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BluIvy:
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Whoo! I will not respond in detail to yourvrubbish. Go home! This is not Lagos, you cannot claim one Nigeria here.

Hardworking people crying so hard to stay in the land of the xenophobes and the lazy. Well by th way we know now who have cognitive problems. Btw, even Yorubas are lazy and blah, blah!

Dontdie with all your hardworking in SA please go home. This is really easy if you think about it leave the lazy, wicked Xenophobes in their country.

The nigerian man that brought you here should be tried for treason.
You f.o.o.l, are you trying to divide my people? How did lagos/yoruba become your problem, you woman from the last country of Africa?
But you have failed already. we're 170mil strong. There will be no breakups. The whole continent is for our taking including your HIV infested south africa.
By the way, tell mtn, dstv, shoprite and all the southafrican personel to leave my darling nigeria alone and go home and we will send all Nigerians packing from Southafrica. But none will listen to you. Nigeria is mtn most important market. so it is for dstv. They'd rather disown you and remove your citizenship than have you ruin their market.

Bewarned, i'm invoking lezz to come finish you up. I'm a lot kinder and considerate in contrast.
It is for your best interest you leave this forum quietly before the greatest southafrican slayer ever finds you!

BluIvy:
Only behind Nigeria i would imagine because as we speak Nigeria is at the no. 1 spot.

Even a Thai police officer confirmed that receives" Nigeria is the shame and curse of Africa". An Indian community leader call Nigerians a cancer that the world need to rid itself of. I can go on and on but i hope you get the point. In all of this South Africans are doing all of this in their country while you are rotten inside and outside you country. We are lazy and being wicked in our country, get it? If you do not like it, get the fcck out of our country. Is it by force that you must be in SA? I think SA will have to just take it up a million times notch to replace Nigeria at that spot. And that is the truth.

Having most of your life lived and living on a nigerian forum says just the oppisite. Your country is a mess, with decaying infrastructure. You lived the hypes of anglo-dutch inputs, now that the country us handed to you bunch of blacks, the country is decaying. And you turned your frustration on other blacks who are superior because you just cant compete. Nigerians dont oppress foreigners here. They are free to own businesses. We"re entreprenurers and an unconquarable people. Unlike most of your people who are slow, unimaginative, uninteligent, incompetent wicked cowards.
Black southafricans are the true shame of the black race, being the weakest to break free from the slave masters, having inherited all the assets from the anglo-dutch but couldnt manage the country after only two decades.
If your people didnt resort to raw violence and evil, Nigerians with legitimate business will take over your country. I bet a nigerian man brought you to nairaland where you are experiencing true life with the most vibrant of people (Nigerians) on the continent.
I'll hand you over to Lezz to finish you with the final nail. Rubbish!

omoharry:
Please my brothers and sisters in SA come back home oooo!! it is better to stay and managed with what you have in your country than die like a chicken in SA.....SOUTH AFRICANS are enemies of Nigeria... they lack love in their heart toward their fellow African brothers. kindly look around you , you will find out that Nigerians are not the only victims there..other citizens from Zimbabwe, Somalia etc are equally affected..they are blood suckers and they have large sympathizers that support this killing and butchering since they too cannot stand foreigners in their land. Branding and killing every foreigners or Nigerians as thief, criminals is not the way to go.. ...If we behave like South Africans, that means the every Chadians, Nigerien's will be tagged and killed as Boko Haram or enemy of the country. What about the some Indians, Lebanese or Chinese that are into some illegal business in Nigeria..they all would have been become endanger species in Nigeria..... SOUTH AFRICANS hide under the guise of Nigerians are drug peddlers, Nigerians are criminal .. Nigerian are this ... Nigerian that to perpetuate their deep rooted hatred they have for this Country and other African countries...monsters. you want to become Giant of AFRICA? HOW CAN YOU BECOME ONE WHEN YOU CANNOT EVEN STAND TO PROTECT YOUR OWN FELLOW BLACK MAN FROM THE RAIN. COME AND CLAIM THE TITLE NA.. NONSENCE

You're supposed to be in the ministry of foreign affairs and international relations. You would make this country proud with your awareness. The true giant of Africa -- Nigeria needs people like you.

EVarn:
South africans are an extremely brutal breed of the human race,they do not tolerate foreigners prospering in their land; mostly because many black south africans are still jobless illiterates with crime as their only avenue of feeding.
Due to south africa's unfortunate animalistic instincts,many foreign investors have been discouraged to establish companies,while those who had already set up businesses have packed up and ran away in fear of being lynched by south africa's animalistic mobs.
Though their are a number of Nigerian criminal elements in South Africa,it definitely isnt worth carrying out violent reprisals against every foreigner on sight,this goes to show how socially underdeveloped south africa is,afterall,SA has a police force,doesnt it?.

I'm proud of your comment. You know how to defend your own unlike the ignorant nigerians here blinded by shallow thinking and political bankrupcy. You really know black southafticans-- largely insecure bunch who attack anything foreign. From killing and looting Zimbabaweans, Kenyans and Nigerians living in that country simply because they feel inferior and threathened by these hardworking foreigners. And they are here runing the show with dstv, mtn, shoprite etc. And none in Nigeria have ever felt threatened to attack them or their offices/shop/investment. Wicked, lazy souls. Little wonder they suffered very long in the whiteman's grip.
That country soon will be the most hated country in the planet.

ozoigbondu:
America and her cohorts should face front.lf they closed their eyes to the rigging that happened in Kano, Kaduna, Katsina, Niger during the presidential election, then they should go and die for calling for cancellation Rivers and Akwaibom gubernatorial elections.

If they like let them cancel the elections and redo it again one million times PDP will win with a wider margin.Udom is the choice of Akwalbom and Wike the choice of Rivers

you couldnt have said it any better. The US wants Jonathan out and they've been bias . Let them leave my beloved naija alone. We dont need their interferance. Their interest in nigeria really worries me cos the US has this evil and discord anywhere she goes. please US leave my country alone!!!

macjive01:
That's not a nice thing to say. He was voted in by majority non-igbo becos they believe in his ability. please refrain from making such sentimental ethnic statement.

if you dont know, he wasn't even the first choice of candidate Delta Igbo's wanted.

Nice caution to that fellow who lacks sensitivity.

Ymodulus:
I think I will start by trying to be Anthropomorphic, as it will bet express my heading.
Its really sad when insanity realizes that he has a mental disorder then he is as good as cured. The moment a people come to terms with their complex problem which often place them at loggerheads with their host communities the better for them.

I seem not to fathom how a tribe claim to have suffered humiliations and deprivation from other ethnic nationalities. This allegation should be consider very weighty even though it was not substantiated. Nonetheless, this aggrieved ethnic nationality needs to ask herself what is about it that could be responsible for the purported hostile acts of other ethnic nationalities toward it.

One problem I have with Chimanda is all her articles tends to quote Chinua Achebe, even when its evident chinua actions are wrong. The sane mistake she made, about his book "there was a country". Now she is trying to say that the Igbo's were murdered in early 1960's for political reasons? Who started the war? Was it the Nigerian Arny or The late Ojukwu ? I see Chimabda is biased. And she is just a staunt re-echoer of Chinua Achebe's belief.


I liked the fact that she related the massacre of the Ibos in different parts of the country before the civil war. However what I do like to ask her is this,

1. chimanda was there nothing that led to the massacre?

You can't deny that the tendency to dominate in another man's land which is being exhibited now by taking the Oba to court is what led to such. Tell me when you come back from court if the people of Lagos will still have a good relationship with the Ibos.


Chimanda while trying to play a neutral ground at the surface, is been biased deep down. I am sorry to say but if Chimanda spent her time writing this, she wasted that time. As this just further lowered NY respect for her as an internationally recognised writer. Novel is her thing not politics.

Just imagine how shez is spreading lies about 1960s massacre. Posterity Judge you.

A closer look at your piece shows distinct signs of bias, tribalism and fear/insecurity.

FrancisTony:
Ezekiel 16:49
"Look, this was the iniquity of your sister Sodom: She and her daughter had pride, fullness of food, and abundance of idleness; neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy.

50. "And they were haughty and committed abomination before Me; therefore I took them away as I saw fit.


I wonder why christians are equating gayism with sodomy.
With these^^^ Nigeria is already sodom.


Then, why did your country criminalised gayism and left adulterers, abusers etc?.

To think that GEJ legalised prostitution and he was praised by myopic people for his act against gays.

we criminalized gayism cos the devil (the western world) are trying to force it by all means down our throats.

Bro, I understand your problem
But first, let me debunk this popular saying that people dont/cant change. People do change partially or completely. it all depends how serious the individual is about changing. People quit smoking for good, people quit drinking and patronizing prostitutes. people change when they grow up. Its possible. it happens. so dont give up on her. You're exacly who she needs to help her grow up. What do you think those gifts of yours are for? Those gift of patience, tolerance, understanding, humility. Your FATHER gave you those gift on purpose with the intention you rescue your darling wife. HE armed you adequately for this purpose.
But you may the lacking in one thing --- going on your knees on her behalf. Fighting from the spirit not the physical. What is against her is stronger than her, but not you. Its that old accient enemy of man that hates marriage. With all these precious gifts GOD has given you, go on your knees regularly and fight from the spirit and be patient, you'll start seeing results.Dont abandon your wife.

BeeBeeOoh:
I thought summary were being taught in secondary school's Or oga op, are you Paul by name because it's only Paul that writes this kind of letter to corrinthians & romans..

Not funny!

For every yoruba that is sentimental about other tribes having big influence in lagos, i understand you. But the truth remains lagos must pay the prize other internationl cities paid for being either an economic hub or political capital or both. Lagos enjoyed both for many decades and is still enjoying the economic hub of west africa. its only a mater of time before it becomes the centre of trade and commerce in whole of africa. But it can never aquire such status with reckless statements like this credited to the Oba. Other tribes contributed heavily to what lagos has been over the years. They have so much at stake not to be involved in lagos politics. They have a fair, reasonable right to vote whoever they prefere. In a sane society what the Oba said, if he actually said it, is beneath his exalted office.

Cities like new york, london, paris and several other cities are open to even inter-racial politics and lagos is of the same class as these cities.
When the United Nations was created, a search for a city in the US to serve as headquarters was conducted, a city was chosen. and the city happened to be the city of the Bush family. Being a big and influencial family, they rejected the offer. The reason they gave was that they were not ready to lose their city. They knew having such a mighty office in their city would attract many people into their city and subsequently their influnce will wane.
same is true even for cities that are state capitals in nigeria. The indeginous people lose lands to the government and the city witness large influx of many nonindeginous people. Its a prize most big cities must pay.
In many generations to come, Abuja will witness such.
But the indiginous people remains the chief bride of custody.

IGBOSON2:
^^^You're really thicker and more daft than i initially feared! Who's talking of conventional warfare here?

I've asked for a bit more explanation on this 'Ijaw' thingy you're fond of bandying about! You saying Igbos are Ijaw 'slaves' because we voted en masse for GEJ?

Brother use your GOD-given wisdom now! There's nothing to explain about the slave thing. They just are knowingly or unknowingly bring division among the people of SS/SE. These are the people that divided us in the 1st place.

IGBOSON2:
^^^Scum....where the fuc/k do you think i'm from!? Or you reckon there are no Igbos indigenous to Rivers state?

Care to explain the 'Ijaw' thingy?

He doesnt. Why would he. He just led his last cow to barn for the night.

IGBOSON2:
^^^Choose you words carefully fool!

Nigeria CANNOT survive any upheavals, bloodletting or war crimes in the Niger Delta committed by the Nigerian army (who obviously would be led by a Fulani, and seen to be carrying out the instructions of the Fulani oligarchs and oil block owners up north)! Trust me, some are just itching and looking for even the tiniest window of opportunity to separate from you hateful religious bigots!.....And it will be done the legal way this time as the UN articles of human rights and freedom of association are invoked!

Any trouble brewing in the Niger Delta can only be settled through appeasement; though that 'trick' you guys always resort to (to keep the oyel flowing) is wearing a bit thin and may not work this time around!

That's wisdom. My guy you spoke well and the truth. That fool really has no grip with reality. The niger delta struggle has always enjoyed sympathy from international media and organizations.

Sunshinelady:
. And where in my post did I say it was 'OKAY' for a woman to cheat because her husband cheated? Secondly, u r right u know next to nothing in medicine, d issue of d relationship b/w prostate cancer & sex is still under research. Whilst som studies hav deciphered no relationship b/w d two, som hav . Its still under research like cancer is. But will u say because u cant get prostate cancer from sex u go ahead in promiscuity? Hv u forgotten d likes of HIV, and other STDs? I don't know y u are finding it difficult to get my point, I don't know ur level of reasoning & IQ, but am going to explain one more time to giv d benefit of d doubts, som1 said men are naturally wired to desire multi sexual partners , so I was tryin to explain dat both men & women hav dat innate desire for other sexual partners but women having d ability to supress theirs doesn't mean dey don't hav it. So men shuld stay faithful to their partners & not giv d excuse of havin 'multisexual wiring' to cheat, unless of course dey don't mind their wives doing d same to dem. Am not going to talk on dis issue again, read my previous comments on dis issue to understand me clearly & don't misquote me.

Your arrows of cheap insult missed their target, rather they are a reflection of your personality. And the point you're trying to make is blur, lost in the ocean of a bruised ego.
you said the relationship between prostrate cancer and male promiscuity is still under research, and i said there is no relationship between prostrate cancer and male promiscuity, so how does dat really make me know next to nothing in medicine?
must you throw blind and aimless punches just to save face?

Sunshinelady:
. See d way he is making it sound soo DISGUSTING wen a woman does it but somwhat palatable & forgivable wen a man does. Sweetheart, d same way it sounds disgusting to males wen a woman cheats, its same way it sounds nauseating to women wen men cheat. If a woman stands a risk of cervical cancer wen she is promiscuous, a man stands d risk of prostate cancer wen he does, if a woman stands d risk of syphilis wen she is promiscuous, a man stands d risk of gonorrheoa. 'All is fair in d game of love & basketball'. Promiscuity is shameful for both sexes be u man or woman. No gender does it & it seems more palatable! Stay Away away from cheating ! Stay away from promiscuity, be faithful to your spouse, whether u r a man or woman. Simple!

My little knowledge of medicine didnt associate prostrate cancer to male promiscuity. But one of the curses of cervical cancer for women is multiple sex partners. So you failed miserably on that point. You come across like a woman ready to fight a man with the mind set you display and you think you are built like him. hmmm! I pity you. i dont know your age but i pray the rabelious tendencies i perceive in you is dropped soon before it takes you to the island of despair.

If you have ever loved a man and went into a sexual relationship with him, the very first day you caved in and allowed him to have sex with you, after the act did you start watching his feelings closely, fearing, wondering if his feelings towards you would change? since you already gave him your most precious of virtue? I BET YOU DID!!!! I never, and will never support a cheating man/husband, but foolish is the woman who thinks it is okay for her to cheat because her man/husband did. She is completely without virtue.
Sex for male and female is this: its like going to a toilet to pee. you empty you stuff in the bowl and walk away. The vaginal is just like the bowl. I pray you become wise in time or you reap the shame and misery that awaits rebelous women.

obowunmi:
postmann sounds like a bloody sexist. WTF

If that is the 21st century name for a man who speaks the truth irrespective of the times and moral chalenges and the errosions of what constituted TABOO, then I sure am a SEXIST!

obowunmi:
postmann sounds like a bloody sexist. WTF

If that is the 21st century name for a man who speaks the truth irrespective of the times and moral chalenges and the errosions of what constituted TABOO, then I sure am a SEXIST!

itops:
what are you saying. when you say honour your husband in all things, do you mean i should go on my knees and thank him for putting his dick were he should'nt? i dont get you MR POLITE.

Telling you spoke the truth should have implied toyou that i dont support cheating husbands. My question rather bothered on the basis from which you drew your point - The Holy Bible. Since you could be clever enough to point out GOD's plan for husband and wife, it is also pertinent you are pointed to the same scripture that spelt your responsibility to your husband - SUBMISSION - one that has become a thorn in the compromised flesh of the 21st century woman.

Sunshinelady:
I don't tink ANYBODY is 'wired' to stick to one person. Even an honest married woman will admit dat once in while u see a hot dude, if u don't control urself u start to desire him (u r human). In d olden days only men where allowed such freedom to explore their sexuality because women were being supressed then. So don't tell me because our forefathers married plenty wives and our 'foremothers' married only one man, dat it means dat its only men dat are wired to desire multiple partners no! Human needs are insartible be u male or female. Its only d fear of God dat keeps us in check. So my dear, if u r redy to stick to ur wife, she sticks to u, if u want to stray pls allow her do d same cos wat is good 4d goose is good for d gander. We women too are wired to love 'fruit salad' (who no like better thing), but its just dat desire to be morally upright & not break d rule of God dat mkes us behave ourselves. So don't gimme dat crap about only men being d ones wired to desire 'oda good pleasures'

some of your point made sense, but trying to equate a cheating husband to a cheating wife turned your comment on its head. It is a TABOO for a wife to cheat. Ask your heavenly FATHER, ask the babalawo from in your village. At no time did GOD permit women to have more than one husband at a time. Rather HE says such practice is disgusting to HIM. A woman's sexual organ was made in such a way that sexx is an invation of her innermost body. Except she knows no shame or is possessed, she cant seek revenge on her cheating husband by humbling herself spreading her legs for another man. She'd be a fool, the double loser and a public toilet. Sex is humbling for the female no matter what the devil-inspired 21st century culture tells you. Even your children cant get over the shame.
While we hope that men change and be faithful to their wifes, a woman who really understand SHAME cannot seek revenge by becoming a detestable adultress. Cervical cancer is a curse on loosed women.

itops:
I NO FIGHT.O, it just got to me that most of you men jump at topics like this to give selfish reasons why you should remain eternal cheats.

now my point is, our forefathers as you stated out and have been congratulated with 2 bottles of orijin are definately not older than GOD our creator who from creation , created just EVE FOR ADAM..if God sactions our forefathers attitude of subjecting women to household appliances by marrying as many wives as they like, why did he not add MARY AND ELIZABETH TO ADAM at creation when he (GOD) gave EVE TO ADAM.

i hate it when men thinks they are wiser than GOD.

Truely you spoke the plain truth. The bible which is GOD's guide for man, is superior to any human culture, tradition or values. But i must ask you: do you also adhere and hold tightly the same scripture that says you honour and obey your husband in all things as to the LORD? If you dont, then its a shame cos you'd have been an unbearable hypocrite.
I think the 21st century woman is a GODless rabel who wants to eat her cake and have it. But she doesnt know she's trying to carry two curses - hers and the one meant for men. The result is unhappiness, unfulfilled life and misery even to the grave. And they produce children without motherly care and love cos mothers have become men. And these children grow to become terrors to society.

The husband had the exclusive right whether to attend or not to attend the mother-in-law's dinner. And the wife had no moral right to try to retaliate or punish the husband. But she did it in a rather foolish and farreaching way by staying put with the kids. If a man did this, he would be called controlling. But it is clear the woman is sturborn and trying to force her husband into something he's not ready for. And she most probably got it from her meddling mother who obviously hasnt accepted or recorgnize this man as her daughter's husband. Hence the man is holding unto his ego tightly. He should hang in there against a foolish wife and meddling, egoistic motherinlaw. Though he shouldnt lay his hand on his wife again.
And he should watch his wife's loyalty closely. She gives a worried sign like one who is halfly married to her husband and halfly married to her own family. Such women could be traitors with divided loyalty.

Joy1706:
I told him even as my husband, he can only ask me to change my church after marriage but that the decision is mine to take. And that religion is a very personal issue, it's not something that can just be decided for a person esp an adult.

Then he says it seems like I won't be a submissive wife bla bla bla. Did I say something wrong?

Of course, you're wrong. Since you know or feel religion is a personal thing, you should have been careful enough to marry a man whose religous linings suits yours.
I discoverd that women who claim to be religious are the most stuborn in acknowledgimg their husband's authourity. Your husband is your spiritual head, and he comes first before your pastor.
You cant serve GOD outside HIS will. And HIS will is clear: " wives be submissive to your husband aa to the LORD"

It's very clear. GOD resists the proud.

raayah:
What is Christainity to you. ? Christains are followers of Christ!

The only thing Christ asked of you is to Spread the gospel. Talk about the love of Christ.

What you are discussing now has absolutely nothing to do with Christainity. You are talking about your FEELINGS!.

Talking about women's body and breasts and body-shape? Making assumptions! Judging. Sinning.

By your 2nd comment your type is clear: i wonder you has brainwash you this far. Your type of christianity is christianity of convenience . You read the bible and select wwwhat you want to believe
. You leave out the sacrificial parts. Read your bible in full and know what the scripture says about GODly appearance.

raayah:
I believe as Christains we should dress moderately!

I also believe we should not JUDGE!

But, the house of God should not have dress Codes. Anybody is welcome to the house of the lord. Jesus accepted sinners ( theives and prostitutes). We should not shun people or drive away people based on what they wear. Eventually these people will learn to dress moderately as they become stronger in the faith.

Showing cleavage does not make someone a harlot and tying scarf does not make someone a virgin.

For you people to openly call women sluts and prostitutes is not Christain-like. I'm not saying we should dress anyhow , i am only questioning why Christains (especially in Nigeria) tend to focus on the wrong things.

What would Jesus do?

JESUS would have told them to go and sin no more and dress no more like a harlot in MY FATHER's house which is called a house of prayer not a place to for indencency or an arena of lust where flesh are on display

Your comment left a sour taste in my mouth.

raayah:
I believe as Christains we should dress moderately!

I also believe we should not JUDGE!

But, the house of God should not have dress Codes. Anybody is welcome to the house of the lord. Jesus accepted sinners ( theives and prostitutes). We should not shun people or drive away people based on what they wear. Eventually these people will learn to dress moderately as they become stronger in the faith.

Showing cleavage does not make someone a harlot and tying scarf does not make someone a virgin.

For you people to openly call women sluts and prostitutes is not Christain-like. I'm not saying we should dress anyhow , i am only questioning why Christains (especially in Nigeria) tend to focus on the wrong things.

What would Jesus do?

JESUS would have told them to go and dress no more

JESUS would have told them to go and sin no more and dress no more like a harlot in MY FATHER's house which is called a house of prayer not a place to for indencency or an arena of lust where flesh are on display

Your comment left a sour taste in my mouth.

Oh! And please, very few odd women feels happy and fulfilled with a husband who earns less than she does. A vast majority of woman prefere a man who earns more than they do. Women are programed to yearn for love, protection, pampered and ofcourse taken care of by her man. Sorry for the man who doesnt know this and work hard to be the MAN in his house.

Misogynist2014:
Some brainless threads, flying around Nl, it gets more distasteful when you actually see the junk was written by a man, someone you expect to have common sense. If I'm threatened, what's the business of your mother about it?

You definitely must live long for your wisdom is rare and uncorrupted by time. Most 21st century male have lost the true sense of being a man. That they're born to lead. I see a bunch of weak men falling for laziness and been deceived that it is okay for your woman to be richer. Its not except she inherit her fortunes. Statistics is clear: marriages where the woman earns more have a 70% divorce rate compare to about 30% when the man earns more according to research in the US. I heard so many compromised minds say "especially the nigerian man". Rubbish! So wen my wife goes through 9 months of pregnancy, and still breastfeed and nurse the baby, coupled with her monthliness and wobbling emotions, she would still put more money on the table? Then what is the man alive for? Doing exactly what with his bigger brain? I see a bunch of new breed 21st century lazy men who are finding too comfortable eating from women. To them its okay for a woman to pick the bill on a first date, live in her house and drive her car. I've never seen any man with these traits end up well
Being a MAN means being the LEADER, PROVIDER and PROTECTOR.

menix:
Wonderful!!!!
Is he sex starved to ve had a hard on..
Pls post wat u were puttin on cous am sure u were addressed d way u were dressed.

Y tell ur husband? Its now left to u to avoid him lik plague.
'Tomorrow is pregnant', don't spoil dat relationship btw them cous of somthing u can deal wiv...

Shame coming from a fellow man. I expected ladies to be of the wrong opinion of not telling the husband but certainly not a man.
OP, you should tell your husband exactly the wwy you were touched by his friend and how you felt. He being a man will be in a good position to really understand his friend's motive. And for sure his trust and love meter for you will rise like the Chinese stock.
Tomorrow is pregnant indeed. Your marriage and its sanctity is far more precious and valuable than any other human relationship.
Lastly, as a married woman no man other than your husband ought to put his hand on you in the name of greeting. Thats how this violation happened in the first place. Show respect to your body. Its not a hug station for male friends.

lezz:
hey.

You don show

kaeycea:
Are u for real ?
What's exciting abt diseased female body on a clinical bed and a pregnant abdomen on a labour room ?

You should channel that question to the perverts and take a queationaire to their numerous victims which include pregnant women.

iduzebaba:
it's called vaginal examination, and it is part of the clinical examinations for pregnant women, it is not routine, and not always done during every antenatal visit but only when it's indicated. we doctors are professionals and should not be associated with lewdness.

Speak for yourself. There're lots of rotten perverts among you lot. Earning a medical degree doesnt automatically make a doctor above lust even towards his patients.
Nothing excites some doctors more than the female body.
Proffecionalism or trust shouldnt come into play when it comes to a woman's private of provites. Its sickening and unimaginable for a male doctor to behold a married woman"a vagina let touching it with a long pole
. In the good old days when people still had a strong sense of what constitute taboo, this is pure taboo. Even the husband was barred from his wife's labour room. Humanity and moral decadence.