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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Double0h7(f): 6:42am On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:



Are you a girl or a guy?

undecided

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by dboY1123(m): 6:45am On Dec 29, 2021
I really understand what you guys are saying... That was how I lent a girl I was dating my second phone(I created a thread for it then).. Girl begin change from that day I was so shocked, she wouldn't pick calls, she becomes busy, she read messages and ignore on whatsapp..
I was just so shocked, this is the same girl that would call me no matter how late it is when I haven't given her the phone o.. Why Are girls like this?

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Vinnie2000(m): 7:14am On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:
I really understand what you guys are saying... That was how I lent a girl I was dating my second phone(I created a thread for it then).. Girl begin change from that day I was so shocked, she wouldn't pick calls, she becomes busy, she read messages and ignore on whatsapp..
I was just so shocked, this is the same girl that would call me no matter how late it is when I haven't given her the phone o.. Why Are girls like this?



Just See yourself! sad

And you have NOT learnt any Lesson, abi? undecided

When Mosdii coined his Quote, U think he did it out of Idleness, abi? sad cheesy cheesy

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Cokahot: 7:35am On Dec 29, 2021
Why didn't u bang her. Stupid student
When I was a student,I must press your breaats,feel your pussy,or grope your ass on first day. Wetin we dey gist for.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Uyi168: 7:50am On Dec 29, 2021
SankaraSo:


You are not smart

Your mother wore Arsenal Jersey and Wrapper to church on Christmas day.

But you want to buy phone of N60,000 for a girl who adds NO value to your life.

Be gathering ancestral curses, you hear!
.
some guys dey mumu nor be small...


U just met a girl, and next thing, you want to buy her phone.

Na ozwor people full this country

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Uyi168: 7:50am On Dec 29, 2021
everythinggirly:
Do you love her?
Maybe marry her.
.
Just like that. marry her??

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Johnsown1(m): 7:52am On Dec 29, 2021
Don't attached any strings to the phone that you may get for her because she might disappoint you.

Buy phone for her if you are Rich enough and allow nature to take it's judgement

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by dboY1123(m): 7:52am On Dec 29, 2021
Cokahot:
Why didn't u bang her. Stupid student
When I was a student,I must press your breaats,feel your pussy,or grope your ass on first day. Wetin we dey gist for.

I'm sorry
Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Nobody: 7:54am On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.
I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.
My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.
Please what should I do?


If you're to give her .. give her out of kindness dont expect anything in return

In any relationship dont give out what you cant afford to forget ...

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Uyi168: 7:54am On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:
I really understand what you guys are saying... That was how I lent a girl I was dating my second phone(I created a thread for it then).. Girl begin change from that day I was so shocked, she wouldn't pick calls, she becomes busy, she read messages and ignore on whatsapp..
I was just so shocked, this is the same girl that would call me no matter how late it is when I haven't given her the phone o.. Why Are girls like this?
..
and you never still learn?..
bring your head come...

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Truvelisback(m): 7:55am On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.
I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.
My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.
Please what should I do?
U already said guys are all over her. Bro, Don't buy her a phone. Let her buy a phone for herself.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by dboY1123(m): 8:01am On Dec 29, 2021
Truvelisback:
U already said guys are all over her. Bro, Don't buy her a phone. Let her buy a phone for herself.

She's coming over to my place today, what do you think?

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by pointblank247(m): 8:07am On Dec 29, 2021
If she actually lost her phone, and you can buy her another one, don't waste any time.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by slickycee: 8:07am On Dec 29, 2021
It seems to me you're not taking yourself serious.

Everyone above have offered the best advice,
Yet you're still asking she's coming to your place what should you do ?

If you're using us to catch cruise , e no go better for you
But if you're serious, then you're an advanced simp

You don't deserve advice

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by techWriter3: 8:12am On Dec 29, 2021
When she betweens misuse am resend Nudes take her Ex, haven't bawl tonner..
Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Vinnie2000(m): 8:16am On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:


She's coming over to my place today, what do you think?


She is Coming over simple BECAUSE she wants to collect dat New Phone from you! sad

After dat, she will either Dump your sorry ass or start giving you Delay responses once again.. embarassed

If she comes, Entertain her but DO NOT buy her a Phone!
Tell her you do not Have Money! At Best, Give her N5000! Let her goan Find how to make the complete Balance! sad

Then Also Try Find a Girlfriend who is Hungry for You! Even if the Girl is not Pretty, Manage her!
@Least, she has Boobs and Yanch! sad cheesy

TRY GET SENSE OO!

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Truvelisback(m): 8:18am On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:


She's coming over to my place today, what do you think?
When she comes, welcome her, treat her well but don't buy her a phone. Let her buy herself a phone. By the way, isn't she working?

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by SmartPolician: 8:23am On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123

Forget the long list of useless advice from many frustrated Nigerian guys on Nairaland. This country has frustrated many people and they come online to vent their frustration on the females instead of our heartless politicians.

The easiest way to get God's blessings is to give to people without asking for what you get in return. Sure, this works for real! This means that you shouldn't buy her a phone as a bait for her to date you. Na people dey buy people car and house.

It's all about affordability. If you can afford to make that sacrifice, go ahead. If you cannot, don't buy. In this case, you can just support her with your widow's mite. There are bad and good people in both male and female genders.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by dboY1123(m): 8:30am On Dec 29, 2021
Truvelisback:
When she comes, welcome her, treat well but don't buy her a phone. Let her buy herself a phone. By the way, isn't she working?

She's working, I even asked her how much she has so I can add little, she doesn't have much
Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by dboY1123(m): 8:31am On Dec 29, 2021
SmartPolician:
dboY1123

Forget the long list of useless advice from many frustrated Nigerian guys on Nairaland. This country has frustrated many people and they come online to vent their frustration on the females instead of our heartless politicians.

The easiest way to get God's blessings is to give to people without asking for what you get in return. Sure, this works for real! This means that you shouldn't buy her a phone as a bait for her to date you. Na people dey buy people car and house.

It's all about affordability. If you can afford to make that sacrifice, go ahead. If it cannot, don't buy. In this case, you can just support her with your widow's mite. There are bad and good people in both male and female genders.


Phones so expensive now o...
Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Truvelisback(m): 8:45am On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:


She's working, I even asked her how much she has so I can add little, she doesn't have much
I know u must have already promised her buying her a phone out of genuine love. Note: I'm not in anyway, dissuading u from loving her. Girls nowadays are very cunny and unpredictable. I wanna ask u, how would u feel after buying her the phone, then she used the same phone to Cheat on u? Or she lose interest in u all of a sudden? Or she starts avoiding u? Gone are the days we love girls with our heart, nowadays, we love girls with our head, yes. Don't be a fool in the name of Love and don't let any girl outsmart u. In Zack Orji's voice, Be wise.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Daxyd4realzy(m): 9:09am On Dec 29, 2021
Mr. OP daju pa, kala, ma shey transfer! No buy any phone!

No Peace to Simps


dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.
I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.
My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.
Please what should I do?

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Jamesbiodun(m): 11:15am On Dec 29, 2021
They stole her phone and she knows your number off hand, wow the lady is a genius...
You can buy the phone if you wish too but not for say you won date am coz emotional heartbreak go kill you grin

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by dboY1123(m): 6:38pm On Dec 29, 2021
After much consideration, I decide to dash her 10k to support her..because as you all insisted/advised, I am not buying any phone for her..but the 10k is just to support whatever she has with her.
Thank y'all

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Osagbovo2(m): 6:51pm On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.
I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.
My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.
Please what should I do?

Op i feel your pain brother i have fell a victim of same brouhaha before I woo one of my office lady just within 3 days she claimed her phone developed fault that I won't be able to reach her via calls, that her phone is misbehaving, bros na so I form heavy SIMP trying to impress her by borrowing 50k send to the lady afterwards Trust me she didn't buy the phone but sent the money to her mother!!! "Blood of judas iscariot" I no fit cry/ shout i just deleted her contact and avoided her like plague in the office .

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Vinnie2000(m): 6:59pm On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:
After much consideration, I decide to dash her 10k to support her..because as you all insisted/advised, I am not buying any phone for her..but the 10k is just to support whatever she has with her.
Thank y'all



Good Boy!

U would have made it N5000 but it's not bad.

Look, Girls are VERY smart and you must be calculative when dealing with dem! sad

This Girl you talk about, if you suspect she is trying to use you, Better Dump her! Give her good excuse for ur Action!

Get a Real girlfriend dat is willing to give you all u need, peace of mind, time, loyalty, Towtow, everything! cool cheesy

Don't waste your Youth on a manipulator o! sad

Enough said! smiley

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Vinnie2000(m): 7:04pm On Dec 29, 2021
Osagbovo2:


Op i feel your pain brother i have fell a victim of same brouhaha before I woo one of my office lady just within 3 days she claimed her phone developed fault that I won't be able to reach her via calls, that her phone is misbehaving, bros na so I form heavy SIMP trying to impress her by borrowing 50k send to the lady afterwards Trust me she didn't buy the phone but sent the money to her mother!!! "Blood of judas iscariot" I no fit cry/ shout i just deleted her contact and avoided her like plague in the office .



Kai! sad

You guys should be Smart nah! Haba! undecided

That Girl only sent a small amt of dat Money to her Mother!

The rest was used to Get Designers clothes/accessories to Attract Bigger Men! sad

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Dec 29, 2021
sad this is what I'm talking about. Simp and Pussy ass guys thinking with their emotions instead of thinking logically with their brains and senses angry
OP, you're a Mumu man and a disgrace to manhood, Na love and emotions dey shake u so, you want to buy her a phone, someone that will still use that same phone to call another dude that will bleep the hell out of her angry

This is Simpson in the highest stage, Tueh!!

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by maak400: 10:03pm On Dec 29, 2021
Nigga is about to be scammed grin
Are you the one that stole the phone? Why should you buy her another phone? undecided

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Eriokanmi: 10:04pm On Dec 29, 2021
Na woman mata full una head for NL. New year is approaching, think differently. How mods always move such stories to FP is baffling.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Dec 29, 2021
U dey on your own o.

Babe tell u say she no want relationship, u still wan buy phone. Naija girls can be useless after granting favours. Instead send that money go ya mama.

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