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It's all up to her dear... you and I won't be the ones to carry her family and school responsibilities; she should know her capability. ..

She should just know it won't be easy especially if they get a child(ren) involved. ...

Nobody owns anyone... He's an adult.

So guys now look for financially stable ladies? What should we call them? Diamonddiggers?

After looking for ladies to help ease their responsibilities, some of them will say they can't do house chores. . Issoraaiit..

lofty900:
lol, I don't agree with the bolded. Guys don't know how to tidy up the house, that's just the bitter truth

Just say YOU don't know how to keep tidy rather than saying guys because some guys are actually very neat!

Hmmm, so witches have an association. .interesting. .
Not surprised their headquarters is Edo state

Concerning the advice given to wike:
The witch didn't give a conclusive remark, he would have said whether Wike will win or not! That way we would have taken him more serious. .
He also advised Wike to PRAY..hmmmm, so they believe in God too..interesting. .

Let me reserve my other comments shaaa

mostyg:
1. Let me inform you that I have never cheated on my wife and would rather have another wife in my house than to cheat.

2. Marrying two wives would not stop me from cheating but would reduce my tendency to cheat, it is therefore a lesser evil.

3. She is well informed of my intention.

4. Thank you for your advice.

Your wife is well informed of your decision and what's her take? Did you tell her your intention before you married her or now?

I wonder why some guys feel they're the only ones that deserve to taste different 'soups' .. how will you feel if your wife keeps another man or you think women don't deserve to taste different 'soups' too?
Do unto others as you would want them do unto you!

Anyway, I think it's in the Muslim tradition so good luck. ..

People should learn to be grateful not because someone else is in a worse position than they're; those persons don't define you and it's unfair taking advantage of their situation. ..

Be content because of more positive things other than people's predicament.. Be content because you see a better future and believe God will bless your hustles...etcc..

Also, being content because someone else is in the same or worse position isn't a way to grow in life! It deters one....

All I see in Op's pictures is 'stop unnecessary comparisons and focus on being happy for who you're and what you'll be'... when you compare at all, it should be one which will make you strive to be better. ..

Wow.. I tap into this... Amen

mostyg:
Has there lived a man who never desired more than one woman?

Yes, there are men who stuck to a single woman till they died; they never cheated too...

Don't allow the world to deceive you; some men still do keep their vows and you can be one! Such men have more impt things to do other than shamelessly chasing small girls around. ..

Marrying two women wouldn't stop you from cheating too, it's a personal decision..

However, if you must keep two wives, let the first wife know of your polygamous intention beforehand, so that she can make her decision. ..

Build a house with different flats for ur own good o because if any trouble, e go land on ur head....

staying separately wouldn't stop them from keeping a cordial relationship if they wish... They'll also have their space and privacy too...

Just calm down Op.. you'll soon be free; you're already in 200L... You'll soon finish school and become independent. ..

Any action you take now maybe to your own detriment as he may even stop paying your school fees...just calm down.. it's well..

Holywizard:
shame on u!

I pity ur parents!

Nawa ooo.. is the op the cause of your problems?



@op, graphic indeed ... you'll definitely do better nxt time...

I don't understand Op, does being smart prevent one from being creative?

ogawisdom:
Op get ready BC ur mother in-law is on her way after delivery for omugu. Make sure there is enough in ur saving acct. This one way u dey open thread on top this small list

As in eehhh, mother in law never come omugwo ooo

OMG... Suffering at such a tender age


Wish her full recovery and an amazing future. .

APRIDE:
On the contrary bro, NBC would offer less risk and better pay. Trust me on this one, i work there.

So NBC pays over 200k for trainee position?

ItsTime4me:
Bros abi na sist abeg let's not do or say anything that would spite someone or incite anyone to jealousy. Not even to a 'supposed enemy' on this thread. Every good gift and perfect present comes from God. Even forkadict knows that it's not by his knowledge or strength that he got the offer. By the way, I am seeing here for the first time. Welcome.

I don't understand bro.. didn't make my comment to spite anyone. . He made a comment when forkadict was called for medicals, just wanted to inform him that forka's offer don land. .

Btw, I know it's God that does all things so....

Prelinctus come ooo, forkadict has gotten his offer letter. . What says you?


Congrats forkadict, wish you the best..

Obiano is a very peaceful man.. kudos!

My marriage can never degenerate to hiding stuffs as crucial as this from my spouse. .

mompurity2:
Congratz @udoomama, may you carry to term and birth with ease in Jesus name.
We are teamies . I got mine on the 13th dec 2015. #team sept2016 for the supernatural delivery of our Lo's.

Team September abi August?

You did the right thing op.. I can't do a work that leaves me overly depressed and unhappy, that's like reducing my lifespan. .there should be something good to keep you going in a job...


Your courage will help you land a better opportunity. Be strong. .

Despite all fasting and praying, they got Barcelona. .chaaiii

Arsenal is a goner .... paired with Barcelona..
Arsenal is always so unlucky


Real Madrid vs Roma
Chelsea vs PSG
Man City vs FC dynamo

He shouldn't quit just yet. Going from earning over 500k to about 200k will be such a hard transition ; Let his business grow some more..

mrking3:
Your friend is confused! Obviously from the Last paragraph!! He works with an American company earning that high figure yet, he's complaining! I know people that works like hell in this country and still doesn't earn close to what he claims he earn. Abeg, he should decide for himself!

Poverty mentality!

So others' contentment should determine his too abi??

I think you should be more concerned about your so called lover who went to woo your best friend. . Is he really worth it?

Then, your bestie

Just let them be.. they ain't worth your time if you ask me...

I know the betrayal hurts but move on dear, better relationships abound!

aegis86:
Guys believe me, SHELL has not contacted anybody for interview,i can tell you that with all confidence, so please relax yourselves and don't be agitated. Again "SHELL HAS NOT CONTACTED ANYONE FOR INTERVIEW" please take note all nairalanders...God bless you all.

Lol, you wish!

Just move on with your life, if they call fine... Bothering about the recruitment doesn't help in any way. ..

Not always true... my cousin's first words were 'UP NEPA'.. it wasn't coherent but we could understand what she was saying.. she was just jumping with her brother saying uuuppp neeppaaa

sickstars:
I am more concerned right now i have moderate boobs but am pregnant and i have little nipples so tiny like i am still a teenager and i'm worried would i be able to breast feed my baby would there be a passage for the breast milk to come out because i have abnormal small nipples and i am worried

People with diff 'wahalas'... my friend that just gave birth has big n!pple$ and her mum advised her to be holding the n!pple$ together(kinda pressing together to make smaller) while breastfeeding to avoid her baby getting a big mouth. .

My dear, I don't think nipple size matters oo.. as long as your body produces milk, it must see a passage. .

Tochiphotos , what's up with you? It's almost two months without pictures. .

8 relations living with you? You generous no be small

How does your husband cope when you're away?

He go sabi maths die!

Congrats. ..