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Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by kunleweb: 12:35pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 12:35pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: I don’t see why I deserve this much vitriol for having an opinion. I mean no harm with the thread. It is well. |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Biglittlelois(f): 12:37pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
I had high hope for this thread, infact, I was loving the comments, until I got to some pages and I started seeing, "menopause" and other degrading words just to prove certain points, it's really sad that at this age and time, women are still perceived certain ways using something or a phase that can't be controlled as their drive home point, and funny thing is, they don't, won't, refuse to see it as bad, instead, they prefer to call for more re-inforcement to continue the men movement and gender insults, because that is how their points, opinion, can make sense or a prove of worth, crassness. 4 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by kunleweb: 12:37pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
bukatyne: The last paragraph isn't the reality with this generation o sister bulky. It's truly being a while since you were wooed. Persistence is taken as weakness thesedays. I advice a guy, let the woman do the move on you first, or ask only once, don't ask twice. An insatiable woman is like a suction that sucks the life outta a man. 1 Like |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by kunleweb: 12:38pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: Yea Yea, shut the door behind you, while you walk outta here with your tedious soliloques, camouflaged blackmail. No one here has derided good women, none. And we ain't buying the crap you're selling.. 2 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 12:44pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: They hope that menopause will make women settle for their useless existence but it won't. They will keep begging till death do us part. The aging process is not a privilege of women alone. Prostate cancer, erectile dysfunction, impotence are real. And since money is all Nigerian women want, they are doomed to die alone. Buhari will see to it. 4 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 12:45pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: This is gross misrepresentation of what transpired in this thread but it’s alrifht if this is how you want to qualify the edifying & enlightening comments on this thread. It is well. |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by crackhaus: 12:46pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
kunleweb:Manipulation with deflection, emotional blackmail, and sneaky stratagems, is a woman's ultimate weapon. The moment a man becomes immune to all of it, they lose their hold on him. I had my own immunization at birth, not every man is so lucky. Just watch, this comment is already being interpreted as woman-hate by some even when God, Lucifer, Odysseus, Oprah, & Barack Obama knows it as fact. 6 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Biglittlelois(f): 12:46pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
kunleweb: I noticed that after cococandy quoted your bashing ladies comment, you couldn't quote her on that because you were caught on it, instead, you choose to go personal by attacking her persona, same thing you just did to me, trying to justify your crassness for lack of a better point to make, forgetting that, you tried to brag about mentorship of females and having mostly ladies in your family, as if an evidence of that will change your faulty mentality and mindset of women, you just displayed the CHARACTER OF A TYPICAL NAIRALAND MALE, though you tried to make it unnoticeable with your diction, of which I say, you try. 3 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 12:47pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Why are you doing this? Fear God ooo. Men & women are not at war & cannot do without each other. Please do better as we enter the new year. |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by cassyrooy(m): 12:48pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
uninspired07:You're writing about me. But I'm gradually becoming a little relaxed with the ego, the stiffness and the summing up of where a potential relationship will lead to. Relaxing a little bit like Healthserve pointed out will help you find the right balance. Please, do compromise a little bit. |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 12:49pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
uninspired07: We can do without your kind perfectly well. 3 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 12:50pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Mindfulness: What irritates me the most about this thread is the op. He claims he's lonely, asks if he should worried by his approach, agrees with everyone that says no, disagrees with everyone that calls him out, claims to be unbothered, but created TWO threads today in which he complains about his loneliness. His approach is already final, yet he seeks opinions and validations and as mentioned earlier, complains about loneliness. 4 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by kunleweb: 12:50pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
crackhaus: It's funny, very very funny, very very very funny. It's also childish to witness the petty points these ones are holding on to as a weapon in this arguement ( notice, not all the ladies here are joining sides with them seeing what's not there, forcing a needless gender-war) The Princess syndrome is real. Big time |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 12:51pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
cassyrooy: Thank you brother. I appreciate. 1 Like |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by kunleweb: 12:51pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Nope. Men and women need one another. We can't rather refuse to go without our chocolate-skinned beautiful black women |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by cassyrooy(m): 12:52pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
crackhaus:Man, I really like this your post, especially the the highlighted area. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 12:53pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
fieryy: It's called cognitive dissonance. OP suffers a lot. I would have helped him because I am a very sympathetic person but he chose to go into attack mode and now he will learn the hard way. 3 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Biglittlelois(f): 12:54pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
healthserve: Kunleweb/healthserve, explain in details, what menopause has to do with this thread, of which menopause, a natural phase all women will experience, explain how menopause is a self inflicted condition and makes one exudes bitterness. 4 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 12:54pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
kunleweb: I know you can't. The desperation is obvious. 3 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 12:54pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
fieryy: Occasional loneliness. I won’t lie just to prevail over the impression you’re trying to create. I don’t hate women & I agree I need their company but I won’t dishonor myself in the process. |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by kunleweb: 12:55pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: Hahaha you see why I keep saying you're seeing things that aren't there. Apart from the fact that I've consistently taunted cococandy as shiny skull over the years, I've never attacked her persona just like that and consider her to be a classy, strong, intelligent, independent, strong-willed woman, but doesn't mean I should bow to whining. No, I don't need validations trust me. I don't give a fvck. 2 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by crackhaus: 12:56pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
uninspired07:You're welcome. Ans as for the usual suspects, it's deflection tactics as always, it mustn't bother you. Just be sleak with your responses, and don't latch on or you will keep explaining yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 12:56pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Lol. Help me? How can you help me? I came for advice & I am getting a lot of that. 2 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by kunleweb: 12:56pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: If you read my comment without hate perhaps you'll see that I was speaking about "damaged women", something even Bukatyne observed and we discussed about with good civility |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 12:56pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
crackhaus: Thanks jaree. 1 Like |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 12:57pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
uninspired07: I asked a question earlier, which you are still yet to reply. Who is asking you to dishonor yourself? 1 Like |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by kunleweb: 12:57pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Didn't I say earlier that politeness is more than often interpreted as weakness. Get your tiny nyansh off my view joor 3 Likes |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Raalsalghul: 12:58pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Toks2008:I fucking hate this sentence. Like how much is enough, huh? Can't wait to live this continent. |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Biglittlelois(f): 12:58pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
uninspired07: As much as some of the comments here make a lot of sense and I actually advice you to use them going forward, I do not understand how and why you did not see the demeaning comments on women, made by you and others, I do not understand. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by Nobody: 12:59pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
kunleweb: Nothing easier than that. 1 Like |
Re: Is This A Healthy Dose Of Self Esteem Or Should I Be Worried? by uninspired07: 12:59pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
fieryy: I won’t answer this as you know what I mean by dishonor. Go through the gamut of my posts on this thread & you will see it all over. |
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