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Mercisharelove:
There's this my longtime addiction which I finally dropped, wow, I feel brand new.

Remember we all are addicted to one thing or the other, it could be positive addiction or the other.

I feel strong, renewed and focused now.

How about you??

askn u for punnnnnny....and u dint respond like lady but u responded cussin llke lady thug!!

Datboredberry:
I have discussed this controversial topic with many men... Asked them this question, 'can men be rape victims?'...

I've noticed that the majority of men do NOT think so... Especially those in Nigeria...

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Rape victims who are boys:

Men agree on the following paragraphs

The suspects are often older men...These boys are mostly sodomized (forceful anal penetrative sex)... Their cases are usually taken seriously... The only difficulty is getting boys who are victims of sexual abuse to report their molesters... Blackmail, threats...etc...

Cases of older women raping boys, not so popular... Psychological trauma rather... Still awful!

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Rape victims who are men (men on men)
Popular opinions by men

1. Men can't be sexual victims of other men...

2. Men can always defend themselves...

3. Sexual abuse of a man by another man is humiliating...

4. Men who are raped usually deserved it...
[The acted in a certain way that drew the
attention of their molesters]

5. Men who are raped lose their 'masculinity'...

6. It's better to not report such cases... So the victim can retain his dignity... And avoid a lifetime of stigmatisation...

7. Men who have been raped by men are gays...


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Rape victims who are men (women on men)
Popular opinions by men

1. Women can't rape men... period!

2. Women can't rape men because women are the weaker sex...

3. Women can't rape men because women are smaller and fragile...

4. Women can't rape men because rape victims were placed, during their ordeal, in the position of submission... Something that's above men...

5. Men can't be raped because men like sex and would gladly welcome it, even without their consent...

6. Since women can't sexually penetrate men, they can't rape them...

7. Men should NEVER report cases of sexual abuse, especially of the abuser was a woman...

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Just some of the most popular opinions I received... It's all Toxic Masculinity...

But it seems most men would willingly sacrifice themselves for it...

They would rather pretend to be above abuse just so they seem macho...

Men tell themselves to 'man up'... They say 'men don't cry'... 'Men can't be raped'... Etc...

When masculinity is self-sabotaging...

Siofra try to rape me twise last b4 M.O.D finaly ban her for harasment
Nmezor make one atempt
That Hisduchess ting also tryed one atempt
who else?...thinking..yes, Hintona try one atempt..
..and Meobizy..she almost trick me

Datboredberry:
I have discussed this controversial topic with many men... Asked them this question, 'can men be rape victims?'...

I've noticed that the majority of men do NOT think so... Especially those in Nigeria...

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Rape victims who are boys:

Men agree on the following paragraphs

The suspects are often older men...These boys are mostly sodomized (forceful anal penetrative sex)... Their cases are usually taken seriously... The only difficulty is getting boys who are victims of sexual abuse to report their molesters... Blackmail, threats...etc...

Cases of older women raping boys, not so popular... Psychological trauma rather... Still awful!

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Rape victims who are men (men on men)
Popular opinions by men

1. Men can't be sexual victims of other men...

2. Men can always defend themselves...

3. Sexual abuse of a man by another man is humiliating...

4. Men who are raped usually deserved it...
[The acted in a certain way that drew the
attention of their molesters]

5. Men who are raped lose their 'masculinity'...

6. It's better to not report such cases... So the victim can retain his dignity... And avoid a lifetime of stigmatisation...

7. Men who have been raped by men are gays...


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Rape victims who are men (women on men)
Popular opinions by men

1. Women can't rape men... period!

2. Women can't rape men because women are the weaker sex...

3. Women can't rape men because women are smaller and fragile...

4. Women can't rape men because rape victims were placed, during their ordeal, in the position of submission... Something that's above men...

5. Men can't be raped because men like sex and would gladly welcome it, even without their consent...

6. Since women can't sexually penetrate men, they can't rape them...

7. Men should NEVER report cases of sexual abuse, especially of the abuser was a woman...

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Just some of the most popular opinions I received... It's all Toxic Masculinity...

But it seems most men would willingly sacrifice themselves for it...

They would rather pretend to be above abuse just so they seem macho...

Men tell themselves to 'man up'... They say 'men don't cry'... 'Men can't be raped'... Etc...

When masculinity is self-sabotaging...

steveneche:
Am just curious. With the current state of economy, as a lady, can you marry a guy whose salary is not up to 50k monthly?

Candid opinion please!

viviangist:
PHOTO NEWS: Security operatives arrest suspected looters at an Abuja shopping mall, Next Cash'N Carry, which was gutted by fire earlier on Sunday.

Shared By: ILLIKANNU DONALD CHUKWUMA

Source: https://web.facebook.com/LeadershipNGA/photos/pcb.5138126892887959/5138125352888113

Phillipson02:
A gay scammer has scammed my brother on nairaland with online job shit .But he can't recolate his/her name!
Princess Amatarasha and koyyes please come and call them out this is serious

heniford2:
if this makes yo feel happy Rock it pal just get yoself in order okey.

heniford2:
yo! Am not ur nigger and yo using two monk to reply me is bullshit, thegidredpiller not my pal have not seen the dude buh i feel what his teaching if it's wrong alot of people here will call him out buh not so i only see female speaking bad about him with no reason to back it up or counter his argument am done trying to measure up dick with u when yo have pussy between yo two legs go play with yo mate, Avoid me we an't in Da same pussy hunting league am way far above yo. Hey stay safe! Little one

son..calm down
.i dint say yor head is not really really corrrect...i say yor head may not be correct right now.(they not the same)......pls take it has a compliment!!(no oofenese)

heniford2:
what on earth should i want to know the brat that lick female Ass hey! Yo Stop mentioning me regards to this again. We have men and shemen.

My niggggga...bro i dont meanto sound rudes but we belif when was born inside dog cage becuz of hospital shotage......
..siofra accidentaly remove yor tiny brain & install it inside Thegidredpiller premature triangle head (juss sayin) ..no oofenesece!

mediainc:
Empty barrels always make loud noise, you are one of the lazy youth Buhari is talking about...mugu, LovePeddler wipped.

DesChyko:
JESUSBOIY

heniford2:
You type like ur insecure, this dude is trying his best to expose u guys and make man to man up why not create urs and canta his own with fact lets see how it goes

Johndagr8t:
'Dirty girl why don't you go and treat your pussy infection, instead of coming here to spit dust!!

#sextool
#farmtool
#bastardurpapa

Johndagr8t:
your mum families are sick in the head

Botking:
Comrade but what is so special about lite skin?

Correction
Lightskin womens & halfcast womens are 30 milllion time betttter & preeety sir..excet for dakskin womens wit big yansh however......if u cant aford them..u simply stay in yor lane!!(no oofenese)

benjackugo:
Desmond Elliot Celebrates 18th Wedding Anniversary With His Wife, Victoria (Photo)

Nigerian lawmaker and Nollywood actor, Desmond Elliot took to his Instagram handle to celebrate 18th wedding anniversary with his wife, Victoria, today 26th December 2021, IgbereTV reports.

He shared a loved-up photo of himself and his wife with caption;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CX8HtPpoZpm/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Vicky on her part also shared loved-up photos which she captioned;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CX8BrDeD92L/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

benjackugo:
Desmond Elliot Celebrates 18th Wedding Anniversary With His Wife, Victoria (Photo)

Nigerian lawmaker and Nollywood actor, Desmond Elliot took to his Instagram handle to celebrate 18th wedding anniversary with his wife, Victoria, today 26th December 2021, IgbereTV reports.

He shared a loved-up photo of himself and his wife with caption;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CX8HtPpoZpm/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Vicky on her part also shared loved-up photos which she captioned;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CX8BrDeD92L/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

siofra:
Simp TheGidredpiller!!

*Puke

*Spits

*Vomits

TheGidredpiller is a actualy a punnkazzzz lowlife primary6 edukated ilitarate seni-refugee hungry looookin sexxx starve unedocated lonely self-wannnnnking bored student......& yesss u are write!!!(((CINGRATS & WELL DONE SENSIBLE BABE))))

Lumidee007:
I don't know where to post this, whether to post on a Romance or Crime forum.

I'm chilling with some of my guys now and I just received a call from home that one ASP is looking for me I'm my house and I spoke with the police only to tell me that I was arrested by my Ex girlfriend for an undisclosed issue which they invited me to their station which is not too far from where I live... I laughed and I called home that I'm going to report to the station and there is only one thing she can arrest me for which is fraud which I am not guilty of with explanations. But before I do that here, let me go to the station now and check what's happening. Any alternative idea?

Lumidee007:
I don't know where to post this, whether to post on a Romance or Crime forum.

I'm chilling with some of my guys now and I just received a call from home that one ASP is looking for me I'm my house and I spoke with the police only to tell me that I was arrested by my Ex girlfriend for an undisclosed issue which they invited me to their station which is not too far from where I live... I laughed and I called home that I'm going to report to the station and there is only one thing she can arrest me for which is fraud which I am not guilty of with explanations. But before I do that here, let me go to the station now and check what's happening. Any alternative idea?

bendaniel1616:
It's hard to see a loyal woman this days , but the one I came accross that is 80% loyal which is still okay , she is 6 years older than I, but have a small stature, short but from her face you will know she is old , I'm just 34, we just met about 3 months now, and she and her sisters are rushing us to get married, m just confused concerning the age gap, and don't know how to go about it , though I found out later , she told me she was 30 when we met, but she later convessed after a month . Pls advice no insult pls .

Kolena:
He can never be replaced. Miss you so much.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hv3A5A54LLY

Kolena:
He can never be replaced. Miss you so much.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hv3A5A54LLY

TeddyJammy:
Oga ya disturbin the neiqhbourhood.. Stop makin noise

siofra:
So, does she work in an abbatoir?

missimelda01:
Are you high?

Vinnie2000:
2021 is Gradually drawing to a Close and From the Naija Music sector, There has been Lots of songs throughout the Year!
Great Songs, Average songs, Overhyped songs and all dat.
But There are some Everyone would agree Stands out from others!
These are the Hit Songs of 2021! They are Most pple's Favourite!

Songs Like
*Bloody Samaritan by Ayra Starr.
*Alcohol by JoeBoy
*Feelings by Ladipoe ft Buju
*Big Thugs Boys by AV
*Mona lisa by Lojay
*Kilometre by BurnaBoy
*Cumming by Naira Marley ft Buswiwa
*Essence by Wizkid ft Tems
*Running by Chike ft Simi

For me, My Favourite is Blingz by Blaqbonez ft Buju and Amarae!
The Song is so Nice to listen to and the 3 Artistes got their lyrics and Delivery perfectly Right!

SO WHAT'S YOURS?


Thanks!

missimelda01:
For some weird reason I love this photo

Definitely recreating this with someone’s son very soon

Meanwhile married people, show us your Christmas pajamas/sweater photos

missimelda01:
For some weird reason I love this photo

Definitely recreating this with someone’s son very soon

Meanwhile married people, show us your Christmas pajamas/sweater photos

Datboredberry:
Lol! You're thread is perfect!

It just seems like an oyibo thing...

Nigerian celebs wore p-jays though...

The Christmas was tough... Dry af!

But maybe a few Nairalanders felt the Christmas spirit...