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Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by Dannycypher(m): 8:57pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Be specific which part in Calabar because we have 3tribes here in Calabar which are the Efiks Quas and Efut. Such list can never be issue in those 3tribes Maybe it's from Central or Northern part of Cross River State. Carolcitycartel: 1 Like |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by Germi9: 8:57pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
osazsky:Na wa oh |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by pikechukwu6(m): 8:57pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Simply, buy and marry. After one year, make her your money |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by kingreign(m): 8:57pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
sofiscatedmoron: Thank you for being honest and realistic. There’s nothing in that list. 1 Like |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by fkj950ax(m): 8:58pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Not to take a piss on tradition, but this thing has to be curtailed. (I am not referring to your list only). Wedding or traditional lists are usually meant to help perform the entertainment of friends and families who attend the celebration. If both families, especially the intended couple, come together, they can both come up with a list of what will minimally provide all that's needed and the families fund it. Everything on that list is to ensure there is enough entertainment and refreshments to serve guests. A girl can sit with her parents and decide what goes on the list to her guy. A guy can sit with his parents and decide what they need to do to support the girls parents in hosting guests at their home for the celebration. That will even create a strong bond between the families 2 Likes |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by rollywise(m): 8:58pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Over one million. Drink carry almost 700k. Na family of drunks? 2 Likes |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by ikemesit4477: 8:58pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Carolcitycartel:from my own understanding, this is not the original list, is what you complied after collecting the list, I mean your estimate! Let me tell you, to marry from Calabar is very cheap, when the bride's family reason with you, because most of the items in that list are negotiable, a reasonable family in Calabar will not demand for what you can't provide, except you want to do it in a big way, good for you! 2 Likes |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by pansophist(m): 8:58pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Everything about broke girls, inclusive of their family are burden. The poorer the girl, the more expensive she is. 6 Likes |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by Putinofrussia: 8:59pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Carolcitycartel: This one na brewery family? |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by Bahamas95(m): 8:59pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
This is one of the reasons why I don't wanna come back to this world as an African in my next life. To do introduction, billing. To collect marriage list, billing. To do marriage, billing. To do in-law burial, billing. Everything about Africa especially Nigeria is so annoying. 5 Likes |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by henrimoto(m): 8:59pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
pocohantas:hiihiihiihii.... Lolz, pocooo! Anty! E ne yekwa nsogbu. You and your mouth. I don laugh scatter here. |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by yanabasee(m): 9:00pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Marrying from Akwa Ibom state or Cross river state, The Efiks to be precise, the traditional payment is huge and this is why youths don't settle down early... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by Amotekun777: 9:02pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Pure Extortion! It's not the amount of money neither the monetary value of the material gifts that matter... God bless Yoruba tribe! 2 Likes |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by izubext007: 9:02pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
If you are sure that u are the only one banging her , please go ahead . |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by dalass(f): 9:02pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Shellsploit: Ex family? You divorced because of high bride price? |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by Bakrabas: 9:03pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
I guess they billed you base on your economic weight. They know you can afford it. If not add and drop some items and renegotiate everything 1 Like |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by HilcomTech(m): 9:05pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Only broke and greedy in laws can do this rubbish. This was how one guy travelled from Lagos to village to collect list and the family have him a crazy list like this one. The guy just jejely collected the list and came back to Lagos and continued chopping their daughter while claiming he was looking for money. After over a year, the girl eye clear. 4 Likes |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by eddyroyal(m): 9:06pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Ishilove:For the ceremony and NOT part of the bride price. |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by CalabarDude(m): 9:07pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Lies... Am a calabar man, we dnt sell our females, specify which local government ur marrying from,but this is no Efik marriage list |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by gulfer: 9:07pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Better go and unknock the door wey you knock and collect your gifts back, this is pure exploration and really uncalled for, can their family afford this to marry anyone... Abeg, unknock the door and retrace your steps |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by hybridblood07(m): 9:08pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Them dey look face oh ItsGoodToBeGood: |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by Ishilove: 9:08pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
pocohantas:My dear sister, ayam obviously still a learner 2 Likes |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:09pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
pansophist: You don't know what you are saying. The bride of the OP is nowhere near broke, neither are her family broke. It's just a primitive tradition that should be deterred. Besides, the list is usually not compiled by the parents. So, easy with the snide remarks. |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by hybridblood07(m): 9:09pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Yam festival lol lol Ishilove: |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by rippa(m): 9:09pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Shellsploit:Lolźzz....u run |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by Salihusaliheen(m): 9:11pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
See list of palm wine cover everything, this is to show that the residents of that place consumed alot of palmwine.i wonder how much the bride price would come be. |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by Starzo: 9:11pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:And Dem nor fit use the same 'schnapps' take Betta their life. Instead them turn their daughter to cash cow... thunder faya all of them. |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by drfasam(m): 9:11pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Carolcitycartel: This is nothing compared to the one I collected from Imo State |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by Benresmy(m): 9:13pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Carolcitycartel:Her Toto na Gold |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by JoyousFurnitire(m): 9:13pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by Ate247(m): 9:13pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
What advise are you seeking for. You are finished. Run |
Re: Traditional Wedding List Given To Me To Marry A Calabar Bride. Please Advise by SmileDance(f): 9:13pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Charly68:Go and pay and take home your slave. If you pay to collect a human being that person is a slave. 1 Like |
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