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Naughtysite:
Just advice him, you might be helping someone else too.

I understand his predicament.

I already did that, check the 5th post below my initial post

Afta dem don use our head nak each oda (team peter, team Paul)

Dem won kon use us make moni on top

See me open mouth, wen I hear say dem release song togeda
Lemme comma be mindin my business

Dumeje:
I understand your point(s) very clearly but I do not think you understand mine.
Do you know Myles Munroe, the late Motivatinal speaker/writer from Bahamas who died few years ago in a plane crash? No? I have virtually all his books. Zigziglar, John C.Maxwell, Mike Murdock, Robert Greene etc etc, I have all thier works.

Bros all what you wrote here arent new to me. Infact I can write you a doctoral thesis/dissertion on self help/empowerment. I have applied all these principles, but all na lie !!

Leme finish before u quote me, and I read too, but those rules are not from any of those books, they are my experience and life.
So forget the book story and learn or am I wasting my time??

Dumeje:
how did you overcome? Your suggestion might just be my last life line.

You kind of sound like you are threatening us.
Your approach to life is where I think you got it all wrong.

By the way, nobody out there overcame entirely by their power, luck counts, but there are things I think you also need to change.
Sorry, you might not agree with the list, but they helped me, so it might help you too, by the way, I've not arrived, still hustling.

Sorry, I might take time typing this, I'm in a bus
Also sorry for the typos

Rule 1:
You need to realize:

WINNERS NEVER QUIT
You may apply all the rules and nothing still seems to work out, but don't quit, everyone that wins can testify to this. Because they know there is always a morning after every dark night.

Rule 2
You need to realize:

NOBODY OWE YOU A JOB

I actually saw this on nairaland, wrote it down somewhere I can see it everyday, made it a picture for my laptop's wallpaper and screensaver.
Not even the government, parent, brother etc. If they promise you, make sure you trick you mind to forget immediately they deliver the speech. By this, you don't get disappointed or relax because someone promised you a job. you realize, rule 2b: every man is for himself (got that from 2face song).


Rule 3:
I do tell myself

"ONLY LOSERS COMPLAIN
so don't"

From your original post, you mentioned " Nigeria factor"
yes! there is naija factor, location factor, climate factor, environmental factor, we are all affected but how we respond is what makes a difference. Even The richest BLACK MAN ALIVE was affected by "Nigeria factor" he lost half of his fortune to it. So quit whining, quit complaining.

In fact I notice that when people give 100% for something, and they start complaining, the result is always unimaginably low, I think it's a natural law (negative relationship, or something).


Rule 4
You need to
CHANGE YOUR RULE, LIFE, PRINCIPLES, EVERYTHING! UNTIL YOU UNDERSTAND YOUR WAR AND HOW TO WIN IT
(Of course positively)

To tell you I was once in your shoe,
I studied economics,
but was one time a software engineer (repairs bb, PC and co)
Then ventured into bulksms ( got my own site from alawe contribution)
Then one time ventured into blogging ( as bulk SMS no pay me)
While all this was on, I was still applying for jobs.
Then got an admin job around my house, where I was working for free.
I later got another job where I was paid 20k per month but I spend 20k as monthly transport and I wasn't living with my parent, so I still have to feed myself, dem!, I felt like d world was on me ( each time I remember that time, I feel sad again in appreciation.)

I'm not saying you should turn, jack of all trade, but keep trying different things, don't limit yourself. Rule 4b: you can't keep doing the same thing and expect a different result.

And I'm not also saying the above businesses I left for the other are not good, I was trying to find the primary business that is meant for ME, they simply were not.
I discovered that for most graduate, you really won't find the connection between what you studied in school and when you get to the real world, that is why self employment always seem difficult. (note: self employment is not my focus here)


You said, you were one time selling rat killer, I guess you started that because you had a different method of improving the business, if not, that is not the change I'm talking about.

I later discovered my type of business, I discovered that, accounting was my way (can you imagine, discovering this after graduating), I then started ICAN, now I'm working with another company based on my accounting field.
(Note: I didn't discover my kind of work after getting the job, it was exactly 11 months after I discovered what I'm meant to do)

Believe me, I have a lot to share but I will drop my pen, right here.(this should be my longest post online, bro I hope it worth the wahala ooh, crime no be way).

I hope you have one or two things to get from my story
I hope you don't delve into crime
Finally, understand,
THERE ARE PEOPLE SUFFERING MORE THAN YOU ARE.
Thank you.

You want to dive into crime, when did crime turn to water abi you be fish


Now on a serious note:

Dumeje:
...Please do not give me all those sanctimonous talk about '' God will do it'' '' be patience'' ''hustle hard'' ' 'self employment'' ''start up'' and all those bullshit.

I wanted to give you suggestions which help me overcome, when I was directly in the situation you are now, but the above shows you have given up. You know how they say, quiters never win, winners never quit.

God forbid that I, my friends or family will be your victim
So I'm very sorry I have to pray a prayer for you:

As you delve into crime, may you also delve into KIRIKIRI.

d

Lol,
Gala better pass o, at least, you will still taste beef whey them promise for the body (Lyon)

APC na stone them pack inside their own gala

I understand you OP, because we are the same, check me out doing my thing

allytinted:
Give Me Less Than Five Mins And I'll Unlock The Phone So, Whats The Use. I Still Unlocked One Two Days Ago Whose Owner Forgot The Pattern.

allytinted:
It Doesn't Even Need Flashing To Unlock. Five Mins And Phone Is Ready To Use.

Guy you bad gan o, I no fit trust u around my fone lailai
You just spoil my consolation say my fone is secure,

Na to come up with another mad pattern be that

uncletbuddy:
I Juz tried it... d day I forget my pattern eh... u go pay for all the files weh dey ma phone.

No worry if you forget am, na to use another phone come spy out the pattern again for Nairaland

onilanre:
I can even unlock the pattern without flashing the yeye phone sef.

You be witch?

hotmolo:
please how do you screen grab with that uc browser cartoon?

Once you try to upload your photo through uc browser, it will bring the option automatically

Swatichandra:
Aww this one is even simple o..come and see my brother's security lock... ..the first time I saw him unlocking his phone I almost had a memory loss cos I was like ahhh ki lo le to yi

Lol, ole ju be lo

Btruth:
...... God have mercy. With this, your phone is fully secured.

Thanks jare
You should follow suit, era of secure pattern

lilEmir3:
How will u even remember dat??

sirRiddy:
I think it is more useful for the privacy of your records
and not necessarily the security of the phone. Leave
your phone unattended to for long periods of time and
say bye to it.
Very hilarious thoughts though.

That is my phone screen oh,
Do u know how many garri that went down for this phone

Like I said, I can not come and go and allow sombori to put me for 'had I know'

Emeka71:
And all that can be useless the moment engineer flash the panel.

At least the thief self go hear am, as engineer go charge double before unlocking

Eco2580:
Next thing we will hear is Siasia must refund those dollars he chop!

You spoke my mind bro, EFCC things that is the only tactic this present govt knows

nobledeals:
Check the date it was posted on facebook

It still doesn't add up, died 18, casket appear 18, heading for burial Picture on Facebook that same 18, claiming she died 'this morning' (18)

Is she Solomon grundy

Kenya and sex na 5&6
These days Kenya and sport na 7&8
E be like say sex and sport na 9&10 ooh

Mathematicians in the house, over to you

APC used kidnapped girls life for political score, PDP too is using it now.
I'm sure if they should check those women's bank account and homes, figures and amount that will be found will be unbelievable. God will help us in this country

This is nice o, welcome to badagry

modestofynest:
NCAN south east branch i repeat abort mission i repeat abort read thread and go bk dont comment i repeat dont comment,

This abort mission always crack my rib anytime

See me run enter thread expecting to see some leafless orange. Disappointed


Hit like if you see fanta and coke, hit share if you see beauty

One chance is when ...

All older versions have this, I've been using it for like 3 years now. They are only trying to make it obvious now

In this economic condition whey money no dey, I no fit allow make one sombori to come and go and put me for one chance

how your security pattern looks when you use your entire salary to buy phone

Pattern ti take over

amokeme:
some female students are very independent and don't go about depending on guys for money... while some so called "working class" ladies are the real set with the MDS (man dependency syndrome) so I think it's an individual thing and how a lady values herself. Me personally, I'm a student and no guy under the surface of this earth can tell me "I got you this" or "she begged me for money" I don't accept birthday gifts I can't afford... I hate insults so I avoid it at all cost, especially when it comes to this kind of thing. And yes, I'm a student. So I think it's more of a personality thing.
If I can't afford it, then I have no business having it.
So incase a guy gets me a birthday gift amd starts feeling like he has some kind of entitlement towards me, ill simply throw your nonsense back at you.
This particular lady the OP is talking about seem to be a "packaged hungry girl"

Girl, I will like to have a date with you, hope you live in lagos

To all fellow lefthanders, happy celebration, we are the best the world has got