₦airaland Forum

Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?

You are a mumu. If you don't know.
Wetin Dem give you chop?

OneEyedSnake:
Alaba boys and other Igbo business men need to relocate back to the yeast to help Solodu raise Anambra IGR.

Imagine Alaba market alone contributes 75% of all Lagos IGR which stands at over #700bn naira annually.

The Developers need to go back to their roots and turn Alaigbo into the envy of the world.

Start parking.

I support you on this. I even want Yoruba people to chase all our people over there back to Igboland.
You leave your place in droves and go and be developing another man's land while your own is left to struggle.
Tinubu's daughter should help me chase all of them back home.

bro4u:
Really? FG should hide their heads in shame cos they've lost woefully, I hope the World is watching how disrespectful FG is towards it's own Judiciary

. Buhari, Malami and FG are collecting wotowoto from Nnamdi Kanu and his legal team.

Afonja and Fulani people go cry blood.
I don't support the violence of Kanu and his supporters but as I say all the time, Buhari, Malami and FG are mismanaging this case because of of tribalism and disdain for Igbos.

kingharzy:
It seems subsidy and poverty alleviation are the most expensive 'progress' nowadays

Buhari's side chick has been used to syphon $7B.

sukkot:
now see this flood signifies that GOD is bringing in a new paradigm because the old paradigm is satanic in nature and it has run its course and that course officially ends today the day of the new moon in Scorpio and the solar eclipse. This new paradigm cuts across politics to religion and is going to be a global event as the structures of old are brought down and new structures are created. and so this day the 25th of October begins the official day of the execution of this new paradigm as we have an indian, the first person of color to head the UK from today. This is all connected. how does this affect our religious leaders ? many of them would be eliminated or given warning to exit the stage and disappear into oblivion. what you saw with Suleman with the attempt on his life and the obliteration of maNy in his crew is a warning from GOD for all these religious leaders to vanish away into the night and if they do not take heed ? the attacks would become worse. the attacks dont even have to be physical, you would just see may of them falling sick as the LORD deletes their soul in their body. a deleted soul equals a diseased body. so we have the floods announcing the paradigm change and the attempt on suleman as the warning from the LORD for all these religious leaders to disappear into the night from today onwards, today the new moon and solar eclipse in the phoenix transition house of Scorpio, from today onwards the attacks would intensify until the paradigm change is effected. same thing applies to political leaders as their soul is deleted in their body by the LORD maNy of them would soon start falling sick because a deleted soul equals a diseased body. you would see may of them falling ill with autoimmune diseases etc. from today onward expect to also see the ukraine war intensify and start to go global because this is one of the important events that would bring in this new global paradigm AND THATS THE MESSAGE FROM THE LORD ON THIS SOLAR ECLIPSE NEW MOON DAY IN SCORPIO . SHALOM

. Na Tinubu dey manufacture your own ganja weed?

obembet:
Most men don't understand that A woman's need for tender moments goes beyond the actual lovemaking.

Some men don't even know how to care for woman after having quality time. A friend of also complain that her man falls asleep immediately after the act. I know that when a man is having sex, his endorphin level is very high. But what Man need to understand what woman need after love making.

To me, I see it as wickedness.

Wickedness? You are the one being selfish and wicked here.
After dissipating so much energy in thrusting and press-up in order to give you orgasm and releasing all his energy and refined ingredients into you, you want to give him another work instead of allowing him to get a deserved rest?

Maxymilliano:

. Yekini Amoda still get strength to look breasts? Ahhh Tinubu!!!!!

meobizy:
Okay. Madam motivational speaker.

. But she and her ilks would fuckkk illeterate with plenty of money.

FreeStuffsNG:
That judgement is bizzare and a huge mockery of the judiciary. I really hope those judges were not bribed.

So weird judgement that makes the judiciary demotivate patriotic members of the intelligence community.

It is so strange that a fugitive threatening even the judge on his case is suddenly set acquited when the judge declared him wanted and gave a legitimate order to fetch the fugitive. Any sick person can wake up tomorrow and set Nigeria ablaze and some judges will mock the victims on the account of technicality smh.

Our judiciary is not consistent at all and I pray God helps the new CJN.
check my signature for free stuffs!

. You are whipping up emotional sentiments. Sentiments aren't laws.
They followed the laws.
Your daft president and his dumb AGF and quack intelligence should have known what the law says about extra-ordinarily renditioning a citizen.
They shot themselves in the foot by engaging in that illegality and handed Kanu an escape route after damaging the case they had against Kanu.
They had the law, resources and diplomatic treaties to engage in extradition case against Kanu and which they would have won convincingly, but they chose to carry out kidnap.
It shows the sort of dumb fellows running the country.

wasuka14:
My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.

Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.

I am mentally stress with what am passing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too.

The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding.
Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning.
Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket.
And the funny thing is that, both the sisters are not working so as to at least support with something.

For now, am managing to pass night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder.
I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.

My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian.

. You are not timid. You are a complete mumu. They moved into your house without prior notice and you are here talking rubbish. You were born a mumu by default.

lhordspy:
Not defending anything.

But you see my friends, José Emilio Pacheco once said, and i quote

"hypocrites. We cannot see ourselves or judge ourselves the way we see and judge others.” ―

You will notice the same set of people that has been crying about Tribal marginalisation and Religion segregations politically will all run into this thread like freed chicken from a cage, to run their mouth, pour all their hidden hatred and insult the religion of Islam with reckless abandon.

The gays, that has spent years crying of sexual right, the females that cried all years about gender sidelining, the tribe that wants a divorce from its country because its right to exist were allegedly been trampled, all of them will all crawl out of their sorry-cage and they will all be here to insult someone else belief just because few set of people decided to go rogue and extreme.

Brothers and sister, you see If you wear a mask for too long, there will come a time when you can not remove it without removing your face.


Most of you are worst than the people you criticise. Christianity and the positivity that accompany it is just a cover face for most of you. You are more evil than the attacker.

You are in pains that the man is still alive.
Writing useless long epistle trying to call others names because you want to defend a babaric act and the religious movement that supports it.

Corridon:
Relocate to where exactly? Lagos is congested already and you are telling people to relocate! Maybe for them to relocate to the lagoon.

. Tinubu Lagos dey flood? Mega smart city dey flood?
Tinubu no remember build the flood?

DontBullshitMe:
It always ends with them requesting for donations. Lol. Fear Nigerian NGO.

Why not fund his advocacy from his own pocket? Has he emptied his bank account yet?

There is no village in Nigeria without pressing societal problems.

. This is not a new story. Churches and even foreigners have been going there and not asking for donations.
Those Lagos thieves have decided to use it to cash out. Screaming as if it's a new thing. It's cash out opportunity for those guys.
See as their eyes dey shine.
Oloriburuku oshiiii dem.

Brendaniel:
The state government needs to take action to help....

. Didn't you see APC logo on that house? Everything babaric is from APC.

XerXers:
But they are building rail to Niger Republic with Bayelsa's money

Bayelsa people and niger Delta people said northerners are their friends. They are enjoying the dividends of their northern friendship.

imadiyi:
Not only that which was available, but there must have been something different between you and amongst other guys.

There are certain attributes that should makes a man enchantable to a woman. Those attributes a woman so desires from their choices of man should be enlisted in the form of checklist. So, whenever a suitor comes calling, it's best for her to first examine him extensively, and should thereafter go back to her checklist to ascertain the number of attributes he possessed among the ones already enumerated. With that, she will know if he's to be giving a chance or not. But remember, 70% and above of a checklist should be good enough as spouse.

Majority of the ladies these days are in the lookout for a100%—that is where their problem lies. They are living in delusion through the figment of their imagination. Know this today, imagination and dreams are alike, and does not, in most cases, play out in reality.

As much as you girls think the guys on nairaland are found of bashing the ladies here through their spear of words, we ain't what you all think, rather we are helping you single ladies to look inward, and stop being delusional. Open your mind, so you could clear off the complications and the difficulty involved in the selection of a partner. If you don't come into a man (I am not saying having sex, but being a friend), you won't know a man.

It's always better to marry someone who you had been a friend with, than marrying a stranger. And if you are serious about getting married, you must've to start this process now, because, delay is dangerous.

Good advice here.

uche40:
Ok. I think I'm starting to get the picture.

To give you some context, I'm presently single, and no -- I'm not searching. I'm sort of ambiverted in the sense that I like people enough to interact with them for long periods of time. But ultimately, I value my personal space, my personal taste, interests and objectives above all else. As a result, I'm the typical example of a non-conformist. A lot of men I know often consider me proud and egotistical, and they believe I should be lonely and frustrated -- which is far from the truth. I usually scoff at their attempts to label me and categorize me, trying to tell me what to think. It's one of the reasons I think the Red Pill is a joke, just like radical feminists. The two sides make a lot of unjustified presumptions about the opposing gender without bothering to present any empirical evidence.

If there's one thing I've learnt in my life, it's to not let others have agency over my life and control my decisions. They don't have to do it directly. It's easy to feel pressured to do something when you find that your peers are doing it, but as I said earlier, we're all wired different. When you eventually accomplish what you think you want, you may eventually find that it wasn't worth the effort, not because it's pointless, but because it's not what YOU really wanted.

Marriage isn't a casual affair. It's deeply serious and it will affect your life forever. If you're sure that you're not prepared, don't do it. Don't allow your ego to fool you. Society has created this erroneous thought in young people that if they do not get married on time, then they're failures. This is predicated on the false assumption that ALL OF US in this blue sphere called earth share the same interests, intents and purpose. It's a subtle form of psychological projection. They're essentially trying to speak for you and tell you what you need. They (perhaps innocently) want to impose their thoughts and belief system on you.

Your happiness should be the most important factor for you. And anyone who truly cares for you will want you to be happy.

Ahhh. Non-conformists like me.

UyaiIncomparabl:
There's no reality here. And also to inform you, staying single is not a crime. Pity how society has made and enforced women to think marriage is a means to an end and without it, they aren't achieved or complete. Not every woman has maternal instincts, and not every woman wants to marry and will marry.

. You are right. Pressuring every woman to marry and shaming those that don't are things I hate so much.
The reality is that not everyone will marry and I always advice ladies to know that and prepare themselves for it in case they happen to be among those that won't.
Even if everyone wants to marry, in the end we find out that there aren't enough spouses to go round. So some won't marry, no matter how much prayers are made.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Stick to your guns, my dear. I am a lady like you and I understand your concerns. DO NOT marry a man you do not love. Even if it's 20%, please, love him. You'll find respecting him easy when you love him. If you aren't fond of a man, attraction will be absent which makes irritability a norm for you.

I do not go with the thought that you can grow to love someone. It can only get better and not grow from 0-100, in my opinion. Don't let them sell to you that funny idea. It's non-existent.

I am a man and I stand with you. Marrying who you love is important.
I don't subscribe to that shit of love who you marry.
I have to love the person first, marry the person and now continue to love the person because I have married her.
That teaching of "love who you marry" is a wrong interpretation of the Bible.
Though I respect that man of God who first started promoting it, but I know he is not presenting it properly.
Love who you marry the Bible teaches there is referring to maintaining that love after marriage. Not marrying blindly and then marriage would manufacture love for you.

Gossipninja:
https://www.thecable.ng/flood-atiku-to-tour-impacted-states-on-tuesday/amp/

. When will Tinubu visit? I want to check something.

ryloy:

Were his shaky shaky hands able to hold the manifesto this time around? Or did he borrow hands again from Buhari and Adamu?
Which hands did he use to write the manifesto sef?
Shaky shaky hands fit hold biro?
Make im go rest for old people's home and be thanking God for granting him long life inspite of his shady life. Im time don expire.

Peterobiisathie:
I suspect IPOB terrorists
This is how they operate. They killed Ahmed Gulak, Akunyeli and Sen Uba in the same manner

Your foolishness is beyond redemption.

ahnie:
Try adjust your brain,you don't have to be insultive.


Be nice!

I didn't insult you. It's called sarcasm dear. It's you that needs to adjust your brain here in order to comprehend simple figure of speech.

Zonefree:
One of numerous attrocities of Nigerian Army and Ebubeagu in South East.

. Both the Biafra agitators that hijacked the trucks and used them to block the road and the military men that set the vehicles on fire are mad. Kanu and his Biafra agitators honestly don't have sound brain.
They think from their anus.

ahnie:
The two of them na #600.
Per tie na #300

. Are you a robber? Did you rob them of it? Because where I stay in Riverside state it's 500naira at least for each tie of that size.

Fortruth:
Why are you proud of….seeing 38 year olds beat 15 year olds…..

Anyway you are a black……

Mister keep quiet there or shut up. Which 38yr olds?
Did you ever see the girls, not to talk about watching the match. You just stay and type rubbish.
Very young teen players and you are calling them old.
It's inferiority complex that worrying you as you never see anything good in those better than you.
WHITE ASS LICKER.

Odetokun3:
Wahala. E for go Ukraine too. You left your people to go attend to issue wey no concern you.

Politics ehn.

Note: I don’t reply mentions and any curse you type is for your parents. Thanks.

. Mumu. That's your second name. Continue to support criminals to rule you.

oikirodah:
Source iReporteronline.
https://ireporteronline.com.ng/blog/some-mothers-do-ave-em-see-reactions-as-peter-obi-says-atikutinubu-should-suspend-campaigns/

The sort of rubbish that makes front page on nairaland. Very useless post.

LegendHero:
Nice one to these men of God.

CAN think they can gag sensible Christians with their political propaganda.

Asiwaju Jagaban is a friend of the Christians and with him the Christian right will be protected.

This CAN chairman wife might even be for Jagaban.

. Why the desepration on Tinubus part?

obembet:
I must be sincere, till today, I still don't know the difference between this two fish physically.

By taste, I know the one is sweeter and very tasty expecially when you boil, then other doesn't taste so nice like that. So is there truly a fake and original? How do I identify original one?

. Please there's no fake fish. What you have is varieties.
Maybe one can sell a different variety to you as the one you want.
Na so English go dey give una wotowoto.

richidinho:
You mean Land owners are now agberos?

. Tinubu boys won't allow hardworking people to sell their market in peace.