ibkayee: Yeah they will have all the requirements in the world for her, especially her physical appearance but get triggered when a woman asks for someone financially stable and doesn’t want a gateman as a partner.
If they suddenly get rich, most of them will have no issue dumping the girl that was with them when they were poor and chasing after the ‘upgraded’ girl that wants money.
So basically they get angry because they’re broke and have an inferiority complex
Well, being with you is quite different from being supportive. Most girls that choose to be with broke men do so because they can’t find better offer as at the time . Some are even there, disrespecting you, cheating on you without adding any value or contribution towards your development , so if such a guy hammer, he’ll definitely dump her.
No sensible man will dump a respectful and supportive lady that stood by him doing his struggle days.
There are exceptions to every case but me and you know that atleast 95% of time, a man will not dump you if you were there when he was down.
Most ladies that say this will never tell you what they did to him when he was down .
sqlPAIN: This mentality is mostly common among Nigerian guys and honesty it's disgusting mentality to me...
I was watching a prank video on YouTube where a guy pretended to be an ice cream selling and tried to asked some girls out to see if anyone would give him a chance. Only about 2 girls out if like 12 he approached gave him their number. What I noticed in the comments section were comments of guys saying the two girls who gave him their number were real women and that the others were fake. I've seen a lot of guys even on nairaland here with such stuupidd mentality. Ask yourself this question, if you were an ice cream seller or a broke or poor man, Shey you go date yourself if you be woman ni?
If I find myself in such situations as a guy man, going into a relationship would not even cross my mind, not to talk of being the last thing on my mind. My biggest priority would be to hussle. Hussle and more hussle till I make enough to get myself a better life...
Abeg make una stop dey castigate women for wanting the best, it's human to want the best things and it's logical.
why do girls castigate guys for wanting to Marry a Virgin?
sqlPAIN: This mentality is mostly common among Nigerian guys and honesty it's disgusting mentality to me...
I was watching a prank video on YouTube where a guy pretended to be an ice cream selling and tried to asked some girls out to see if anyone would give him a chance. Only about 2 girls out if like 12 he approached gave him their number. What I noticed in the comments section were comments of guys saying the two girls who gave him their number were real women and that the others were fake. I've seen a lot of guys even on nairaland here with such stuupidd mentality. Ask yourself this question, if you were an ice cream seller or a broke or poor man, Shey you go date yourself if you be woman ni?
If I find myself in such situations as a guy man, going into a relationship would not even cross my mind, not to talk of being the last thing on my mind. My biggest priority would be to hussle. Hussle and more hussle till I make enough to get myself a better life...
Abeg make una stop dey castigate women for wanting the best, it's human to want the best things and it's logical.
I don’t have problem with ladies setting standards for themselves. But they should not castigate men that want young beautiful and educated virgins too.
When a lady give you green light because you have money. Know that when the money finishes, she will finish you. By then you will realize that you are finished.
To feed u and ur family....I was born in wealth , its generational , and I grew up with wealthy family friends...what u don't know is that as a rich kid, u become wiser as u grow , and ud also not wanna do anything with gold diggers .... no man values a gold digger, whether rich or poor ...there's a reason y rich families don't accept women from poor backgrounds
sqlPAIN: This mentality is mostly common among Nigerian guys and honesty it's disgusting mentality to me...
I was watching a prank video on YouTube where a guy pretended to be an ice cream selling and tried to asked some girls out to see if anyone would give him a chance. Only about 2 girls out if like 12 he approached gave him their number. What I noticed in the comments section were comments of guys saying the two girls who gave him their number were real women and that the others were fake. I've seen a lot of guys even on nairaland here with such stuupidd mentality. Ask yourself this question, if you were an ice cream seller or a broke or poor man, Shey you go date yourself if you be woman ni?
If I find myself in such situations as a guy man, going into a relationship would not even cross my mind, not to talk of being the last thing on my mind. My biggest priority would be to hussle. Hussle and more hussle till I make enough to get myself a better life...
Abeg make una stop dey castigate women for wanting the best, it's human to want the best things and it's logical.
I suppose this Op-ed isn't just about the single skit you watched of an ice-cream man. That's comedy. So exaggeration was infused for comedic effect.
However, the title of your thread is a different story altogether.
(Not all but a lot of) Many women have a distorted sense of what the average income is around their environment — and this affects their idea of what earning is reasonably acceptable for their would-be partners.
Many typically (not always) quote very high figures . Now this isn't bad at all. Wishes/expectations are valid, right? The challenge is, in most societies, only a 2%—5% of men earn that high and so effectively it appears as though all women are 'gunning' for the few 'rich' men who, because they know they are the prized ones, often know that their money was a big factor in 'fetching' their spouse.
Of course this could be minimized if these women become more clued on real world earning statistics.
ibkayee: Yeah they will have all the requirements in the world for her, especially her physical appearance but get triggered when a woman asks for someone financially stable and doesn’t want a gateman as a partner.
If they suddenly get rich, most of them will have no issue dumping the girl that was with them when they were poor and chasing after the ‘upgraded’ girl that wants money.
So basically they get angry because they’re broke and have an inferiority complex
You are dating (have dated) animals in human skin.
I hardly spend on my girl. I write her projects. I bathe her sometimes. I satisfy sexually. I protect her. I defend her. I give her advice. I help her sleep at night because she's always stressed out. I am her phycologist. I help her study for exams ( I literally read the course and become her lecturer on Saturdays after breakfast. Sometimes, I wash her clothes. I massage her when she's having trouble reading. I know all her love languages. I visit her in her office and help her out with some analyses. I once spent a whole day with her in hospital when she had serious worm infestation ( I could have just sent her money but no, time is more precious. I sat beside her bed and read some stupid children story books to her). I did that even though I hate hospital environment.
You're dating a useless man who can only show love through money. You're equally stupid for thinking money is the only way to show love. Ewu like u.
Lol. We did all these ones in school about a decade ago and they still left for money.
jeromestarks: Nobody is castigating anyone. If she finds the rich guy (as in wealthy guy), she should date him na.
The problem is that when the beauty of these girls who want rich guys can not get them the "rich" guys, they will settle for the poor guys and be behaving as if the did the poor guys a favor.
It's wrong! Your beauty failed you in getting what you want and you had no choice but to accept the poor guy and you're expecting him to treat you like you're his world? Something that even the rich guys you dreamed about can't do for you (cus rich guys always want more women as many women give them green lights - no be only you like money o).
I once asked a girl out and she asked me " how much do you have in your account?" I told her and she shook her head and said "sorry, I can't date you." I respected her for saying what she wanted straight to my face. No dulling. No pretence. So I said no big deal and moved on.
After about 2 years when her beauty has faded, she chatted me up and later asked if I'm single. I said yes and soon we started fvcking. I broke up with her over irrelevant issue and she ask why I treated her like that. And I said " I can not date you anymore because I want a more beautiful and younger woman."
Nobody is saying you should not want a rich man. Want a rich man. When a poor man comes to you, chase him away. You have the right to do that. It's your body. BUT
When you couldn't get the rich man and you had no choice but to settle for a poor man, DO NOT ACT AS IF YOU DID HIM A FAVOR. In fact, he is doing you favor buy rescuing you from shame.
sqlPAIN: This mentality is mostly common among Nigerian guys and honesty it's disgusting mentality to me...
I was watching a prank video on YouTube where a guy pretended to be an ice cream selling and tried to asked some girls out to see if anyone would give him a chance. Only about 2 girls out if like 12 he approached gave him their number. What I noticed in the comments section were comments of guys saying the two girls who gave him their number were real women and that the others were fake. I've seen a lot of guys even on nairaland here with such stuupidd mentality. Ask yourself this question, if you were an ice cream seller or a broke or poor man, Shey you go date yourself if you be woman ni?
If I find myself in such situations as a guy man, going into a relationship would not even cross my mind, not to talk of being the last thing on my mind. My biggest priority would be to hussle. Hussle and more hussle till I make enough to get myself a better life...
Abeg make una stop dey castigate women for wanting the best, it's human to want the best things and it's logical.
Lol, if a rich guy accepts and marries a poor lady na love, but if a lady rejects a broke guy it's logical cos she's looking for the best. If i make am ehen, I won't look at broke ladies twice Ooo. I'll either marry up or marry a lady of equal class.
johnfem321: It’s really an hard pill to swallow.. it’s also make i you ask the question do women really love? The earlier a man understand they are only with you for some reason the better
Love doesn't exist for women. I made my peace with this a long time ago. It's a trade. If you have what they want, they'll come for it. It's not love, it's a trade. So you extract max profits for the item in your possession that they want.
sqlPAIN: This mentality is mostly common among Nigerian guys and honesty it's disgusting mentality to me...
I was watching a prank video on YouTube where a guy pretended to be an ice cream selling and tried to asked some girls out to see if anyone would give him a chance. Only about 2 girls out if like 12 he approached gave him their number. What I noticed in the comments section were comments of guys saying the two girls who gave him their number were real women and that the others were fake. I've seen a lot of guys even on nairaland here with such stuupidd mentality. Ask yourself this question, if you were an ice cream seller or a broke or poor man, Shey you go date yourself if you be woman ni?
If I find myself in such situations as a guy man, going into a relationship would not even cross my mind, not to talk of being the last thing on my mind. My biggest priority would be to hussle. Hussle and more hussle till I make enough to get myself a better life...
Abeg make una stop dey castigate women for wanting the best, it's human to want the best things and it's logical.
Na mumus like you dey help entitled leeches validate their stupidity...you no go still sniff their dirty pant.
Lol, if a rich guy accepts and marries a poor lady na love, but if a poor lady rejects a broke guy it's logical cos she's looking for the best. If i make am ehen, I won't look at broke ladies twice Ooo. I'll either marry up or marry a lady of equal class.
Peace!
what stops you from marrying one from higher class ?
To feed u and ur family....I was born in wealth , its generational , and I grew up with wealthy family friends...what u don't know is that as a rich kid, u become wiser as u grow , and ud also not wanna do anything with gold diggers .... no man values a gold digger, whether rich or poor ...there's a reason y rich families don't accept women from poor backgrounds
Lol. How rich are you? Let me see if you call walk the talk
Why is it always assumed by men that they are more intelligent than women, that they are always looking for "intelligent conversation"? Is it an ego thing, or you don't realize that what interests you doesn't interest the next person? That people have different occupations? What level? Did only men go to school?
Intellect this, intellect that. Half of men aren't even intelligent. But since they can't really pick rich girls to go out with, they begin to pick at imaginary intelligence. Are men intelligent? Hardly.
Women need to raise their standards to include intelligent men. Many of them reason myopically. It's just something they parrot from their classes whenever they bring up relating and intelligence. They don't want any relating. They just want a sex and slave. When it doesn't come easy, they fall to intelligence and relating. They forget that they get old and less desirable the more they are picky.
Really?...see Google is your friend...search for global male inventors and female inventors and see the ratio for yourself of who generally has higher intelligence since you want to argue blindly.
sqlPAIN: This mentality is mostly common among Nigerian guys and honesty it's disgusting mentality to me...
I was watching a prank video on YouTube where a guy pretended to be an ice cream selling and tried to asked some girls out to see if anyone would give him a chance. Only about 2 girls out if like 12 he approached gave him their number. What I noticed in the comments section were comments of guys saying the two girls who gave him their number were real women and that the others were fake. I've seen a lot of guys even on nairaland here with such stuupidd mentality. Ask yourself this question, if you were an ice cream seller or a broke or poor man, Shey you go date yourself if you be woman ni?
If I find myself in such situations as a guy man, going into a relationship would not even cross my mind, not to talk of being the last thing on my mind. My biggest priority would be to hussle. Hussle and more hussle till I make enough to get myself a better life...
Abeg make una stop dey castigate women for wanting the best, it's human to want the best things and it's logical.
dating is not a financial responsibility to man....
