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KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#B0E0E6]°•°*Weaker..
....no but alot of times men are a lot bigger(muscle and/or natural body mass)and or physically than us
...°•but we are not weak.
...°•It's not always by any great provoking or any at all that some men will decide it necessary to lay hands on a woman.
..°•but no it's not wise to provoke a tempered man.
...°•°but provocation could be as simple as a regular disagreement [/color]

My destination is this: I'd like to see the same emphasis laid on women minding their tongues as much as the emphasis laid on men not hitting women.

MRNipples:
Hmm very true @op. well u know this is a reason why as a guy u ought to know her very well b4 starting a relationship with her, honestly there are some ladies that practically hates football, no mata what, they will still protest when it is being aired on tv, dats why i in particular can never, as in never go into a relationship with a lady that hates football, its a huge turn off for me, atleast even though she dnt love football, she should atleast for LOVE sake learn to start loving it. but some ladies dnt even want to learn and that affects her relationship with her partner badly. well enough said and done, guys too should learn to make their partners start loving football by purchasing jerseys for them, trunks of the football team you or they support, go outing together and play football on d beach, that way when both of you sit down on the sofa to watch on tv, it will be fun and romantic bcaus she too is interested in the team that will beat your team, thereby the ignore part will not be there anymore.

True. But a woman who truly loves her man will at least share some likeness, no matter how little in what he loves. Just like a man who truly loves his woman will share some tolerance in their flowery soap operas.

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#B0E0E6]°•°*Smh .....Dudes.
°•°Agreed op.
6.)………*•°• Don't ever site/use gender equality as an excuse/ validaton to hit a woman.
°•°•It is NEVER OK TO HIT A WOMAN. [/color]

It's never OK to hit a woman. True because they are weaker. But is it OK for women to provoke men without cause?

So true! Make the room a little dimly lit. Let the only source of light be the rays coming from the TV. Let her rest her head on your chest, feeling your heart beat for her and your team.

Give her one peck for each dribble from your team
one full french kiss for each goal
But for a defeat....I'm at a loss here. Make una help me out.

Bro, expect them feminists to fly past your thread as if they didn't see it. They can't stand the true horror behind gender equality. Greedy leeches who want more, more and more without ever earning it.

EVarn:
Another effect of fuel scarcity.

Too bad! I have asked around if this kind of economic chaos and directionless political quagmire has ever happened before in this nation. The answer I got was 1985!

What's you take, my friend?

Okay. A selfless, loving wife finally picks up courage to face the stone-hearted devil of a husband. And finally reality beckons like a rushing wave; it will crush all his pride and arrogance. Should Lara persists, he will go down on his knees and force out a loud masculine inarticulate growl, crying for her stay.

Damn! He's going to love and cherish her. But she must hold unto her dignity. She's given her all in humility and tolerance. Now it's time for a bountiful well deserved harvest.

mimzy:
You are right...Please follow.. you will enjoy this

Sure following...wherever the QUEEN GOES....

Touching story! But no one should allow oneself into forced marriage.

aforti:
I here by kill this thread. This is not worth nairaland. It's occupying space of worthy threads





OP...when you have a proper skill, you would be recognized.
For now your just a petty man who is struggling to be relevant on naira land.

Kontinue petty child

Mr Aforti, you must wake up from your wet dream. You lack the attributes to either make a thread or kill one.
When you start believing your own hype, then you have automatically set yourself up for a narcissistic personality disorder diagnosis.

Now, for someone like you with just 2 lame topics and a total of 13 posts in your 5 year stint in NL, you should know that you're an intellectual charity case. You cant bear your own weight, neither do you possess the necessary faculty to enter my thread and pen your worthless incoherent scribble on my post.

I do not come to trade truth and integrity for cheap likes. But I come to light a fire and heat up your comfort zone, and have you in a fit of emotional convulsion;

I have come to prīck your sedated conscience and leave you itching all over long after I'm gone.

It's already a mission accomplished.

And you must reply. You're too emotionally frail not to, neither can you take whupping with a manly grace.
But I've only just started.

Buaaaaahahhhhaahha!!!!!

aforti:
Even the X in my chromosomal pair is far more masculine than your complete Y so my broken Y as your reffed is a super chromosome to your Y. You're responses alone speaks loud of your pettiness as a man, you need to check yourself again, are you sure your tentacles are not just a cystic sack? Cos your pettiness can power the entire Nigeria, a man with real balls won't be this petty. As you can see I am even giving your post value. How many people have commented on this post? This is how petty and senseless your post is,








Kotinue..petty man...

Hey nancyboy, why ovulating on my thread like a woman in need of sexual attention? Other guys saw the thread, and they reacted without betraying their sanity.
Your lack of spontaneity and creativity leaves you right at the bottom of the male hierarchical order. You can't summon up your wits and argue your case with facts or give me a worthy diss. It is yet another betrayal of your inferior mental power. You keep my thread alive because you're one wussbag with a leaking emotion who forgot to bring a pad along to dry up his emotional leakages. Little wonder your reaction is akin to that of most of the women who posted on the thread.

You must not agree with me, nancyboy; but you must show a sense of class when you disagree by being civil.

Now, I'll have to troll you for months because you're just another biologically compromised, epicene fellow with gender identity misidentification.

aforti:
Kikiiki at biggest online seminar..OK Na kudus to you..you are really helping our society...


I still think you are petty..you need to think deep about it.. maybe in some years to come you will realize you were really petty..concerning this your vain post

You need a testosterone and chromosome checkup. I believe the Y in your chromosome is either broken or is in a diminutive letter.

vbiye:
no he is not my last stop o, but my friends keep telling me to look past his faults and try to see his good side afterall no one is perfect.

I understand no one is perfect but too often times, people use that phrase to get away with some vital, unacceptable short comings.

Look miss, we are talking about the absence of the cardinal male characteristics here; the willingness to be a provider, looking out for you and carrying your cares on his shoulders. Not trying to lean on your feminine shoulders. Your guess is as good as anyone's what kind of care as a father he would offer your children should you go ahead. You wanna overlook that, then don't complain later.

@OP, You have all the evidence to come to the right conclusion. Your mind has already told you the truth, but your need and want of him is trying to do the double with your emotions.

How else can a man display irresponsibility and self-centredness? How else can a man show he doesn't value you? What else do you need to know he's not commitment worthy? Or is he your last bus stop?

aforti:
OK......kontinue

All this grammar you are blowing here if you spend the time to organize seminars to educate our young girls, since you are the preacher of good morals, it will help our kontri...but then you are a petty man so you would rather come and open trends on naira land.....kontinue






All I see is pettiness open pettiness

NAIRALAND is actually the biggest online "seminar" on the continent. You need an awareness CPR.

You can continue with the delusionary, stale "pettiness" chorus. Even your soul knows how tuneless it sounds.

aforti:
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Why I say it's petty it's because if you want a woman without dents of history then create 1.

Obviously, the thread is talking about honesty and not women without dents. It is paramount you demonstrate comprehension abilities when reacting to a written submission.

aforti:
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My question is, she tells you everything then what? Hope you will also tell her how many girls you have asked to abort for you?. How many times you have masturbated in your life b4 meeting her. You will tell her how girls you still fancy in your mind even as your preparing to marry her.

@The boldened: Then you know first hand what to expect and what you're getting into. An individual's sexual past and preference tell a lot about who the individual is.

I ended my submission with a last paragraph saying men usually don't find it difficult revealing their sexual past. So you should have been a real man by curtailing your ovulating emotions and spare me the repetition.

aforti:
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All I see is pettiness, purposeless individuals always looking for ways to make life complex for themselves. Bite me OP you are disspeakabley petty...

Your moral elasticity has been crumbled by the sheer weight of the permissiveness of the 21st century. You're like an unguarded port terminal where no contraband is prohibited since you indirectly call promiscuity pettiness.

My teeth have better delicacy to engage themselves in than take a nibble at your morbid flesh.

mimzy:
Never has there been a time in history when so much is being expected from women.

She's expected to be a housewife who manages the affairs of the home with love, care, understanding, wisdom , God bless her and she's unlucky to have a man that doesn't like house helps, she has to go the market on her own, buy foodstuffs, comes back home exhausted, she still has to cook for the family, clean up the kitchen afterwards, serve everyone, and do the dishes after (assuming her children are not of age yet).

At times, when little issues abound, the husband will even complain that the meal is tasteless after all these efforts just to get back at her!!!

She's expected to be a mother to nurse and care for her children and see to their needs. If she is still a nursing mum, she has to wake up nothing less than two times in the middle of the night to feed her baby I.e if her baby isn't too demanding .She wakes up very early in the morning. , bathes her children, dress them up, feed them and she takes them to school before taking care of herself. At times, the husband helps in taking the kids to school but the onus falls on her most times.She has to help them with assignments (if they are grown) from school when they get back in the evening.

She's a wife to satisfy her husband's need emotionally, physically and spiritually. Most men would never take no for an answer!!

You wonder why she's too tired to even initiate love making? It is because she is too exahuasted!!

You wonder why she doesn't even bother to dress in a sexy nightie just to arouse you?? It is because all that is on her mind is just " God, please let me just get some few hours sleep before dawn and I start my crazy schedules"

She forgoes her favorite TV channels just so you and the children can switch between ESPN and Cartoon Network

She's a career woman who has to pursue her own dreams and make sense out of her gifts and talents and life's aims.

She's a professional who must balance her professional obligation with that of her family duties. She has to make out time to visit your family especially else she will be tagged as rude,proud,not well trained...to say but few

Your friends will come and disturb the few hours she has to herself during weekends and she musy make them feel at home. Haba!!!

And she must satisfy all these convincingly in a world where so much is expected from the modern woman.

If she neglects the family a bit for her career, she's called a bad wife. If she sacrifices her career and job for the family she is tagged a lazy woman or "ordinary" house wife.

What does the modern society really want from women of today because I just don't get it? Is it until we lay our lives down in the line before our efforts are acknowleged
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I'll begin by making some reference at the boldened: please feel free to call me sexist .

A woman's gifts and talent is primarily to assist her husband in any capacity he may find useful. She is to complement him. That's her primary purpose in life. Secondly, is for her to raise Godly children that will grow up and shape the society in uprightness and sound judgment. She will be fulfilled if she achieve these. Anything else, is just for by the way.


A housewife is a priceless jewel. She is a full time worker. Her husband's backbone and LLOD ( Last Line Of Defence). But there shouldn't be a complete housewife. There are plenty of career path that don't interfere negatively with motherhood and fulfilling her husband's need.

Nice post though.

Knightngale:
your sister in law

You should have come straight then, beautiful queen. I already know.

Well, to the male virgin issue; we all know the dictionary definition of the word Virgin. But the factual application of the term virgin man is pure nonsense and of no value whatsoever.

It is pure foolishness to talk about a man's virginity. His sexual organ makes the term idiotic.

Let me give you a practical example; and this is for all the misinformed women and the brainwashed men out there:

You don't look for a virgin car driver to employ or drive you around, rather you look for a virgin car or a tokumbo one still in good condition.


I'm by no means endorsing male promiscuity but

#YouCanCallMeSexist

Knightngale:
you know me

But it doesn't matter, just respond.

I'm not so sure I do. Tell me who you are, so we can continue the discussion.

Knightngale:
Full disclosure is important particularly when into a serious/committed relationship.



There are no male virgins? A man who has never had sex is what? @_postmann

PM me your main handle, then I'll respond. Or you can just post it if you find that option convenient.

bukatyne:
Male virgins don't exist?

Anything to justify male immorality

Why didn't you give me a direct quote?
I don't like that

aforti:
So she tells you about Every thing then what nxt?.






All I see is pettiness every where

God help please

What do you call pettiness?? The willingness of people to engage in random, multiple sex with different partners they never ended up in marriage with, and keep it a secret from their bonded and covenanted partners?

You're the sign of the age! The permissiveness of the age is a mighty flood, and you've been washed off shore!

nnamdibig:
I don't think I will be asking my wife to be to tell me how many guys she has slept with. So far I didn't meet her as a runs girl, that highly unnecessary. I will only ask of the ones I know of(may be if ex is calling or anything like that).

I understand. Some men dont fancy opening that dark door.

joseph1832:
And that is the hypocrisy of the typical nigerian man. I know this type of men. Some of them are the ones who even crave virgin girls as wives when their own virginity can be compared to that of a randy he-goat.

Girls who hide their sexual past from their spouse do so at their own detriment. Any man who truly likes/loves them will look past her past travails.

A man talking about male virginity is a desecration of masculinity; a sign of the times where gender misidentification is mistaken for gender equality and civilization.

Male virginity doesn't exist.


So why do most girls hide their sexual past even in casual relationships?

Interactions with various men have given the safe conclusion that most men who don't mind that has serious promiscuous tendencies. Most healthy males do care, Mr Joseph.

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joseph1832:
To me, I see such thing like how many sexual partners my would be spouse had been with as sincerely not my business. All I care about is if she will be a good wife to me, and a good mother to our kids.

Her past is entirely not my business because what so ever she did then, as long as it is not a criminal offense according to the nigerian constitution, I don't really give a rats pen1s.

Different strokes for different folks. Some men dont actually care about that. But most girls who hide their sexual pasts from their husband, do it for the fear of losing him. And they normally live with a guilty conscience.

Lastly, a huge number of men who don't care about such are very prone to be unfaithful.

Alright, let''s go straight down to it:


Since promiscuity is so much prevalent these days, expecially when young adolescents leave parental custody for tertiary education, many women are sexually exposed to several men before they are ready for marriage. And very few of these ladies open up to their fiance and tell him just how many men were there sexually before him. They know what the potential outcome could be.

So she walks with him down the altar with a backlog of dark secrets, knowing it could all come down to a sudden halt should the truth be spoken.


So, If you didn't tell hubby about every of your sexual encounter-past, just how many they were before you got married to him, then your marriage is a fraud!!!. One built on deceit and pretence.


So, for the unmarried women still dating and courting remember; just before that Vulva swells in a moist readiness, just before you part those thighs and let a man in, if it doesn't all end in marriage, honesty demands that you must tell your would be husband about it all just before you get to the altar.

Guys normally don't have a problem telling their partner their sexual past.

Acidosis:
A Facebook Queen is a "don't-go-area" for me. I mean, a girl who gets 300 likes on one photo, 4000 friends, of which 3940 are males! Ah!

Her photo being up there and being updated regularly is the real concern, bro.

Woged2005:
I hate to read when men come on this forum to lament this and that about what they passed trough with some ladies, when they saw these signs but still remained naive. What did they expect?

1). Dating a Facebook Queen
When you have a girlfriend whose permanent home is FaceBook and Whatsapp. She’s always online from 5am to 1:30am every day. She claims she’s either charging her phone and forgot to log out or she only reads educational posts but don’t chat with men. Ol boy, the chase for greener pastures have shifted ground. Who doesn’t like to get Moneygram and western Union money transfers these days especially from a long distance ‘Mugu’. But it only shocks me you believed her lies.

2. If You Don’t Give Her Money, Dude, You Will Lose Her
Who told you there’s a Nigerian girl who doesn’t love money? Do you wonder why educated girls are willing and ready to either be the fourth and Fifth baby-mama of a rich celebrity out-of-wedlock or marrying their rich ‘grandfathers’ but yet won’t settle with their long-time boyfriends with average income? Dude, If you don’t give them money you will soon lose out. Na u sabi which girl doesn't like money.

3. Taking Her As A Saint. Saints Indeed!
You met a pretty girl the first time at a restaurant and she introduced herself as a born-again student, a banker, or a civil servant etc who just broke up with her boyfriend of 4yrs (the only man she’s ever slept with) yet you took her to a hotel only 30 minutes after introducing yourself as either a rich bizman, a senior banker or from abroad. Within the next two hours you are already on top of her making love and even convincing her to spend the night with you (a total stranger) yet you are keeping her as a fiancé? Dude, she just cheated on her boyfriend with you and you expect her to be faithful to you? Wake up!

4. Her Phone Habit Tells You All You Need To no
She’s with you, her phone rings every minute, she either refuses to take the calls, or just keep responding “yes”, “No”, “Same here”, “Ok”, or even switch off her phone to avoid in-coming calls. But convinces you they are calls from her mom, uncle or boss. Wake up dude, there are many of you. You are probably number 13 on the list.

If you chose to waste your time and money, stop lamenting and face your mistakes!

Spot on!

joseph1832:
Lol. And the Knight has thus released his sword from its sheath. Let blood spill...

No blood. Just a river of peace.

joseph1832:
Well just a harmless guess. And did I read you say it shouldn't be a do or die affair?

Dude please, when no cash prize was involved it was a tug of war, now there's 50k at stake what do you think will happen?

Bro, the real e-war has just begun.

Hmmmm! 50k? Is that worth dying for? Well I understand if people make war for pride or prestige. Not for 50k. But if there must be war, then war there must be.

joseph1832:
_Mimzy? I just hope she got this all figured out though, bro, when it comes to this, monikers here can play very dirty.

When the campaign thread begins, then the real sh1t starts. Right now, if she knows what's up, she should start working on her team of campaigners, and choose a campaign manager. Cos when sh1t starts flying, emotions get splattered...

hmmmmm! what makes you think she's the one? Anyway, for all the contestants, it shouldn't be a do or die affair.