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Lero15:
Madam

Life's good. How are you?

Good too ... have a nice week

ElDeeVee:
The stress is nothing out of the ordinary joor; you'll cope

When(date) is the washing going to be biko

Good to know; you've just given me some hope...

To resume on Monday but I don't know if the hospital I did my medicals informed them about my big belle.. cos it wasn't really obvious during interviews. .Wonder how their faces would look like on Monday when they see my big belle
Will discuss with the HR on Monday shaa...

ElDeeVee:
Wow!!! that's nice.

However, I'm not with D but I think the culture is almost the same across board. You will enjoy it, I think.

How we dey wash am na

You think I will enjoy it and be fine? All this stress and low or no worklife balance wey I dey hear nko?

We go wash am after I get my first salary

Lero15:
I remember, consult me

Oga Lero, been a while o. How's life?

I vote fynestboi

Cc nljega


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Ladyf, Finally, I can rest.. ... I hope he wins[/size]

ElDeeVee:
Well, I can only answer for 1 of the 4.

Errmmm are you planning to come in

I'm in already. .

Hence my concern. .

ElDeeVee , have forgotten the password to my nl email

ElDeeVee:
What do you want to know

Want to know how they balance work and life.. how working there is like for a mother..
oya, now you know..you must provide answer oo

steffans:
Marriage... Use 5 years giving birth to kids and go back to ur career...

It all depends on the couples arrangements..

So after the kids are born, they'll train themselves? You don't know real work begins after kids come?

I vote fynestboi

Cc nljega


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Congrats ijeomaobi1... ThankGod for safe delivery

I vote fynestboi

Cc nljega



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I vote fynestboi ...

Cc nljega



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Ladyf , hope you're happy now?[/size]

It's well Oga... please don't give up.. Continue with the lil stuffs you're doing while still on the look out for better opportunities. . You can also seek for ways to improve your business so as to increase chances of higher profits. .

Meanwhile, I guess you have lower than a 2-1 cos if not you should atleast be getting job invites. .

I wish you the best..

Wow... ThankGod they didn't 'waste away' at Niger Delta...

Nigerians are actually intelligent and hardworking, just that the conditions here are so unfavourable. .

Wish them d best in the future and hope they'll advise their former 'colleagues' at Niger Delta ...

sayoddy:
In the other news, when D's refused the oats, without asking, dh took it up and ate 2spoons only to ask if I added breastmilk. I said yes. He quickly went to throw up. kikikikiki... What's wrong with breast milk when we take cow's milk. ordinary animal

Even if one is to taste breastmilk, the person will get his/her mind preoccupied. . You took him unawares

What kinda stupid tests be that? How can you be putting someone you claim to love through such emotional stress all in the name of testing them... Testing what exactly?

Seems you were enjoying the emotional torture... You should be happy you are no longer with him.... If you marry someone of that sort, he can give you silent treatment for months even while living in the same house with him.. so childish... He thinks it's all about him... even had the guts to blame you for everything after he broke communication for months. ..

My dear move on, you deserve better. .. and he could even be fake as many people pointed out. .

Thanks ma'am ozycy for your response

Thanks a lot mitchyy and zaynie ... really appreciate
Will buy polos and shorts/trousers. ..
Cheers people

suzy:
I am stil feeling the pain even now. i am now worried. pls what else can i do ?

At this point, I suggest you call/visit your doctor... atleast to allay your fears..

Hello mamas. . Need some help concerning more clothings to buy...

-I bought next's 3 in 1 sleep suit. . Written 9months on the body..
-Another 3 in 1 sleep suit with 0-3, 3-6 & 6-9 as the content.
-Carter's bodysuit, 5 in 1 ..written 6months on the body.
- two new born outing wears..
Three baby shoes (made with cotton)

Please what clothes do I need to add to my list? Do I need to buy fine polo and trousers now? Sweater nko? (How many and sizes)..

No worries about flannels, bibs, socks, caps, face towels, mittens Etal, got those ones in large quantity. .. my worry is with the clothings, what more should I buy?

Then about comfit pad, got 4 packets which is what's written on my hospital list.. do I need to buy some for my personal use(after delivery) or ordinary pads will suffice?

Thanks a lot and God bless

Cc liftedhands , zaynie , ozycy and every other mama...

jewelflakky16:
even said at times I pretend as if I am sick and allow my husband to do all the chores

Op, do you do this or not? ?

The woman though ... This goes to show some people take what they read/hear seriously, whether true or false..

Some people may be attacking their spouses cos of what they read on nairaland, funny


People should learn to be content with their choices while striving to make it better (if possible), in a healthy way..

mitchyy:
There is no specific duration. It can be on and off for weeks, a month or even months.

Chaii, weeks chaaa?? ... it's well

mymoneygrows:
I have those pains too and was told that once ur los head is down, u will feel those pains. its normal dear

Thanks a lot teamie.. it's well.. ThankGod it's normal. .


Yeah, mama zaynie ..thanks

thorpido:
It's normal PresVA.At 31weeks your baby is taking all the space and there's more pressure on the pelvic organs and structures especially the ligaments.Movements will stretch them and cause you pain.
Just bear it but if it becomes too painful and consistent,you might need some pain relievers.The hot water bottle is also good for relief.
Ji sii ke.

Okk.. thanks a lot Doc . I feel somewhat relieved knowing it's ok..

Liftedhands:
Presva I think its normal, your baby's weight is bearing down and ligaments are also stretching! Its just for a while and you'll be fine.

How long does ligament pain last? Mine has lasted for about two days now

ElDeeVee:
A lot

hmmmm, ok o..
e no easy really.. God will see me through, Amen..

ElDeeVee:
Eeez a normal feeling

Wetin you know about pregnancy?

Please sabi mamas, is it normal to feel pains under the stomach, like in my lower abdomen. . I feel pains whenever I want to change position in bed, bend or want to raise my legs... I walk with style these days
Don't know if it's normal. .when I use warm/hot water to massage, it gets better. .
This is the only pregnancy isshh i am experiencing since the beginning of my pregnancy

Make una help me touchlight the matter abeg.. we're 31weeks+ ...
Thank you. .

Cc : zaynie , liftedhands , kaffy4bill , soonest thorpido

juliebest:
Praise praise praise the Lord. Sisters, help me thank God. I just delivered a BBB. Bs later

Congrats sis.. ThankGod for safe delivery. .

Happy wedding anniversary tipsyjules , very cute couple. .. wish you guys more love and happiness. .

mymoneygrows:
Sugarcanebaby, it is well o. sometimes i feel that way o. maybe its the pregnancy hormones lyk our mama just said. I believe after delivery, ur scores will be settled. Last nyt i was so angry with dh, i almost slept in our spare room but mosquito pursue me and i didn't want the stress of fixing d mosquito net. The guy tire me sef. He doesn't want to kpekus even wen im in need, he doesn't hold me in bed even wen im cold, wen the nyt itch starts, he will just rub the ointment on my body and be watching me lyk television, sometimes i feel lyk slapping him. no hugs or kisses except i nag about it. he has stopped all emotional things but buys me anything i need, does the laundry, cooking, cleanup and every other thing. I know i hurt him last nyt cos of my outburst, i told him he is of no use to me. I regret saying that though. so my dear be patient with him, not all men understands wat u are going through.

Lol.. your husband is really trying if you ask me.. Concerning kpetus, could be your big bump giving him phobia. . Just take it easy with him..
Remember he has his own needs too, don't neglect him or be selfish because you're pregnant. . Take time to know how he feels too

@sugarcanebaby , your marriage is still very young. . I strongly believe it's salvageable. .wish you the best..