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Nazgul:
The reality is that so many girls out there are moving around with damaged wombs. During my NYSC, my lodgement and his girlfriend (who was also a corper) lived together for over 7 months nacking each other raw, and she never took in, not even once.

After NYSC, I ran into the guy in Lagos, we greeted and agreed to hangout on weekend, it was during our gist, I asked him about his girlfriend he told me point blank that they're no longer together that he couldn't marry her cos he feels she can't conceive. (The girl didn't know that this was the main reason for their separation)

This is why I don't condemn guys who insist that a girl gets pregnant before they can marry her, they're only looking out for themselves.

But WHY is this barrenness thing more rampant these days?
And how do you reconcile this with our Christianity??

latability:
Girls of this days have traded their wombs for iphone, I support the guy. One of my guy way say him and in girl no go born until they marry, now this is almost 4 years without even a miscarriage and the problem now is from the girl

These days I don't blame any guy insisting on that. But how do you reconcile that to our Christianity??

Kasbite:
For me my girlfriend will get pregnant for me before I marry her, Am no prayer warrior or start given prescription on sex

I met a guy that said he had been dating his gf when they where in school, though was not staying with him, after school they started cohabitation but she had missed are period for once, he has plans to marry her but he wants her to get pregnant.

You mean she hadn't missed her period for once.
Had same experience but we never got to stage of marriage

Nazgul:
If they've been in love for over 4 years and they've been having sex those 4 years, and the girl hasn't taken in, not even once, the guy has every reason to be alarmed.

Maybe this is what facilitated his decision that she must get pregnant before marriage can occur.

Before condemning anyone, try and see things from their own point of view.

You make a lot of sense. I once had a girlfriend, we had excellent sex life till she left. Somehow pregnancy never entered our minds. Maybe it is mind over matter

blacksam01:
there i a very new and rapidly growing trends amongs newly married ppl...

more and more newly married couples find it very very hard givibg birth these days...

my small research shows some of these as factors..

1. age of lady..caused mainly by late marriage decisions

2. increasing cases of fibriod among women: this is mostly the case

3. incompatible rhesus factor : this one is usually mot taken serious and might lead ladies to barrenness if they every aborted a pregnancy with a previous guy at relationship leves, whiles not checking matching rhesus factors..

4. men sterility...men these days get easily sterile cuz of mostly untreated sexual diseases as they flex duing their women chasing and reckless sexually exploration stages..

so, yez the guy might look stupid ,but he knows what he is doing...if the lady doest have anyy to hide..let her simply get pregnant..and withing months..marriage is settled..

dont take risk with aged Nigerian ladies!!!!!!!

I agree with you 100%, but how do you reconcile that with our Christian belief??
Also, can you explain that rhesus factor thing?

ojotobiloba1:
Co ask
Thirteen years old thread

Doesn't matter. Inquiring minds want to know.
Ok, let's ask these earlier commenters if it matters:
Onchedu, donvilo, Busybrain007, 190, youngpo413
Hollyb

Billgatessecond:
Why not take her to the mum or dad tell them Ur plans or u both sign an agreement that she must convince and give birth to a child b4 marriage

So you'd be admitting to your parents you are already doing it?
And what if she "convince" but the guy later decide not to marry her nko?

latability:
Girls of this days have traded their wombs for iphone, I support the guy. One of my guy way say him and in girl no go born until they marry, now this is almost 4 years without even a miscarriage and the problem now is from the girl

@bolded, how do you know? Infertility is often the guy's fault

LeeSmart:
OP no vex oo, but why can't u be urself? own ur truth.. Which one be my friend will be reading this in the comment section haba.
Like i have said make u no vex o.

Akharmony:
Yahoo work no b small things o

At all.
That's why when it works it look like say na magic. Nothing like magic. Na WORK!
You constantly stay for hours with someone on the phone giving them the only positivity in their life. They will do anything to have it continue including sending you money even after they know it is a scam. They are addicted but the drug is sweet phone calls. Just like any addict they'll pay to keep getting their drugs. That's why you saw clients last time protesting arrest of their yahoo boys

uuzba:
Actually you didn't say anything at all.
Nigeria has multiple languages. 500+
Even though we are speaking English (here on this forum) and colonised by British, many people are totally unhappy with the idea of speaking English and they refuse to speak it.
In that case, how can you communicate with them?
The people who colonised Nigerian (Britian) are all speaking one language, English. And they remain stronger than Nigeria .
As long as we continue disagreeing to accept English or ANY OTHER ONE SINGLE LANGUAGE, this country will never move anywhere.
No leader can do anything about it. Even his cabinet will be fighting each other due to language differences.
And that's the fate of this country.

Sooo how come Switzerland is not full.of yahoo Boys? See below

Mumusaphire:
Nothing special about FTC at all. Happy new month to you all.

Nothing special, yet you are savoring it, enjoying it, and stylishly announcing it!

boomii:
Whats with Nigerian guys sef? I have a friend who is ready to get married soon but the dude said there will be no wedding till she gets pregnant.

Personally I'm against it and even tried talking to the guy since she is not the wayward type but seems he has gone wacko,so please what should my friend do.Should she stay or get pregnant? she is pretty confused.

P.s: She will be reading this cos she is on nairaland so no insults please.

Sooo, did "your friend" get pregnant?

laylow112:
Ladies, kindly describe how ur ideal man should look and the qualities he should possess and felas should tell us their own siede as well. Y'all have 1 minute to tell us. I have plans for match making for all the ladies in the house

How things with the matchmaking idea?

DeOTR:
That's why I laugh at people hoping on an individual to turn things around, when while campaigning, all they promise is how they will revive the economy, do this, do that, and nothing about changing this warped structure we have.
Even if we have a good man as a President who does the right thing for 4 or 8 years, if there's no change in the structure, it's a waste because a Pharaoh who doesn't know Joseph would soon come on board, and we'll be back to where we were in no time.
We should start devolution of power from the center.
The police and her sister agencies should be under the ministry of justice, controlled by the Chief Justice. They are the one saddled with administration of justice, so the Police should directly report to them. This way, our Judiciary won't be toothless bulldogs that they are now.
We can have State Police with this arrangement without the fear of Governors abusing it, because the same thing will be applicable to State Police. The NJC should be solely responsible for choosing and removing the Chief Judge, not the President.
Absolute power corrupts absolutely, and that's exactly what's playing out in Nigeria.

You make so many good points. I especially like the idea of the police and her sister agencies being under the ministry of justice, controlled by the Chief Justice. I don't think it's been tried in any country yet. What they do have in other countries that work are different independent police systems with different jurisdictions, but all servants of the rule of law and the courts and nothing else; and they answer ONLY to the top cop (as long as he is not violating the law) and not to the politician who appointed him. Example, FBI is under federal government and deals with things involving more than two states. The state police is under state government and deals with things involving more than one town in the state. The local police are controlled by the local government. All these can act jointly when warranted and can also act as a check on any of them not following the law or court rullings.

Johnn74:
How many years they are always at the Cutting edge of stamping out AntiRetroviral HIV/AIDS control drugs worldwide& getting one time permanent cure for Aids,Cutting edge of Cloning humanbeings, one time pills to end Diabetes, Cutting edge of Cancer cure. Always at the cutting edge of winning Nobel prizes for big scientific breakthrough Reversing Aging and preventing man from growing old and dieing. Every year Always at the cutting edge. Na today we begin hear their noise. When ordinary HIV dem never fit stamp out finally

Rubbish. Nor be today scientists & Big PHARM begin make noise about Cloning humans or Reversing Aging so man wont have to G.R.O.W O.L.D AND D.I.E. or make noise about Special Technological machine freezing/machine burial of very wealthy humans who died centuries ago from cancer. So that any day cure for Cancer is finally discovered, they will be technologically Resurrected and Cured. Abeg nor be today human begin merge with machines. Merge humans with machine to live forever my foot. Because na dem create themselves. Ode.

Nonsense. All living things grow old and die. They can keep making noise, science will never advance to any stage lmperfect fallen man will live forever . The owner of life says so. ZUKWANIKE. ALL LIVING THINGS DIE. DEAL WITH IT.

Well you have to admit that they are constantly improving. Example, compare the number of people killed by Covid to other pandemics (below). If nothing happens and things just keep going the way they are going, it may not be in 2030, but it is almost inevitable that man will eventually achieve immortality

Johnn74:
Ode. Ordinary permanent cure for HIV AIDS and Cancer. They have not discovered. Ordinary To reverse aging in humans they have not achieved although they claim to discover age reversal in mice/benjamin effect. In humans tbey have not discovered.

Only keep on discovering covid and ebola and new deadly sicknesses with sudden vaccine every decade.Ordinary human being they have not cloned. ( Although they lie buhari is clone jubril ) Ordinary clone of dead human being with same voice, looks, height, finger print, scientists havenot been able to achieve, Its human being you want to make live forever because na you create yourself. Ode

Mtchew nothing like immortality of Imperfect human race until the resurrection. The owner of life says so since the fall of man where first perfect man who would not have evvver grown Old/Aged talkless of dieing, welcomed Sin. All Humans must taste death . Zukwanike. Maximum around 120; hundred and sth range. Not even up to Methusaleh (969yo) Oldest man in the world.

Every living thing MUST die living things MUST GROW OLD AND DIE

Truthshotcrazy:
Rubbish. You will not be alive in 100years time.Argue with your stupidity.

Remember, these are people on the cutting age of these things saying this, not me. So if you must insult, insult them! These are people in the know. You and I don't really know much about these things. Most people don't know what is chatGPT, which is mind boggling by itself. But they have now gone way beyond that. Knowledge and innovation is increasing at warp speed. All it takes fir a human to live forever is to merge him with a machine or upload his consciousness to a machine - machines never die

Truthshotcrazy:
No one seeing this comment will be Alive in 100 years time--2123 . Be humble.

Don't be so authoritative about that. See below

abba09:
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I forgot contemporaries. Places with the most "spiritual powers" (India and Africa) are also the most impoverished and miserable. China on the hand, with no spiritual, not even religion, how are they doing?

abba09:
shut up jare its not everything that is scientific spiritual world is real. i will prove it to u by casting a small juju on u.

My obtuse friend, the question is not wether spiritual is real. The question is what we ought focus more on. We can get a clue from history and also from contemporary affairs.

Looking at history, India was a country about 30 times the size of UK (Pakistan was part of India). India was/is a country full of spiritual powers.
UK on the other hand, the only spiritual power they had was a gun. Yet tiny UK subjugated, colonized, and ruled India for decades till they VOLUNTARILY left! Not only that, they were AT THE SAME TIME defeating and rulling Kingdom of Benin and all their fearsome spiritual powers, and kingdom of Opobo, and countless other kingdoms in Africa, each with unbelievable "spiritual powers", plus aborigines of Australia, New Zealand, etc., all with terrifying spirituals. Mind you they were defeating and rulling all these peoples AT THE SAME TIME. And what spiritual power did they use to accomplish all that? A dane gun! (Not even any type of machine gun o!)

Then you look at various pandemics and diseases throughout history including our recent covid, not a single one was eradicated by spiritual.

As for casting spell, instead of wasting your precious fearsome powers on me, use it to prove to these people below and you are automatically a millionaire!

Good one OP.

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Jostoman:
The Solution to his nonsense is for imo state people to join hands together to Vote him out.

They emphatically CAN'T! He is the ultimate master in rigging. Watch, he'd get 90+ percent of the votes!

NigerianAngelo:
"With option of N10m for each count"

They were not jailed, just fined. As usual

Gamesmart:
These are stupid headlines.

The correct headline is "Two Chinese nationals fined N10m each for bribery".

Stop deceiving people with headlines and clickbaits.

Exactly!!
Please loud it to these ones below.
No matter how many times they are told, they still don't get what option of fine means.
They won't spend a day in jail!
Nigerian sentencing system is one big bribery and payoff machine, and the only way it can change a little is through public outrage and outcry!

JASONjnr:
Will be released soon as their government bribe some persons involved...

post=122200522]If you do the crime, get ready to do the time.

Dem MANNA don drop quote.

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The prison guys go still go corner collect their own share

Truvelisback:
She does. As a matter of fact, i never knew she was that way until i started noticing somethings and behaviours from those she gossips with. If ur sensitivity is not strong or very strong, u won't know. She looks so innocent in appearance.

Well, if makes up stuff as the other guy said, then you have nothing to worry about. She'd have the reputation - everyone will know she makes up stuff. Nobody will believe anything she says. Infact you can even use her to discredit a true story!

You have to first define intelligence or it's a useless list.
See below

Timmi:
You are very correct for that's how a close friend of mine lost his son in Georgia after a soccer match in Georgia, USA

Yeah, it's been happening a lot of recent it seems. Hope nothing to do with the vaccines

FalseProphet1:
The death of a 16 year old child isn't normal. Besides there's a level of understand between Ned's wives.

Yul's first wife never accepted the second one. She openly kicked against his plans to marry another wife. In case you don't know that's enough reason for the second wife to go and see baba.

FALSE prophet indeed. How many first wives have ever been happy about a second wife?
Specifically Ned's first wife left because of Regina.
Maybe you change your moniker to FALSEstatements?

UyaiIncomparabl:
If you are called forth to bring substantial evidence of the aforementioned statement, would you do so?

Well, he'd refer you to his name - FALSEprophet

FalseProphet1:
You don't know the length wicked people are willing to go in order to achieve their evil plans. A wicked step stepmother can wipe out the entire kids of her co-wife without blinking an eyelid.

This is one of the dangers of polygamy. There would always be a burial going on in your house.

This I have seen.

You do live up to your name, Mr. FALSE prophet. I give you that.
Ned has 6 wives. When was the last burial in his house?

FalseProphet1:
Polygamy caused this particular death.

And it is so, because... ? Because you said so, Mr. FALSE prophet? See below

FalseProphet1:
The reality of the matter is that she killed the boy. Polygamy in Nigeria is pure witchcraft. If you're not ready to start burying your kids, stay away from it.

This I have seen.

You didn't answer the question, Mr. FALSE prophet.
See the screenshots. There have been an increase in this type of death among teenagers. Did polygamy cause them?