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Lumpyy: 5k can buy a nice polo or short!

tpia@:
The ones you already have never do you still?

yellowpawpaw: At times pple just assume what they r not sure of. That u hv friends or family members who their parents didn't accept the guy in their lifes does not mean igbo pple don't marry outside their tribe. Igbo daughters r everywhere and don't be suprised when u reach there u will meet a handful of them.
There r many reasons parents reject their daughter's choice in marriage and will tell their child its tribe issue so as to peg it somewhere w'out hurting their daughter.
Igbo pple take marriage very serious and they will go very far to ensure their daughter is going to a place she will fit in.
A woman is married by her husband's pple and not only d husband, they take note of that too.
Also, they want a place they can easily have access to their daughter and her children.simply put, its a house affair.

Marriage is more than a man and woman saying I lv u to each other and hooking up.its way too deep and parents want the best for their kids.

Poster, if ur guy and his pple r of no questionable xters and r good, they should convince ur parents tru their actions and why not, u will hv their blessing.
Goodluck to u.

yellowpawpaw: At times pple just assume what they r not sure of. That u hv friends or family members who their parents didn't accept the guy in their lifes does not mean igbo pple don't marry outside their tribe. Igbo daughters r everywhere and don't be suprised when u reach there u will meet a handful of them.
There r many reasons parents reject their daughter's choice in marriage and will tell their child its tribe issue so as to peg it somewhere w'out hurting their daughter.
Igbo pple take marriage very serious and they will go very far to ensure their daughter is going to a place she will fit in.
A woman is married by her husband's pple and not only d husband, they take note of that too.
Also, they want a place they can easily have access to their daughter and her children.simply put, its a house affair.

Marriage is more than a man and woman saying I lv u to each other and hooking up.its way too deep and parents want the best for their kids.

Poster, if ur guy and his pple r of no questionable xters and r good, they should convince ur parents tru their actions and why not, u will hv their blessing.
Goodluck to u.

bigdiva: OP, how old are you? If you're old enough, to get married, I'm sure your family,'s acceptance of this great guy you've described won't bother you this much. Maybe you need to wait till you get to. a ripe age for marriage (30-34) . Then even if na monkey you bring, them go just shout yes!
On a more serious note, You need to man up,, and let your family know that you've found happiness with this dude.

Ab025: Hmmm........I dnt tink u hav a problem at all, bt it seems ur parents want to giv u a little problem

When people are out there lookin for a decent man to marry, u already hav one by ur side. U and ur parent both think somethin is wrong either becos he is nt an igbo or becos his state is far from urs....una funny o. I dnt know what to advice u on this bt what I know is if u leave a good man becos he is nt ur tribe and because his state is far frm urs, 2moro u might meet a man who is igbo and frm anambra who may nt treat u right.....

Ur choice, bt u shud know that wen it comes to family and marriage, things dnt always go d way u want it....can't believ u feel everythin u've always wishd for in ur future hubby must be present b4 u get married#

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