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murphyibiam15:
hi nairalanders... my colleague and friend is bleeping a married woman in my place of work... her husband works in a different city different from hers.
At first I thought it was a joke until he showed me their chats and pictures. E come be woman Wey me sabi

this my friend knows what he's doing is not good but pretends not to care. The woman even prepares pepper soup; different kinds of soup with assaulted meat and bring to him. They hook up in a nearby hotel almost weekly and now he's feeling stressed out because the married woman wants s*x from him almost always and would even demand for more rounds expecting each round to last so long when they make love.

He was actually approached by this woman bc him na fine boy and she gives him money too.. he feels OK with it since he doesn't get to spend on single ladies whos' demand were weighing him.. The problem he's having now is the excessive demand for s*x from the woman.

what further advice do I give to him..??

abeg make una no mind the mixture of pidgin and English.. after all both no be our language

cc lalasticlala mynd44

@bolded, so that's the problem ba?

OK na. Advice him to avoid sugar and drink watermelon so he can fire more rounds.

He shouldn't vex when someone else sleep with his wife.

GodivaChocolate:
If you no like am, remove your eyes.

This is why

ak22:
Neat job bro . Give me like if you love this job

Pls where r u located?

DreamChoice:
From my experience you can get this done with N4.5m - N5m at most but the kind of finishing you decide to use will also have an effect on the price.

I am a builder in Delta State and I normally build 2 bedroom simple bungalow for N3.5m and 3 bedroom for N4.5m

Abeg r u still in delta?

SweetPuffPuff:
[color=violet]I wouldn't consider it harassment as no 1 touched or made lewd comments ta her.

1 guy complimented her loudly and the driver offered her a discount
... but neither touched or suggested anything. Its normal. [/color]

And yes the conductor touched her. Grabbed her twice, quite unnecessarily. Asked about her boyfriend (as if she must have one) , asked to be her boyfriend, was sha running his mouth.
And the three guys may not have physically touched her but pointing your finger into someone's face and making like you want to eat her up doesn't sound like decent behaviour to me

SweetPuffPuff:
[color=violet]I wouldn't consider it harassment as no 1 touched or made lewd comments ta her.

1 guy complimented her loudly and the driver offered her a discount
... but neither touched or suggested anything. Its normal. [/color]

Really?
So you're saying it's normal behaviour?
Cos she looked disturbed to me

siakhris:
Same girl wore a blouse and skirt and a pink gown?
What is everyone smoking these days?!

My mistake. Blouse, not gown.

No high heel to accommodate that size.
Happy married life to her

Inasmuch as I am firmly opposed to feminism, the way fellow men behave nowadays is nothing to write home about.

I was on a bus to my place of work this morning. I sat at the back and other passengers joined. Seated beside me was this teenage girl, quite pretty, simple dressing in a blouse and skirt that ended well below her knees. Despite the fact that she didn't wear any makeup, the Good book will say "she was pleasant to look at."

Her harassment started from the park. The conductor kept on making rude, intimidating remarks at her, whether that was his method of 'toasting' I don't know. The driver offered to let her drive for n50 less than the normal amount. That was a nice gesture, true, but purely unnecessary. It clearly made her uncomfortable. Keep in mind that this girl was well dressed, wore a pink gown with frilled short sleeves and a collar that hid her average sized boobs very well. Her bum was nothing to write home about later. It was her face that was more than averagely beautiful.

After about 20mins driving in traffic, we got to a popular bus stop and passengers from the front alighted. We waited a bit for more passengers to fill the front seat.

All of a sudden three guys who were passing by the bus stopped. One of them reached in and pointed directly at the girl, as in, in-her-face pointing at her and said "See fine gyal!"

I was shocked, as we're others on the bus. It looked for a moment as if he literally wanted to drag her out of the bus to 'admire' her. She on her part shifted quickly away from his reach while those of us at the back shouted on him. He laughed and went on his way with his other laughing buddies.

Na wa oh. Don't we as men have self control again? How would you feel if someone did something like that to your sister? Made her feel uncomfortable and threatened that way? That girl couldn't have been more than 15 years old and the men around her were just acting like animals!

Please guys let's have some self control. The reason why there is a feminist movement in the first place is because the oppression and misbehaviour by irresponsible men was becoming too much. Let's salvage our leadership and become leaders once more, men that women would want to respect, love and cherish.
Thanks

Murderers!!!!

Who she be

Sadunky:
Nice one

Thanks

teemy:
haba, have you not heard of true love? beauty and the beast, the princess and the frog, shrek and princess fiona. selfless pure and true. still happens.

This guy got jokes

teemy:
what i see here is life long friends jumping the broom together. first they were friends then became lovers, just the way usher and puffy sang it. very pretty and very wonderful!

..

Lovers? Lovers how? How did they become lovers??

What kind of physical activity can he have with that figurine that would be classified as them becoming lovers?? Did she kiss his upper or lower lip cos no way can they French kiss!

And she's still alive so there's no way he has penetrated her yet cos am quite sure she won't survive the experience.

Lovers ko, lovers ni.

She looks like she might go missing in-between the sheets or something

Women are the most confused beings

You're too late. Someone else already created this thread.

Nairaland shaaaa
Why are people insulting the Op? Even if the story is fake, it is not enough reason to insult anybody for, haba.

Anyway, it's a lot of transferred aggression from the situation in the country.

What are people called frank always having a bad rep?

She should not say anything.


Frank probably doesn't know who he slept with either and even if he does there is no proof.

This is a perfect example of a secret one should carry to the grave.

N392,000,000 in your account and the first thing you went to do was buy hair!!!! Chai!!! I weep for the African species

Caught how? Is eating of vulture a crime

Please guys let's ignore every tribalist in this forum and not reply their tribalism with tribalism but with silence. Trust me that's the way we can beat tribalist.

I know it hurts insulting your lineage but PLEASE IGNORE THEM
IGNORE THEM and watch as our silence kill them inside and drive them mad.

They may end up creating more monicker to reply themselves, still IGNORE and in the end OUR COLLECTIVE SILENCE will make a fool of them.

Every sane and educated person, please copy and paste along your text on Nairaland let everybody see it and let's KILL CYBER TRIBALISM.

Thanks for cooperating

enonche85:
So him refusing to takecare of his family, closing down her school forcefully n chasing her n the children with cutlass out of their home is not enough to be sent to jail abi?....


i think the one month is even too small sef

quote author=Kulas post=59855173]it is sad we hand down judgment without hearing from the other side. i know both paul and golda. they were classmates in UNEC. he was the president of the law students whereas golda was one of the academic back benchers of the class. paul lost a year because he organised a protest as president of LAWSA for shift in exams which the school interpreted to mean that it was because of his then girlfriend later his wife Golda. it is funny people addressing Golda as a lawyer cause she never graduated from Law school having failed woefully since Paul was not in the set with her.

they married against every persons advice including his parents cause my guy was in love and despite stories of runz activities following Golda, he shut every person up. Golda worked briefly in Econet in customer care centre answering calls before she was fired due to low productivity bordering on her attitude to work and since then has not worked anywhere in the last 13years till date.

how did they get to this point? Paul became successful having worked as head of Legal in two big companies in nigeria, built a duplex in awoyaya and about 25 one room ensuite for tenants. he against every advice relocated the parents of Golda from their two bed room apartment at Ojo Oniyun st, Ebute Metta to his house wherein they lived with him for more than five years before Goldas father Damian died in February of 2016.

he bought land and built a one story building for a school named Rapid academy which she handed over to Golda to manage which she still manages till date. he bought a school bus and threw an opening party for school which most of his friends attended. it is to my knowledge that in the course of the marriage he bought two SUVs for Golda. a Toyota four runner and a Nissan Pathfinder which she ran aground.

what was the stress in the marriage? bad mother and bad female friends. Golda's mum despite her saintly appearance harboured dark thoughts for the marriage as she believed that the son in law is not doing enough because of the perceived misconception that he is wealthy and encouraged the daughter to ask for more.

Also having a school to run and Paul always on the road and out of Lagos created room for Golda to acquire friends both male and female that became the downfall of the union. she became something else and sought for ways to obtain from him to meet up with the status of her new found friends. Paul believing he is meeting with his family obligations faced estate development business to the annoyance of the wife. sadly, at this point the marriage has broken down and in order to avoid issues of domestic violence, Paul moved out of the house in March 2016 and till date despite renovating the house has not spent a night in it.

Golda seeing the turn of events believing as a beautiful woman and quack lawyer can over reach the husband sought the help of police all in a bid to get money out of him. She reported several matters to Elemoro Police Station, Ajah Area Command and finally to the Commissioner of Police without success as all advised her to make peace with her husband having found no fault in him. she went to welfare and without being given opportunity to be heard, welfare took the matter to a family court who probably having being compromised issued a bench warrant for the arrest of Paul on the first day the matter came up on a false criminal charge brought by Golda since Paul was not in Court. He came to court and the bench warrant was quashed when the allegations were found to be untrue. Not relenting, Golda intensified effort using highly placed boyfriends to convince the magistrate to deal with Paul. Another false allegation was made in June 2016 of cutlass chasing in the house which Paul left since February and pronto without agreeing to hear evidence from adults present, she sentenced paul to one month imprisonment at Ikoyi which he served. Whilein prison, Golda packed out of the house without leaving a pin. My Guy came out after a month and instituted a divorce proceedings at the customary court which the court granted despite Golda forging a marriage certificate which purports to have been done at Ikoyi Marriage registry. the marriage was disolved in February 2017 and my guy is picking pieces of his life. Golda took the four children and threatened to change their surnames because my guy is an only son and she feels she can get at him through the children. She filed an action for divorce at the High Court which she abandoned when Ikoyi registry wrote to the customary court that the certificate is fake.

this story was first carried in 2016 only for Golda to call PM News again to carry the story as if it just happened just for the purpose of destroying his reputation knowing my guy has interest in 2019 political activities.

PAUL HAS NEVER BEATEN, SLAPPED OR TOUCHED GOLDA IN THE 14 YEARS OF MARRIAGE. HE NEVER TOUCHED A CUTLASS LET ALONE TO PURSUE HER WITH IT. IF GOLDA CAN SWEAR WITH HER LIFE ON THIS, LET HER DO AND LETS SEE IF NEMESIS WILL NOT CATCH UP WITH HER.

GOLDA YOU CAN TRY BUT YOU CANNOT DESTROY PAUL CAUSE HIS HANDS ARE CLEAN WHERE YOU ARE.[/quote]

haconjy:
old facts

Bet you didn't know a single one

Divay22:
Number 6 is so common
Your mind can sense someone staring at you while asleep
Are true is that?

Mostly true for mentally alert people.

quote author=Kulas post=59855173]it is sad we hand down judgment without hearing from the other side. i know both paul and golda. they were classmates in UNEC. he was the president of the law students whereas golda was one of the academic back benchers of the class. paul lost a year because he organised a protest as president of LAWSA for shift in exams which the school interpreted to mean that it was because of his then girlfriend later his wife Golda. it is funny people addressing Golda as a lawyer cause she never graduated from Law school having failed woefully since Paul was not in the set with her.

they married against every persons advice including his parents cause my guy was in love and despite stories of runz activities following Golda, he shut every person up. Golda worked briefly in Econet in customer care centre answering calls before she was fired due to low productivity bordering on her attitude to work and since then has not worked anywhere in the last 13years till date.

how did they get to this point? Paul became successful having worked as head of Legal in two big companies in nigeria, built a duplex in awoyaya and about 25 one room ensuite for tenants. he against every advice relocated the parents of Golda from their two bed room apartment at Ojo Oniyun st, Ebute Metta to his house wherein they lived with him for more than five years before Goldas father Damian died in February of 2016.

he bought land and built a one story building for a school named Rapid academy which she handed over to Golda to manage which she still manages till date. he bought a school bus and threw an opening party for school which most of his friends attended. it is to my knowledge that in the course of the marriage he bought two SUVs for Golda. a Toyota four runner and a Nissan Pathfinder which she ran aground.

what was the stress in the marriage? bad mother and bad female friends. Golda's mum despite her saintly appearance harboured dark thoughts for the marriage as she believed that the son in law is not doing enough because of the perceived misconception that he is wealthy and encouraged the daughter to ask for more. Also having a school to run and Paul always on the road and out of Lagos created room for Golda to acquire friends both male and female that became the downfall of the union. she became something else and sought for ways to obtain from him to meet up with the status of her new found friends. Paul believing he is meeting with his family obligations faced estate development business to the annoyance of the wife. sadly, at this point the marriage has broken down and in order to avoid issues of domestic violence, Paul moved out of the house in March 2016 and till date despite renovating the house has not spent a night in it. Golda seeing the turn of events believing as a beautiful woman and quack lawyer can over reach the husband sought the help of police all in a bid to get money out of him. She reported several matters to Elemoro Police Station, Ajah Area Command and finally to the Commissioner of Police without success as all advised her to make peace with her husband having found no fault in him. she went to welfare and without being given opportunity to be heard, welfare took the matter to a family court who probably having being compromised issued a bench warrant for the arrest of Paul on the first day the matter came up on a false criminal charg brought by Golda since Paul was not in Court. He came to court and the bench warrant was quashed when the allegations were found to be untrue. Not relenting, Golda intensified effort using highly placed boyfriends to convince the magistrate to deal with Paul. Another false allegation was made in June 2016 of cutlass chasing in the house which Paul left since February and pronto without agreeing to hear evidence from adults present, she sentenced paul to one month imprisonment at Ikoyi which he served. Whilein prison, Golda packed out of the house without leaving a pin. My Guy came out after a month and instituted a divorce proceedings at the customary court which the court granted despite Golda forging a marriage certificate which purports to have been done at Ikoyi Marriage registry. the marriage was disolved in February 2017 and my guy is picking pieces of his life. Golda took the four children and threatened to change their surnames because my guy is an only son and she feels she can get at him through the children. She filed an action for divorce at the High Court which she abandoned when Ikoyi registry wrote to the customary court that the certificate is fake.

this story was first carried in 2016 only for Golda to call PM News again to carry the story as if it just happened just for the purpose of destroying his reputation knowing my guy has interest in 2019 political activities.

PAUL HAS NEVER BEATEN, SLAPPED OR TOUCHED GOLDA IN THE 14 YEARS OF MARRIAGE. HE NEVER TOUCHED A CUTLASS LET ALONE TO PURSUE HER WITH IT. IF GOLDA CAN SWEAR WITH HER LIFE ON THIS, LET HER DO AND LETS SEE IF NEMESIS WILL NOT CATCH UP WITH HER.

GOLDA YOU CAN TRY BUT YOU CANNOT DESTROY PAUL CAUSE HIS HANDS ARE CLEAN WHERE YOU ARE.[/quote]

Tapout:
lemme try number one..... If I don't modify this post in 15mins time, then it worked

Sweet dreams

Tapout:
lemme try number one..... If I don't modify this post in 15mins time, then it worked

You must not even itch or scratch. When u stay still like that your brain would want to check if you're ready to sleep by making parts of your body itch or be uncomfortable. So don't move a muscle. And don't cheat