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Make your budget and stick to it. . It would be silly to spend beyond your limit on a wedding, instead you should even find a way(s) to know if you can still get some change' from your budget. ..

It's very important you marry someone you have same value with to avoid financial issues in marriage. ..

Also, going by the sort of girls you supposedly interviewed, it shows you 'roll' with flamboyant ladies which isn't ideal for you.. why don't you learn to roll with your 'class' instead of coming here to complain? Sure there are ladies who wouldn't mind a 100k or 200k wedding?
You want to be with the 'big' girls but complain when their demands start coming, as if them force you. .

feddy27:


I'm preparing ur mind

Tmrw u can step in

Lol.. Please how do I locate there from that GTB at GRA junction? Thanks

rexibity:
So u are one of the 25....hmmn, congrats!

You mean only 25persons were selected this year? ... economy tight indeed

Congrats shinelle and viee2(know you from d sterling thread)...wish you guys successful career

Hahahahhah... This is so true. . My husband dislikes frying ehh ...he wears long sleeves and Goggles while frying..

And he hates seeing me fry without proper coverings/protection...

Men though

feddy27:
Not sugary. Theirs should taste beta. They also have nice flavors with toppings

ewww..salivating already. .wish I can go there today.. did I ask you for pics?

ginababy:
Sabi mamas, between ur pediatrician n leaflets prescription which shud one go wt? My pediatrician prescribed 5ml for my less dan one month old baby while on d leaflet 5ml is for 2years-7years.

Pls which or who do I go with?

Leaflets for me because the manufacturers should know better. .

feddy27:
It's at GRA off Evo Road. U knw were baraka restaurant is? Same building. Opp former starcomms office

Hope their yoghurt isn't sugary? Will check them out.. will take a break from habib yoghurt if theirs tastes better!

ElDeeVee:
Bla bla bla.....CR7 is the best thing that happened to soccer. #fact

... see them.. goan sleep Eldee

RicardoRich:
Tell me abt it...

Used to dislike him but that has changed now (I think)...

I think I have a new perception of CR7

What a very dull match. .. Isn't this supposed to be finals?

Jackpal:
Yeah I know it my still happen again.
My dad and I don't really talk very well but, i want to send him a text message that such might still happen and he should not be too angry even though am really vexed at her.

Send him text that such might happen again? What sort of advice is that? How sure are you it will happen again?


This is really a 'disgusting' situation. . A woman that should be setting example for her kids...
Since they've involved you(which I find distasteful), you have to try and make peace and not telling your dad it might happen again...

Talk to your dad to forgive and give your mum a chance again, then speak to your mum to give your dad reasons to trust her again by way of her actions. .. let her know the bad implications her actions could have on your family and how sad you're about it...

You may also want to find out if there's anything that may have led your mum to doing such....

And please don't involve your younger siblings. ..

All the best Op and I hope peace returns to your family. .

Both. .
It takes luck/fate/God to make your paths cross. .

Then you use your God-given sense of judgement to know if he/she is actually what you want...

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OlatunjiOmotayo:
Kindly put me thru on how to apply to this job. Any email to forward CV to or link pls. Thanks

https://www.nairaland.com/3197237/deloitte-audit-graduate-trainee-recruitment

You can also send your CV and cover letter to nghro@deloitte.com

All d best. ..

Dominicpupuru:
You are mistaken dear. When I said 'tolerate all sorts' I meant her patience, wisdom and diplomacy made, and still makes her home a peaceful one, even after 40 years of marriage. Of course we all have our failings, but when a man 'messes up' and the woman isn't patient enough to handle the situation wisely, it would only end in unrest in the home. Trust me, my mum isn't the push around quiet type, she is firm and strict. But her wisdom amazes me! Coupled with her patience...And just so you know, I'm married, been with my wife for over 8 years and I can boldy say I have a happy and peaceful marriage.

Alright. . Wish you continous peace and happiness

Dominicpupuru:
Growing up as a young man, i watched my mum tolerate all sorts from my dad and i wished and prayed my wife would be just like her, and i'd have a happy home. Now this is the question; 'would you go ahead and marry your bf/gf if he or she had the same character as your mother or father? ' For me, GLADLY !

Really? You're praying for someone that will tolerate and endure all sorts from you? Instead of working towards not making your future wife go through what your mum went through... Smh .

Please don't enter marriage with this mindset, nobody was born to endure; we all deserve happiness. .

If you love someone, you wouldn't want them to endure rubbish from you. .Instead you strive to make them happy. ..

Really hope Wales wins... Don't want CR7 to win

general111:
Op your husband loves you but is only using those gals as sexmate..just keep praying for him Nd DAT he shouldn't infect you with std,because I know abt two women who r dead now due to their husbands infidelity...aids is real.

..modified...
The reason y I think he loves her is because he married her despite the presence of those other ladies..the man just cannot control himself...

Abeg make una no vex for this my comment because nairalanders don't dey attack me already.abeg I sorry well a.lol..

Really? Love and cheating in same sentence?

Then , @bolded, you know this and you're still assuring her that her husband loves her and that she should pray and ward off demons of STDs? ... issorait

@modified... yeah right... the lady should be happy the man chose her, I'm sure she's enjoying the 'happiness' and "love" in the marriage. .mtcheeew
Same way a man should be happy his olosho wife chose him amongst all her 'runzmen'..
Love ko, love ni...

Wonder how someone would "love" you and still want to hurt you INTENTIONALLY...

End time horseband and 'friends' ...
Op, with the kinda friends your supposed friend keeps, hope she isn't like them too?

Anyway, I don't have any advice. .sure she got a glimpse of the man's cheating ways before marriage but still went ahead to marry him. ..kpele

Right from birth. .. once a baby is born, his brain is ready and eager to learn... he starts learning from the environment around him..

Hmmmmmmmm, so short of words

God help us.....

Yes op, arrest them... then, arrest those with noisy generators, churches with speakers, beer palour cum hotels with loud music, cars with noisy sounds & horns, then keke napep with loud music....

Can't stop laughing .. comic relief

roseval:
Hello mama's, sorry pls can't memorize any mentioned, jor make una no vex, it is me o somebody else is feeling dis way, apart from kicks from my lo I don't feel as if am pregnant at all, just feel normal even if I don't eat in the morning I don't feel it. I can of feel awkward abi wat do u think.
Cc: all experience mama

what else do you need to feel dear? Ain't the kicks enough pointer that he's fine? Abi na sickness you want?
Anyway, if you feel something is wrong.. .you can always go for scan

Have always felt same way, no symptoms. . But my baby's kicks are outta this world, hyperactive baby...

Will I advise couples to attend different churches? No...
You said both of you are doing it and are ok with it, but then I feel your conscience is pricking you hence this thread...

Who will the kids follow to church?
Going to different churches creates some kinda division whereas you should be United. . I think both of you should agree on which to be attending TOGETHER as a family. ...

I for one can't attend a different church, I will feel so 'alone'..I like having my husband beside me in church. .

All d best..

Happy birthday Tolu, God's blessings. ..

Why is she acting the way she does?? You need to have a talk with her...

Give money for what exactly? Except maybe her tfare..

Depends on you anyway. ..if you have so much to spare

osabuohein:
I'm planning on even buying shares but honestly I don't know how this stock market thing works. I want to invest like 1,000,000 on shares but I don't know to go about it and how much returns it would fetch me.

Davide470 ... you have 'potential' customers

Answer the Op too..

CharllyKween:
The only reason she gave that am aware of was she dated my uncle in time past...And now her son is succumbing to her pressure

Your fiance is supposed to be the one to call his mum to 'order' but instead he's succumbing to pressure. .. My dear, you need to take a break from that relationship. . You can't win the 'fight' alone....

chizeal:
Am fyn ma'am presVA, ND you?? Nop, i havnt bin able to sort it out. Tnks for ur concern

It's well dear.. God's in control. .

Mediapace:
Lols with gorimapa he still no score

... after his 'Michael Jackson robots', he couldn't score...
One of the Supersports analyts called it comedy