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Mrs0J:
I came late and didn't see the pic, but at Mr OP u came here for people to tell you if your baby is cute, for real? I mean, as in for real?
Words fail me.

I think it was just a rhetorical question. .

nasha1:
How is the person going 2 get it if u never exposed or put ur baby pic on social media or otherwise?
facebook,instagram is their personal pages and invite or accept friend requests in their own accord. Nairaland is free for all,a simple google search can expose u.

So you think no one else sees your fb pictures et al except you? Lol...Once you expose a picture, it flies around. ..

If someone needs a picture that badly, there are several ways to get it! Except you don't go outside your house with your baby and have NEVER posted any pictures on any platform AND have never allowed anyone come visit your baby!

My dear, whoever wants to attempt to hurt you will always find a way with or without pictures.. hiding pictures doesn't eliminate that!

ifyalways:
Type your number here, I'll arrange for a transfer to your phone.

You've such a good heart. .. have been seeing your good works in other sections too..

I just like you. . God bless you more!..

chucksbadt:
Am grateful for that, but i believe it high time i upgrade. Just need a full time job 2016

Eeeeyyaa. . It's fine... At least be grateful you've somewhere you're gaining experience/skills..

I believe the experience you're gaining now will help in getting you something better.. Just be on d look out for jobs and develop yourself the best way you can...

Don't end your 2015 on a sad note pls ..better days ahead... also, look around and you'll see other things to be grateful for

mamageeiscool:
Hi all, I was just wondering why would your neighbors ignore you but talk to other members of your family?

Could it be because the person is ugly?

... very funny. .

Could be you ain't friendly and approachable. .

Nawa oo.. People and their theories. .. whereas people expose thousands of their baby pictures on fb, whatsapp, instagram, twitter, ettcc..

If you like hide your baby pictures, it wouldn't stop bad belle! Whoever needs ur baby pictures so badly will get it without ur knowledge even!

What you believe works for you. . If you believe someone can do something bad to your baby cos of his pics on here, then so be it for you!

Why would a wife do something without minding whether it's convenient for her partner or not? Not cool ... shows no regard...

Just talk to her about it.. or are you two not in good terms?

Tpiar of life

I understand the message though, different peeps with different experiences. . Some positive, some negative. ...

Very selfish individual. . She wants to deny her child(ren) the benefits of having a father figure because of her vague reasons...

Her parents' marriage should even be like a driving force to make her marriage work.. let her convince herself that her marriage can never be like that of her parents...
She should start by getting her priorities right, then making a wise choice. ..

Marriage is wonderful. . In my next world, I would marry over and over again

I seriously think the problem is your nationality. . It's so hard for an Igbo guy to marry outside his tribe, how much more outside his country. .Except Ofcourse his family isn't deeply rooted in tradition; I really doubt though, since they live in Naija. .


All d best Oyibo, whatever happens just be happy. . There are other great guys! No need beating yourself since you played your part well!

Very selfish person. . Ditching his relationships for no reason. . So inconsiderate of others' feelings. ..


He should try and make his relationships more interesting so that he doesn't get bored easily. .

Wonder how he would feel if each of his partners dumps him after just one month!

So enlightening and full of humour.. good mixture

ThankGod for who you're today bro.. have always known you here... wish you greater heights. .

So proud to be part of this.. what a happy ending. .

God bless everyone. .

thorpido:
*update

I would like to thank the e-helpers network(T.E.H.N.) for their contributions.
I paid her school fees and TEHN made contributions towards accomodation.

Wow.. You have a good heart. .. God bless y'all, Amen..

"The husband then managed to calm his wife down and get back into bed - but committed the ultimate act of betrayal by blowing off yet again."

EggovinMma:

This this kind husband dem dey use koikoi shoe knack for head for night.

Na dis Op deserve am well

Typical traditional man who believes the more a woman suffers, the more wifely she's. .

Ladies, run away from men that reason this way cos you go work tire and he won't mind, believing that's what makes a woman...

FuckTheMod:
Lazy blabbing fat wife

I really took time to go through your post.. mehn, you're in a place worse than hell!!
You're such a calm guy!

You've to let go bro;God supports divorce on the ground of infidelity.. You can also get a separation for now..

You've a brave heart, still staying with someone that threatened to stab you. .

Believe me, when you leave that lady, you'll start progressing! Please leave fast!

missyadorable:
What do you mean? Only a good n reasonable man rejects a housemaid in his house...All men sleep with maid.Better to avoid having one

The man is only reasonable if he helps at home. . You won't raise a finger in the house and you won't also allow your wife get some help?

All men sleep with maids, really? ? Even if, so women should kill themselves with chores cos the husband will sleep with their maid abi? Mtcheeeew. .

I'm not talking about live in maids though, just someone who comes around maybe twice a week to tidy up...

If only husbands will learn to help, then there maybe no need for maids. ...

Happy birthday. . Wish you a fulfilling life...

Why won't women look older than their husbands when some men can't just help their wives at home. .

The woman works 8-6
Takes care of the children and husband
Cooks and does ALL house chores. . Most times the woman wakes up 4am and sleeps around 12am.. and she still has to satisfy her husband in bed...
Coupled with childbirth. .

Some silly men will even say they don't want house maids in their house... despite them not helping out.

After all these, you expect her to look like Kim...

Get up and start helping your wife at home. .then register her with a fitness centre. .

samflex:
Thank you sir, I really appreciate...you don't have any idea what you've done today God bless

Wow.. God Bless jaybee3 ..

Miami11:
Move on with your life, you have no husband, sometimes I wonder why people rush to marry

How did she run into marriage?


Op, I think your husband possessed. .who goes after over 10 women at same time?
Seriously, I have never advised anyone to fast and pray but I'm tempted to tell you that. . He's a church worker and it could be the devil manipulating him...

If nothing changes after you have tried, then move on!

It's well Op..

Continue to RIP mum...

bloodyBLOGGER:
. The man might have reacted seeing the danger ahead which many posters in the above thread can't see. The dog might be his source of livelihood.

I stopped reading at this point! Absolute bull sh!t !

How did beating his wife help the situation?

Yes oooo.. first to comment

Coming with my nominations

I wholly support everything the Op wrote! So many adjustments need to be made in that budget. ..

faith2ogesco:
Esther. I read ur diary. I ain't ugly at all and I ain't dumb either. so whats ur pick?by d way ur craze has got me interested in ur wahala of a life. sent u a pm

... All d best bro.. invite us when d wedding rice don done oo

davide470:
Go for the one that pays the highest!


..Then build a Career in it.

I support you in a way because at the end of the day, what matters is being able to afford the basic amenities of life!

All our struggle is just for survival!

NBC pls.. it's in line with your career... it's a good place to start your engineering career. .
Except you want to divert to accounting, I see no reason for the comparison. ..

NBC will offer you more work-life balance too..

All is well Chinwendym, ThankGod no life was lost.. all of you will live long to celebrate your child's awesome future! The devil has failed. ..

It's well with you. .. This too will pass dear.. you're always in my prayers..

May God continue to guide HIS people...