general111: Hello good people of Nairaland. My fiancée to me today that her ex is requesting to meet her,and she was asking for my permission to go. Should I grant her this request or should I be worried?
Lol! Na this kind thing make my neighbor discover that his first child isn’t his.
Your wife beat you, you run go report give government.
We're having more effeminate men. With the rise of new age doctrines like cross dressing, feminism, lghdtv, masculinity is being demonized and watered down and called toxic masculinity more incidents as this will only skyrocket but what they don't see is that this emasculation of men will only lead to weaker families which in turn will destroy the community and society at large.
Imagine growing up in a household where your Dad's ass get whooped on a regular, your psyche is already defeated.
Men, own your testosterone and masculinity, it's your life force.
It’s not as if they can’t fight back but they don’t want to retaliate and she dies in their hands. Nobody will remember that she first started it, they would all say he killed his wife
Kobojunkie: Jesus Christ never said you are to model your life after His. He instead said those who love Him are those who obey His teachings and commandments and it is those who do that that have His Love and the Father's Love. So when you go pretending you Re modeling your life after Jesus Christ's or His disciples, you do so against Jesus Christ.
2. I don't model my life after any human being, not even my parents. So why would I do it after my grandparents? Man's standard of good is meaningless where God is.
It seems that you just want to talk. What’s the difference between obeying His teaching and modeling your life like His? His behaved in accordance with what he taught or you are looking for the word ‘model’ written in the Bible? SMH! I don’t have words to banter with you abeg
Kobojunkie: I don't know it he did but the possibility is there given Jesus Christ allowed it. So let's not pretend we can model our lives after men we barely know.
The possibility is also there that he didn’t. You are to model your life after Jesus Christ because he is the author and finisher of our faith. You don’t know your great grand parents but you model your life according to good things you heard of them so it is here too
Basicend: The woman had always wanted to enjoy her marriage and she kept finding ways to achieve that. .
Okukoya always wanted to be on the mountain. . For more power. .
An equilibrium had to be reached somehow. .
Hmm, they are getting there, but gradually. .
Most men that wrought very great and mighty things for God in the Bible, were not married. . There is a reason. .
There is a price to be paid for continous ascension. .
To each his own. Simon Peter who did very great things for God was married. It’s this same Peter that Jesus called a rock upon which he would build his church
After the owner of the school apologized and the matter died down, some of the teachers have not been so nice to my nephew. He's always complaining of one teacher or the other beating him but the Mom in order not to appear like a troublesome person decided to talk to her son to always be well behaved and avoid his teachers at all cost as she can't be going to the school all the time to shout. I remember a few people then asking me where's the father in all this but then I was covering him because I didn't want to expose his weak point in this whole matter. I'm still not going to say why he's helpless and can't confront the school for all the bullying on his child but I believe at this point a Smart thinker will know why.
Recently the boy said the teacher now deviced a new way of spanking him. She does it in hidden places where the marks will not show because he's fair but the Mom again shunned him after telling her.
Yesterday I called her and she told me his class mate s Mom sent him on errand ( they attend the same church) my nephew bought the stuff and brought it to her. The son his classmate now accused my nephew of telling his Mom that he brought money to school or so I can't remember what it was about. My nephew said he did no such thing that he only helped his Mom to get something.
They got to school and this boy went and brought other senior boys that are 10- 12 to come and beat my nephew ( he is 8 ) up for telling his mother on him. They beat him and while all that was happening no teacher came to his rescue or even noticed. I mean for people that are paid to look after children.
My sister went to pick them and her son told her all that happened and immediately my sister called the boys and was asking them why. So she gave them a serious warning never to touch him again and left.
The next thing she got a message from the daughter of the owner of the school ( the owner who handled the first issue died this year) telling her that she has no right to come and warn those children that she took laws into her hands that my sister is no longer allowed in the school premises henceforth. My sister went there the next day and was explaining to her that she didn't touch the boys but only warned them. The woman just kept flaring up saying she harassed the boys then my sister too fired her back and said they should call the boy and ask. She went to the boys class amidst pushes and teachers dragging her not to enter she pushed her way through to the boys class and asked the boy if she touched him the boy said no. The woman was now yelling at her teachers that none of them can talk now that's she here. Meaning they all teamed up and reported to her the HM that my sister harassed the boy.
After all the argument, she threatened my sister with arrest if she sets her foot in the school again and my sister reminded her of the tooth issue that she was going to take up the matter and the owner of the school boasted that she already sacked the teacher and my sister can not do anything..
Their father was called and he came back talking trash every where that my sister went to school to fight. My youngest sisters husband also went to the school to ask what happened and tried to settle it and all that. Now their father said the school authority said they don't want to see the children in the school again... As in... I don't get....
She's trying to take up the matter but I said to leave them because now the woman claimed she already sacked the teacher that he chase might be futile. Instead let their father change school for them.
She's feeling bad about the way they treated her children and how nothing was done about the bullying. She wants justice for her children. Please Should she go ahead and take it up against the school because she said the woman didn't actually sack the teacher immediately, after that incidence like she claimed that it took a while and the teacher left of her own accord..
Kudos to your sister for standing up for her son, she should continue to that and not wait for her husband. I am a victim of bullying from my teachers both in my primary and secondary school. My father doesn’t show up at the school, he will only console me at home, it was only my mother that stood up for me. It’s only once when one of my teachers beat me without me committing any offense till the cain injured me at my back, that was when my father showed up in school. Till date, if I see any of my teachers, I don’t even associate with them. I ignore all of them. I saw one in school, she was like I know you, you schooled in so and so. I simply told her that I don’t know her and shunned her. Bullying has a terrible effect on the victim so it’s best your sister change his school.
JASONjnr: One thing I noticed about parents like your sister is that, they always go about feeling right about their actions and refused to be corrected or pay attention to their wrong actions.
Your child was beaten and you confronted the children. Instead of going to the school administrators to report and ask the children to also give their own storyline.
Also, it seems she's the only one giving the school a problem.
Let her change her kids from the school to another school then. If the problem persists, then she's the problem.
Also, whatever you say about your sister's husband shows how irresponsible you are. That man is the head 9f his family and you should allow him run his family the way he wants. You should go and get married and have your own kids.
Which one is allow him run the family the way he wants. If all her sister’s kids die as a result of bullying, and the father keeps mute; should she as a sister watch her dying in silence without helping her simply because ‘the man should run the family as he wants’? Abeggi!
Kalatium: No sooner was I on my way leaving the market, after buying all what I need and ticking all the items on my list than a stranger came out of the blue to accuse me of stealing his penis.
I won't say the state this happened.
At first I didn't clearly understood what he meant because he initially said, I should return what left his body.
What looked like a funny claim in my ear turned serious as he started shouting and calling the attention of passers by. People started encircling us and the guy who accused me said we are going to police station, I was like why will I follow you to station when I didn't do anything wrong.
One of the passers by said I should just follow him if I know I am truly Innocent since the station is not far. I had no choice that to follow them to prove my innocence ( the accuser and the passer-by) with many thoughts on my mind. On our way I resolved to call all the important people I know that can get me out of this mess. I first dialed my dad's number and started explaining what was going on before the guy said I should cut the call that we must go to that station or else he will collect my phone.
Eventually we arrived there, and met two police men inside the station compound, then my accuser started laying claim of his stolen manhood story. I was called to narrate what happened and I told them I just left the market gate after purchasing all I needed from the market only to be falsely accused.
The two officer took us inside the station to write a statement. After the accuser narrated his story once more, one of the officer was laughing. The police asked what I do for a living and I told him I am a medical Doctor and the hospital I work. He asked the accuser same question who said he is a university student and doesn't stay far from the market. He asked of both our phone numbers and also gave out his number to us. Then he asked the accuser to put his hand in his trouser to confirm if his manhood is there, the guy touched and the manhood was there.
He then started saying that initially he didn't feel anything there that there have been cases like that in his school and that he was shocked that the thing happened to him that's why he dragged the case to the station.
The police then said that he has been hearing about this stealing of manhood and that people can do diabolical things for money. However, it could also be that his mind might be playing tricks on him as such he felt his penis might be missing when it actuality it is actually there.
The police man said I should go that since the guy has confirmed his penis is intact, there is no case. He said I shouldn't be annoyed that if I were in the guy's shoes I might as well do the same . He also said that it could be that it actually happened but me being there at the wrong time and being there when he felt such that he will easily take the person close by as the culprit. I felt relieved but at the same time angry for been falsely accused and my time wasted for something as dumb as this.
When we were going outside the station, the guy who falsely accused me was dragging his foot and kept working very slow such that I was at a far distance in the front. The passer-by that followed us early was apologizing to me, that I shouldn't be angry.
Damn, I was just feeling different emotions. However, I thank God nothing happened to me ( I wasn't hurt and no mob action or jungle justice), nothing was missing and I came back home safe and fine.
My dad who is in another state got worried when I called earlier. If something had happened to me that guy will have had the worst day of his life. The kind of people that will have come for him eh.
There were 2 things on my mind. It's either that guy did it intentionally to put me in trouble or he is delusional ( superstitious) and/or actually suffering from Koro syndrome.
Help move this to Fp so everyone can be aware of this.
Sincerely thank God that you were not killed. Next time if someone accuses you of this thing, hold your trouser and shout back that the person accusing you stole your own too so that there won’t be any mob action. A church member was nearly lynched if not for God’s mercy
amstamon: Rubbish! What's she insinuating? That the groom is a woman beater or has an history on woman abuse?. Check very well, e go either be say the bride stubborn gan that her ex dey beat her or the mother herself has suffered from the father abused hence her rubbish yarn. Well, such speech cannot happen if its my wedding or else I'll caution her immediately as e dey hot before she'll start giving some guests a bad impression about me.
Even if a woman is stubborn, does it mean you should beat her? Is she your child that you should beat? Some people’s mentality sef
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MayowaTallguy: She did if for her children Watch how people go start to dey help d boy "Mummy calm dowm"
She didn’t do it for her children joor. Because if people help the boy now and probably the father remarries and God forbid a bad step Mum, the boy won’t still see the money donated on his behalf
I gave birth 9 months ago and for some reason, my mom never expressed interest in visiting me and my child. She is a new wife now and I heard from some family members that when she wanted to come, her new husband said ‘your daughter has other people around, why are you worrying yourself’.
I did not take it personally at all. My mother has never been a dependable person. Me and my mom still talk everyday and my child is always on her status. This is her ONLY grandchild.
My mom’s elder sister’s (my aunty) youngest child is moving to my area. My aunty said that she’ll visit me during the move, and come and hold baby. She reached out to my mom and even told my mom that if they plan it, they can visit me together. My mom and my aunty are VERY close. I even consider my aunty my second mom in a way.
Suddenly, my mom starts calling me, saying she wants to plan her visit. I say okay. But with work and everything, my aunty will get here before her. She started telling me not to let my aunty into my house, saying that my aunty is a husband snatcher etc. she said my aunty will destroy my home. I tell her I don’t care about that. She started calling their mutual friends and telling them to tell me that my aunty is a husband snatcher. I did not fall for that.
Frustrated, she called my aunty and said that the truth is that my husband is uncomfortable. She said that MY husband is not from our town and that my husband’s people don’t like visitors. She said that I did not tell her about this out of respect.
My aunty called me and was apologizing, saying that she did not know. I responded and said that this is a lie. I even put my husband on the phone. Here’s my mistake - I sent her a screenshot showing my mom saying that she’s a husband snatcher and that’s why I should not let her into my home.
My aunty and I now agreed that we should let peace reign and that she won’t visit. She said she will still like to see me and we can meet somewhere. MATTER SUPPOSE TO END.
My mom decided to bring my aunty husband into this. She told my auntys husband that his wife is not respecting my husband’s wishes. My auntys husband now sent her my screenshot saying that he knows the real reason and that your child doesn’t even support you.
The screenshot has shattered my mom. She feels betrayed. My siblings who live with my mother are calling me a betrayer. I want to salvage the relationship between my siblings and I, not so much my mother. I have not spoken to any of them since the screenshot.
What do I do? How do I approach this.
lol! Abeg ignore them, they would come around later. It’s sad that your siblings don’t even know who their Mum really is until she showed them shege
adesegun121: A new statement from the family of actor John Okafor, aka Mr Ibu, disclosed that one of his legs has been amputated to keep him alive.
News surfaced in October that the veteran actor was ill and required financial assistance to aid in his treatment.
In the statement shared on the actor's Instagram page Monday, it was revealed the actor had undergone seven successful surgeries, including the amputation of one leg, in a bid to keep him alive.
seunmsg: Attention seeking sore loser who can't accept defeat. See his crooked and lying face like egg wey wan break. No amount of lies and propaganda will change anything. Bola Tinubu is already president and you Peter Obi the criminal liar and opportunist will never become the president of Nigeria.
I hope you are as great as he is. When history is studied, Peter Obi’s name will be mentioned but you, who knows how you? Instead of you to think of how to make your life better and impactful, you are here insulting politicians that will hug themselves and sit at the same table. SMH
Tokotaya: Microsecondnews Reporter November 6, 2023 2 minutes read Nigerians berate female content creator for showing her n@ked body to dispatch rider (Video)
Photo captions: SwizzyBellaNaija SwizzyBellaNaija opening her towel for the delivery man to see.
Some Nigerians are calling for the arrest of a content creator with the name SwizzyBellaNaija, after she uploaded a video of herself showing her n@ked body to a dispatch rider for content.
The Abuja-based content creator who is blessed with a huge bosom, said she did the ‘experiment’ to see the reaction of the dispatch rider to her endowment.
According to her, she ordered something online and when she sighted the male delivery man coming upstairs to her apartment, she arranged with her photographer to film him.
She announced that she would like viewers to see what his reaction would be to a ‘set up’.
Once the man was there, she told him she wanted to show him something and he should follow her.
When they descended to a landing on the staircase, she asked the man to stand away from her. She then opened her towel for the man.
“Why you come dey shake?” she can be heard asking the man.
“I’m not shaking anything” the man responded calmly, appearing unfazed.
But when the material got online, it did not receive the kind of reception Bella was expecting.
Many netizens thought it crossed the line, and was tantamount to s3xual harassment of the gentleman who was only there to do his job.
Many argued that if the role were flipped, the women would be shouting about s3xual harassment.
Some reactions:
@OllikBrown: “This is serious harassment if it was to be the other way round, press and media go don carry am”
@Dapor4: “Oh my God!! How is the innocent man feeling right now? This is sexual assault and it should be taken up. The world isn’t safe for men no more!! I can’t shake right now, I’m busy, i will shake later..”
@abazwhyllzz: “I’m so páined watching this video. Imagine if that dispatch rider is married what will the wife think about him if she gets to see this video…..This girl needs to be arrested”
@Updateboyx: “Imagine It’s a guy with one random girl hawking groundnut. This app for don catch fire…. werey lawon people yi”
@d3estiiny: “Men need to start taking actions against women”
@abazwhyllzz: “This is pǔrè sèxûal harássment.
What men face in the society, Omo innocent dispatch rider. If this was to be the other way round it could have been something else. I hope the authorities involved do something about this please”
Following the backlash, the video appears to have been pulled down as it could not be found on the lady’s page when we checked.
The title seems funny, right? Well, na reality. I received my salary yesterday in the evening 7pm or thereabouts but before 6am this morning it has finished.
Na only 5cups of rice, 3cups of garri and 2cups of beans with grandnut oil i bought the money don finish. No even for Maggi and sugar can you imagine? This Life no balance shaa
Some private companies are slave masters they don't care about minimum wage na only nlc dey make noise.
Funny enough, in the main contract, your salary will be up to 50k but as the Company is subcontracting to this Agency, they may have cut your salaries drastically
Maize247: Political struggles of this woman changed positively after she got married. She's really a fighter
Exactly! In the Nigerian society, there is an unwritten rule that a woman can’t attain a high political post as a single lady. In fact, a divorced woman has higher chances than a single lady. It’s sad.
richmond500: The essence of these policies is to kill importation business and make Nigeria a production country. Your business is not the only business that is dying, many business that depends on dollar has closed down and more will close too.
Time is coming when Naira will hit 5000 to a dollar. When this happens, foreign products will be difficult to purchase and we will have no choice but to buy made in Nigeria goods cos even a pair of foreign pants will be so expensive that only politicians can afford it while the rest of us will wear plantain leaves.
It's so annoying that the average secondary school student knows the dollar to naira exchange rate, that shows how we depend so much on the dollar and killing our own naira. Until we patronize our own companies, we can't grow the economy, this painful stage is called the transition stage from foreign to local, the govt is not the problem but the time it takes Nigerians to accept the Nigerian goods will determine how long the pain will last.
In the next five years, we will fully accept our own economy and in the next ten years, we will have an economy that will beat France and Germany cos we have the market already.
It’s only the poor that will embrace the local economy cos the rich will still continue to import things. Do you know that there’s a bread that comes every week to Nigeria from Europe and it’s being bought by the rich? But the poor will be left to buy the bread made with poor quality flour. If everyone embraces the things produced locally, it would have been a different thing. It’s well
SIXTEENTH: The kind of joy and laughter's going on those 3 ex convicts mind will be very massive because by mare looking at them one can tell the hardship and living on same diets repeatedly and rational everyday. Praise God, the lawyer and the judge their leniency, freedom at last.
They are not ex convicts. An ex convict is one who has been sentenced for a crime and served his/ her jail term. In their case, they were not discharged but also acquitted.
In a 10-minute video shared with Sahara Reporters, Chioma Egodi, (who gave a negative review of Nagiko paste which she used, one of Erisco's tomato products in the market), shared the threat to life, made to her by the company boss.
In the video, she also shared how she was detained and released on the grounds that she signed a pre-prepared letter under duress, as against her own statement of what really happened, as the only condition with which she would be released.
Under pressure from everyone, including her husband, she had to sign that letter and spent some time in the hospital recuperating, before she went back home.
Romance › Re: My Fiancée Wants To Visit Her Ex That Came To Town. by Prettychild(f): 9:55pm On Nov 21, 2023
