Serene123:


Not chat. I can attest to that. I secretly had her WhatsApp on my phone for like a month without her ntoitce.

I saw other chats, but not that of the guy

tell me how u did this pls

Serene123:
Learn Bro

it seems you are too in love to see the play going on.

She suddenly needs two weeks to Bleep that guy finish to heal and come back to you.

My only advice will be, buy DNA tests as you get married to her.

A word is enough for the wise.

SocialJustice:
As the guy talk that thing I know say na lefu lefu mumu, I won't be surprised if he still marries her.

na olila

Bros can WhatsApp be logged on two phones at same time? Hmmmm

Not chat. I can attest to that. I secretly had her WhatsApp on my phone for like a month without her ntoitce.

I saw other chats, but not that of the guy [/quote]

Serene123:


Confuse

Haven't seen tangible evidence against her and the guy despite hacking her phone and reading all her chats for months.

Just the call that put me off. And the call have continued for months

I am torn between believing her or just calling it off.

abeg how u take havk the whatsap help a sister

wese90:

This is true

the guy is blindfolded with love

SexytorresE:
abeg how u take havk the whatsap help a sister

don't give yourself heart attack by wanting to check your husband or bf phone. if you suspect any form of cheating, just walk out of the relationship jejely

Serene123:


I have gone as far as secretly getting access to her WhatsApp. I didn't see any single chat with her and the guy nor another person. But the calls just keep pisisng me off.

I realised I shouldn't have gone that far. I should have just be calmed and let her do her wish

Ode. You are not seeing the chats becos she has cleared them!

You are only see what she wants you to see!

Serene123:


Have u hacked someone WhatsApp chat b4?


If u haven't, then keep calm bro.
Whenever she is online, I get notified and read everything she is typing

I am yet to see any evidence between her and that guy.

oh! Pls mail me ur digit let's talk on WhatsApp I need get something pls

Serene123:


Not chat. I can attest to that. I secretly had her WhatsApp on my phone for like a month without her ntoitce.

I saw other chats, but not that of the guy

If a lady you got engaged to for marriage can refused to pick your calls because of another guy what exactly do you think is going on ?
My guy i'm making this judgment based on that 1 count . I won't say don't marry her but be ready to bear the blame las las . no sincere lady will refuse to give you her phone .

Skepticus:


It's bigger than losing feelings. That girl OP talked about na most likely Coded Street girl wey dey run package on top the OP head.

As she see say OP don engage her (wedding on the way), she use the few months wey she get as single babe, they "sort" her old boyfriend(s) which is giving them "parting sex" before her marriage. All go be clean runs, no social media chat so that the OP no go suspect. I don straff babe like that 3 days to her wedding. Babe just call me say she wan give me "parting gift" before wedding. Deletes call as soon as she made them to clean up "evidence". Na banging all night before she go wed for PH 3 days later. That's why paternity fraud for Nigeria be like water. Na so plenty men take dey train first children wey nor be dia own.

I just dey laugh the OP. Girl dey run "street" parole on am and e nor wan understand. He should be glad that he has a good "subconscious" telling him that something is wrong.

This here is what is wrong with many on this thread. We share our thoughts based on our past actions or inactions. Different strokes for different folks sha.

InfernoNig:
In summary. She's cheating. Just be careful.

In summary she's no cheating, girls like having back up plans, and the guy is abt to prove her right on her having a back up plan

Serene123:


Her chats, sms, messenger all clean.

Someting happened and her WhatsApp was showing on my phone for months without her knowing. I didn't see a single chat with the guy.
Not one.

If u don't want other men to father ur children, walk out of that relationship. The taste of friendship is not the taste of marriage. She is allready fvcking the guy and can Never keep any form or trace of any conversation.

Chii59:
Funny enough, more men wail on romance land than women.
Why on earth should a mere misunderstanding lead to a scuffle which damaged her nails.
Children everywhere

you have landed with your controversy again. is that all you can say, why are you so interested in the damaged nails than the main problem itself

I don’t know why it’s difficult for this women to cut off from their male friends when their partners don’t approve, lord knows the time I was friends with girls in relationships was because they were dating before I came along and I’m just patiently waiting for the dude to mess up so I can chop my share,there is nothing like male bestie with no strings, if that nigga have his chance he will clap the cheeks. Ladies know this and know peace in your relationships. E get why we are not comfortable with you and that bestie

My concern here is her saying you need to give her time to clear her head...you can’t force love brother...

I think she is flirting and trying to date the new guy, so she is kind of confused..you have checked her chats and nothing, so calm down...

Go ahead with your plans with her, if and only if her head is clear and she tells you she really wants to go ahead with you,never force her, otherwise, thank your stars if she says it’s over.

All the best!

Mr Man,am a man but you have insecurity problem try to grow off it

Beze992:
OP I think you should just move on, she doesn't love you. That a bit blunt, I know, but believe me no lady that loves her man would not want to settle a difference or refrain from calling him for two weeks if there's no one else somewhere that provides her emotional needs, except of course you did something grevious to her. Same thing is applicable to a man.
That being said, I have noticed that in a twisted way most men seem to value women that stresses them . It's really baffling, when they see the loyal ones that never tries to manipulate them, they tend to take those ones for granted.

why can I seems to value a lady that stress me. for what na.

Serene123:


Her chats, sms, messenger all clean.

Someting happened and her WhatsApp was showing on my phone for months without her knowing. I didn't see a single chat with the guy.
Not one.

Baba.....

I no even know wetin to tell this guy again...I just weak...

[color=#770077][/color]When opinions are expressed from a place of stereotype and prejudice, they can be very harmful.

Look into the situation carefully and critically bro. For every negative doubt, give a benefit of positive doubt also. Most of the comments up there are condemning, not critical. There is no one size fits all advice or principle when it comes to relationships. Have it at the back of your mind that this is a peculiar case. In the spirit of fairness, consider humanity before gender stereotypes. You have taken quite a number of wrong steps already. An ideal man does not snoop or snitch. You have done both already.

Way forward? Be disinterested and you shall see everything clearly. I repeat, be disinterested. NOT UNINTERESTED. Once you are disinterested, she will give herself away. Females by nature cannot handle mystery. If you still don't get the gist I can explain further.

Issa simpu sturv!

SexytorresE:
abeg how u take havk the whatsap help a sister

He didn't hack shit, I can assure you. He's only covering his lover up. Why do you think she's struggling so much for him not to access her phone if truly no evidence on it.

Oga, we move oo!

There is this maturity that comes with when one takes step to get married and responsibility too. All I see in the last part is each party trying to manipulate the other (blackmail) to submit. This shouldn’t happen after proposal. If a wife or husband doesn’t see how the partner is not comfortable with a particular relationship they keep both parties ought to be able to discuss it but where you’re calling and she isn’t interested I understand you’re in love but my brother whatever brought you to this forum should give you energy to accept what you can or refuse what you can’t. I will not tell you to continue or end it but look at yourself and imagine if this is what you can handle in other pressing issues. Will this be how your wife will just wake up and want space or rush you to drag her phone because you touched it. For me if there is no sincerity atleast after rings there shouldn’t be any advancement. Forget we discuss it . Over a call she gets a lady you proposed asked you give her time over one week my dear she believes you will beg soon. Goodluck

Ogbeni jara we. Who doesn't know the clear chat and delete button!
I'm not absolutely sure she is cheating on you but it raises a red flag if she couldn't pick your call cuz she was with 'just a friend'.
If she said that action has killed the remaining affection she had for you, then she meant it.
Set up a meet, apologize for your action and ask her if she doesn't see a future with you anymore.
Noor go cry DNA matter in the next few years oo

Serene123:


I have gone as far as secretly getting access to her WhatsApp. I didn't see any single chat with her and the guy nor another person. But the calls just keep pisisng me off.

I realised I shouldn't have gone that far. I should have just be calmed and let her do her wish

Seniormanfeyyie:
Op God will bless u and provide and protect your family but if u marry this girl in,question it will not be well with your soul forever becos even me self go Bleep am. Check my pix to confirm fine boy

oga but you are married na, abeg leave am for your boys

I want to know how you hacked her WhatsApp bro.

Serene123:


Have u hacked someone WhatsApp chat b4?


If u haven't, then keep calm bro.
Whenever she is online, I get notified and read everything she is typing

I am yet to see any evidence between her and that guy.

Your story sounds exactly like someone that I know. Anyways it’s obvious your mind is made up and there is absolutely no advise that can change your mind. Enjoy OP

extol1:

you have landed with your controversy again. is that all you can say, why are you so interested in the damaged nails than the main problem itself

Swerve.

Calling the guy is very wrong. What if she told the guy she's single nko oh. Is babe his in the best position to solve whole matter

ogashman:


I have been there before..... ur girl knows she is about to be caged by marriage, so this is the last time she has to test another dick, before living with urs forever.


if you can, call it quits with her or better still warn the guy to keep off ur woman....take her phone and call the guy to leave ur wife alone. if she still continues, then u know what to do

Mtcheew

Serene123:


I have gone as far as secretly getting access to her WhatsApp. I didn't see any single chat with her and the guy nor another person. But the calls just keep pisisng me off.

I realised I shouldn't have gone that far. I should have just be calmed and let her do her wish

pls be careful before rushing into marriage especially when you are in doubt. Few years ago I was in doubt but I still went ahead with the marriage. today I am unhappy in marriage. It is better to suffer from breakup from someone you love while in courtship than planning to or divorcing your partner after marriage. in a nut shell, give it some time, be observant, don't ignore any bad signal. in a short while you will discover the truth. Pls how can i hack into someone's WhatsApp? that's by the way sha

Barsote:
Dog wei go lost?? Mtcheew

no go hear the hunter whistle