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LutherSanchez:
And some guys no wan still wise up,it's currently happening to one of mz guy now. He's in a relationship with a single mom also raised by a single mom. Have been trying to talk him out of the SITUATIONSHIP buh he no dey hear. Imagine a 28 years old single mom flocking around with a 26 years old guy and every conversation rhe must make mention of marriage or our child. To the average man love is blind buh to some of us,we know what's going on.

Munzy14:
Orientation...in abbreviation

Exkandayee:
Yes you are right,we don't don't marry,,, just baby Mama's,,,we only try marry@65

anonymuz:
bad guys fullbthis forum

Richie8701:
She's secretly pregnant and you are the chosen stepfather

Sukkyy2010:
Why are you using the pronounce "are"
Are you referring yourself a redpiller?, You dey ment be deceiving yourself who told your redpiller

Stallionhorse:
You still young and have potentials thats why they want to tie you down.. You remind me of myself a few years back. The only advice I will give you is forget about women focus on your life.. When u get to certain age if you dont have money no one will look at you. If I had somebody to give me this advice at your age my life would be much better.. Right now the only thing I have to show for in life is my 2 year old beautiful daughter.. I can't count the number of girls that where flocking around me back then, there was a time I had 9 girlfriends, the money and time I should have used to build my future all wasted.. Today I'm reaping what I sewed.. So my guy be wise.

LegitBoyy:
Hi everyone,

I just wanted to share this trend I have noticed in my relationship life with you all and see if anyone can relate to it. I have just noticed recently that most girls I meet will suddenly want to “settle”.

You would wonder why this should be a problem right? Exactly. I am looking to getting into something serious myself so it should ordinarily not be a bad thing. However, I am seeing a pattern which is why I am worried.

I have met quite a few girls recently and many of them who are obviously still very active players on the ’street’ and as soon as we get talking, they suddenly want to exit the ‘street’ and want something serious with me.

For context, I will be 27years old in a few months, comfortably building a good career and a very calm person. It is not even about money or sort as many of them have met people with much more. I don’t know if any guy or lady out here actually understand my situation here?

I am looking to go into something serious but this pattern just doesn’t look all okay with me. Is it because of my calm nature? Maybe a calm guy is suitable for a husband kind of situation right?

For guys who have been in this situation, how did you dealt with it please?

ednut1:
I can relate. Some guys have that husband material look/ good man look. These babes can sniff it. And want to be serious with you. While they still Bleep the bad boys behind your back. Pay them no attention, better babe will come . I met lots of them between 2014 to 2018. One no gimme sex for like 4 months and was forming wife material, i need to build emotional bond before sex bla bla, but went to nack a guy she didn’t know was a friend of a friend. The guy was even telling her in the chat not to come into a lions den, she came from school on Tuesday as per working class guy na weekend i go free. By Thursday she has gone to Bleep that dude lol

ednut1:
I can relate. Some guys have that husband material look/ good man look. These babes can sniff it. And want to be serious with you. While they still Bleep the bad boys behind your back. Pay them no attention, better babe will come . I met lots of them between 2014 to 2018. One no gimme sex for like 4 months and was forming wife material, i need to build emotional bond before sex bla bla, but went to nack a guy she didn’t know was a friend of a friend. The guy was even telling her in the chat not to come into a lions den, she came from school on Tuesday as per working class guy na weekend i go free. By Thursday she has gone to Bleep that dude lol

Stallionhorse:
You still young and have potentials thats why they want to tie you down.. You remind me of myself a few years back. The only advice I will give you is forget about women focus on your life.. When u get to certain age if you dont have money no one will look at you. If I had somebody to give me this advice at your age my life would be much better.. Right now the only thing I have to show for in life is my 2 year old beautiful daughter.. I can't count the number of girls that where flocking around me back then, there was a time I had 9 girlfriends, the money and time I should have used to build my future all wasted.. Today I'm reaping what I sewed.. So my guy be wise.

LegitBoyy:
Hi everyone,

I just wanted to share this trend I have noticed in my relationship life with you all and see if anyone can relate to it. I have just noticed recently that most girls I meet will suddenly want to “settle”.

You would wonder why this should be a problem right? Exactly. I am looking to getting into something serious myself so it should ordinarily not be a bad thing. However, I am seeing a pattern which is why I am worried.

I have met quite a few girls recently and many of them who are obviously still very active players on the ’street’ and as soon as we get talking, they suddenly want to exit the ‘street’ and want something serious with me.

For context, I will be 27years old in a few months, comfortably building a good career and a very calm person. It is not even about money or sort as many of them have met people with much more. I don’t know if any guy or lady out here actually understand my situation here?

I am looking to go into something serious but this pattern just doesn’t look all okay with me. Is it because of my calm nature? Maybe a calm guy is suitable for a husband kind of situation right?

For guys who have been in this situation, how did you dealt with it please?

Satazaa:
Let me teach you an old trick from a not so young man, anytime they bring it up ask them if they are virgins because that's what you are looking for, this takes the wind of thier sail

Tboymessiah:
True talk,

But what of we wey we no get long time relationship...
And we are not any relationship, and age is not on our side, how then are we going to settle down then

32 this December but planing to settle next year, no girl friend not in relationship, but financially okay

Evolutionlove:
I had this first hand experience between 2009 & 2012. Although I dey give my babe back to back then mostly on weekends. But unknown to me babe was also going to collect from a random niggur not far from my Area during weekdays. Omo I find out when we weren't together anymore and same Niggur Impregnated her within the space of three Months. Some people who knew about our relationship later narrated everything to me that they normally see her Visit the other guy then but they decided to mind their business. Meanwhile she Is full of regrets now, The said deadbeat Niggur have abandoned her with her Kids. She came back to me Crying last year. Omo I Just bursted Into Laughter. I dodged a bullet..

ugodson:
They simply dont have time again. A guy can get married by 45 a lady CANNOT

GodPrince:
i use the settle down as opportunity for free fhuck then I Jet!

ehissi:
Girls typically like men who are comfortable, stable and think they are easy to control.

If they see you as someone that will not give them wahala, its okay for them. If in addition to that, they also see you as someone they can easily control and walk all over, then you are their idea of a husband material......

LutherSanchez:
OP,Please stop being nice and calm to ladies especially those above 25,they're looking for the last guy to clean up and pay for the mess all the bad boys,one night stands,hookups,bleep buddies and ex boyfriends did to them. Always remember this, SECURITY and COMMITMENT is the female end game and marriage provides this,that's why after all their bleeping around,they always try to find a SIMPle guys who will tolerate their bullshits and he usually pays for what other guys got for free.

LutherSanchez:
COOL SIMP? Omo na double wahala be that oh

Tboymessiah:
True talk,

But what of we wey we no get long time relationship...
And we are not any relationship, and age is not on our side, how then are we going to settle down then

32 this December but planning to settle next year, no girl friend not in relationship, but financially okay

skywalker240:
Back in 2011 during my simping years, one was telling me to go and meet her parents to finalize marriage that she won't like dating casually, after i have been wooing her for like almost 90 days, i asked her don't you have a boyfriend or ex? She said God is her boyfriend

This girl almost fooled me to believing that she was a virgin

After we had that conversation two weeks later Aunty's don de fat for Belle

Pylea (okada Man) de Dodge this aunty go their backyard for midnight de finish wall of Jericho for back of plantain

Na as I do marry so I change my perspective about them
If not, back then if i see any of them de want play marriage card self reservation towards sex na so so grimace i go just de grimace

Coldfeets:
This guy is so mean.

But it's true sha. Women too dey lie about their age.

etrange:
Yet another thread for men to tell women about women. The couple of girls OP met are at the phase of thier lives where they want to settle down and automatically, it is now a "girls" thing. You'd think he conducted a research or sent out a survey. When you meet a girl that's only there for the fun, you come to NL to complain. When you meet a serious minded girl that wants to build a family, you still come to NL to complain. Nawa o

advanceDNA:
Women target men for marriage just as men do too...na normal parole naaa..na you go open your eyes make u no carry retired olosho

Once you have change that can cook soup for two people, pay rent, fuel generator, have gentle and good boy aura, like someone they can manipulate, U are an easy target for marriage for girls who wants to convert miss to mrs...
na u go give yourself brain... these days ...nobody is settling down..they just marry to chnage name..and continuing jumpimg from one penís to another...

Another thing u should know...many women lie about their age alot..u fit jam 32-35 year old forming 27......so dont be surprised about the extreme desperation of a supposed 26-27 year old babe

OvertheTop:
Sadly, If You are not Currently Dating a lot of women at same time and analyzing their Characters without telling them your Real intentions of finding a wife.....You have to start immediately..... (Because you can't Select a good one without Long term Experience in the Trenches...sieving the shaft from the food)

without Experience You will Mostly like fall for a retired Olosho. (this Happens a lot.)

Hed0nist:
No try am. Having an aim no mean say you go de rush. Before you decide to spend the rest of your life with someone you have to see how they react to various seasons. Good, bad, happy, sad, sapa, plenty etc. I’m not saying you should take too much time either, but there is a middle ground.

sacajawea:
Who you con marry now??

Tboymessiah:
Thanks for your contributions,

To get you clearly, you mean I should start a date with a preferred one now, or whenever am ready I should not rush ? Share more light

Tboymessiah:
Thanks for your contributions,
If I may ask, is 6 month courtship too short to know in and out of a woman

Munzy14:
Trust ladies to sniff the well groomed man..

Ones your personality is that of a well groomed man with focus..The ladies spot you easily both the good and bad ones.

You have to shine your eye to select your life partner o... Based on character, honesty, decency and hardworking...

A lady can be forming decent and high morals with you, but bleep the guys wey no send in another state.. Na y I no the hide my street OT...I pity nice guys sha...Their serious date, Them the chop them front and back.

That is why you must check character of your partner..Any one who isn't contented, if na woman, she go dey bleep outside to meet up.

If na man, he go the steal or do stupid things..

Choose wisely.