duduade:
Please mind your business

As an elder, reporting your friend wife may have some consequences.

Assuming it is not what u thing how will your male friend regard u?

Does he sees ur friendship with him as u see it ?

As he ever discuss Snoop into your relationship or discuss any negative thing against your relationship with ur guy with u?

Supposing if this lead to the separation of their marriage will u ever forgive urself?

Will he ever forgive u without pretending as if all is okay.

In other to know about a cheating partner ask him questions related to that or use a case study to discuss it with him


Please becarefull about people marriages if the wife realize that u are brain behind their separation u may put ur life in danger

Yusufisraelj:



What evidence does she have to insinuate what she's about revealing? Are you not seeing the dangers in her actions?

The picture she took, she can send it to her friend anonymously and let him take up the investigation.

She has to do it covertly.

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Op, all those people on your thread typing "mind your business" are all fornicators and adulterers, they are the ones sleeping with people's wives or husbands, that's how you know them.

Na some of dem be dis: Duduade Incandescentena Prettygirl200 Okunwaye Eaziimoney Stargurl20 Truvelisback
GistFullGround Perocom Obiorahpcfg Velynksbeauty

AAAAAASHAAAAAAAAAAWOOOOOOOOOOOOO

HUUUSBAAAAAAAAAAAND SNAAAAAAAAATCHEEEEEEEEEEEEER

Please don't tell your friend anything. If you tell him and he find out is true, he might send wife packing out of the house. And it will be on record that you destroy your friend's home.

If you wanna assist the family, call the lady and have "one on one" discussion with her and show her the pix. Then advise her to stop if she is dating the man. Promise her that her husband will never hear this.

My small talk...Iyanu A Shele...

U better mind Ur business......why are u hiding? Wat are u scared of? With dese Ur mindset no whether u haven't gotten married.

Please tell him … don’t mind people saying it’s not your business . Get another fone and send that picture to his husband

Raychee:


No, but i sell catfish

Sincerely, I like you and would want to know you better. Your WhatsApp number?

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Don't accused her, greet her and d man and watch her reaction. Taking pictures may not be enough to accused a person. Get a 2nd witness so d woman may not turn everything on say u kuku want my hubby.

Isalandlady

Islandlady:
I will surely go through every comments on here today and take the ones that is best!

I appreciate y'all for your contributions & supports, even those that insulted me I forgive you!!!

If u are really the one on your profile pix, then u look so gorgeous and breathtaking.

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I am confused!

Stop hiding when you see such, let the wife see you.

And then, its Not your business to tell the husband.

Mind your business abege

U dey friend married man.....
Married woman friend single man....
U come dey complain...
Go and get married and leave that guy alone... Nonsense..

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

You can tell your friend if he is the mature type of friend, you tell him in a mature way and he should also act maturely about it.
I would have advice you to mind your business but it is only your friend that will tell you your mouth is smelling.
Anyways you are beautiful.

If you can't save your friend from danger what kinda friend are you?

You better look for a way to pass the message before it's too late, a woman that cheats on her husband is also capable of commiting murder.......If he's truely your friend you must know of a way to tell him.

"Mind your business" is the cause of many problems in the society.

Still do more investigation incase the guy is just a friend...... But it doesn't make sense for her to be doing such.

Find out what the wife and the man are doing.

If you are sure its something to worry about, blow it open

Arrange for your friend to see things first hand.

Women cheating in marriage is a NO NOOOOO!

If u no want again pls move on, but sleeping with another man while in marraige, habaaa

killmods:

Your real dad is a fool.. idiot stinking old offer with wrinkled pussy. U think ur the only one that can throw insults? Jobless ugly prostitute

Hahahhahahaha

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Why do you hide when you see them. Let her see you and then gauge her reaction

Do your finding well before telling your friend. Don't send him any evidence and don't tell him when he hasn't come back home. Try to ask questions about the said guy. If possible, try to know where he stay.

Snap more of their pictures together as evidence. Don't tell your friend but show him the man's house and the man, ask him if he knows the man... Then you can now show him those pictures evidence.

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

killmods:

I'm not lamenting over anything or crying. I only pity men who take most of these ladies seriously.. because if na me all of una go old

It's only those that are guilty will say, mind your business.
If you don't let your friend know about the happenings, either direct or indirect. You're not worthy to be called a friend.

My little advice ;
If you know that you can say it to her eyes if/when it boomerang please, tell your friend what danger lies ahead of him. But before you tell him, make sure you catch the woman one more time and let her see you that you caught them red handed. Be sure that you don't also have a feeling for your friend.
My cent.

Drink water and mind your business

killmods:

Ur entire lineage are all big fools.. nor go continue with ur application for boyfriend u this poverty stricken pig with smelling cuntus. I pray whatever u constantly insert in ur overused smelling cuntus destroys u. Bitter idiot. And u want a boyfriend. U will die single and depressed

Haha please Abeg

try and crop his wife out of the pic and ask if he know the guy in the picture, it might be the wife twin brother you don't know or cousin that he know



now the implication of telling him if it happened the husband knows the guy very well and you show that pic, he will tell his wife later and at that might be end of either your visit or the friendship



on the other hand if you send the crop pic and he tell you he didn't know the guy then send the full pic, if he's a patient person he will handle it maturely, anyway one of the benefit of friendship is to protect your friend, what these ladies dont know is that that your side guy might hurt your husband just to have you to himself



it happened in my face, in my former street, a side guy of a mother of four, because the husband have many properties and the woman that give this guy enough of cash, the side guy put thunderbolt in her body unknowingly for her, her husband have sex with her and somersaulted before he finally gave up the ghost, his family belief that he got it from his wife because the man is not the flirty type before she confessed that she had been cheating on him. they arrested the side guy but person wey don die, don die



so apply wisdom

Before you tell your friend ,,,please make sure you have a more concrete evidence to substantiate your claim .....so you by any chance know the kind of bjz your friends wife does?....do your background work very well before telling your friend

Islandlady:
I will surely go through every comments on here today and take the ones that is best!

I appreciate y'all for your contributions & supports, even those that insulted me I forgive you!!!

WHAT ABOUT IF THAT MAN U RE SEEING WITH YOUR FRIEND WIFE IS ALSO HER BEST FRIEND JUST THE WAY
U ARE HER HUSBAND FRIENSD FOR 11YEARS
HABE YOU THOUGHT ABOUT TOO?

wiloy2k8:
Please tell him … don’t mind people saying it’s not your business . Get another fone and send that picture to his husband

Or you can send me the pictures and the his number and I will do it for you. If you have the pictures on different days better. Don't keep quiet.

But please: make sure it is not jealousy or revenge or you are regretting why you didn't accept his advances then.

All the same, he deserves to know.

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

What happens if the relationship between that wife and that man is like that between you and your friend. What would have happened if the friend of the wife of your friend also saw you in one of your outings.

Abi you want skata the family so that you can "gbori wole". You expecred him to have married you and not his wife..