly" - quality girls in any society marry their own people or high status/rich outsiders!

MrBrownJay1:
many do... so long as you are real and can prove that you are not a phoney person, many women would fall in love with you, whether Nigerian or zimbabwean (you just have to act RIGHT)

Sooo, why don't Yahoo boys say they are Nigerians and be having many women falling on love with them.
Why not go on Tinder and tell some old white woman that you are a Nigerian, see what happens

Laurene:
Do you really wanna go down this lane?
I have work to do, so I don't have time to argue.
But you know the truth. Even America has slums.
Oga rest!

Please go down this lane. Tell us which other overpopulated country has slums like these. Tell us which other country has untouchables - if untouchable makes mistake and his shadow touchs you, he'd be severely punished or even killed!
Tell us which other country does anything close to that?

Hakeem12:
Total BS, guy simply had inside info

No oo. Na juju, demons told him everything

MrBrownJay1:
when you use Tinder plus to swipe in the US (while being in Nigeria) then you definitely should hide your location (very easy to do on Tinder plus) or just write that you will land in the US very soon and/or have a profile that looks like you already are in the US... even though you wont be there yet.

as for why you prefer American women, just tell them that they are more open minded, more free, more genuine, more down to earth, less materialistic (for some) etc

Hint: there is a reason yahoo boys say they are successful white American men with a handsome photo to go with it. And they'll be talking to some old whale. You think the old whale would be talking to you knowing you are a struggling, black Nigerian?

Albertone:
Speak for yourself. Getting a girlfriend is as easy as I'm typing now.

So you feel inferior to white people? It's this same inferiority complex that makes y'all go for the least attractive set of white women.

Oga it's not a question of how you feel. You ARE inferior. Your circumstances make you so and women are hypergamous everywhere. Unless you have some major something about you to offset that.

MrBrownJay1:
A) life in Nigeria is cheaper than life in the US, so it will be easier/cheaper to swipe and make contact BEFORE landing in the US.
B) isnt what that person want to do technically the same as 419?

Ok, so you tell this person "I'm in Nigeria", how desperate can a woman be... And you yourself, what reason would you give her for leaving all the women in Nigeria and perusing Tinder for American!

Unrated900:
Every country has its ghetto

No be like India. Their own too much. If untouchable make mistake him shadow touch you, he'd be severely punished or even killed!
Which other country does anything close to that?

Silentgroper:
And you just had to fvcking tag her 🙄😏🙄

That pocohantas don suffer

Albertone:
Which is best between her coming here to marry or him going there to marry?
I feel you can't get the PR immediately you marry which will make you over stay your visa if you go on tourist visa.

Also, must it be a baby whale? Can't one see a young and sexy babe?

Nigerians are soo deluded. They can't get a girlfriend here in Nigeria o - where they have all sorts of advantages. But once they get to America where they'd be inferior and struggling, "young and sexy babe" will be rushing them!

Mille:
The point is how do I know which ones to go to?

Immigrant lawyers? Pakistanis?

They advertise. See below
Also, they'll move you to front of the line if you marry a fellow man
(But first cover your yash with...)

Laurene:
India is better than Nigeria by 5 times.
They have a robust economy
Larger military
Healthcare etc.

Do you really wanna go there?

Lol, u gotta be kidding comparing overpopulated, stinking, extremely cruel India to Nigeria. Do we have untouchables in Nigeria? Is there any place in Nigeria that looks like the below?

MrBrownJay1:
FIXED

Being in Nigeria would be a HUGE disadvantage, especially with our 419 and Yahoo reputation.
The original plan is better. Or work on Tinder and tourist visa same time

Mille:
Do you have any idea on how to find someone or even a crooked lawyer that will be ready to do so?

MrBrownJay1

Lol, if you only knew how big an industry immigration is. There are lawyers whose only job is fake marriages. They'll even approach you - you'll be wondering how they know who you are, and know you need their services!

Cooleasy:
GBAM!!!

Eyin boys and men, e soji o

Just imagine if it were women dropping these numbers.
We'd have so many marriage testimonials by now.
Yet it's women that want marriage more! Funny beings.

Billgatessecond:
Why do we see sex as a bad thing in Africa.. did they have sex to give birth to us everything has to be written and signed in an agreement

Would you like to know that your daughter is having sex without marriage?
Agreement? Such agreements are broken everyday. What prevents him from walking away??

Dshocker:
Best option

Seek for Asylum, tell them that APC has finished your life for the past 8yrs and now, the same evil party forced a drug baron on you as president.

And if they say you are lying, show them the case file of heroin dealings.

Omo na straight green card dem go nack you.

Not a bad plan.
You can also show them this photo below