this one strong oooo

Cynie42:
Fellow nairalanders. I am confused please, i own a supermarket and v been in a relationship with my current bf whoz not yet working after his Nysc, we v been dating for 3 years now and it has been going well even though I v cheated on him twice, but he forgave me, hez nice. My problem now is that I v a customer, we are extremely close to the extent that we do discuss everything together. am even now closer to him than my bf, hez like a bestie.

But hez now asking me out and pple are telling me to answer him saying its advisable to date ur best friend than anyone else and I don't want to hurt my bf anymore and I don't want to hurt this guy too, he has bin nice to me...pls what's ur take on this, what do you advice i should do?

No insult plz

Because your BF is jobless is not your best friend anymore? You have concluded in your mind and this is the reason why you called him Jobless boy friend. My Ex also said the same-thing to me in 2009 and went away with another guy and as am posting this post they have divorced after two kids. The Guy left her for another woman. And nobody is ready to help her except me. My advice for you is that commit your steps to hand of God, don,t depend on what you are seeing today but think about tomorrow and don't make a mistake that you wouldn't be able to amend in the future because life is like story book try to choose the best pen for yourself so that you would be able to write best story for your future.

oboiiiii........kilode......she has learnt!!!

donstan18:
Argh! what are you waiting for?

Say YES to him nh, when you see another closer customer, say YES to him again, If another customer comes close, say another YES and on and on like that.

Just keep saying YES to customers like an OH YES member, even if na mad man, just say YES to him, just keep saying YES to anything that has preeeq, even your neighbor's goat

Then when they are done pounding your body like fufu, by 40 you'll end up in church, shouting "Satan die by fire" "Die by fire" "Die by fire"


Nonsense and ingredient! .....C'omon will you get out of here and go get your PVC

U have to choose one body or soul relationship

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# YOU'VE ALREADY MADE UP YOUR MIND ON GOING OUT WITH THIS NEW GUY AND CHEATING AGAIN.. FORGET ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE HAVE BEEN TELLING YOU, THAT'S NOT AN EXCUSE CUS YOU ALREADY WANT IT.

# YOUR BOYFRIEND WILL FORGIVE YOU AGAIN, AND ENDURE THE PAIN. HE'S BROKE AND DEPENDS ON YOU.. YOU HAVE A BUSINESS, SOME MONEY.. HE DOESN'T REALLY HAVE ANY OPTIONS THAN TO SMILE IN THIS OPPRESSION.

# HOW DO YOU GET TOO ATTACHED TO A CUSTOMER (YOUR NEW BESTIE) TO THE EXTENT YOU'RE CLOSER TO HIM THAN YOUR MAN OF 3 YEARS?

JUST ACKNOWLEDGE YOU'RE A GAMER AND STOP LOOKING FOR APPROVAL FOR ANYTHING BY CREATING THREADS SEEKING ADVICE WHEN DEEP DOWN YOU'VE MADE UP YOUR MIND.

I FEEL FOR PEOPLE LIKE YOUR GUY.. WHO FORGIVE BETRAYERS MORE THAN ONCE.
IF YOU SAY SORRY AND STILL SCREW THINGS UP SAME WAY THEN THERE'S NO REASON TO STICK WITH YOU.

You've said it all

donstan18:
Argh! what are you waiting for?

Say YES to him nh, when you see another closer customer, say YES to him again, If another customer comes close, say another YES and on and on like that.

Just keep saying YES to customers like an OH YES member, even if na mad man, just say YES to him, just keep saying YES to anything that has preeeq, even your neighbor's goat
Then when they are done pounding your body like fufu, by 40 you'll end up in church, shouting "Satan die by fire" "Die by fire" "Die by fire"


Nonsense and ingredient! .....C'omon will you get out of here and go get your PVC

Lol.....this guy is wicked abeg. See comment.

lefulefu:

i wan die oo

I even screenshot am sef.. Laugh wan kill me here

kovah:
another misguided feminist opinion....

bless you jare.

Dillusionist:

it's becAuse he's broke,guys don't forgive that easily.
especially the made ones.

faa telewire you slap ehn... Na every man head u sabi? Better speak for ya sef alone or ya boo

ariesbull:
He forgive you....I pity you ! A man forgiving a cheat ..maybe Yoruba men can but Igbo men can't...don't worry he is eating his humble pie ! Once he is done eating ..your dumped


Trust me

Liar. Only Ibo do that. Our ibo tenant couldn't even tell us her wife fvcked his bro until his children did. And yeah, he forgave her, like his countless Ibo counterpart. Can't even happen in Yoruba land, the man's family would be the one to drag out the woman if he failed to.

diadem10:

Liar. Only Ibo do that. Our ibo tenant couldn't even tell us her wife fvcked his bro until his children did. And yeah, he forgave her, like his countless Ibo counterpart. Can't even happen in Yoruba land, the man's family would be the one to drag out the woman if he failed to.

Thank Lord you said ibo not Igbo


It's well

The moment I saw customer, I new this bae was lost. Whether broke or not, he should have dumped your silly a$$. What do you really want?

Dillusionist:

I'm not supportive of the cheating nature of the lady but let's talk about this.

do you think that the said guy will take it likely if he's made and had alot of money at disposal?

he is still with her because of the financial benefits he's sipping from her wotkplace.
men don't take shiit so long they are made.
this one is still pitiful cos of his financial status.

wait,till he becomes rich.

I object

Op Don turn to Skye Bank , saying YES to Every of her best friends need abi? Now let's do some serious talk Karma is One of the most wicked things you don't wish to meet on a bad day, the next time you cheat on that gentle man again, I can bet it you many end up losing on all angles so it's better u stop that ur Olosho business.

Cynie42:
Fellow nairalanders. I am confused please, i own a supermarket and v been in a relationship with my current bf whoz not yet working after his Nysc, we v been dating for 3 years now and it has been going well even though I v cheated on him twice, but he forgave me, hez nice. My problem now is that I v a customer, we are extremely close to the extent that we do discuss everything together. am even now closer to him than my bf, hez like a bestie.

But hez now asking me out and pple are telling me to answer him saying its advisable to date ur best friend than anyone else and I don't want to hurt my bf anymore and I don't want to hurt this guy too, he has bin nice to me...pls what's ur take on this, what do you advice i should do?

No insult plz

You are a senseless girl and your boyfriend is even more senseless for forgiving your cheating attitude. If your boyfriend had balls he would have dumped your sorry ass.

mhisbliss:
You can't jump into conclusions like that, Maybe he really likes her, irrespective of his financial status

best response. Ya head de work gan

ericsmith:



these your theory is why 70% of housewives are not truly in love with there husband. its now a world women marry for financial stability ,, after some yrs in the marriage,, money no longer a problem,, they start looking for means to cheat with there ex

I thought men don't need love, only submission.

Kimcutie:
If he's rich, he will use his money and buy another girl? LOL

help me ask am. Shey e think say ma all love be fake? Ppl n judging...

Proudgorgeousga:


I thought men don't need love, only submission.

lefulefu:

cos that op"s customer is loaded she dey look for way to ditch her broke boyfriend.i know that this her customer is riding a Venza and her eyes don dey do chuku chuku for the guy ride.now she wants to dump her broke unemployed boyfriend for this rich guy but guilty concience is already affecting her hence her coming here for so called advice.all wetin she dey look for here na to get enuf encouragement to dump her broke bf.but weda we bash ooo..or we support her she will still dump her guy for the rich customer.her mind don already dey made up .

mhisbliss:
My mama

Correct pikin

Dillusionist:

or maybe he doesn't 80%.


when he makes money,he will start by saying she's an evening newspaper just like the ones we have here.
most men are like that.

Most... Not all

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So what guarantees that the said bestie will end up marrying her? FOOL.

Am sure her so called biological clock will stop ticking when the bestie dumps her ass too. Abi na only women sabi dump.

What about the reality that some made men will continue to toil with women who just want them because they are already made rather than growing with them from scratch Does that make it right? Madam reality.


Instead of you to give good advice, you are busy wallowing in your pain.

FOOLISH girl

If you were my boyfriend, I will dump you too.
Zero tolerance for uncouth brothers...

DannyJ19:
Even your mother

Ask him.

ImaIma1:
How can he even be your best friend? For how long have you known him?

Whatever you do, please just free your bf. He deserves a better person. You are too shaky.

Are you supposed to be scanning around when you are committed to someone? You don't seem to have control over yourself. You follow anything that comes. You are moving without coordination like a headless chicken.

Many guys condemning her too don't realize that this is how men jump around like frogs even when they have a bae.

My kind of woman. Very balanced submission.

Who even knows maybe during one of your wandering and hunting for Dciks trips; you've inherited a curse, thereby transferred it to this guy you tagged jobless........ It would definitely be 98.999 be as a result of his impoverished life and the remaining 1.111 be as a result of his foolishness for forgiving you more once for cheating and not finding his way.

banchuz:

You must answer dat question urself

She's a whòre.

Proudgorgeousga:


I thought men don't need love, only submission.

Submit

The love of a man is conditional you always have to provide for your woman to love you

Dillusionist:


he's still nice cos he's still broke and jobless and no girl can take him for now, hence,the cling.

not true oo. There are broke guys wey girls dey run after. Even in some cases they collect money from rich guys and spend it on these broke guys. And u know when a girl acts in such a way there's dat tin wey d broke guy dey give am wey d rich guy can't give her