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Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by PRISTINEMUSCLES: 4:13pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
ubunja: Well, the muscles that rip ladies apart are not the kind of steroid-looking muscles(those are for the love of the male folks) It is the v- taper kind of muscular physique. Broad shoulders, well defined lats and pec muscles and slim waist. No, calisthenics can't give one those muscles, the ladies love. Weight- lifting is the way. |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Thegeneralqueen:. Wrong! Like me ,I am just a business minded kind of man, don't want to be seen that I run around women. If any woman of my spec approach me, I adore her and treat her right. So don't say every Nigerian men....I can actually build a family with a lady who truly love and was bold to confess her love to me. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by ubunja(m): 4:20pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
PRISTINEMUSCLES:I hear you on the Calisthenics. Seems the ladies who favour them are more outlier than majority. The Body Game will take any man from zero to somewhere. I would much wish guys hit the gym more instead of all their fixation with making money. Get the right body first. That alone gets you a seat at the table. Money appeals to women's need for security and comfort. But muscles, they talk to their biology and inspire pure primal animalistic Lust. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Nobody: 4:34pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Route99: You're not getting it. Here we are talking about green light from a woman whose interested in a man who doesn't know it. Like how to get HIS attention. Not a man trying to woo a woman. They are two different scenarios. If the man eventually gets the drift and begins to woo, na easy falling since the woman's mind is already there. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Usihyelda(m): 4:36pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
One gurl said to me....
I'm in....... With you.
And i don't knw wat she mean ooh. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by PRISTINEMUSCLES: 4:51pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
ubunja: Ubunja my man, you have said it all. Funny enough, I delved into body-building/physical fitness solely on health reasons. The green-light from ladies are just one of those side benefits. I always tell guys, to achieve your purposes/goals/aspirations, one needs a fully-fit body. Always make sure your body is properly taken care off first. A muscular man is attractive to any "straight" woman. That is a fact Hope you lift also. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by ubunja(m): 4:57pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
PRISTINEMUSCLES:I delved a little into lifting but time and other commitments derailed me. But 2020 I'm getting back on that horse because I wanna level up hard and a good body is the foundation of everything. I already get stares because of my extra long height. A mascular body will seal the deal. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by ubunja(m): 5:01pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Jewessgratitude:Green Lights are an invitation to approach and present your romantic case because the girl sees you as a viable romantic partner. Simple. I don't know what men think green lights are. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Samofamo: 5:05pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Green Light u say?,some ladies will give u false green light,if u try approach them,they will now let u know it can't work that if they did not give u the green light ,you would not have come, so Probably you don't love them or rather u are not bold enough to talk to her |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Oduduwa707: 5:31pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
OP....
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Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by TwentyOnePilots(m): 5:32pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
FanOfMyself: Bro, you wicked oh!!! 1 Like
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Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by pansophist(m): 5:32pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Lol Women find it hard to approach men because they like to have the power. The cardinal rule in every relationship is that the person that need the other the least has all the power. When they chase, then they have transferred the power to you and make you the prize, which to them, its like drinking cold pap, it just doesn't go well for most. Also, chasing eliminate the feeling of being desired women need, and some would rather die and watch you date a pig than elimate their ego and approach the man they have feelings for. To this set of women, relationship is game that must be won, while men naively enters into one idealistically. There is also the common possibility that men do not like role reversal. Men want to chase, not being chased. Generally, women are subtle in approach. Gra gra and being direct is a Male domain. A woman will drop all the hints like a criminal desperate for an arrest, and expect you to pick tab and finish the work. And in my view, it works well this way. Also, chasing her reduces the chances of being his easy meal used to "count score". Men are notoriously known for their non discriminatory sexual policy and will smash any girl that surfaces, so a girl approaching you directly is like an impala presenting her underbelly to an hyena, hardly happens. The female psyche is one of self-importance that makes the female feels more valuable than his male counterpart, hence, approaching you is a big blow to this feeling. Don't blame her, blame evolution. 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Nobody: 5:35pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Feminist!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thegeneralqueen: |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by BentSpoon(m): 5:37pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Starz825: are u alright ? that girl love u ode �� |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by slimgonzalez(m): 5:42pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
emmy512:next time react, make sure theres a fuss u could 'whisper something in her ears.... And see were that gets you..... Shes done her part by serving the dish,its up to you to grap a bite. |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Jodha(f): 5:48pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by subcbouy: 5:51pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
vickydankal:I can relate to only "attack him" lol 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Starz825(m): 5:58pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
BentSpoon: She has a boyfriend already..even if she want anything ain't giving shit...tired of her mood swings jare |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by IamPlato(m): 6:09pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Thegeneralqueen:come On Shut Up Your Mouth. |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by swedbase(m): 6:13pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Thegeneralqueen: Hahahaha |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by CaptMarvel(m): 6:29pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Unmh wa shey re omo vickydankal: 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by goodnewscliff(m): 6:34pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
I dunno for ya all nl guys em shaaa.... Buh i have been approached by my female friends em and they do the relationship talks,, NOT ME.... They just cut to the chase gets lotta calls from em gals every day till they get tired nd choose to ignore..... IS THIS EVEN A TOPIC OR ALL THE GUYS HERE ARE DUMB!!!! I mean girls do give obvious green lights every now nd dem to ma g's dem..... Na wa ohh... Really amazed at this.... Maybe am blessed to be stressed 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by olaitann93(m): 6:36pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Jodha: lol... I experienced this during my final year. I was in a exam hall with my friends. I was looking for seats for my friends so we (carry over final students) could sit close to one another. A 300 level student offered me seat beside her and I accepted. she told me to come sit immediately. I called one of my friends to come take the sit since I already have one. Wen she found out that I was not the one who was going to take the seat, she told me she was not willing to give any other person that seat. I didn't understand anything, I was there trying to explain to her how the situation remains the same if my guy occupy the seat. I tried to convince her that my guy was brilliant. She winked at me and chew her gum very hard without saying a syllable, disappointment written all over her face and my guy was smiling. I made the whole thing worse by asking her why she winked at me and she denied of doing that. My guy interfered, telling her it was true that she winked. she then became shy. When another friend asked me about the seat, I explained what happened and he was like i bleeped up that it was a green light. At that point, my brain started rewinding d whole scene and understood the gesture better. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by goodnewscliff(m): 6:44pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
dalass:Lol.... Ladies die for me nd wish they get me,, sorry !!!!! they even tell it to my very face and so?? Am i supposed to feel like a GOD or u think its impossible?? Or u think its a crime for a woman to express what she feels for a guy? Wowww..... 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Jewessgratitude:I get you. From your experience, how effective is this your green light (avoidance)? To some, avoidance could mean you detest their presence. Most people prefer to be more straight forward these days, which I think is beneficial for everybody. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by goodnewscliff(m): 6:51pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
seenga:Ahh ahhnn.... I tire for guys here ohh.... Same here brov |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by PRISTINEMUSCLES: 7:03pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
ubunja: Please do. I will be watching 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Xmen149(m): 7:07pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Jodha:nice |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by virginchaser(m): 7:34pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
I was really embarrassed the day i approached my best female friend. She was surprised at that and told me she never expected that from me. Eventually she agreed we should try it but it never worked. I found out the music trainer was having a bit of her that part i never saw until i dated her. I lost the relationship and ruined the beautiful friendship. Painful. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Omar09(m): 7:35pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
ubunja: Funny how betas think money will make them Alphas. I just laugh at them. You make the money and you get swiped off that money by the very person you love.. It does pain. 1 Like 1 Share |
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