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Meeloreh:
Just one question: how much did he pay?

He'll no longer see the wife as an subject of love n care but a burden, asset cuz he paid an exorbitant price

ViNeHaNds:
yes, i see her as my saviour, no matter what then, haven't you read? now there is but , a big but. I have in no way condemned her, have I, she has my praises any day, but my joy is cut short, never saw the roles I played as a houseboy until now, I just feel I have been used. because right now she can't keep her promises, no money according to her, its not about any wrong doings, thanks you all anyways,

ViNeHaNds:
yea, last big money from her was my 60% school fees, she has not given me anything above 10k ever since, that's after working my ass out and some food stuffs, it do go a long way though, but right now, she has to full fill her promises, debts has to be paid, project funds but instead its quarrels upon quarrel, I feel I am wasting my time here, she will give me 10k and some food stuff, when i tell her I am goin back to school. How will this solve all these problems?

Yomieluv:
Funniest thing is that the bag is heavy,and she's pregnant.

I see no big deal carrying the bag for her cos of her condition.

My mum knows she's preggy.yet said such thing.

Women are indeed their own worst enemy.

Miami11:
Even teenage siblings of opposite sex cannot sleep on one bed.

RadicallyBlunt:
Lol. That what. That her sister's husband is looking at her somehow cus her sister comes late from work? Whose fault is it gonna be..her sister and the husbands? Is a sister-in-law supposed to be alone with d husband b4?

It won't do any help especially if the wife is not matured enough to handle why her mother is supporting her sister over what she doesn't know just bcus they're trying to save her marriage. So the maturity still depends more on d wife's sister but maybe as a girl sha..she fit no fit handle am

poshestmina:
Don't you have a house?

Unity19:
Messi will surely win the ballon d or. I love ronaldo but he still has a lot to learn about team football. For Neymar, he can't get it this year maybe next. From what i am seeing now, i think ronaldo should forget about receiving any baloon d or again.

Onegai:
Surprise him by telling him business has packed up and money is tight for you and you need his support. The truth will come out.

Gaborone:
Sis, I made some additions to the post you quoted...you can check it up again.

Seems it all boils down to not having a father-figure in his growing up years to teach certain things. If this is the case, you can lovingly tell him about a woman's expectations from a man I'm certain instances (paying t.fare, etc). If he's not ready to learn, or change those little things, then, perhaps you should flee, because that may be a pointer that when you guys get married and big responsibilities come, he may not be stepping up for you.

vekanem:
Greetings to everyone. Just followed the thread some days back and all I can say is " Its been wow". With the encouragement and advices you guys dish out on a daily basis is really encouraging . Graduate of Petroleum Engineering. As much as I'd love to work in the industry. I have a passion for teaching. Maybe impacting knowledge is my calling. Am in Ibadan at the moment and will like to get my hands on something . Thanks to everyone .

micfranklin:
u kinda right in ur way tho.. All i knw is dat a 'general' guy wld kip comin bk to a gal dat blows off his brains in bed evn if he's married to d vry good hearted woman u talkin bout. So i beta hav a woman who is jst alright in heart bt awesome in bed so dat i'll nt only stop lookin at other gals bt run home at d slightest opportunities

Miami11:
You can have the best of both worlds, it is very possible
I personally just calculated how much it cost to put three kids in childcare (for those abroad)
To make a decision