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Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by humility33(m): 11:10pm On Aug 16, 2021
AuthegaPRIMUS:



You have a very low self esteem.

You're very stupid
Do u even know me Because i agree with his points does it mean i believe or uphold it

Someone asked a question on why some guys insist on sleeping with a lady prior marriage.... does it mean i do it? There are lots of reasons which can be peculiar to individuals so from relating with guys I know this is one of the reasons besides others....like having to know the sexual compatibility etc

Modified
You're sick, just checked your pic see you're still a kid

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Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by Munzy14(m): 11:11pm On Aug 16, 2021
Fanatical:
To avoid swimming in the Pacific ocean
grin grin
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by nurain150(m): 11:12pm On Aug 16, 2021
Beebah2000:
I swear.
Nigerian men.... Fear them
Fear yourself
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by Munzy14(m): 11:12pm On Aug 16, 2021
Harrykn:
Why do you wear shoe before you buy?
Why do we taste groundnut before buying?
All because no body wants to buy expired, oversized or defective products home .
grin grin

Oooh!!!
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by INCREDIBLE007(m): 11:14pm On Aug 16, 2021
sentiments apart


wedding nights doing is my stand


but I've heard from a lady(ies) , I was once very close to

that

(1) I need to do and check if the lady is intact & not the one that " they've destroyed.

she said it in Yoruba " oje too wo, Ko ma lo je obinrin ti won ti ba tie je"


(2) some women are of the opinion that they need to check
if the man is okay down there to avoid a situation whereby the guy has used his manhood for rituals and odd stuffs like that



the first one shock me but her point was very valid
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by berrystunn(m): 11:14pm On Aug 16, 2021
DriftOff:
Just wondering, because now every guy, I mean, every guy would want to have sex with you the moment they started dating you.

Why is it so hard for them to wait for the right time, I mean - your wedding night. Guys doesnt want to wait again, they want to 'eat' the thing first before saying "I do."

Guys, what do u think?

Will you buy a car without test drive
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by Nobody: 11:19pm On Aug 16, 2021
Just for fun
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by reealec(m): 11:20pm On Aug 16, 2021
Some things Just need to be tasted not only trusted
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by alizma: 11:23pm On Aug 16, 2021
Beebah2000:
I swear.
Nigerian men.... Fear them
Why not try Ghanaian or Ivorian men
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by Innobee99(m): 11:23pm On Aug 16, 2021
Beebah2000:
We are still wondering ooo.
After them don enter, na only God go know if them go still settle down.
If you no give them, them go say u dey give another guy.
Men, fear men. embarassed
So which specie of human should now fear women?
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by BoraWizzle(m): 11:24pm On Aug 16, 2021
When you go to the market to buy Gari Ijebu. Don’t you taste it to see if it’s sour? Hen-hen , it’s the same concept. grin
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by muller101(m): 11:32pm On Aug 16, 2021
Beebah2000:
We are still wondering ooo.
After them don enter, na only God go know if them go still settle down.
If you no give them, them go say u dey give another guy.
Men, fear men. embarassed
As long as you are not a virgin. It automatically means you are distributing the goods.

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Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by purples25(f): 11:34pm On Aug 16, 2021
No more decency. Look at the decent man that has principles, he does what he does not caring about being fooled or not, he is more about himself and his God.

Yet he is smart, he still has skills to know and keep an innocent and decent woman without touching her. But that sort of guy is rare.
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by muller101(m): 11:34pm On Aug 16, 2021
saphiere:
Men lack self-control. Men are sex addicts. Those are the reasons
They are addicted to sex objects.
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by Nobody: 11:35pm On Aug 16, 2021
So that if she's one of those the future is female girls, the "Do" will correct their obscure brain set.

However, there are girls that are so Worthy with inestimable values that you have to respect until "Holy Matrimony"
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by GTCO: 11:35pm On Aug 16, 2021
Don't go and buy no testing
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by CountVersailles(f): 11:36pm On Aug 16, 2021
DriftOff:
Just wondering, because now every guy, I mean, every guy would want to have sex with you the moment they started dating you.

Why is it so hard for them to wait for the right time, I mean - your wedding night. Guys doesnt want to wait again, they want to 'eat' the thing first before saying "I do."

Guys, what do u think?
Try learn better English. It helps!
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by Mcslize: 11:38pm On Aug 16, 2021
DriftOff, Abobi, wait for the wedding night kill you there. Na joke o grin

But on a serious note: Who wouldn't wants to test drive a car before buying it? Anyone?
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by JoeCutie(m): 11:40pm On Aug 16, 2021
Because by ‘doing’ you actually get to realize if it’s something you can say ‘I do’ to or not.

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Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by idahme(m): 11:42pm On Aug 16, 2021
princemartinsG:

The only time you have the moral justification to ask a guy to wait to wedding night before sex is if you are a virgin

If you already give off the sweetness of your body to a man on a platter of nothing how do you now want man who want to date you to wait






This is the synopsis of this thread, you can't approbate and reprobate at the same time . thread closed.
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by Uniquekriss(m): 11:42pm On Aug 16, 2021
DriftOff:
The thing is tiring... Especially when they do it for fun with a girl who is serious for marriage. sad
girl no dey serious for marriage, if u are abstaining, plz abstain, if u want to have fun, have fun, nothing like a girl being serious for marriage, na when time don dey pass girls dey remember say they don't want sex, they wanna keep themselves. Y e go reach my turn u go decide to repent kwanu?
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by J2381: 11:44pm On Aug 16, 2021
DriftOff:
Just wondering, because now every guy, I mean, every guy would want to have sex with you the moment they started dating you.

Why is it so hard for them to wait for the right time, I mean - your wedding night. Guys doesnt want to wait again, they want to 'eat' the thing first before saying "I do."

Guys, what do u think?
If you want to buy a car, won't you test drive it before you think about buying it? grin
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by larryking540: 11:48pm On Aug 16, 2021
a one night stand might hold the guy back or he might move on

telling him no , might make him try harder ,but u and I believe that era is fading away ,guys don't waste time chasing again,

playing hard to get ,for this era ,I wouldn't say anything before someone start asking me if is okay for a lady to be so cheap .

I have seen guys who had a one night stand and still stayed with the lady till date , infact u add more injury to the salt if ,all u want is a no sex relationship but u want him to pay bills ,

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Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by Nobody: 11:50pm On Aug 16, 2021
Purples25, need I remind you that the moral decadence in the society starts with the female child.

Once they are done with sec. Sch., they stop greeting some men (guys) they used to after developing a bigger akara balls.

They start looking at "who's looking me", starts painting, rolling eyes etc. Nobody teaches them, just inherent in them. By the time they are only 25, they must have seen about 100 gbolas and can draw (in sizes) even when they close their eyes.

Now, a guy will meet them at 30 and just marry them like that? Without having a taste of the only thing she can offer even in marriage. God forbid


Despite my views on Nigerian girls, God has answered my prayers of a rare "decent" Nigerian girl. And to her alone, I will "Simp" like I'm simping.

Moral

Only value can make a man simp, but will see you as stupid (Even online) when you're shouting future is female up and down like a used and dumped sex tool. Personal stories triggers these noise, and their noise tells why they should be abandoned like used and dumped weeding hoe

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Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by larryking540: 11:51pm On Aug 16, 2021
least I forget to add ,only few percentage of Lady who says no sex relationship and the guy agrees but she doesn't see him as a mumu along the line of the dating phase , because many go still go chop gbola for outside ,which is equal to ,my guy na mumu

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Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by LordRaiden1: 11:56pm On Aug 16, 2021
Not just for men, most women also want to check mate a man's capabilities, durabilities and performances tho finance is their major priority
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by colossus91(m): 11:57pm On Aug 16, 2021
I never do and e Dey pain me sotey I feel irriatated around her oo ono I don get blue balls better one!!
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by ChasinGood(m): 11:57pm On Aug 16, 2021
Haha,Baba,your own doings e get levels grin
Sonnobax15:
cheesy
The truth is that whenever I wanna buy suya,I go first of all collect test... Sometimes self,me and my nigga, precious,we dey even dey jokingly fight over am....

So what am I trying to say in essence??

No aboki on this earth can deprive me of my test unless he no wor sell market.. That's my right lipsrsealed.

So my sister,if you say you no go allow me to test your pot of beans first before any other thing,abeg no vex,carry am go front.. undecided
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by UTEWUOJO: 12:06am On Aug 17, 2021
I love to sample my ijebu garri before buying abeg, I hate biting sand sand.

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