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Lovelyn451:
I don't pray to be at their mercy...they are that wicked o hmmm

Pray and strive never to be like every other Nigerian girl out there. Stand out and no man will mess wt u.

EJanni:
To an average Nigerian man, the only good thing a woman has to offer is her body. Too bad!

That is what the Nigerian girls have made men to believe.
Recently, so men formed an online group called "Stingy Men Association of Nigeria."
They said they are going to be extremely prudent wt their money and never to give money to girls.
Our girls/ladies, on the contrary, formed theirs also with the objective of never to open leg again for men.
This shows that what girls can only offer to men for their money is just sex.

We enjoy so much freedom in this country. There are so many things we do here that if u try half of it in many Western countries, you find yourself in the wrong side of the law.

Let's keep the abuse/assault from that guy one side.
That girl made a very big mistake by posting that guys pic, his full name and phone number online.
That is not the right way to seek redress.
She took laws into her hands.
She assumed the position of the Victim, Accuser, Prosecutor and the Judge.
That can earn her some legal punishment.
We have the law enforcement.
We have the court
She can also get restraining order
What she did may seem write to her and to many others, but that action is totally wrong in the eyes of the law.

I don't even want to talk about that guys case, cos his is a serious matter.

extol1:
your last paragraph make me laughing
back to the topic, I know your mind is totally out of the relationship since the day you were told about the lady. but please do this lady a favor by taking her to that same church that reveals everything to me, if they can pray and heal her, if not so many guys will be a casualty of this mess, just a pity to her future husband.
for me and myself, we belong to teammarryvirgin

This summarizes the whole gist.
He left her cos of the claimed revelation.
It will make sense if he can take that lady to the same Church for her own revelation and deliverance

mansakhalifa:
I don't know if a lot of folks here are aware of this but there are a lot of people out there who find that very word 'illiterate' demeaning and insulting to say the least.

As a matter of fact, there are a number of 'harmless' words that we use on a day to day basis that are frowned upon in certain quarters.

Put in his shoes, I wouldn't have referred to my mom as an 'illiterate'. That doesn't really sound right in my opinion.

In this case, the man could have gone about it in another way by simply saying something like: 'Sir, you see, my mother does not speak in English. She is more fluent in her native language(you mention the language)...'

In such a scenario, your boss would get the point and then know exactly what to do. Sometimes, shortcuts kill when interacting with others and you must learn the art of Circumlocution paraphrasis

Some words look rather harmless on the surface but they sure can get us into some sort of **** when used carelessly or in the wrong occasion.

The fellow in that twitter 'story' found himself in such a moment.

Now, the boss, I agree went overboard. What happened to a little reprimand?

Oh, and what's more? It's a PR firm.

Just my little opinion.

You are right dear. How will the guy feel if he hears another person calling her mum an illiterate?
He is a PR personnel. He is supposed to know how to use words very well even in a situation that looks so bad.
A PR person is not supposed to use harsh words.
If that guy can use that crude word on her own mom, imagine how he will describe his clients.

A very good friend of mine just sent this to me right now,she is a teacher and this happened to her friend who is a teacher in another school,i have not recovered from the shock yet�. Read and learn oh
Good day, How are you all. I want to use this medium to tell everyone what happened at my school today. I teach at a Private Secondary School in Lagos (Name Withheld).

So today being the First day of resumption, we also resumed school activities. We didn't really do much. Today was just revision of last terms work, giving scheme of work to students and introduction to second terms work.
At around 12noon, I was teaching Jss1 Class. And as I was teaching, a boy named Innocent threw his maths note to a girls table. I saw it and didn't like the fact the he was disrupting my class by throwing notes to his classmate
so I seized the note. When the class ended, I carried the note to return to the boy then a small paper fell from the book. Apparently he had written an Erotic Letter and hide it inside the Maths Note for the girl to read.
In the Note, He wrote...

Dear Ann
I like you very much.
I like watching Porn.
Come to the toilet and I will show you some girls that are sexing boys on phone.
E.g Britney White...Anika Albright.
Come alone during break time.
Don't tell anybody.
From Innocent.

After reading, I became so shocked that an 11yrs old boy could write such a thing with names of strange people. Apparently those names are names of Adult Film Entertainers (Porn Stars).
I called the boy, questioned him and gave him just 5 strokes of the Cane becos our Principal has told us to cane only on the hands or buttocks of any child.

After 30mins, the Mother called me on phone and started insulting, abusing me. Saying all sort of things that why did I cane her child? For what? I told her what he did and she was like..."And So...And So....Is Innocent the first person to do such a thing....And so" I was so shocked.
The next thing, My principal sent for me asking me why I caned the boy. I told him what he did and showed him the letter. He was shocked. As we were talking, the boys mother called and was shouting on the phone saying she will deal with me for beating her child. In her words...
"Why did that teacher beat my Son. What did he do?...And so?...Is that what my self and my husband are paying over N350K as School fees per term for. It's either, u sack that teacher or I withdraw all my children from that school."
My Principal explained to her what her son did yet she kept on ranting on the phone even after my principal sent her the Erotic Note via WhatsApp.

After an hour, a driver came to pick up the boy around 1pm. He didn't even stay till close of school today which was 3 pm.
My Principal then warned me seriously that from today hence forth, even if I catch students misbehaving or even having sex with themselves, I should pretend as if I didn't see them.

According to him, he said he needs the school fees they are bringing to the School.
I just got home now but I'm so pissed and angry. Right now, I'm done with teaching. I'm not going there tomorrow. It's getting too much.
Parents don't train their children well and when teachers do the job for them, they fight us and school owners support them all because of MONEY.

My co-teacher always says to me....
"Bro, calm down. School owners don't care about the wellbeing of the students. School is a business and they must make Profit. If you get in their way of getting money from parents too much, they sack u immediately. That's the truth. School is a Business. They are Entrepreneurs"...
I'm not surprised why there is high rate of Criminal behaviour among youths in the society today.
Charity begins at home.
Children are spoiling everyday under the noses of their parents yet their parents don't stop or discipline them. It is sad.
If you don't discipline them now, is it when they enter University you will start what you should have done years ago

Even when u want to drill borehole to provide your own water, the government that supposed to provide this water will send their agents to come and collect tax from you for trying to drill borehole. After paying for the initial tax, you will continue to pay tax every year for owning borehole in your premises. What a useless country.

chatinent:
The product of the over expensive school fees.

Appreciate good thing so that God will also bless you to have one.
Your Federal Government, State Government and even Local Governments collected collected all manner of tax and VAT, borrowed money from IMF even from China and other countries and they couldn't build anything close to what that man has built.
I hate bitter souls.

Do u need all these details in an official letter of resignation?
Officially, she is not making any sense.
This may deny her another opportunity to get job or appointment elsewhere.
Why not just say you are resigning on personal issues.
Then go to the governor and explain to him orally the details if u think he needs to know.

The secret of the Igbo is the Ikenga. The Ikenga is the spirit of individualism, industry, progress and self-determination or independence. In the past, many Igbo men had a personal god called the Ikenga. It was a ram-horned wooden effigy which many Igbo men communed with before they set out for the day’s work. It was the spirit of Ikenga that led the Igbo man in his decisions throughout his life. It was the Ikenga that pushed the Igbo man to move beyond his confines out into the wide world with the sole aim of conquering and mastering anywhere he found himself. The Ikenga makes the Igbo man abhor the slavery of his spirit. The Ikenga makes the Igbo man abhor the subjugation of his spirit. The Ikenga led every Igbo man in the past. The Ikenga is spiritually leading every man with Igbo blood today, whether he knows it or not….
Throughout the seventeenth and eighteenth century, the only ethnic group in black Africa which the white slave masters were very uncomfortable with was the Igbo. Having Igbo slaves was like pouring water in a basket. The Igbo slaves almost always rebelled against their white masters. They would jump out of the ships transporting them across the Atlantic Ocean. They would quickly master the way the white man turned the keys to remove their chains and bring them out to the deck to get some sunshine. While getting sunlight, they would kill the white men, free themselves and try to escape the vastness of the ocean, save for the retorting maxim guns of dangerous pirate ships looking for such loose, wandering and rudderless ships.

Igbo slaves were brought to Savannah, Georgia to be auctioned off as slaves. Two families from St. Simons Island, Georgia, purchased these slaves and had them shipped to the Island on a ship named Morovia. The Igbo slaves rebelled. The captain's own slave was the first to commit suicide by drowning in Dunbar Creek. Then an Igbo chief who had been captured into slavery along with others began to chant, “The Sea brought me and the Sea will bring me home”. There was no questioning the chief's decisions. Other Igbo slaves began to chant together, “Omambala kamu jiri bia, omambala kamu ga eji la”. Chained one to the other, they came into port and were led toward the dock. But, instead of walking onto the bank into a life of slavery, they all turned and followed their chief into the depths of Dunbar Creek and about 75 of them got drowned. The place is called “Eboe Landing (Igbo Landing)” to this day.

The only country full of black slaves that rebelled successfully was Haiti. The black slaves in this country chased outall the white slave masters, killing many of them. The ethnic group that organized and strategically led the revolt was the Igbo. In fact, today, Igbo songs and culture is felt everywhere in Haiti. There is a Haitian song popular in Haiti today, It goes, Igbo Granmoun O (The Igbos are their own authority), lakay Igbo (In the land of Igbos), Igbo Granmoun O (The Ibos are their own authority). “Lakay Igbo” seemed to be corrupted from “ala nke Igbo”. So resentful were the Igbo people of taking orders, that Igbo slaves in Haiti and throughout the Americas had a higher suicide rate than other Africans. Many Igbo slaves bought their freedom and became very well respected in America and elsewhere. Sometimes, if they did not succeed, their direct children did and became known worldwide. I hope you have heard of names like Olaudah Equiano (first black African former slave to have written and published an autobiography in modern print in 1789, regarded as the true beginning of modern African literature), Africanus Horton (father of modern African political thought and the first modern African political thinker to openly campaign for self-government for the West African colonies in the 1860s!), Edward Wilmot Blyden (regarded widely as the “father of Pan-Africanism” and one of the first people to articulate a notion of “African Personality” and the uniqueness of “African race” in the 1880!)? Did you notice the fire of self-determination in these people I mentioned? The Ikenga is that powerful.

By 1857, the slave trade was already being crushed by the British Slave Trade Act of 1807. In 1857, the ship, Dayspring, anchored at Onitsha. On board was Dr. Baikie (whose name is now synonymous with any white man in the view of the average Igbo). With him was Reverend Samuel Ajayi Crowther (a freed Yoruba slave) and Reverend J.C. Taylor (a freed Igbo slave). With them were a group of catechists. The seed of western education was brought to Igbo land that year by these people. In fact, Reverend Taylor was left behind to teach the indigenous Igbo the mystery of western education. By this time, many indigenous Yoruba people had gone deeper in western education, far more than the indigenous Igbo. This is because of the early encounter of the indigenous Yoruba with western education through the coast of Lagos where many white people and freed slaves from all over the world flourished. While the indigenous Igbo were still learning the mystery of education, the Yoruba had their first graduate in 1875 (Dr. Nathaniel King). The British were not comfortable with finding so many educated Yoruba in Lagos at this time. Well, not long after the indigenous Igbo came into contact with western education, they became so enamored of it that the Ikenga led them to have unimaginable grasp of it. The sudden accelerated rise of the Igbo in their acquisition of western education was shuddering. Coming late to western education (the first graduate was Dr. Nnamdi Azikiwe in 1930), they soon overtook the Ibibio and nearly the Yoruba. This baffled the Yoruba and irked the Hausa. The Igbo were inclined toward American horizontal education. With scholarships won by Zik for Nwafor Orizu and other seven “Argonauts”, a new era began. Dr. Orizu was later to win 431 American scholarships which he did not limit to his Igbo people, but gave to any ready African student. The American type of education the Igbo was acquiring made the Colonial British very displeased. But the seed had been sown. The Ikenga was boiling for more of the new knowledge. By the late 1930s, according to Schwartz, there were more Igbos than Yorubas at most of the important Nigerian schools. It followed that the Igbo competed for jobs that the Yorubas had held exclusively for over three decades. The Yoruba began to express fears of Igbo domination. By 1948, the resentment was palpable. In the words of Mariam Ikejiani-Clark, "It was this contending situation between the Yorubas and the Ibos which led to ethnic hostility and distrust amongst them that made it very difficult eventually for the two parties to form a coalition government at the federal level". Although academic environments were cosmopolitan, the academic Yoruba was still not at ease with the newly educated Igbo.

Shortly before Independence, an Igbo, Prof. Kenneth Dike, was appointed Vice Principal of the University College, Ibadan, then Principal of the University College, and later, after Independence, he became the first indigenous Vice Chancellor of the University of Ibadan. Another Igbo, Prof. Eni Njoku became Vice Chancellor of the University of Lagos. The political tension in Nigeria in the early 1960’s brought ethnic sentiments to the fore and some Yoruba devised an intrigue and edged out Njoku who returned to the east to head the University of Nigeria, Nsukka. Prof. Kenneth Dike was fed up too with misinterpretations of his sincere motives in his leadership style. After a tiresome court case with the Registrar of the University, he took an accumulated leave and by the time he was due to return, it was no longer save for an Igbo at Ibadan. He moved to the east with his family.

The Ikenga had also begun to boil for the independence of Nigeria. The Igbo made up a dominant part of the pioneer renowned nationalists who fought for the independence of Nigeria from Britain. The role of Dr. Nnamdi Azikiwe from 1937 to 1960 is well documented in history. Aside Herbert Macaulay who was limited to Lagos except for 1947, Azikiwe was indisputably the front man in the fight for independence in a nationwide scale. The other well-known nationalists were Mazi Mbonu Ojike (he published three books within three years while studying in America), Dr. A.A. Nwafor Orizu, Kingsley Mbadiwe (moved a motion in parliament that led to the establishment of the Central Bank of Nigeria), Oged Macaulay, Mallam Habib Raji Abdalla, Osita Agwuna, Mokwugwo Okoye, Chief MCK Ajuluchukwu, Chief Fred Anyiam, Chief Mbazulike Iwuchukwu Amaechi, Increase Coker, Ebun Adesioye, Mr. AJ Marinho, Green Mbadiwe, Eni Njoku, Alhaji S.O. Gbadamosi, H.O. Davies, Bode Thomas, A.K. Blankson, Kola Balogun, Abiodun Aloba, Harry Nwana, Wogu Ananaba, Ikenna Nzimiro, Za’ad Zungur, Okechukwu Ikejiani, Jack Seaboy, T.O.S. Benson, Hon. Timothy Naakuru Paul Birabi, Chief Dennis Osadebay, and Michael Okpara. What I want to show is obvious. Most of them were of the Zikist Movement. The secret was the Ikenga.

When independence arrived, the Igbos took over many civil jobs in the north. This created resentment and indirectly led to repeated killing of the Igbo by the Hausa in the north. It was the spirit of Ikenga that led the Igbo to flourish in places that were not their homeland. This brought them trouble. The real reason for the Nigerian Civil War which was fought between the Igbo and the rest of Nigeria from 1967-1970 was the irrepressible spirit of the Igbo. The average Igbo leader is not comfortable playing second fiddle in any political structure. This character in Azikiwe brought him confrontations with others. This character in Ojukwu (first graduate in the Nigerian Army) made him uncomfortable to accept authority from Gowon whom he considered his junior. This character led to secession….
The war showed the strength of Ikenga in very mysterious ways. Within three years and under unbelievable conditions, Igbo scientists invented rocket bombs and guns, produced cream, soap, mortar tank, devised and built portable oil refineries which produced gasoline with the heat of wood fires, invented mortars from oil drilling equipment, and soap, matches, and gin from available resources etc.
After the war, these efforts led to the establishment of PRODA.

After the war also, most of the Igbo were given twenty pounds each. Within ten years, many of them were millionaires again! Ikenga….
Today, many Nigerians who became firsts in their chosen careers are Igbos. The first President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria was Dr. Nnamdi Azikiwe. The first Nigerian PhD in radio astronomy was Prof. Samuel Okoye. The first Nigerian PhD in Nuclear Physics is Prof. Frank Ndili. The most world-renowned Nigerian mathematician was Prof. Chike Obi. The first PhD (History) from a Nigerian university, was Prof. Adiele Afigbo. The first Nigerian physicist that has been nominated three times for Nobel Prize in Physics is Prof. Alex Animalu. The first Nigerian scientist to be nominated four times is Gabriel Oyibo! The first Nigerian Professor of Statistics is Chimamanda Adichie’s father, Prof. James Adichie. The first Nigerian PhD in Mechanical Engineering was Prof. Gordian Ezekwe. The mother of modern African literature and the first African woman novelist to be published in the English language in Britain was Flora Nwapa. The acknowledged father of modern African literature whose work, “Things Fall Apart” is the only African novel that has been translated into many world languages was Prof. Chinua Achebe. The list goes on…

The Ikenga does not even spare Igbo institutions. The first open heart surgical operation in Nigeria and sub-Saharan Africa was undertaken in 1974 at the University of Nigeria Teaching Hospital (UNTH) Enugu. The University Teaching Hospital also achieved the first successful delivery of quintuplets in Nigeria by caesarean section. This was followed by the first and second successful separations of Siamese twins by Igbo doctors in the hospital. The first indigenous and autonomous University in Nigeria is the University of Nigeria, Nsukka….

pusskhole:
Even though we know the thing na cruise, look at the reasoning of a typical 9ja boi... smh

Point of correction: I'm not a boy. I'm a full fledged man wt grown up Children.
Now back to our topic,
Pls outside what I mentioned about money on my comment, can you tell me other reasons you make money for and want to make more and more money?

You gat ur money and think you can get any pussy u want. Women gat their damn pussy and beliv dey can use it to make as much money as they want. Give them money and get their pussy. No one should criticize the other.

These are 9jabet boys.
When u are rich, even women cannot make u poor.
Any man that says or agrees that giving to a woman will make him poor means that he has not gotten money and should concentrate more in making money than going after women.
Ur money without women
Good wine and food
helping the needy
is complete waste.

He talks big, throws big names around and oh I have never been with someone as intentional in his conversations as Dammy. He carefully selects his words but of course with time you will soon discover that those are empty words that holds no meaning to him. He only said those things to make you feel good while you give him more money either for food or drinks or even transport as he is always broke and in your mindseye you will think and even thank God that you finally found The One.

The highlighted line was what gave her that greenlight to submit all (Cash and Kpekus) to the guy, thinking that God had sent her a very loving, caring and handsome husband.

Na dat one dey pain am pass.

Even with this level of confusion within the government officials, do u think they will be able to correctly know the people that correctly register this nonsense NIN.

Don't be surprised that they will even go ahead to block those people that suffered under the sun and rain to do the registration while most people that don't even care about the registration will have their line intact.

Bunch of confused government.

That is the effect of bad planning or not planning for your future.
The man was wasting his time while in active duty drinking and chasing women around and wasting his money.
He forgot to build a house for himself and his family.
Now, he has no place to go.
If he has his own house, will he allow someone to insult him over that piece of stinking dilapidated structure that even my dogs will be unhappy to step inside.
Policemen with their cursed money.

20years after retirement, u are still living in their. U no even get shame.

The easiness at which ppl do kill themselves these days ehnnn, I don't understand oooo.
Yeah....sometimes, some situations will come that may make u think of disappearing from the face of this earth, but if u have a good rooted family upbringing, u will never try suicide.

Watch NatGeo Wild, you will get so scared of many tiny tiny creatures.
Most of these tiny creatures we overlook are really dangerous.

nyiamfrank:
The background picture looks like flowers but I see a different thing. Do you see what I see?

P inside V

Jaazz:
By Arrewa,

Dear igbo mod.
When your people insult and castigate my tribe I don't complain or even report cos I know that the moderators would
never do anything about that.

Why is nairaland making it normal to stereotype and castigate the whole of Northern Nigeria but will never tolerate that against the East??

Dear seun, let's assume you have strong hatred for the north.

Don't you know we have thousands of Christians and Atheist here in the north?

We have thousands of Northerners here on Nairaland who are mostly silent readers.

They don't complain or insult back doesn't mean that they are not here.

This igbo mod has been following me deleting my comments that criticize the east.

I sometimes complain but nothing is being done about that.

Now he decided to ban and silent me for absolutely no reason.

Seun nairaland is supposed to carry ever tribe, region, religion along.

Not only the the north... Other regions and tribes get attacked too.

So on Nairaland only the Igbos have the monopoly of bigotry and tribalism.

I can never be silenced!! I will never stop standing tall for my region.

My only crime is defending the north against stereotypes from people who their only aim is to paint her black, castigate and stereotype her as their region is doing any better.

Seun I need to be unban and publicly be apologized to!!

Cos I am not going to take this ban lightly...!!

We have more than a thousand of Ipob users spreading hate and insulting people with full impunity here on Nairaland.

But the only threat to the Igbo mod is Arrewa.

This is the greatest hight of injustice and hypocrisy!

The only me standing tall for my region is who they want to bring down.

Dear seun, Posterity will have it that Nairaland is Anti Northern Nigeria.

Imagine banning me for defending my Heritage, my region and my people from the Igbos who their only aim is castigate and insult us even for no reason.

Dear seun, The worst investment ever is investing in hate.

It is a total waste of time, energy and resources. It makes the person you hate stronger and eventually destroys you.

These people like to fight too much. Why do u guys always think that someone is against u at all times.
You guys cannot take a quarter of what u dish out.
Every tribe has had her fair dose of marginalization here and beyond. Stop carrying urs on head as if it is dandruff.
You said ur posts are deleted when u chose to criticize the East. What kind of criticism have u bn putting up?
If the criticism is anti-tribe, don't expect it to dwell here. It must be deleted.

I also read where u threatened Seun that you will never take ur ban lightly. That part really cracked me. That reminds me of Adamu Garba's threat to Twitter CEO, Jack. Hahahahahahahaha.
These guys think and behave alike.
Well, I will like to know when u take action against Seun on the ban by one of his moderators. Hahahahahaha.

Guy, be calming down small small. This is someone's platform. Even that ur tribe u think that you are trying to defend, dem no send u.

An Igbo adage will ask: "Gini ka ana ebe ejiri bebiri mkpuru aka"
Literally means: "What were you cutting that led to cutting off the finger tip"

So what was a lady discussing wt a masquerade that led to converting the masquerade?
Masquerades don't have time to discuss wt people unless his flute man or his jazz man.
So how come it has the time to discuss wt a woman for that matter to a point she started to preach to it.

Arrangee conversion.

Mynd44:
Lets pause ooo. What did this guy do wrong?

There is no evidence that the company has a policy preventing sexual relationships among staff
He did not assault her
He did not use his office to threaten her into sex so what exactly did he do?

I won't be shocked if the bank sacks him as he has brought their name into the mud but if he did anything ethically wrong? Nope.

If anyone did wrong, it is the cheating wife. She was the one who swore an oath to her husband and cheated (yes, I will say the same thing about side chicks and married men)

Most times, logic and too much education make us sound unreasonable.
Yeah, he may not have broken any written law of the Banking industry.
In the same hand, he did broke the law of the firm engaging in activity that may bring disrepute to the firm. He broke ethical code.

Workplace Romance may lead to favoritism. It can also create a hostile environment. It can affect productivity. by the time they finished probing him, they may find out that he may have broken one or two of these ethical codes.
The man and that woman were too careless and stup1d.

Morally, the man and his mistress messed up big time. Finally, it's the Bank Boss that will get the heaviest hit. The woman already made up her mind on what she wanted to do. She used her Boss. She got all she wanted. Relocate and destroyed everything by telling her husband the secret thing. She was tired of her own marriage.

Summarily, the man is guilty of both ethical and moral crime.

Shebi una don start again this year.
Una no go shut una mouth and do what you can do instead of this chochocho and at the end nothing go still happen.

Empty promises.

Ben Bruce, go and look for another job to do.
There is no need for that your bringing together.
Water and oil don't mix.
Light and darkness can never share one room.
So, to hell wt ur bringing together.
Or do u plan to make Buhari to pay Kukah off to shut up?

The Eastern States Rock.

Let them carry their organized insecurity remain for their sides ooo.

Eastern Security Network (ESN) always on the watch. Any attempt, they strike.

Whoever that picked 25th December as the day Christ was born must have bn led the Spirit of God Almighty.
I have taken my time to observe this.
Most times, during the Ember months that we should experience harmattan, you may notice that the harmattan may not come. There may be very hot weather. Once it is 24th December, the weather will become a bit calm. In the midnight of that 24th, the harmattan will come in full force.

I have bn trying to explain this.

Uyi168:
.
I understand.
If u meant old layers, yes, I've bought it before

Old layers are quite different from fairly used chicken.

Uyi168:
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Fairly used as how

Does it mean that you've never bought fairly used chicken before?

Uyi168:
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Old layers I guess..
Because, u nor go see correct broilers at that price.

Enjoy.

Nooo....they are fairly used chicken.

iamloyalty:
Which good husband? person dey take una catch cruise. Check his previous thread he claimed to be married

Post the previous thread here or the link.
Claiming he was married does not have anything to do with this.
After all the wife he claimed he is married to may even be the one that brought this case out.
He may have even settled in his heart that he will settle with that lady thereby living like a married man.

Go through that guy's response to his girlfriend's previous post and u will see maturity in that response.
Some people would have come and and start telling us about all the bad things the lady has bn doing.
Trying to mess her up since she has come online to say those things about him.
He rather chose to explain the situation without attacking the lady.
Doesn't that look matured to u.

No check most of our celebrities that have marriage issues and read what each says about each partner and compare them wt this guy's method of handling his own issue.

Lovethaa:
Earlier thread https://www.nairaland.com/6326669/think-boyfriend-fetish

Dear Valenciabaddie

We met at House on the rock lekki which is a petecostal church and after we got closer I revealed to you that my parents are celestial and I do go to thier church once in a while to which you answered "No problem "..

You even offered to follow me to the church whenever they have special programs and im invited.

Everyone knows that white garment churches makes use of white candles which I have explained to you that it has nothing to do with being fetish

Now the issue of this black soap ,you know very well that my sister is a cosmetologist, and she has been the one you go to for your cream, soap e.t.c since you met me

I took a friend to her shop so she can help her with a job and before I left she suggested I take Allafia black soap with me (Google that )
Recommending it for great skin glow
She gave me the soap and urged me to use it every night before I sleep for the first 7 days for effective results.


Last week Friday u were around and I forgot about the soap totally , by the time I remembered it was too late at night but I still rushed to the bath to make use of it ...

Then the next morning around 4am you're telling me you have to go home 'mmediately?.. I asked you why the sudden change of mind when you already told me you will be spending the week but u never answered, I was forced to drive u back home so early in the morning and I kept asking u if there was anything and u said no problem..


And since then u hardly reply my text or return my calls,I didn't pay attention to it cos I thought u are going through something and you'l let me know when you're better .

Only for me to read your post on Nairaland 3 days after... saying I'm too spiritual and I'm using black soap to bath at a specific time.

The fact that you couldn't talk about this with me was what annoyed me ,so u need public opinion to dictate your private life ??
I came to your house almost immediately only to find that you've told your sister and friend everything that was suppose to be between me and you

So its now you know that a jobless person should not be sending 100k to a woman ,but when I sent it u did not question me the source or try to return the money ,instead u showered me with thanks .

If u ask for money and I couldn't give you'll start complaining You asked I gave still problem. ...
It's your life anyways but pls stop bringing my name/story up on your post or with your friends and family

Because it's obvious you don't understand who you claim to be dating.., at 25 you're still clueless about life ..

you gave your friends who are obviously jealous of your relationship an avenue to decieve you ...


Now strange people coming to my mentions to say I'm a ritualist ..wow !!..
Yes I smashed your phone because Its from my ritual money ..very annoying ..



Anyways

I apologise for Everything...

This will be the first / last time I talk about this again...

See maturity. I love this response. The diction and the the tone.
This is rare maturity. Only few can display this.
That lady has lost a very good husband.

My brother, keep moving ahead. God just saved you from the hands of someone that would've make ur life difficult in future.
There is no line of your response that I doubt.
I may not be there but I believe all you wrote here.
Better days for you bro.

Two things are involved here.

1....May be God Almighty want you to serve Him totally may be as an Evangelist. You will keep encountering problems that will push u into asking questions on what is really happening to/in your life till u get the right answer which is serve you God Lord in heaven.

2. May be ur father or grandfather entered into covenant wt ur village god to serve him. The god has the powers to frustrate ur life until u comes out to fulfill ur father's or grandfather's covenant. You can overcome this by submitting to the Supreme power(God in heaven)

SPLENDID25:
voltage please...abi na lay man language you dey use to make am understand ne?lol

Hahahahahha....you know we are not on technical platform. We try to communicate wt terminology that all will grab.
All the same thanks bro.