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Nemesis0147:
u don see any sug president wey no be cultist before?

Yes. My friend was one time Rivers State University SUG president and she was not a cultist

Candidlady:
Hmmm


The fruit doesn't fall far from the tree...

my father was one of the man I mistakenly ever met on earth and unlucky for me he is my father

Don't know why ifind this so funny......


You don't wanna have anything to do with your father.. and you have a son now... Ijust pray your son doesn't choose same path!!!

His son will only choose the same path if he ends up behaving like his father

Tayorshd87:
From a friend though


Am the last born in my family and there are too many ups and downs and wahala in my family because it was a polygamous home and my father was one of the man I mistakenly ever met on earth and unlucky for me he is my father 😭😢
So how I wish I should start my life with my own fresh lineage from my wife and children. Like I don't want to be part of the father tree again.

I gave birth 3days ago and I don't want my son to bear my surname 🤔 I want my own name to be his surname so my father lineage will be cut off
☹️

Please is there any future implications in this decision?
Or rather something bad behind this decision??

Thanks 😌

There is nothing wrong in it. Your children will bear your name and you can still bear your surname

sammirano:
A bad wife is better than a bad inlaw

Not true. You can cut off easily from a bad in law than a bad wife who practically lives with you

The man should check if he is having mouth odor

Ijelenwanyioma:
I am legally married to this man and we have 3 sons together. Recently he purchased some land which he actually told me about but when I checked the documents of all the land I only saw Mr(his name in full) and not Mr & Mrs (his name and surname) or Mr (his name ) and Mrs (My name ). This really gave me great concern and when I asked him, he told me it doesn't really count because the properties also belong to my children. Later he started accusing me that I am nursing ulterior motive in my heart and maybe I want to take over the properties which is blantly lies. I just want to feel ownership of the land too

Please am I overreacting on this issue truly or my husband is planning something behind me ( maybe remarrying)

Your name can’t be included. It is either Mr this or Mrs this, you can’t have Mr and Mrs this on a landed property

eminikansoso:
Oga pastor.
Everyone of us here in Africa is a product of polygamy. Check your root to 5th or 6th generations. U will understand what am saying.
Do not judge so that you will not be judged. Let God Almighty decide

Being a product of polygamy does not justify the act itself. My both parents are from polygamous homes but hates polygamy cos they saw the ills associated with it. That’s why they chose to work on their marriage and ensure nothing like side chick/cock is acceptable. They have been married for 41 years now

Righteousness2:
Very Wrong move and Action by may.
You cannot leave your Home for a home robber.
The Stranger is the one that will leave your Home.

May Edochie cancel that move. 2 wrongs will not make a right.
GOD ALMIGHTY is still seated on HIS throne.
Stand in Gap for your Home.
Visit the Lord's Chosen. The GOD of Chosen is tested and Proven to restore your Home.

Please be praying for her Sir

Daddyseun1:
Devilish woman.
Am leaving with a similar one as wife too

God forbid! May God deliver you

flokii:
PBAT should be wary of these people.. they will say we are talking too much till something bad will happen. You don't recognize a sitting president and expect to get allocations from FG?
Alex Otti is infact an illegitimate governor in Abia cos there is an existing judgement of Federal High Court nullifying his victory. The usual hypocrites are looking for manhood at tribunal but won't obey a Federal High Court ruling on Otti.

The FG allocation is not given to a person (Governor), it is given to the State and its not a gift but a right given to ALL States. The Federal High Court judgment is null, go and read again

It looks yummy

abobote:
Police PRO has already justified the inhumane treatment by the wicked officers
He said, he became aggressive, attack the officers, inflicted injuries on them and destroyed police vehicle

Nigeria police are the most wicked and worse police in the world

Lies. How can one man attack a group of police officers with guns? Haba na!

Deepspirituals:
He Said His Business Crumbles After Marriage .

He Owns three Big Trading Stores where Provisions and Households Items are Sold, A Business he has been doing as a Single,Non Married Man Before

Business was Moving on Fine for Several Years.
After He Got Married, He couldn't explain what was Happening, So strange that his Business Started Collapsing, right now Only one Shop is Left with Scanty Stocks, Shop Owner Lawyer Already Served him Quiting Notice.

To Worsen the Situation, He said Serious Nightmares have been his Usual Experience at night ever Since He Married?

Could all these be a Coincidence?
Life is more Deeper than The Physical.
They Already had a Boy who is just 1 Year and 3 Months Old.
Bible Says What God Has Joined together, Let no man Puts Asunder.

He who finds a Wife, Finds a Good thing and Obtain Favour from the Lord...
This Man Looks So Frustrated, Dejected and Planning to Do Away with the Woman .

I'm Spiritualist Ade, I have not even Carried out any Spiritual Check or Investigation into the Matter, it is still very Fresh.
Oga Be Patients, I do not think it is Right to base the Present Situation on your Marriage.
Oga said if not why So Sudden

I Detest Divorce/ Marital Division.
What is your Advise?

He should pray very well for his marriage. The powers that don’t want him to get married are attacking his finances. He should let his wife be.

JennyJossie:
Your advice pls at 29 to 30 some one is ready to marry you and also promise to train you in school, but you are not sure. And one of your relative said he will train you in school, and you are sure about it but on the conditions that you must let go of marriage issues. Which one will you go for

First thing, pray to God for His direction.
Well, if the suitor is serious, then you can get married after he has paid your fees. I am looking at your age by the time you graduate from school. You can decide not to have kids till after school or in final year. A friend of mine who is now a Medical Doctor did same thing, she got married while in 200 level and hubby sponsored her schooling till she graduated. What’s the probability that after you graduate, you would find a suitable partner?

When you get married

Lukuluku69:
Supplementary Budget.

You know he got his people at the Assembly. His choices won at the Senate and House of Rep.

Let’s see how it goes

References1:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/06/breaking-students-loan-begins-september-october-tinubu/

How can this be when it was not captured in the budget?

uzomakanaki:
Fellow nairalanders, please I need advice from matured minds in this group.

I'm in a two year relationship with my woman, we're both working. I'm 34 while she's 27. My montly salary and commision is over 200k with other side hustle i do that bring in funds for me, i also just got a car i want to register with bolt/uber to still bring in funds in my free time.

My fiancee on the other hand is earning 75k monthly. I take good care of her needs and makes sure she doesn't lack anything I can afford.

We both plan to settle down by December.

Sometimes last month she missed her period, after the test we discovered she's 5 weeks pregnant.

I'm against abortion because of the dangers involved in the aftermath, i suggested she keep the baby while I come and see her family and do some necessary things before the main wedding. But she insisted in aborting the baby, reason being that she can't be pregnant and be working. Unless I place her on a monthly salary.

She has aborted the baby and had complications because of the quack nurse that performed the abortion. I spent a lot to make her back on her feet

I'm gradually losing interest in the relationship cos that single act of her. I've kept this to myself.

I just need advice on how to handle this. Cos I'm already fed up with her with her recent disrespect and the way she talks to me anyhow even in public.

Kai! She no try, perhaps the pregnancy is not yours.

Lol! I thought he was refining in Nigeria? No be today

JasonScoolari:
No money to help her, but there's quick money to buy casket for her burial.


The Life We Live In.

It’s so sad. I am sure the casket is more than the 30k sef

Tallesty1:
This is why I hate people who overidentify with their emotions. They always give reasons to justify their foolishness. See how she roped the blame on the man.

But the man is also cheating on her so it’s equal. The only advice I would have for her is to save a lot of money for eventualities

Most of them don’t plan or have investments, they just depend on the salary they get to eat and feed their children

nlfpmod:
https://thenationonlineng.net/reactions-as-customs-plans-to-ban-second-hand-clothes/

This doesn’t make sense. Even in abroad they sell okrika clothes which they call ‘hand me downs’ in stores for that matter

JasonScoolari:
Truckload of evidence (IREV) are trooping into the court room...

Barrister Otaokpukpu (Bone Crusher) is there adding more Vawulence to the description of the boxes.


😄

What did he do in court?

KunleAkingbadeh:
There seems to be a perversion in this judgement. It is more or less as if the girl was discharged & acquitted in this very complex murder case.

How can the defense Counsel & the Prosecution Counsel appealed to the court to tender justice with mercy on her own case in their respective Allocutus?

They said that she provided missing links to the hidden facts of the case and she took on a sober posture. How?

Is this not the same receptionist who earns over 100k monthly at her duty post?

Which 3-Star hotel in this part of the world, even in Lagos pays their receptionists over 100k monthly?

There seems to be a twist in her Judgement. All is well!

If you go through the case, you will know that the girl is a victim of circumstance and besides the allocutus was in order cos she has no previous criminal record

gift2xl:
Rotimi Amaechi and his wife, Judith were also present

Is he an LP member, should have been at BAT inauguration.

Me sef confuse as I see am

saintbillion:
She looks pregnant sha and also like a sickle cell patent. Well such lady can't turn me on. So she suppose dey virgin till death

Jealousy! Because you are not a virgin

DownTime44:
https://www.nairaland.com/7686172/been-restless-having-chat-elder


All thanks to everyone for their immense contributions towards my elder brother predicament. This place is truly home away from home. For those getting to know or who just come across this thread, you can read through the link posted above to get a grasp of where I'm coming from.


Someone sent me a mail having gone through my post and we both shared contact. He works on the island and he was willing to absorb my elder brother into his organisation. It's an organisation where one learn a skills and get paid monthly. Then after being certified in your skills, you can be employed as a full staff into the organisation. He would be given #20,000 monthly as stipend while learning as an apprentice but the man promised to be adding #10,000 to it making a total of #30,000 monthly. This person didn't know me from Adam but was touched by my brother's condition and he developed interest in helping him in his own little way. He asked me to inform my elder brother and get back to him.


I discussed everything to my brother verbally. Infact, i relate everything to him in my mother's tongue for ease of communication. I asked him if he has any interest in the offer and he said yes. He has interest. He's very much interested. He said he'd specialised in plumbing. I reached out to the man and we both finalise everything. He asked my brother when would he love to resume and he said month end. After the call, i asked him why month end and he said he doesn't have anything. He needs to get some few clothes, toiletries and some money for upkeep. I asked him where would he get money from less than 2 weeks to month end. He claimed if he can see any bus to work with. I told him you've been out of job going to a year, you didn't get any bus. Why do you think you'd get a bus within a short space of time? I asked him what if i rally round for him, is he willing to resume before the month end, he said yes with happy face. I borrowed #10,000 from a friend, i had #5,000 left with me, making a total of #15,000. I gave him 2 pairs of trousers and shirt i had. He bought a small school bag of #3,000 to put his clothes and he left in two days time. That was last week Wednesday. Oh! God, i was the happiest man on earth that very day.. I was so happy for him believing that he would become somebody from there. I called him to know if he has gotten there and how the work was. He said everything was fine.


I was surprised to see my brother at home on Friday, two days after he left. I asked him hope all is well? He said yes. I asked him why did he came back home so soon considering the cost of transportation to island. He was given a room he'd put up with. I expected him to stay there and focus on his job, whenever i have any money i would send to him. The man that helped him with the job called me later in the day. He narrated the gross misconduct of my brother. My brother left the job on Friday during working hours. The work is Monday to Saturday. Though Saturday is half day. He explained every details of the job to my brother before he resumed work. My brother was assigned to someone else to work with, not directly the man that helped him. The man only came to check up on him daily to know how he's fairing. The man was there when my brother took his bag, headed outside with the claim that he was going home. The man told him he can't go home now till after work, which is on Saturday. My brother didn't listen to the boss he was assigned with nor the man that helped him. He left right in their presence.


They do give daily report, and the man he was assigned with reported that he doesn't have anyone to work with, particularly on Saturday. The management asked him about my brother assigned to him and he said he has left on Friday. My brother was dismissed for his attitude. I pleaded to give him a second chance, but the man said it was beyond his power. The management has decided. I asked him to report there today and apologise for his gross misconduct. He went but apology wasn't accepted. If i was the man that helped my brother with this job or if i was among the management. I would do the same thing. I'd gladly lay him off without thinking twice.


My mother had been crying having heard the outcome of everything. I myself had cry my eyes out, all because of this my elder brother. I am fed up. The burden is too much. I might be tempted to harm him living under the same roof with him. I had been trying to console my mum but she wouldn't listen. Landlord came to harass her last week, the very day my elder brother left, because of house rent. I had 3 younger siblings to look after. Here comes my elder brother problem again. I am responsible for all of these with my meagre pay. I don't know what else to do for this guy. I don't think i can put up with him anymore. I am tired. Why is this life full of problems? I am losing my mind completely.

Sincerely, your brother might be under a foundational spell that needs to be broken if not every effort you make in his life will be like pouring water into a basket. He needs prayers

iSense247:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/election-tribunal-well-expose-inec-obis-lawyer-declares/

Why consolidating the three petitions?

iammo:




180 days going, going gone

7 weeks to present Witness

The last 3 weeks was to drag Telivising of Court proceedings

.

Whoever told you guys that election petition would last for 180 days?

References1:
https://sunnewsonline.com/sunday-mbang-methodist-prelete-emeritus-dies-at-86/

May his soul Rest In Peace. God bless his good heart