₦airaland Forum

Harmoony:
She's clearly into prostitution, it doesn't take rocket science my dear.

Yeah, soon she will gain fame in the process and have a large following like Cardi B and the rest. The worst set of women you should feel sorry for are the secret prostitutes that are hypocrites.

Harmoony:
This one is pure Beauty without brains, and the private part must suffer

She only stated what she wants, we can take it or leave it. She may not necessarily "suffer" as you think.

Would be nice to see all the artists he worked with to put together a tribute album for him.

Kizyte:
I'm just done studying the Yankee and Lucky 15 betting system and I'm convinced it will really favour me. Thank you so much bro!
System not on Bet9ja I guess.

What stats do you use to hunt for big odds

purityval:
Joycy I always respect your views because you have never been a victim of unhealthy generalization, but, what did you just do?

Reverse being the case, majority of men in marriage seek happiness while majority of women seek contentment. To buttress my point taking relationships as a case study.

A guy will stay/be contented with a girl that loves and gives him peace of mind. Someone who believes in him and always provides him emotional comfort to pursue his ambition. Now, he is not worried about the buoyancy of the lady or whatever material contentment he stands to gain but just that happiness to will spur him to be a better man.

Now to a lady, whatever it is you have with a lady be mindful because all they seek for is contentment not with you as a man but with you stand to give. If all you stand to give a lady is 'laughs' Which translates to happiness, believe me it's only a moment and they will ask is that all you have to give?

Have taken time to wonder why some women leave a faithful but not buoyant man to stick to rich but cheating and abusive husbands/boyfriends? That is because they need that financial and material contentment/Security. Once you can assure a good number number of women of financial security trample on them, marry ten wives they will still stay down with you. Its not about commitment its about their contentions with what you stand to offer.

A good percentage of men, the only thing they ask for is happiness and a conducive home to come back to after the days hustle. But, with women Your ability to provide for them what they can't give themselves is all they ask for not happiness or sincerity.

Men give a lot and at the end still loses a lot. They hustle all the days of their life to provide for their family the wealth he himself hardly enjoys because he is always looking for ways to make more and keep the family afloat so that he can come back to a happy home. At the very end the hustles weighs down on him, cuts his life short and.....

Summarily I think women seek contentment while men seek happiness. And, we can stop these men are scum movement.... Women are worst off. Whatever 'scum' a man is today, a 'scummier' woman turned him to that.

Spot on.
I think for most women it's not about being with the PERSON, it's about being with WHO can take care of them.

greiboy:
A funny Nigerian lady tried to justify this craziness by categorically stating that her love for BBN is similar to my love of football.

I just laughed at that fallacy

Footballers are trained professionals who spend nearly 5 to 6 hours everyday training and about 100 mins running around on a football field under immerse pressure just to entertain us.

BbN contestants on the other hand, are simply excuse for entertainment and most contestants cannot even be seen as entertainers in the real sense of the word.

It gathers so much following because of the unpredictable nature of the various dramas going on in the house, but after watching almost 5 different big brother shows like I did, you won't find anything unpredictable about the show anymore.

The loud mouths
The gossiping crew
The love birds (try Kevin Pam and tazania chick because they actually got married)

The cute guys
The fighters
The quiet ones that never win, but go very far and almost always a lady

The crazy lady everyone hates
The lady that get bleeped
etc

The winners are always the down to earth men or ladies who can connect with the audience.

So like Rico like Kelvin, like uti like karen, like efe like miracle.



I honestly feel it's another wasted three months where the country's legislation became a joke and Fulani herdsmen continued their carnage, but I don't expect anyone to care

Ever wondered why we ended here in the first place

And winner of the free food camp called BBN will be termed a "Celebrity".

Imagine putting Beyonce, Jay Z, Messi, C. Ronaldo, Efe in the same Social Status

chenzen:
Gone were the days when a lady and a guy of marital eligibility come together for the sole aim of getting to know each other, courting and being married to. The term "relationship" is suppose be the getting to know of each person better so as to ascertain whether he or she is good enough to make a good and compatible wife/husband. Back in the days such was the case... back in the days no one is to av canal knowledge of themselves until the marital rites is done, as it is assumed with degrees of possibility that the lady stands intact and unbroken as a virgin. Back in the days a man interest in a lady is solely the purpose of marriage, and a lady accepting a man's proposal is influenced with the fact that he is responsible and is capable of providing for her and making her happy and not necessarily being rich.

Now at this present time we get to see a 15 year old talking about boyfriend/girlfriend... We get to see girls become more materialistic with cravings for money being the only aim for them to accept intimate pressure from men and the men in~turn having their way all the time with the idea that money is all that matters...

I don't know what you mean by "now at the present" what you said at the bolded has been around since the 90s, have you ever thought about why women are now different? There cant be reaction without action.
Right from the time when women were made to feel like an object meant to satisfy men, there was bitterness brewing somewhere, so you should not be surprise about what you see now.

Though both Men and Women can be numbskulls sometimes, If you ask women why they do what they do you will get almost a chorus answer "how about men that do this and do that...." For the majority to come out with almost the same answer doesn't that tell you something? That Men played a part in creating the monsters we have now.

As for what a woman wants in relationship? All I can say is this - the best way to make a friend is to be a friend.
Treat the woman the way you would like to be treated.


And why change the thread title?

ThoniaSlim:
ANd trust me its gonna be you. . .if you don't stop your two timing game now!

Best reply in the entire page.

We should be discussing the next Arsenal coach, Diego Simeone or Luis Enrique are good candidates.

ijeezlux:
I can assist you in bringing any thing from china by express, cargo or sea if the item is very bulky. I can also help you source for your desired item and talk to your chinese seller as well. Thanks

What's your Rate?

QueenSuccubus:
Nope..Dont twist my words boi as my statement is very simple & direct.

No gal, the ones that play hard to get must be able to resist you. Men are straight forward creatures, they go for what they can resist, and resist what they dont go for.

*simpleanddirect*

QueenSuccubus:



Well, it sounds women these days must take a risk and try to be a little aggressive


Well , i like a man who plays hard to get... dem my weakness ooo.. But it's very rare to see these type of men sha..

You mean its rare to find men that can resist you.

MissRaine69:
Yes a serial killer who will chop me up and put me in a freezer and months later feed me remains to pigs
No thank you

Damn, having these thoughts about own yourself just confirm you can be cold as ice.

Are you by chance related to Sub Zero?

mikolo80:
ok,most men willl boink most women
most women will only boink most rich men

Don't be so sure, some women use the car a rich man bought for them to drive to drive to the house of a guy that has nothing.

mikolo80:
women are bombarded by men they are not interested in so its not the same.
men want 80% of women while women only want like 1%

Sorry Sir, not all men want 80% of women.

The lady is correct, ladies are bombarded with more temptations than men, an average looking lady gets more hit from men, than a handsome will get from ladies.

Breaking Benjamin - Psycho

Certitude:
And the non Virgins weren't invited.

And all the virgins were accepted.

Firgemachar:
You deceive yourself.

You know nothing.

gbaskiboy:
Dear friends, am a young man, am almost 31 years old, financially am not buoyant but live normal life like many other Nigerians. But there is this pressure that put me off balance when asked, When are you going to marry? I find it difficult to answer and it left me thinking if am too to get marry. in fact on Sunday after service a young girl came to me she should be around 14 years old, she ask me same question, I felt embarased and I quickly diverted the question to another discussion. I wonder why they ask me, is it because they have personal interest in me or to make mockery of me?
Please Elders on nairaland, married, single and counsellors, How can I handle this pressure or is it normal

The only one putting pressure on you is yourself.

Boxer007:
U scared we could take your man? I bet I kiss him better than you do. Gay men make best lovers. Agree or disagree?

You are walking tight rope, there is a 14yrs jail term reward for this major malfunction of a male specie.

Firgemachar:
Which will you choose between a virgin that has something to offer and a non virgin who also does

And only 1 virgin made it was your Bible printed in Taiwan

You can say that again, and I will have no fvcks to spare. the wise ones made it, and the foolish ones that not bother to use their head did not.
Am not about the details, all am concerned about is the fact that being a virgin does not grant you an automatic ticket.

As for your question, I will choose a non virgin that has
A lot to offer any day any time. Am not a virgin so I don't need one.

Ever wonder why most men never choose to settle down with beautiful ladies they date?

predmine20:
Hey shut up,you don't av anything to offer that is why you are living in delusion of been a secondary virgin.hisssssesssss tufiakwa onye bunema gi ibu.

Delusion? You are the delusional one here if you think being a virgin will make you make heaven.
Even the bible made a case for some virgins that were just as stupid as you are, in the end only five virgins made it. what happened to other ones that were just as stupid as you? There never made it.

Now whats the difference between those virgins that never made it in the bible and you?

The Answer? Nothing.

You lot are virgins that are all stupid.

Better to be with a non virgin that is very resourceful than an a virgin that has nothing to offer than her virginity.

predmine20:
Who says virgins no go make heaven,that one na mumu talk.

Virginity is never overrated and can never be,all you non-virgins should come to terms with reality and stop pulling wool over your eyes.

We virgins(the holy ones) didn't force you guys to lose your virginity on the altar of pleasure so why are you guys atagonizing we virgins.

Abi e dey pain una because we no be like una.

Enough of this childish tantrums and nitwitism from you guys a.k.a second hand.

We won't tolerate and allow this nonsense talks about been a virgin na waste of time to fester any longer.

All non-virgins that are fond of insulting virgins can go to hell and burn to ashes for all we care because we can never ever condescend to your levels of living that immoral and shameless lives you are all living in the guise of been a secondary virgin.
You guys(non-virgins) are low life ogres,so you all should deal with it.
lalasticlala
fp abeg.

You are a disaster waiting to happen, A grenade in a hand basket.
This Wednesday morning greetings is courtesy of the non virgins that have led fulfilled lives.

Another news of malfunctioned species making the rounds.

Will this disaster make news in sane country?

LoreDnz:
met him in church one Sunday morning. He sat next to me and I couldn’t help it but recognize the kind of gentleman he was. He was soft spoken and had this shyness on her face anytime he tried to talk to me. During the service, I realized he was finding it uneasy to sing along with the church because he didn’t come along with a hymn book. I shared mine. We both sang from the same hymn book and got closer as the service progressed.

After the last grace was said by the priest and the church dispersed, he turned to me and said thank you. I smiled and asked his name. “I’m Martin,” he said. “Nice meeting you Martin” I responded. But before I could turn around and leave, he told me; “Actually, this is my first time being here.” Amid smiles he continued. “and it’s great finding a friend at my first time in church. Do you mind if I called you sometimes?”

We exchanged contacts and left each other’s presence. Truth be told, I was going through the hardest times of my life. The man I’ve dated for about two years just called it quit and I was very devastated. I was nursing my wounds when Martin came along. He kept crossing my mind all week but I resolved not to call him until he does. He never called until we met in church again the next Sunday. Inwardly, I felt guilty for thinking about him the way I did all week. That’s girlish. But we had another good service together, singing from the same hymn book and making fun under our breath.

After the service, he called when he got home. We started chatting on Whatsapp and grew closer together as the days pass. I shared my story of broken relationships with him and he was kind enough to offer soothing words. He didn’t judge me. He didn’t condemn my actions or sought to give directions as to how I should have handled things. He gained my trust that way and I opened up more. He told me a little bit about himself. Nothing of note though, but I was happy he was overcoming his shyness. We grew closer and closer until finally, after about six months later, he made it obvious that he wanted us to date.

He didn’t propose to me. I don’t remember him telling me he loved me or wanted to be with me. He loved to act than to use words. We spoke more about it and decided to be in a relationship. He already knew my fears and easily accepted the conditions I laid down for the relationship. I told him; “I don’t want sex now. At least, if it should happen, it should happen after marriage, that is if you have any intention to marry me.” He only nodded and smiled. That day in his room, I remember we had our first kiss.

It was awesome! A lot of things started running through my head. Hey, I wasn’t a nun. I’ve had sex before and kisses this intense usually lead to sex. I remember grabbing him intensely like my whole life depended on him. I was shaking. I wanted something more than the kiss but I held on. He was gentle. The farthest he could go was to hold my head in between his palms, look me in the eyes and kissed intensely. I couldn’t breathe. I gathered the little strength in me and pulled away. I was panting like I’ve been running around for hours. The next words that came out were; “No more kisses until marriage. I mean it.”

For the next two years, we didn’t kiss and we never had sex. The farthest we went was to hold hands, lean on each other and occasionally cuddle. Martin was a good boy and I loved him dearly. We decided to get married after two years of being together. When we started counseling, our pastor wanted to be sure if we’ve had sex before. We had all the pride in us when we answered no. I don’t know if he believed us but we were telling the truth and didn’t care if he did. He only told us to be careful since it’s at this stage that all manner of temptations creep in. We knew our strength. We were sure we could scale above all temptations.

Our marriage arrangement was to have the traditional wedding and then do the church wedding in six months later. We started having troubles. The urge to have sex became greater. After all, we were going to marry so what stops us from having sex? In my mind, I wanted our first sex to be special. I wanted to blow his mind off during our first sex and what better moment to do it than to wait for the honeymoon? this thought kept me going. Two weeks before the traditional marriage, we spent most nights together in the same room and on the same bed. We had a lot of errands and arrangements to do and it was better we stayed together. But sex had a way of creeping into our minds.

I remember one night it turned into a serious scuffle. Martin wanted it. I’ve never seen him so aggressive. He was pushing and struggling with me to allow him to have s*x. To him, we were already married and didn’t see the reason to still cover the cookie. I implored. I fought him. At some point, I wanted to scream. What the pastor said was ringing loud in my ears; “it’s at this stage that all manner of temptations creep in.” Amid threats of screaming and loud prayers, I won and slept in peace. That wasn’t the last. We kept having series of minor fights because of s*x.

Days to the traditional wedding was tough. We could go all day without talking to each other. He was angry and I was angry. S*x was killing the beautiful thing we had together. But we soldiered on. Finally, we did the traditional wedding. The pastor was there to pray and bless the union. During his sermon, he complimented us for staying chaste all this while and told us to still be strong and keep it till after the church wedding. I could see my husband restless and with a subtle frown.

The night after the traditional wedding we had a fight. Our first fight as husband and wife happened on a night we ought to be happy together. What brought the fight? SEX! Not That I didn’t want to have sex, I wanted to but the time wasn’t right. So I told him; “Didn’t you hear what the pastor said? This is not the real marriage so we can’t have sex. Hold it together. We are only six months away.” After saying this, my new name was launched; “Madam-We-Can’t-Have-Sex, I hear you but tomorrow, I’ll have s*x somewhere else.” Did you hear what he just called me? Madam-We-Can’t-Have-S*x? At this point, I didn’t care who he would have sex with if only.. Continue reading..

I don't see anything wrong with this story, you asked for it.

From what I have gathered so for, china is the best place to source for physical products, most health product (what you put in your body or what you put on your skin) don't usually have 5 star feed backs from costumers in on Chinese websites.

Apart from hair products that are OK from China, health products should be sourced from the US.

Teeworld13:
They are very expensive.

Normal shipping is $5.5 per kg while others charge $4.5

I have a parcel with them for 8 days and it hasn't arrived Nigeria. Normal shipping is meant to take 4-7 days but no information. Even the almighty Uche refuses to respond to customers but he's busy showing pictures of how he's flexing...run from Uche Logistics please

Do you know of any logistics agent that charge $4.5/kg for normal shipping?

Lilisticlili:
wow! Thanks,my brother. Onces own a Nintendo64 then. Pls what is emulator in gaming?

Emulators mode the game console into your PC, for instance we have the N64 emulator for pc, just download the emulator on your pc, install it. Then download the games (roms) you want to on websites like romnation.com and walla you are playing your N64 again on your pc.
There are even ps1 and ps2 emulators,