₦airaland Forum

Saintsammurai:
Deborah calm down, you dnt have to insult him, its obvious that he is just having fun....i dnt mean to sound rude, but officialdad is 10times more richer than those that donated cash to the op... he is way above on another level more than what you can imagin, offline, i raed where you said, those doubting dnt even have food to chop... we all have to be very careful the way we throw disses online, especially when it comes to money....Its better to ignore him than to insult him b4 u end up insulting dangote's son... just an advice though..

Bulllshit .

Who is else disappointed that there were no real nude pics to see

texazzpete:
And what if the money isn't enough?

Does a bricklayer not bring money home? Is it enough? Would you call a bricklayer 'lazy'?

Perhaps it's her own way of helping.

Tons of people are out of work today. It's. Ot just because they are 'lazy'.

You just spoke my mind.

Too many kids on Nairaland.

So cos she's doing this the husband must be lazy.

How do you know the husband isn't doing this same begging in another part of town?

A lot of people on this thread are very naive.

Awesome.

Kokolosoko

The more you look....

makydebbie:
Gozzlin
Prognosis
Saltyatarodo
Oyindidi.
At least you guys should be updated she uploaded a pic of her mom and has promised the receipt .

Wheeeeew!!!!

Good to know she's for real. Was really holding my breath there. Good job makydebbie.

Stellie aka nobodys, just know that there are a lot of mean, sarcastic, sad and plain wicked people in this life. You have to be strong to overcome them. Honestly I understood why you deactivated cos I know some people can't take the kind of insult and pressure others put on you here all cos you were begging for your mom. Ignore such people . What we spew out is usually an abundance of what we are filled with. So just know that those who spill out sarcasm have been filled with sarcasm over time. Those who spill out total rubbish... You guessed it... They are filled with rubbish too.

Be strong for your mom. I've seen my fair share of people with head injuries. It takes a long while for them to recover. But as soon as they start getting better the prognosis is usually good

Cheers stellie.

segebase:
her pussy contains minerals

Like what

kilokeys:
single at the moment...

1st ex... penchant for books, intelligent conversations

2nd ex ... choleric, very career driven plus twerking skills ( what a combo)

3rd ex.... fine face

4th ex.... piano skillz

Nice and honest.

1st ex.... Fine face, humility, homliness.

2nd ex: To tell the truth... Her ass. Perfectly rounded shape. Still miss it till today.

3rd ex: Her boldness, intelligence.

4th: Fine face, very innocent quiet look( but far from quiet) nipples point skyward

Responses show the level of exposure of nairalanders sha.

This profession of hired mourners is as old as the Bible.

He may be the first to openly advertise on facebook

But this is one of the oldest professions after prostitution.

And yes it is done here in Nigeria as well.

Those who know , know.

Thank goodness she's a small girl, e go hard dem to spoil her with exposure.

makydebbie:
See I'm currently chatting with her and she dropped her fb name for me. I'll ask for details and if I'm given, I'll post and mention you.

Hmmm

Munchen1:
When it becomes too much it becomes also suspicious. Even those I assume my age mates call me sir.

Means you're getting on in years bro.

Also it could be because of your influential position in society.

PaperLace:
A. She doesn't trust him.
B. She bought (or has finally bought) the all men cheat mantra.
C. Your friend has been involved in an act that made her lose trust in him (e.g, a disturbing phone chat with a female).
D. Your friend has shown signs he is going to cheat soon (e.g) Flirting with a female colleague.

A woman won't wake up one day to start putting condoms in her husband's bag, something she didn't do when they just got married.

There is something your friend and his wife are not telling.

How should he react? By talking it over with his wife of course. COMMUNICATION.

Putting condoms in his bag won't make him use it _if he isn't that type of man. It's only going to make him very angry with her, this would affect their marriage negatively.

Question
What do you do when communication doesn't work? You keep proving to your woman that you aren't a cheat but she just doesn't listen? I'd like to hear a female's perspective on the matter.

She doesn't trust him.
And she's eventually going to spoil him into using it.
She has grown up with the firm belief that "all men cheat".

heroinqc:
is the first picture a she or he?

A she.

Have you considered reading glasses?

aboladejohnny:
lol.... I won't deny this but this Africa. A typical African parent won't do these for no reason...i hehehe

Na ajebutter parents be dat na.
We should stop thinking negatively all the time. Those in-laws even gave her something to eat, haba, some in-laws go dey sudden dey look u as you dey look dem until u advise yourself comot

Freethought:
Perhaps you should enlighten me more sir

It's quite simple really. Your apparent lack of sexual desire might be due to a hormone imbalance. In this part of the world a lot of people are used to living with their abnormalities not knowing that there are simple cures for them. We resign ourselves to our fate and believe it is the hand that we have been dealt when there are solutions out there to rectify the problem. Instead of tagging yourself asexual, first ensure that there is actually nothing wrong with you that is making you feel this way. A hormone assay test at a reputable lab should not cost too much. You can just do a checkup just to make sure everything is normal after which you can label yourself asexual. If you do however have an abnormally low testosterone level you can get treatment for it at any good teaching hospital.

Freethought:
I don't do it often, but when i do, it's always out of boredom, when I'm idle

Have you considered doing a hormone (testosterone and estrogen) assay to make sure everything is OK?

Freethought:
Thanks for the advice.. However, I'm attracted to neither guys nor girls

What urge are you relieving yourself from when you masturbate?

Na wa o.
The way insults dey take fly for this place ehn

Op you're still asexual because you haven't had sex with anyone else.

Do you find yourself attracted to guys? If yes then you're gay. Seek therapy.

If you're attracted to girls but just can't imagine dipping your stick into the woman's shaft, then you are having what is known as Eurotophobia. If you want to overcome it then let me know. However if you're happy just being single and not wanting to engage in sex ever, that's OK too.

uzoclinton:
Wrong!!! Ashewo na work.

Thank you my brother!

Why person go talk say ashawo no be work?

You know how hard it is to get pounded 24hours a day everyday by people you don't even know?

@stellie take heart dear. It sounds like she's suffering from raised intracranial pressure following severe head injury. I believe Dr Joshua knows his onions and will do a good job.

And for those asking, we who grew up in DSC called everywhere warri (even til today for some of us) ... It was when we got older we realised that DSC complex was in ovwian/aladja. All we knew then was warri and orhuwhorun.


Also the DSC hospital is still active, although mostly handled by expatriates. They tried changing the name once I think but the "DSC hospital" name stuck. It was one of the best hospitals in Delta State then, if not for corruption and the Nigerian factor...


CC wrathofhadez

Very touching story

Joker

Sounds more like HSV - herpes simplex virus infection.

Still, it would be good to get yourself tested.

Take lots of vitamin C in large doses along with your antibiotics and the fever should most likely disappear.

The problem is that as soon as you start feeling in good health again, you might most likely go back to the prostitutes. I hope you are firm in your resolve to the Almighty.

Never engage in any kind of MouthAction if you have sores on your private part!!!!!

Never engage in any kind of sex with a prostitute if you are high on alcohol or weed!!!!! Very important.

Let us know the result of the test.

Goodluck.

Yeye Op, those are called chicken trotters! They are a delicacy in many elite homes and are served for guests to snack on before the real meal arrives.

If na oyibo person give you this wan now you for choosing am with relish.

Also if you look at the way it was served in that small plate you will know it is tasting things and not food.

diehard:
While what the OP posted may sound intelligent, the resultant effect on children following your advice is quite damaging. This has resulted in lazy kids with a sense of entitlement from their parents and no self discipline to pursue any goals that is demanding cos they are used to having their own way

Exactly.

Sorry Op, but you're wrong.

A child is a child and knows nothing of the workings of the world around him. He or she has been put in your care for guidance. Because of his very limited knowledge, you cannot explain the consequences of every action to him. And he or she is definitely not capable of 'critical reasoning' at such a young age.

Therefore you require complete trust and obedience from him as you groom him up to be a responsible and sensible adult. The child should obey you without question because you are the elder and you have more wisdom and experience (hopefully). This will continue until the child grows old enough to make his own decisions.

Any child that becomes shy or suicidal or whatever because an adult demands obedience from him has a serious emotional and possibly mental problem. Being shy or feeling bullied are not problems to be avoided but are issues that should be tackled head-on. Overcoming those feelings is part of what makes a person 'mature'.


Thanks.

Hahaha
The man don dey para already, meanwhile he never enter the fruit garden yet

This tale you told, if true, shows that there are underlying issues in the marriage. It goes deeper than the fruit-girl, quote me anywhere. If it wasn't her it probably would have been someone else.

I didn't see anywhere where u mentioned fertility issues. I don't know where others got that information from. A man in his 40s and a woman in her 30s are not kids. They can sort themselves out.

P.S, reading thru the thread again, I feel you're the woman in question. It doesn't matter though. For peace to reign, you can apologize to hubby since that is what he is demanding for. It doesn't mean what he did was right, even his own mother knows he's in the wrong, he may just be acting up cos of a bruised ego. Place your 5yrs of marriage on one scale and the fruit seller on the other. Weigh which is more valuable and make your decision.
Good luck.

YourCoffin:
Just kiss na. If they con dey give themselves head, what will you do?

@ nine month? Giving head Where's your soul?