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Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by Martin0(m): 6:40pm On Jul 30, 2017
gypsey:
so your headset appears more appealing than men? *jokes* grin besides if you always walking fast who are you trying to get away from? *jokes* grin and how then can you stop and chat if you are that in a hurry? all this is a complete put off! for us men it means you are not interested. infact it means you hate people! or men grin same way you feel awkward is the same way you make others feel awkward with your headset
hmmmmgrin
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by safarigirl(f): 6:40pm On Jul 30, 2017
Martin0:
This simple truth you just told her now watch how she will come out to defend herself,or she might probably just not sound defensive anymore coz I said sogrin
wetin you dey talk no fit affect me o bros.

Na pesin wey get boil for nose know wetin dey affect am
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by Nobody: 6:41pm On Jul 30, 2017
If she's cute, responsible & working class, i'm available......
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by brandon180(m): 6:42pm On Jul 30, 2017
she should ask her village people..
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by Martin0(m): 6:43pm On Jul 30, 2017
safarigirl:
wetin you dey talk no fit affect me o bros.

Na pesin wey get boil for nose know wetin dey affect am
Am only saying the fact coz that how the reaction should look like,grin
Like I said you have just defended yourselfgrin

Well chill over that eee are we not friends,happy sunday jaregrin
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by Nobody: 6:43pm On Jul 30, 2017
safarigirl:
i modified the post.

Even when i don't have a headset on and I strike a conversation, it's never enough and i'm a great conversationalist (not just saying that, but I've heard it from people i converse with)

Maybe it's cuz of the way I look (kinda small), or maybe because I don't put in extra effor to get attention like some girls do.... Dunno sha, but it's not always as straight a line as these things look
i see your point, and it isn't because you are small, small people are humans too and I am not saying go about pushing your face into people's or force them to notice you. all I am saying is make reasonable eye contact.

okay, you may Have been told that you can have good conversation but are those people asking you out? ofcourse! your friends would think so but are they asking to be a boyfriend. so it's entirely different. i agree it isn't a straight line
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by kaydp: 6:44pm On Jul 30, 2017
truthsayer009:
Nobody is wooing you and you are cute like this. Madam please can you join me in 21 days prayer and fasting. I will also asks my pastors to be interceding for you.

This year is your year IJN.
It's hard to believe.
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by amzee(m): 6:46pm On Jul 30, 2017
Blesso222:
A childhood friend of mine who is now 31 has never been in love, no guy is telling her I love you. She is good looking, educated and well discipline.

And we are just wondering what could be the problem.
Please help.....
Give me her phone number,thats the type of girl I love to ffuck.
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by maxdosh(m): 6:46pm On Jul 30, 2017
RoyalBlak007:
Probably her parents told her "Boiz are Bad,do not move with them" while growing.
[color=gold]___If she's happy that way... leave her to it cool [/color]
Or that if any man touch her na belle straight
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by Leonbonapart(m): 6:47pm On Jul 30, 2017
lefulefu:
she must be deeper life
you are very stup!d
mistake of a child.... efulefu
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by maxdosh(m): 6:48pm On Jul 30, 2017
lefulefu:
she might be lying.on average in naija there are eight guys chasing a girl.even very ugly girls get woed by five men every two hours.
Abi and even if she wowo die for face she no wowo at all for down grin
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by Leonbonapart(m): 6:49pm On Jul 30, 2017
Blesso222:
A childhood friend of mine who is now 31 has never been in love, no guy is telling her I love you. She is good looking, educated and well discipline.

And we are just wondering what could be the problem.
Please help.....
pm me her number if you will
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by safarigirl(f): 6:50pm On Jul 30, 2017
gypsey:
i see your point, and it isn't because you are small, small people are humans too and I am not saying go about pushing your face into people's or force them to notice you. all I am saying is make reasonable eye contact.

okay, you may Have been told that you can have good conversation but are those people asking you out? ofcourse! your friends would think so but are they asking to be a boyfriend. so it's entirely different. i agree it isn't a straight line
I'm very shy, eye contact is a bit difficult. I try sometimes

Great conversationalist, yes, but you know there's always that one person you think is awesome, but you won't want to ruin a great friendship by involving feelings? I think I'm that girl.

I once had a guy tell me he liked me, he suggested dating and then he was like "I don't want to spoil you" shocked....biko, is it his spoil? undecided
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by unitedsurv: 6:52pm On Jul 30, 2017
Victornezzar:
omo leave our ladies oo
na pretend dem dey pretend
woya what is today's search the scriptures message grin weytin G.S talk about today wink
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by Victornezzar: 6:54pm On Jul 30, 2017
unitedsurv:
woya what is today's search the scriptures message grin weytin G.S talk about today wink
Baba talked about scriptural giving
didn't concentrate on search the scriptures
chicks dem just surround me 2day
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by dacovajnr: 6:54pm On Jul 30, 2017
safarigirl:
i just tried I again and I gave me same reply as always "email already exists'

It doesn't change, I'm tired of bothering, maybe they locked mine or something
Well it means the email you're trying to use is being used for another NL account. I'd advise you to use an email that's not associated with any NL account or better still create another email address then you're good to go..
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by abfalkolly(m): 6:54pm On Jul 30, 2017
Ahmed0336:
Op she is not the only one. Today i was discussing with a friend she is 29 that was also her complain. She said since bf no come she ll just console herself with 2mil car and i was like wtf!! !! undecided
Ur friend toohuhoga nobody shares her own issue...friend d's friend dt....it is ok oo..
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by Nobody: 6:59pm On Jul 30, 2017
safarigirl:
I'm very shy, eye contact is a bit difficult. I try sometimes

Great conversationalist, yes, but you know there's always that one person you think is awesome, but you won't want to ruin a great friendship by involving feelings? I think I'm that girl.

I once had a guy tell me he liked me, he suggested dating and then he was like "I don't want to spoil you" shocked....biko, is it his spoil? undecided
LOL @ is it his spoil? grin grin grin i wonder o! okay I see! you probably appears or looks very innocent, good girlish, like those born again women. that can put guys off too. guys likes whorish girls/women, girls who appears confident and cocky, shows a bit of flesh with their dressing I don't mean go almost nakid grin.

I suspect guys d rather be your friendly and protective towards you than be your boyfriend or be intimate with you. am i right?
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by mazieze: 6:59pm On Jul 30, 2017
tell her to add me on whatsapp with this number 07039405270
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by omaigala12(m): 7:02pm On Jul 30, 2017
Her pic
Let me see wot I can do
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by safarigirl(f): 7:03pm On Jul 30, 2017
gypsey:
LOL @ is it his spoil? grin grin grin i wonder o! okay I see! you probably appears or looks very innocent, good gilr, like those born again women. that can put guys off too. guys like whorish girls/women, girls who appears confident and cocky, shows a bit of flesh with their dressing I don't mean go almost nakid grin.

I suspect guys d rather be your friendly and protective towards you than be your boyfriend or be intimate with you. am i right?
yes, you're right

However, the born again own is not my style... Just good girl, but nobody thinks I'm a born again.
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by BrotherBlood1: 7:05pm On Jul 30, 2017
Blesso222:
A childhood friend of mine who is now 31 has never been in love, no guy is telling her I love you. She is good looking, educated and well discipline.

And we are just wondering what could be the problem.
Please help.....
OP, is your friend complaining? If no, let her be!. I guess marriage isn't her priority at 31.
I am 31 too. Never been in a relationship before. Never had the thought to get married at age. Why? Marriage isn't my priority for now. Infact, Marriage is no. 100 on my priority list. Lol.
#MarrigeIsOverRated
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by Nobody: 7:13pm On Jul 30, 2017
safarigirl:
yes, you're right

However, the born again own is not my style... Just good girl, but nobody thinks I'm a born again.
that right there can be problematic! now you see why the guy didn't want to spoil you?

Born again was one of my examples how you may appear i didn't mean you are. now i can understand were you are coming from. so what kinda guys do you like? it could also be that you are interested in the wrong Kinda guys since some of them sees you as too nice for them.
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by unitedsurv: 7:14pm On Jul 30, 2017
Victornezzar:
Baba talked about scriptural giving didn't concentrate on search the scriptures chicks dem just surround me 2day
lol good boy lomo yen wink what state u dey?
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by Victornezzar: 7:15pm On Jul 30, 2017
unitedsurv:
lol good boy lomo yen wink what state u dey?
Lagos
wbu
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by Pierr(f):
VeeVeeMyLuv:
because you already conclude that the younger men are little boys in your subconscious, while on the otherhand the younger men see you
as a big aunty, the same way the see their mom or older women in their lives.

if care is not taken ya case is gonna be like iara and osho.

if you want be attracted to younger men , you have to act young at heart,
play exactly the way 20 --25 year old girl would.
It's your point of view
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by nunougo: 7:22pm On Jul 30, 2017
my advice is for her to go for deliverance at mountain of fire and i guess she will get something good from it but pls which location is she so that i can take her to my branch or contact me 08031343283
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by Lover50: 7:29pm On Jul 30, 2017
dat's foundation he need to attend Omega Fire Ministry.
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by nairanaira12: 7:31pm On Jul 30, 2017
Blesso222:
A childhood friend of mine who is now 31 has never been in love, no guy is telling her I love you. She is good looking, educated and well discipline.

And we are just wondering what could be the problem.
Please help.....
Can I have her contact? If she is of good behaviour and level headed, maybe we can work something together. No jokes. I'm serious here.
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by averyblacknyash: 7:39pm On Jul 30, 2017
Hit her up with my number. Am single and searching. It will be a simple intro, let's see how it goes from dere. 0701736092
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by dacovajnr: 7:43pm On Jul 30, 2017
lefulefu:
u be fulani babe?
my guy dacovajnr always love kidnapping beautiful ladies wink
but biko why u lying na?
wat of d 50 pms got lastnight wey u no answer cheesy
I only kidnap beautiful girls will Ukwu..anything less than that "my hand no dey"
Re: Help! A Friend Of Mine @31 No Boyfriend Not To Talk Of Marriage. by Onedibe1: 7:43pm On Jul 30, 2017
Humility017:
I don't think she will be lying...
I remember a lady who once committed suicide on similar issue...
she was so rich and successful in her career path....but all through her life no man has ever approached her...or woo her...
she killed herself after quizzing her mom about her birth and circumstances surrounding her upbringing...
she was so beautiful
Yea,i wasnt refering to d lady.. I was tlking to d guy dat said 8guys goes after each gal
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