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joseph1832:
I'll say it all depend on the individual. What applies to you, doesn't necessarily apply to me or someone else.

Happiness, as I've come to know it, doesn't have the same interpretation for many people. Some people might quarrel everyday, and yet, they're happy, while some don't quarrel at all and yet, they're still happy.

So, like I said above, its purely relative.

Cc: postm.ann, lez.z, ishi.love, m.indfulness.

You're right, bro. Happiness means different things to different people at different stages of their lives. It converges with time to a narrower division, but still means different things to different people.

analice107:
Hahahahahaha, My sweet Postmann, The Bible says Eve was deceived, but not Adam. He willingly Sold out.
1 Timothy 2:14 And it was not Adam who was deceived, but [the] woman who was deceived and deluded and fell into transgression.
And sir, when Eve sinned, unclothedness wasn't exposes until Adam did. The instruction wasn't given to Eve, it was to Adam. So, who brought about the transgression? lol.

Finally, there's time for some scriptural discourse. Analice107, can you, with all diligence explain what you meant by the submission above? I don't want to misunderstand you.

analice107:
lol. I had, but kinda dropped it, with it, it was hard to convince people i was female. Besides, I didnt know it was a name of Famous Islamic scholar during or after Muhammed. All the Muslims thought i was their brother. so i dropped it.
Here it is. Anas09

Hmmm! Thanks for the openness. That's some virtue.

analice107:
By handle you mean Moniker?

Yes, that's what I mean.

analice107:
By handle you mean Moniker?

Yes, I mean moniker.

analice107:
By handle you mean Moniker?

Yes, that's what I mean.

analice107:
Femi Osufisan is a poet who plays with words in a manner i have never seen anyone else do. And you fall in such category.
The old me... There's just me, no other.

I'm highly honoured.
Are you going to tell me this is your only handle or your first?

analice107:
lol. Okay "Femi Osofisan"

Speak plainly please. Tell me about the old you.

tossen:
Looool! Even in the speaks you see the void. But you talk and talk, and the void cannot b perceived. When a man throws a woman away for cheating, its not because her body has been used raw. No. At that time, he doesnt even care, he might even add beating to it.

When a man throws a woman away, its because hes been hurt that another man found his way into his place of zen. His sole place where he is lord. He takes his woman down, and owns her... then he imagines someone else doing same. Its not because her folds have been violated.

Did a man tell you that or you came up with that derivation on your own?
Well, it is more than just "being hurt that another man found his way in". That's the feminine understanding. You can't really come to a complete understanding of this simply because you're not a man.

It's like havin someone drive your car: his weight on the seat, his hands turning the wheels at each turn of the road and tires squealing in rapid spinning on the hot asphalt and the egines responding to each merciless throttle.

If you love that car so much so that you wash it in and out every morning and someone drove it without your authorisation, you'd feel that your car has been violated. It's a similar feeling with most men when their women cheat. And that's why it's hardly forgivable.
Violation is the chief word.

tossen:
Now, a man can be hurt that his woman has been "used " by another, but a woman has no right to be hurt that her man is giving it to others?

Who said that?

tossen:
Also, a womans desire to cheat isnt about doing what men do. But as men are moved by what they see, a woman is moved by what she hears. No matter how violent or rough the copulation may be, a woman will spread it wide, if a guy is saying sweet nothings and paying her attention, especially if the man shes been tied to has told her shes worth nothing with his deeds and utterances.


Now many woman have tried hard to resist the sweet nothings, knowing full well its a recipe for disaster. But men refuse.to.do same, and even rub it in the womans face in the process. When will the woman no resign and decide to please herself out of the frustration of rejection, succombing to the relief of being wanted. Even if she knows it might just be an act...

There are men who go the extra mile to be faithful. But until women are taught that they have far more to lose in sexual indiscretion, they'll keep running into sexual troubles.

tossen:
Also... dont pick points from everywhere just to suit your destination. God never permitted polygamy, as he never permitted polyandry.

Hehehehehe! You speak like a feminist. I have a feeling that you might be an atheist or a non-christian. Please correct me if my assumption is wrong.

But nonetheless, GOD "allowed" polygamy. HE told David after taking another man's wife that if David had asked for more, HE would had given him".
When Serah put it up to Abraham to marry his slave girl, GOD didn't object and didn't count it as a sin. But GOD came down with a mighty HAND for Abraham's sake when two powerful kings at different occasions wanted to "violate" Serah, Abraham's wife.

tossen:
Since u.quoted Noah... i believe u are talking christian. If you are talking the other religions, then Indian Gods permitted polyandry also. One God... different instructions, seems like people just hold on to what works for them, and use religion as a tool for restriction and control.

You speak with rash assumptions. By the emboldened, you just said THE ALMIGHTY GOD IS A GOD OF CONFUSION.

tossen:
How do u convince an atheist, that your points are true to form without including God?

Nature is the greatest witness of GOD precepts and Being. HIS precepts have stood the test of time and man has been compromised physically and mentally as a result of his rebellion and false wisdom.

JoeBlocks:
_Postmann and is.hilove, even after all this time, you guys are still... Men please allow me to rent a room for you guys. Its long over due.

We don't need a room, bro. We are the room.

layla129:
Lol, cry
It's not your style, fine but people just can't do it because of what people will say...not because its not their style

The majority of men see it as effeminate in this part of the world. I'm persuaded to agree with them.

Ishilove:

Satisfy me. Quench my burning anxiety. Put my soul at ease. You're that powerful.

Ishilove:
I don try na

Yes, you have. I'll give you that. And I'll return the favour. But you're still in the dark. I still don't know what you like.

Ishilove:
I've sent you another one

That I have seen. You only succeeded in heightening my anxiety.

Ishilove:
Oliver Twist

There some things one can't just help wanting more. A partially covered beautiful face is one of them.
You can't blame me.

Ishilove:
Oliver Twist

There some things one can't just help wanting more. A partially covered beautiful face is one of them.
You can't blame me.

Ishilove:
You seem to have a thing for eyes. I have privately sent you an unedited one

One that left me in the pool of my own salivation! Finish what you began. Until I'm thoroughly fed, it's better I never ate.

Ishilove:
Okay postmann, I've changed it. That's the one Nairalanders know

That was you in a mask. You have a good skull, dove-eyed, a lovely chin and supple cheeks.
Those lips...they deserve a warm kiss as frequently as possible.
But you've whet my appetite for seeing you unedited.

Ishilove:
That is quite a cruel thing to say. I thought you said no woman is ugly?

Needing a work out or needing it more than the average Joe doesn't make one ugly, na.

Ishilove:
I need the workout, so yeah, let's tango!

Everyone needs the work out. But no the way she does.

Ishilove:
Trust me, not most

OK, not most. The point is you've placed your pic on your DP before. Shouldn't be a big deal doing it for me, even for a brief moment.

Ishilove:
What makes you think so?

*gasp*

Now, let's get a little humanitarian. You run the risk of bringing that poor girl to ridicule for no fault of hers.

Now, please put up your pic - you're a glass wearing lass with round supple cheeks. That's my mental image of you.


But if you insist, we can dance forever to this beat.

Ishilove, make it real. This ought to be easy for you. You've done it before. Most NL-ders have seen your pic on your DP.

Ishilove:
It isn't the physical aspects that interest me, truly. I just need to put a face to the username.

Okay check my dp sharpaly. I'm removing my pic in 5 minutes

That's not you alright!!!

It's just a matter of prefrence for the men this side of the globe. Nothing special about it.

I find it odd strapping even my own child to my chest. It doesn't agree with my style. Just like a big bible doesn't flow with my style on a Sunday on my way to church even though I have to park in the car lot and take a few strides to the church hall.
I'll rather carry the baby the normal way men carry their baby.

Don't cry about it.

Ishilove:
I will, postmann, when you agree to

You left out the part where you said the physical attributes of a person don't interest you.

Why the sudden change, eh?

Ishilove:
I need to see your face too, Mr Oga. I don't see it going any other way

Okay lemme make it easier for you. Send it to me privately

You don't need to see me.

Ishilove:
I don't know why I've never really looked at my features. The physical aspects of a person have never really interested me I guess. It's the substance, what makes you YOU that attracts me and retains that attraction.

Those were your very own words.



Now send me yours! That's the prerequisite to my enlistment.

Ishilove:
Nay, my giant warrior. I too demand to see the face of the man who wants to do battle to win my delicate heart.

The price shall be even beyond your expectation!

A poorly compensated soldier is ill-motivated for battle.

Ishilove:
Let me lap up the enlightening dew from your fountain of experience, o expert devout...

You only have to close your eyes trusting my guide. Paradise awaits such faith.

Ishilove:
When I give, I give completely and selflessly, but only to a worthy recipient.

Then what are your wars?
I'll go to battle to earn the prize
But then, where's the compensation so far,
A remuneration for the battle won already?
I demand your face!

Ishilove:
I'm too conservative to let flowery, albeit beautiful words melt away my inhibitions. Especially from one who refuses to give me a glimpse of his visage.

Love is a free flowing river, flowing in a blind trust to nature's call. It knows no fear or limit until it has run its course.

Live like a river. Give and give completely.

Ishilove:
How do I respond to such...such...promise?

I am inexperienced in the ways of the flesh, so your words have left my head spinning like a carousel.

I am, I must confess, a little off kilter, Monsieur Postmann the giant

You need the touch of an expert devout
Slow and steady learning your scriptures
Verse after verse flipping your pages slowly
In a timeless devotion.

Ishilove:
Post.mann, I'm blushing and flushing in places I didn't even know are capable of producing heat

Let the heat travel yet further beyond organic responds
Let your inhibitions melt away in the heated steam of passion.