₦airaland Forum

mysticwarrior:
If you are a married man living with your wife, don't ever allow another man live in your house, if you are a married woman don't allow another girl or woman live in your house, world people are dangerous.

Yeye. E be like say u no know wetin dey go on for street. Woman go use hin husband money cook, arrange part if the food carry go give a jobless bachelor in another place. Na by pple staying in your house?

Daytonbale:
Please I don't know which section to post this.
Dear Nairalanders please help me out , I secure a new job in bank in Lagos and the salary is 55,000 per month for a start and they will increase it after three months and from my house to my office is not far is trekkable I don't pay Tp to work.

And I also have a new pos machine that will give me money too I don't know what to do since the bank job Don't give me time to combine the two, my bank working hours is from 7am to 5pm and I can't combine the two .
Please can I resign in the Bank and concentrate with the POS business
or should leave the POS and concentrate with the bank Job .

please help me

Did you end up starting the business? How has it been? How is your profit like?

relaxandsmile:
Do you have a better suggestion?

If El Rufai and his family were among the collateral damage, will he approve of this? Besides, Nigeria does not have that kind of bomb to bomb areas bigger than the size of UK. Neither do we have the technology to deliver such bombs even if we have it. Perhaps y'all are overestimating the capacity of a military whose personnel buy their own uniform.

festacman:
People get overly emotional and even hypocritical over this issue because a police officer is involved.

1. The Commissioner of Police Odumosu didn't need to give advance information of his coming to the Estate security men because it would be stupid to for him state his movement. Of course, giving such information would require the CP's security details to secure the Estate gate security until he arrives.

2. On arrival at the Estate gate and having PROPERLY identified himself as CP of Lagos State, he ought to have been allowed in immediately. Keeping him at the gate is unnecessarily exposing him to possible attack by criminals. Even a military formation would know better than keep a properly identified CP exposed to danger at its entry point.

3. CP Odumosu didn't need to tell the Estate security men the exact house he was going to before being allowed in. That's a classified information until his details secures the house for his safety.

4. Deliberately tagging the CP's visit as social to denigrate him is pure IGNORANCE because even a 'common' DPO is always listening to his radio equipment and giving directives anywhere he is. The fact is that when not on official leave, a CP is at work everywhere and every time.

5. I doubt if the police singled out that widow for arrest for nothing. She may have jumped into the matter and said unsavoury things. Being a resident in an Estate, I am familiar with some 'radical' busybody residents that would jump into issues without complete knowledge.

6. This is not the first gated estate that the CP has had cause to visit in Lagos. The truth is this incident was avoidable if only the Estate security was more professional and less power-conscious. Their unprofessional attitude activated power-tussle mode in the OFFICIAL state police force to show their constitutional superiority. The irony in this drama is that when armed criminals show up at the Estate, it is the official state police men that are called in to risk their lives.

7. By the way, is an estate which has individually-owned houses a private property or a community? If Magodo Brooks is NOT owned and rented out by one person as its private owner, is there any difference between this Estate and for example Ajegunle in the eyes of the law?

8. Yes, Nigeria police has many outright criminals as members but it is still the only one we have to enforce law and order and maintain security.

Whst the Bleep are y'all fiddleheads talking about? If CP comes to my house and I deny him entry means that he must arrest me? On what charge? When does denying a 'police' who is was going for a party entry becomes a crime in the Police Act or the Constitution? On what authority does the CP has to close down the estate? Because he did.

Bigpapi:
For this new year Nigerian women never still get direction?

Using this picture as meme is condescending. Families were thrown into mourning because of that picture.

MaxCray:
Hello, Nairaland Techies.

Happy New Year!

I'm looking to pick up one of these two skills this new year. Which do you think is better? Please give your reasons.

I am q data analyst/data scientist. I suggest you learn web development. The offers are appalling.

stanliwise:
Let the nairaland team put more hardwork on crating better platform. People doing all this rubbish are nothing but a necessity.

The question is what are Nairaland mods doing?
How many programming topics are in frontpage?

I was creating a thread on data modeling some times back, a mod removed it. I was shocked. Na yansh and snake dem dey find. I no dey waste my energy here

daroz:
Probably because you are buying from Nigeria. I have bought two courses within the last one week, the last one was just 2 days ago.

I bought two courses last month (December) on Udemy. Paid with GT Mastercard

FernandezPablo:
Your friend is quite unwise to discuss his most private matter with you..if only he knew you weren't gonna respect his privacy and keep it to yourself..
So if you had a picture you wouldn't even hesitate to have posted it here..no one needs to hear this..keep it to yourself..he confided in you..

And u blved dt it was his frd? N

Moferere:
Commend something good when you see one

The word ultramodern used was an insult to 21st century civil engineering.

bestme:
Hello, nairalanders in the house, pls I need your sincere advice in this matter.

I have known this lady I really want to marry for over 2 years now. Though our friendship have been a casual one. The issue is she told me she is a graduate and then i visited her house over 2 years back I met her mom and she asked me where I came from- my tribe and if I am a graduate and told her my tribe and yes I am graduate.

She said she wants her daughter to marry a graduate because she has done her best to train her school. It was of recent we started a serious marriage relationship and I told my pastor and we both met with pastor already.

It Is now she told me that she did not graduate that she was unable to pay school fees, though she went up to 500level and did I.T but her parents only paid 100 and 200 level school fees. She said she has no result/certificate. I told her am honestly disappointed for hiding this from me ever since and she said it is because I have not really made my intentions know to her.

One of the reasons I like her was being a graduate and I have not dreamt of marrying a non graduate.

Pls your sincere advice.

Do your own investigation and confirm what she has said. Did she truly go to school at all? Did she get ro 500L as she said? Was it money that caused her not to finish? If all these are true, you have no cause to reject her. Shit happens in life.

OfeAchi:
A lady friend of mine recently got a job offer with a multinational in Maiduguri. It comes with accommodation and take home is around 700k.
I advised her to decline the offer because from the news, those areas are hostile and there's a 75.65% chance a bandit would raape her or 80% chance she could be hit by a bomb.
She finally declined the offer and thanked me for saving her life.
I hope I did the right thing?

Borno na kill zone. And more dangerous to foreigners.

I don't know how y'all use Arabic numerals but 32-25is not 5.

I am not particular about the age difference but I am particular about your own abilities. Are you financially stable or u won leach on her?

I have dated someone that is 9 years older than me b4 and I know the difference between that and dating all these broke younger girls.

But note that the metabolism of a female is faster than male's. When she go dey menopause u go dey at the height of ur sexuality. When her skin go don dey sag u go still dey firm.

Personally, I feel 7 years is a bit much. I would support maximum of 4. But who am I? If you love her, propose to her. Abeg don go do am outside o.

Kollins11:
Happy Boxing Day Nairalanders. Please I need advice on this matter.

It was on a good evening... Abt 4 months ago. I went out to get a bag of pure water, but the woman that sells around my street has closed so I went to the next street.

I saw this beautiful creature, light skinned, slim and pretty girl. Although she narrowly escaped albino. Her hair is naturally dark, she's very light skinned like Regina Daniel. BUT if one observe her very well and look at her eyes one would tell she's an albino because her eyes are always swinging and dangling.
Immediately I saw her, as a sharp guy I approached her, I flattered her and she smiled and gave me her number.

NL's, I have been living in my area for almost 2 years now. I don't know this babe stays down my street. She live with parents, I was so surprise when she showed me their house. Well, since then we've been chatting and calling each other.

She's a good and happy girl, she has never directly or indirectly ask me for money, she has a great sense of humor. She enjoys my company. She's 23yrs old an igbo girl. I know alot of guys would be attracted to her beauty but I doubt if she has a boyfriend. For her to be living down my street and even my guys haven't seen her mehn! She's well reserve.

The guys in my hood, I don't know maybe the girls that broke their heart made use of Thor sledge hammer (in Avengers movie) to break it. These guyz are hardcore red pillars.

Yesterday was the First day she visited me. she brought food for me, she saw I and my guys butchering our chicken, she also assisted us in preparing egusi soup. When she left. My guyz was like where did I see this beautiful fish....Before I could even narrate to them, they were already asking if I don lash her. I said No. Omo!! They almost pick up a Physical fight with me saying "why I neva lash her nw". Honestly she's different from other girls. If na before...I for don lash her since nw.

They were also surprised that she live down our street. This babe is so reserved and well mannered. I don't mind, I would like to marry this babe. I have never felt this way for any girl in a very long time.

NL's I don't know if I should ask her out or maintain the friendship.

Dey there dey lament until one sharp guy ask her out first.

steveneche:
My uncle died early this year. He was the head of finance in the company he worked before his demise.

Now due to the level of influence he had in the company, I was made an offer because they know me well in the company.

5million cash, or I get employed in the company with 100,000 monthly pay starting January.

Please Nairalanders help me decide... Candid opinion please

If you have a ready business idea. Or you have run business before at smaller level, I would advise you to take the money. But if you are just another Joe, take the job.

neurosci:
The thing is that foreign media usually find a way to market themselves as having the best life while they market Africa as a jungle. Somehow, we have all bought into that stereotype.

They have a better life oga

helinues:
The ingrates

How nonentities found themselves on Nairaland is baffling!

Should we tell them?

isaiah4life:
This one don watch oyibo police video.

Wow, this is great. Even if something within me is telling me he wants to trend, I still appreciate his kind gesture. May God bless him and his family.

Oga, be careful, dem no dey pay police January salary early oooooooo. Hope you never forget the country you comot from.

Headline few days from now: IG summoned police who dispense cash to tricycle operator for infringing on police protocol (aka sharing what was stolen).

Idowu116:
Hello Everyone,am new here and I see the way people share opinion about what they are going through in life so I decided to share mine too.

This is a little bit long please bear with me.
Am a 22 year old undergraduate.I finished my secondary School in 2017 but couldn't further my education because my parents (father particularly) are financially down.

I didn't even attend my graduation party party because my dad refused to get me the clothes we chose to wear in my class.

So out of shame,I didn't attend the party and I haven't even collect my certificate and testimonial till today.

Later in November that year (finished school in September),I decided to start looking for a menial job so a friend helped me with work at a particular market in Lagos, where I wash shoe for shoe sellers.

I did this till 2020 in March before the Corona virus issue started.

So around December I resumed the work again till early April, this year.

A friend of my mom helped me get a job at a bank,to work as a cleaner.

All this while, my dad and mom had a serious fight and my dad stopped living with us.

My father is a stubborn and who fornicates and my mom is not happy with it.

So luckily,I got the job and I started working that same month, paid 25k.
With this 25k, a take transport everyday #400 (200 go,200 come)and I feed from it too.i give my mum 5,000 from it too but am not happy and comfortable with it because before the month ends I end up having nothing, trekking to work and have not to eat talk less of saving to further my education.

Working as a cleaner, people use to take advantage of me a lot and a person,I have studied my nature well.I don't like people sending me on errands,I hate it but that is the nature of the job.

People take me for granted, some abuse me then I would cry and wish I never existed.

Sometimes I think of committing sucide but I later do keep my cool.I am an introvert but I have decided to start talking back at people and refusing to answer their message but am scared I might loose my job even though am not happy with the job.

Am also thinking of stopping the job myself but am scared of poverty.

I don't want to go back to the shoe washing job too because it is too stressful and I get sick when doing it

Please what should I do

My advice for u.
1. Save money and buy a mini laptop.

2. Learn digital skills

3. Be deliberate about your life.

4. Tell people that you know can help you ur need for another job.

DubaiLandLord4:
The NAF once told us Bello Turji is dead

So which one be this one again

My exact thought. I was shocked.

The way nonentities dey trend for naija eh. This imp wey no fit spell hin name.

EmptyGarden:
Changed nothing... You're still dull.

Fucking dull!

ItsGoodToBeGood:
Congratulations o..


You propose to person daughter ontop 3rd Mainland Bridge and you expect her to say No abi,,, Bad Guy

Lah say no lah enter lagoon!

Treasure17:
How I wish the larger population from the north will fight for their cause.

Baba leave this people. When they are ready we go know.

abumeinben:
I didn't do the video

I thought you are Tayo Aina!

SpeedyPuff:
I recently dropped out of school because my parents can no longer sponsor me. So I'm on my own now. I want to earn my financial freedom in 2022, support my family, and maybe go back to school later.

My plan now is to work and save up money for training on a digital skill that will earn me like $1k -$2k monthly. This is my only goal now.

I have no idea what it is. But I know that some of you big boys and girls here earn well from your legit online hustle.

Please let me hear your thoughts. What can I do in 2022 to earn financial freedom and create wealth.

Search for WeCodeNG on Telegram. Ask for professional advise their.

Handsnigga:
Those living in Lagos should please advise, will it be worth it? I know transport and expenses in Lagos is higher than Ibadan but is it still a decision good enough?

Thanks

Where will u be staying in Lagos?

harqinhola:
Maybe the group should organize a meeting with the likes of Mr Macaroni , Falz , Seun Kuti etc to seek their support .

I don warn Mr. Macaroni early this year wen hin won dey put mouth for north's insecurity. People never complain na u won dey carry am for head? When they are ready, we go know. Until then...

abumeinben:
Oga bros, nor discourage me o.

Well I'm not surprised at the cost of living. Filled with foreigners...means it's a tourist location.

But me go get their passport laslas.

You are doing a great job. I dey watch some of your videos on YouTube. I never knew you were on Nairaland. Keep it up!

yanabasee2:
The people selling alcohol drinks there... should relocate to states that's giving consent to it ...


Kano is an Islamic state and it's under islamic rulings.... Reasons there is Sharia functioning there and hisbah as well...


If you're rejected, don't force yourself to stay.... Leave!

Kano is Islamic but y'all can be licking ass to sell nama here?