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Stop giving him money before he runs you dry too.. not even like he uses the money for something important. ..
Talk to him, he needs to be saving an amount monthly whether in the bank or in form of assets. ...you're yet to raise your family. . You guys can open a no - withdrawal account. ..

Let him know that if he goes bankrupt today, nobody cares!

Eesha:
Heheheheehhehehee. Marriage aint no bed of roses. Why our hubbies come resemble so
Only difference is that my hubby helps if i ask. Have u tried asking ( VERY NICELY)??


Or Get a maid and then he foots d bill mbok

..I really doubt if the man in question will oblige if asked; if he can't pick his socks himself, I wonder what else he can do.. even to the extent of telling her to wash cars .. The man may even see her asking as an insult. .
She can try nevertheless. .

You were married as a maid .. didn't you form 'superwoman' while you were dating? So why complaining now? You probably knew all these before you said I do..

Ok seriously, it's pathetic .. Some men actually see their wives as maids...Imagine washing cars too ...
I suggest you do only stuffs you can, chores can never finish so take it one at a go starting from d most important, you can also talk to your husband concerning some of his attitudes. .. if you can't handle any chore, explain to him why. . Don't stress yourself to death; your kids need you please. . You can also hire a maid..

Harsh solutions won't work cos you're probably financially dependent on him...just take it easy...

Onegai:
But honestly it's weird. In the past, children ran around naked and their bodies were still mature. So why were they not being raped at 11, 8, 4 years of age? Doesn't that imply that the problem is not children but oversexualization of adults, who now see sexuality in everyone and every thing?

I mean, there are innocent words I cannot use now because they connote sexual meanings in these times. Is it the word's fault or is it people's fault?

@ bolded, that's the problem right there; the craziness I was talking about. ..

It's the people that make up the world na...

breakeven:
Poverty and would have gone blinder if there is anything like that

Wonder what would have become of him if he stayed back in Nigeria. ..

SSpeter:
The funny thing was the lady felt like I was supposed to know she wants to sit......so I should do the needful?.....if you are beautiful....that is to your BF or ur parents....if you display and crude/arrogant attitude using "beauty" as your leverage,the embarrassment I will dish out to you will be legendary...

You will dish out embarrassment? Sorry to say but there's no difference between you and the lady.. two wrongs can never make a right. .

I think you have issues with females. ..

Nne, that's the crazy world we are in... in the olden days, children ran around naked or wore only pants..

Now, we hear: wear your children full clothings even if they're hot because of some stup!d men.. some will even tell you, don't allow your husband bath your baby girl

The world is just getting crazier..

airmirthd1:
To my fellow gender......
For Man is not created from Woman, but Woman from Man nor was Man created for the Woman, but Woman for the Man.... So let's respect them.....
Or what do yo think??

Nne, respect is earned. . I can't automatically respect a silly/mad man because he's a man...

However, I acknowledge that a (responsible) man is the head of a home, more like a team leader. ..

Sooner or later, the man will also dump his new ch!ck..

He's just a sicko.... when he realises himself later in life, it maybe too late..

Let the girl move on please. .

munarule:
you mean I should tell my husband that I want to sell those things listed above with almost 200k. Then I need less than 50k to do it and I can't even sell those things. Thanks anyway

You need less than 50k?
Your 100k can't even do that business well... are you taking 100k to be one huge sum for business or what?

ernesty20:
If na u wetin u for do? When buhari no wan build correct hospitals

Running to where?

Ignorance, he probably felt he would be left to die..running away, to what end?
They should do well to release his details including picture biko...


It's even sad he escaped with the help of health workers. .

I will check o.. I'm too curious. . Wish I can even know right from conception

But then, some of the scans turn out wrong... You can only be sure after birth shaa

dearpreye:
When the poor are truly tired of the sufferings, they will know exactly what to do.

What are they going to do?

Everything's possible in Naija... so pathetic

The poor keep suffering .. God help us.

mizskyhigh:
Hey PresVA,did you forward your reference form to ur referees urself or common wealth scholarship contacted them directly?

My shared scholarship application is still showing 0 of 3 referees received so far.

Tags: Ilorin.Boy1 and anyone wit knowledge of this,please rply asap.

Commonwealth contacts them directly... you have to keep contacting your referees and ensure they send their references. .

All the best..

@ thorpido , bellong , et al.. you guys may want to check this thread.. I don try..

https://www.nairaland.com/2874778/need-love

sickstars:
its hard every talks like every girl shd b strong nd all

Every one shd understand sum people heals slowly m nt d type dat get out of break up trauma fast its slowly nd it hurts badly

I understand but please stop hurting yourself. . The guy isn't worth it believe me.. go out and do what makes you happy , you owe that to yourself. .

Crying and hurting yourself over it will change nothing.. Betrayal from someone you love can be so heartbreaking but isn't worth being held onto for a longtime.. to what end?

Truth is love will surely find you again, this time genuine.and I really doubt if it will like to find you in this present condition. .so can you stop crying now?
Life hasn't ended, you still have wonderful years ahead of you!

sickstars:
Sometimes u just need that special person in ur life

Who will love u nd b there for u nd u love the person nd b there for the person

Thats the way God designed it

Yeah, I agree perfectly. ..but as I said before, it will come when the time is right, no need to cry over it..

She should just love herself. .

Unfortunately, this will affect all sectors of our economy. .business men, everyone alike...oil being the major source of revenue.

Hard time for Nigeria but we'll surely bounce back..

Love will come when the time is right. . Just be yourself.

Btw, ain't your family showing you enough love?

ednut1:
as far as i am concerned this is the best place to work , oga funky i sight u

When you get a job from a bigger company, story go change

Chaiii... God's good .. May He be praised

sunshine1974:
Is dere no oda way around this thing?

No other known ways..

Keep searching. . You must get a woman

And what happens to the shameless promiscuous husband?

She should work on her husband cos that's where the main problem lies except the wife is ready to keep posting different pictures up and down!

If his wife has changed, I really don't see any reason for the panic.. all that is in the past now...

I really don't understand your question? You ain't buoyant enough to rent an apartment and YOUR MUM offered to help and you're here asking us? is your mum a stranger? Or is there something to it? You're living with her already so what difference does it make? It's even better now as you'll be living in separate flats..

Nothing wrong with living there till you make out something for yourself except your mum is overbearing or has some other attitudes you're afraid of... .

Una still dey argue this? Different budget for different classes of people. . To each his own.. Don't spend beyond your means... fullstop


These threads are getting tiring please. .

Chaaiiii.. hard life!

I pity the children who are being abused! Running across the expressways when their mates are in school. . Really pathetic.

So lovely

Vacation rekindles and strengthens love ...

The dog even get sense pass the mother of the baby...

Lovely dog