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| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Creamypussy(f): 9:51am On Mar 11, 2023 |
OK that's fine, but if she's not working, please established her to help you in other areas of needs. Good luck and I wish you well. 1 Like |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Nobody: 9:52am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Dont do it. You are still young. Enjoy your youthful life. The regret of many men is marrying very early. 2 Likes |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by ACRI: 9:52am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Hmmm Get a lady with GOOD character, who's working OR running a business (even if a small business)...with good family background If not, think twice 2 Likes |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Babatunjo: 9:52am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Spiritual advice: ■Best age for girls to marry (I.e. their peak of beauty and maturity) = 22 years to 28 years ■Best age for boys to marry (i. e. their peak of success, wisdom, physicality and maturity) = 32 years to 38 years. ■If you were a girl, then I would have advised you to marry, but as a boy, you still need at least 8 years (minimum) to get to your peak. ■Don't let that your account balance deceive you, you haven't reached the peak of your potential yet and if you marry now, it will slow you down because your babe will be at her peak by now and rule (/and ruin) your kingdom for you. 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Oduok(m): 9:52am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Discuss it with your spiritual heads - Pastors and Imams 1 Like |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by DearGorgeous(f): 9:52am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Pray to God for divine direction. Make sure you marry a business inclined lady or someone who's working and understands what it means to make a living, not a liability. A compatible partner will do. The advantage of marrying early is that you and your children will grow like siblings. But the disadvantage is that marriage institution is weightier than it seems from outside, especially when you're not financially, psychologically and emotionally matured for it. Think about it and see if you can wait maybe another 5years before making this lifelong decision. For you to have even given a thought to marriage at this age shows you're one hell of a responsible young man and I am very proud of you. I pray you find a wife suitable for you. Cheers. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by ahnie: 9:52am On Mar 11, 2023 |
maureensylvia: Bother yourself not,he's not worth the attention.hes amongst those scallops on this forum demeaning and abusing women. Nne kedu ki mmere? 1 Like |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by ViktorCash: 9:53am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Hope say you don buy B.P medicine  1 Like |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by slimmax: 9:53am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Hmmm young and eager |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by BigYash: 9:54am On Mar 11, 2023 |
My nigga that money invest it .. Marriage no dey run.. Start investing in real estate ,and wait till you are like 28 or even 30. Buy lands, build hostel in school environment... Just keep investing.. Being a boss,is not enough.. Time still dey.. Avoid clubs and unnecessary spending.. Just keep on investing.. I keep stressing on investing. My guy e get why o.. 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by id4sho(m): 9:54am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Hatrick01:Toto still dey hungry this one 1 Like |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Jadeoje: 9:55am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Bro. Abort mission. You addressed yourself as a 24-year old "boy". There's a lot you need to learn and be in this life. You are no where near your best self. Why not focus on yourself and be better, unless of course you have not purpose in life. Marriage benefits women way more than men. Don't ever think marriage at this point. You have a long time and many years ahead to take that leap. Don't rush it man. |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by STENON(f): 9:55am On Mar 11, 2023 |
You are good to go. Don't listen to those preaching for you to wait until you are 27 -30, Start your life early and enjoy life the best, imaging having your first child at 25 and You would be 50 years old when he is 25, Do you want your child to be 25 years old when you are 70? Start your family early and enjoy life the most ,but please marry a graduate or working class lady. 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by peoplewww: 9:56am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Hatrick01: My brother, I don't think marriage should be the first thing on anybody's mind. Unless you are insecure. Which I don't think you are. It's not an achievement lol. See, take your time bro. When marrying, don't marry a liability oooh. Marry somebody that is working or doing something. Nigerian women have this mentality that a man should take care of them. Run away from such ladies ooh.. 3 Likes |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by udemzyudex(m): 9:56am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Dey play  |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by eedimo(m): 9:56am On Mar 11, 2023 |
You are not prepared |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Didi2d(m): 9:57am On Mar 11, 2023 |
I pity you. My advice, face your business. Building it more and forget about marriage Nothing stops you from saving your earnings. Well, you might be lucky to have a good lady. Follow your heart |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by spartachico(m): 9:57am On Mar 11, 2023 |
why are you in a hurry? |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by fatbims: 9:58am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Hatrick01: How did you make this money you're talking about? If na through yahoo yahoo, you're not yet ready for marriage. 3 Likes |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Ibrahiimo(m): 9:58am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Hatrick01:lol Does a woman 👠 marry a woman 👠 A lady👠 pretending to be man 👞 |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by PecE2Make: 9:58am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Did you have stable financial source of income? If you are a devil and the woman you are planning is a child of God or vice versa just forget it. |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by maureensylvia(f): 9:59am On Mar 11, 2023 |
ahnie: 🤔 hmmm I’m fine asa, happy weekend |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by chatinent: 9:59am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Go for it and get married. Planning is also important. Buy things in bulk, and live within your means.Also avoid the temptation of giving birth to too many child…remember, I said nothing about sex, but too many children. Avoid keeping too many friends. Don’t forget, anyone saying you are inexperienced because they feel you should test-run random women first to get experience…is a threat to your life. Lastly, you should understand that love covers many imperfections but it’s not enough. Understanding, trust, your principles, and maintaining a financial balance will help you too. Journey well to the conjugal mountains. I wish you success! 4 Likes |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Angelfrost(m): 9:59am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Sigh... Marriage is way beyond paying bills (and you don't even have a full clue to this)! Do you have the mental capacity and emotional intelligence to deal with the coming drama?!! Do you even have a foolproof 10-year financial plan at least?!! Making money now doesn't guarantee that you have the dough next year. Oh well... Enjoy your future matrimony! Just be very ready to weather the various storms that will inevitably arise! 1 Like |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by EPIJOE: 10:00am On Mar 11, 2023 |
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG IN YOU MARRYING AT THE AGE OF 24. IT DEPENDS ON MATURITY, FINANCE AND GODS GUIDANCE. AT TIMES IT GOOD TO MARRY EARLY HENCE GIVE BIRTH EARLY AND TRAIN YOUR CHILDREN WHEN U CAN STILL HUSTLE AT A TENDER AGE. BY THE TIME U ARE 40 YRS YOUR CHILDREN WILL BE ALMOST AT THE UNIVERSITY LEVEL. SEE BROS TRUTH BE TOLD. ALOT NEEDS TO BE LEARNED IN MARRIAGE AND ITS TOLERANCE. ALL THE ADVICE GIVEN TO UP AT THE EARLIEST POST. ARE TRUE. GOD INSTITUTE MARRIAGE TO AVOID SINNING ON YOUR OWN BODY.. EARLY MARRIAGE IS GOD OF YOU HAVE ENOUGH FINANCE TO SUSTAIN IT AND ALSO HAVE WISDOM AND GODS GUIDANCE.. NOTE MINIMIZE THE NUMBER OF KIDS YOU WANT TO HAVE. I SUGGEST TWO KIDS . WITH PRAYERS. MY LITTLE OPINION 1 Like |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Moboj: 10:00am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Hatrick01:Don't mind anyone telling you to wait wait wait We keep making it seem like there's soo much to life If you can afford the basic needs of life already and your mind is stable. Just table out attributes you want in your ideal woman and start looking out for it, be more on the lookout for the inner woman than her outer appearance, table out things you can easily tolerate and not. There is nothing more to life as if we keep waiting, there actually isn't ever a better time, everyday is a better day once you've got something's. Just be ready for what comes with marriage, babies can be draining, if you won't mind 2 years of waking up in the night to shuush your baby without spanking him silly then you're good to go. |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by DaddyGngeess(m): 10:00am On Mar 11, 2023 |
My guy leave this people here and follow your heart, majority of them here will not give you good advice because they are maybe your age mate or probably junior, I met my wife when I was your age, yes there was alot up and down but we scale through, good luck 1 Like |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by lexy2014: 10:00am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Hatrick01: I find it hard to understand how some of u bring such sensitive issues (if they are true) to nairaland. This forum crawls with people without d experience to treat these issues with maturity |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by zcee: 10:01am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Wait till you are 27-28 bro Just chill and take your time before you go carry karashika keep for house But makw sure she is not a liability let her be doing something |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by Juanmike(m): 10:01am On Mar 11, 2023 |
You have more to lose married than being single know this and know peace. 1 Like |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by YorubaRonuuu(m): 10:01am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Sometimes it's not about just having the resources but it's about been matured enough to handle a home, marriage is like an institution with wide courses.. Best of luck 2 Likes |
| Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by lexy2014: 10:01am On Mar 11, 2023 |
thebosstrevor1: What is in his youthful life that he is enjoying? 1 Like |
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