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JasonScoolari:
No money to help her, but there's quick money to buy casket for her burial.


The Life We Live In.

It’s so sad. I am sure the casket is more than the 30k sef

Tallesty1:
This is why I hate people who overidentify with their emotions. They always give reasons to justify their foolishness. See how she roped the blame on the man.

But the man is also cheating on her so it’s equal. The only advice I would have for her is to save a lot of money for eventualities

Most of them don’t plan or have investments, they just depend on the salary they get to eat and feed their children

nlfpmod:
https://thenationonlineng.net/reactions-as-customs-plans-to-ban-second-hand-clothes/

This doesn’t make sense. Even in abroad they sell okrika clothes which they call ‘hand me downs’ in stores for that matter

JasonScoolari:
Truckload of evidence (IREV) are trooping into the court room...

Barrister Otaokpukpu (Bone Crusher) is there adding more Vawulence to the description of the boxes.


😄

What did he do in court?

KunleAkingbadeh:
There seems to be a perversion in this judgement. It is more or less as if the girl was discharged & acquitted in this very complex murder case.

How can the defense Counsel & the Prosecution Counsel appealed to the court to tender justice with mercy on her own case in their respective Allocutus?

They said that she provided missing links to the hidden facts of the case and she took on a sober posture. How?

Is this not the same receptionist who earns over 100k monthly at her duty post?

Which 3-Star hotel in this part of the world, even in Lagos pays their receptionists over 100k monthly?

There seems to be a twist in her Judgement. All is well!

If you go through the case, you will know that the girl is a victim of circumstance and besides the allocutus was in order cos she has no previous criminal record

gift2xl:
Rotimi Amaechi and his wife, Judith were also present

Is he an LP member, should have been at BAT inauguration.

Me sef confuse as I see am

saintbillion:
She looks pregnant sha and also like a sickle cell patent. Well such lady can't turn me on. So she suppose dey virgin till death

Jealousy! Because you are not a virgin

DownTime44:
https://www.nairaland.com/7686172/been-restless-having-chat-elder


All thanks to everyone for their immense contributions towards my elder brother predicament. This place is truly home away from home. For those getting to know or who just come across this thread, you can read through the link posted above to get a grasp of where I'm coming from.


Someone sent me a mail having gone through my post and we both shared contact. He works on the island and he was willing to absorb my elder brother into his organisation. It's an organisation where one learn a skills and get paid monthly. Then after being certified in your skills, you can be employed as a full staff into the organisation. He would be given #20,000 monthly as stipend while learning as an apprentice but the man promised to be adding #10,000 to it making a total of #30,000 monthly. This person didn't know me from Adam but was touched by my brother's condition and he developed interest in helping him in his own little way. He asked me to inform my elder brother and get back to him.


I discussed everything to my brother verbally. Infact, i relate everything to him in my mother's tongue for ease of communication. I asked him if he has any interest in the offer and he said yes. He has interest. He's very much interested. He said he'd specialised in plumbing. I reached out to the man and we both finalise everything. He asked my brother when would he love to resume and he said month end. After the call, i asked him why month end and he said he doesn't have anything. He needs to get some few clothes, toiletries and some money for upkeep. I asked him where would he get money from less than 2 weeks to month end. He claimed if he can see any bus to work with. I told him you've been out of job going to a year, you didn't get any bus. Why do you think you'd get a bus within a short space of time? I asked him what if i rally round for him, is he willing to resume before the month end, he said yes with happy face. I borrowed #10,000 from a friend, i had #5,000 left with me, making a total of #15,000. I gave him 2 pairs of trousers and shirt i had. He bought a small school bag of #3,000 to put his clothes and he left in two days time. That was last week Wednesday. Oh! God, i was the happiest man on earth that very day.. I was so happy for him believing that he would become somebody from there. I called him to know if he has gotten there and how the work was. He said everything was fine.


I was surprised to see my brother at home on Friday, two days after he left. I asked him hope all is well? He said yes. I asked him why did he came back home so soon considering the cost of transportation to island. He was given a room he'd put up with. I expected him to stay there and focus on his job, whenever i have any money i would send to him. The man that helped him with the job called me later in the day. He narrated the gross misconduct of my brother. My brother left the job on Friday during working hours. The work is Monday to Saturday. Though Saturday is half day. He explained every details of the job to my brother before he resumed work. My brother was assigned to someone else to work with, not directly the man that helped him. The man only came to check up on him daily to know how he's fairing. The man was there when my brother took his bag, headed outside with the claim that he was going home. The man told him he can't go home now till after work, which is on Saturday. My brother didn't listen to the boss he was assigned with nor the man that helped him. He left right in their presence.


They do give daily report, and the man he was assigned with reported that he doesn't have anyone to work with, particularly on Saturday. The management asked him about my brother assigned to him and he said he has left on Friday. My brother was dismissed for his attitude. I pleaded to give him a second chance, but the man said it was beyond his power. The management has decided. I asked him to report there today and apologise for his gross misconduct. He went but apology wasn't accepted. If i was the man that helped my brother with this job or if i was among the management. I would do the same thing. I'd gladly lay him off without thinking twice.


My mother had been crying having heard the outcome of everything. I myself had cry my eyes out, all because of this my elder brother. I am fed up. The burden is too much. I might be tempted to harm him living under the same roof with him. I had been trying to console my mum but she wouldn't listen. Landlord came to harass her last week, the very day my elder brother left, because of house rent. I had 3 younger siblings to look after. Here comes my elder brother problem again. I am responsible for all of these with my meagre pay. I don't know what else to do for this guy. I don't think i can put up with him anymore. I am tired. Why is this life full of problems? I am losing my mind completely.

Sincerely, your brother might be under a foundational spell that needs to be broken if not every effort you make in his life will be like pouring water into a basket. He needs prayers

iSense247:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/election-tribunal-well-expose-inec-obis-lawyer-declares/

Why consolidating the three petitions?

iammo:




180 days going, going gone

7 weeks to present Witness

The last 3 weeks was to drag Telivising of Court proceedings

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Whoever told you guys that election petition would last for 180 days?

References1:
https://sunnewsonline.com/sunday-mbang-methodist-prelete-emeritus-dies-at-86/

May his soul Rest In Peace. God bless his good heart

Anything armed robbery attracts the death by hanging. That’s why under the Criminal law, stealing/robbery is different from the offense of armed robbery.

lovediehatelive:
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in contact with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

Are you a virgin?

Spuggie:
Seriously
Fasting
Shouldn't he be planning on how to hit the ground running because he has a lot of work to do. This is Abia State that is constantly in the news for all the wrong reasons.
Seems to me he has no master plan.
Another chapter of the same BS to sway/swindle the emotionally unstable lots.

He has already done that. The prayer is the tip of the iceberg

RapistOnBail:

Congratulations to Her.

This life just easy for Ladies. See Wetin them Dey use trend! Omo!

A guy too can cook. Being a Chef is not a lady’s affair

Brimstone77:
....


I didn't see ewedu and gberi in the list..😁😁😁😁

Anyway who will provide the food items and stuffs?

Government??

What if after breaking the record of cooking for 4 days and another person decide to cook for 5 days breaking her record??

Till then na. At least her name don enter guiness book of records

Odogwuzack:
Wow... She must be provided with necessary help plsss.

SS lady... Thank God she's not Igbo. We won't have to deal with "we won Guiness record for Nigeria" and other unnecessary noise.

The hatred for Igbo people is deep

Osobi32:
If a woman does same then she go reach her papa house asap.

So you see, it’s common sense, learn to take what you dish out to others. If not karma would help to do the needful

Fabulozz:
I have 1 wife only she is my everything. I am not going to marry her as a second wife she is troublesome her mother is my worst enemy and I am not ready to die from HBP. I am frustated because I don't know how to tell my wife about the mess I made.

That’s why I never advise anyone to marry a man with a baby mama cos they would still go back to their vomit. It’s better to marry a widower than to marry a baby papa.

Drupzempire:
The joy of any parents is to see their children doing well...... even me self I don make my papa proud clap for me.

I think it should be, the joy of every good parent cos not every parent wants their children to be more successful than them sha

Osobi32:
If the woman can't accept the boy as her son then they should probably go their separate ways. Why will a woman think of poisoning her husband because he had a child with another woman!

You haven’t answered my question. I hope you would same position if it was the woman who did same? Yes/No?

Osobi32:
Poison the man or the kid for what? The boy is his son and there's absolutely nothing she can do about it. I don't need to explain his life to a woman before taking action. He had a life before she met and married him ryt? So she should accept everything that comes with it.

Hope you would hold the same position if a woman does the same thing

Obi3icebaba:
If you want an affordable and secured environment with good facilities and good neighbors for you your kids , get a house in Navy Estate orozo. Get a nice car and start Uber for the main time while you learn more about Abuja and what business you can do

But Orozo is too far from town na plus traffic to and fro

Illuminatiship:
Imagine this kind person becomes president?

It’s necessary especially in that school

anthropizzy:
Good talk.

Thank you

Adiob200:
I saw one news online that Mtn change their code for recharge cards, for a year now have never recharge my line with paper card, only online...Are you still using paper recharge card?

I prefer paper cards to online. Why would I enrich the banks when my fellow man is hungry

Godswillu:
If you have a small business of your own you will understand.
The cost of doing business is on the high side and at the end of the month it will look as if the workers have not work to end the pay.
But at the end of the month, salary will need to be paid.

Not a reason. Employ the number of people you can pay to avoid all these flimsy excuses

Tntsi:
Is this why abike dabiri brought up the nonsense evacuation by state of orgin?
Abike dabiri and whoever with her in this evil are wicked.
Nigeria is at the edge of falling. But one sure thing is tinubu will not be president for even 1 day.

SMH! And it’s an Igbo man that offered to convey Nigerians out of there free of charge O!

WriterNig:
https://i.guim.co.uk/img/media/6ecbc4abdf534468072d38dc495cf1e2c3b72e39/0_183_5500_3300/master/5500.jpg?width=465&quality=45&dpr=2&s=none

Dutch judges have ordered a man suspected of fathering more than 550 children through sperm donations to stop donating, in the latest fertility scandal to shock the Netherlands.

The man, identified in Dutch media only as Jonathan M, 41, was taken to court by a foundation protecting the rights of donor children and by the mother of one of the children allegedly fathered from his sperm.

Dutch clinical guidelines say a donor should not father more than 25 children in 12 families, but judges said the man had helped produce between 550 and 600 children since he started donating sperm in 2007.

The court therefore “prohibits the defendant from donating his semen to new prospective parents after the issuing of this judgment”, judge Thera Hesselink said on Friday.

Jonathan M may also not contact any prospective parents “with the wish that he was willing to donate semen … advertise his services to prospective parents or join any organisation that establishes contact between prospective parents”, Hesselink said in a written judgment.

Should he continue with his donations, he would face a €100,000 (£88,000) fine for each transgression, as well as additional fines, the judge ordered.

https://cdnph.upi.com/svc/sv/upi_com/9841682687497/2023/1/c2ab6f814965768aeb2e71ce026153e6/Dutch-court-orders-man-who-claimed-to-father-550-to-stop-sperm-donations.jpg

The mother of one of the children in the court case, identified only as “Eva”, said she was grateful that the court had stopped the man from “mass donations that [have] spread like wildfire to other countries”.

“I’m asking the donor to respect our interests and to accept the verdict, because our children deserve to be left alone,” she said in a statement.

More than 100 of Jonathan M’s children were born in Dutch clinics and others privately, but he also donated to a Danish clinic – named as Cryos in court papers – which then dispatched his semen to private addresses in various countries.

“The donor deliberately misinformed prospective parents about the number of children he had already fathered in the past,” the district court in The Hague said.

“All these parents are now confronted with the fact that the children in their family are part of a huge kinship network, with hundreds of half-siblings, which they did not choose,” it said.

The court considered it “sufficiently plausible” that this has or could have negative psychosocial consequences for the children.

This included psychological problems around identity and fears of incest.

God forbid! This one don cause confusion for the next generation. That’s how people would marry without knowing that the person is his half sibling. Please God let this not come into Africa

kpakpakpa:
Now i happened to be in an unpleasant situation last twoweeks and some bad guys beat me up, i don't know the kind of evil spirit that entered them but they focused on slapping me on both ears. For some days now, i'm hearing heavy sounds in my ears like a trucks motor horn, gunshots, car break that is about to have accident etc

Even alcohol can not make me sleep for 5hrs now before i will wake up.

That is why i'm looking for a way to stop hearing completely, i'm going mad right now and i don't know what to do.

The drugs i was supposed to be taken is not of my reach because it is very cost and you can't get it near me unless i send for it in abj or jos, better still lagos.

I want to stop hearing completely.

It’s well.
Try to change your Doctors and visit a Specialist
Meanwhile, I will advise you go to any Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministry around you for deliverance cos there’s nothing that God cannot do

Jerryherd:





I really pity the Gbagyi people of Abuja and other middle belt Indegeneous tribe of Abuja

Already Labour Party took their Only Senatorial district Ticket for a non Indegene Southerner

Imagine as an indegene you have land dispute or other dispute regarding Government representation, if they go to report at the LGA.. they meet Hausa, if they go to meet FCT Minister they meet Fulani, if they go to meet their Senator its a Yoruba woman they meet, if they go to meet the Market leaders they meet Igbos


Using principle of Federal Character system and Qouta system, every Gbagyi indegene would get shortchanged during Federal Government recruitment when they can't even have an indegene to approve their employment slot at the LGA



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Lol! As their brother was there, how many Gbagyi people did he give federal jobs?