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hotwax:
My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.

She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle

The Problem

Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too.
I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.

She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in.
She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).

As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.

Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with.
She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.

She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.

Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.

I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.

It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.

Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.

“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.

The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.

hotwax:
My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.

She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle

The Problem

Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too.
I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.

She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in.
She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).

As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.

Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with.
She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.

She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.

Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.

I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.

It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.

Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.

“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.

The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.

siofra:
Pumpumking is a strong mkpummiri addict. He can't do without it for two minutes.

His dealer is a very popular nairaland redpiller known for his stupidity. I'll not mention his name but there is "l" in his name.

TheKingsmann:
Leave the pumpumking aka mrcork to me, I will make sure he gets banned, the troll keeps going around disrespecting people and using vulgar words on people

TheKingsmann:
Leave the pumpumking aka mrcork to me, I will make sure he gets banned, the troll keeps going around disrespecting people and using vulgar words on people

LiberatedGirl:
My Boyfriend is My Best Friend. He is always Supporting me Emotionally and gives me amazing advice. He even told me to join Nairaland, I'm totally anti - social so he had to persuade me to join Nairaland. He reads all my comments and posts, I think they turn him on. It's like i turn him on on so many levels. He will be turned on I'm saying I turn him on. I understand how he loves me, it's like how a mother loves her child and everything the child does excites her or makes her happy. I've never fronted for him or played hard to get iv just being myself. I'm respectful to him because I'm grateful for his love and concern for me. I don't understand why Women play games with men who love them. It's best to just be yourself, polite and friendly to a man who loves you. Love is hard to find and when you find it you better behave so that you're not the one who spoils it. I'm at home thinking of my boyfriend. My boyfriend will soon read this !!!
Try converting your best friend into a lover. I'm a Convert.

LiberatedGirl:
My Boyfriend is My Best Friend. He is always Supporting me Emotionally and gives me amazing advice. He even told me to join Nairaland, I'm totally anti - social so he had to persuade me to join Nairaland. He reads all my comments and posts, I think they turn him on. It's like i turn him on on so many levels. He will be turned on I'm saying I turn him on. I understand how he loves me, it's like how a mother loves her child and everything the child does excites her or makes her happy. I've never fronted for him or played hard to get iv just being myself. I'm respectful to him because I'm grateful for his love and concern for me. I don't understand why Women play games with men who love them. It's best to just be yourself, polite and friendly to a man who loves you. Love is hard to find and when you find it you better behave so that you're not the one who spoils it. I'm at home thinking of my boyfriend. My boyfriend will soon read this !!!
Try converting your best friend into a lover. I'm a Convert.

HonNL:
SOURCE

Datboredberry:
I don't think there's more than a ten millionairers on this forum...

Yet, Nairaland can boast of the largest gathering of 'virgin hunters'...

So many men here are struggling...

Fluttering from the job/vacancy section to here, creating (or commenting) on threads bashing women who aren't virgins and exonerating those who are! Spamming threads with their account numbers! Advertising accounts on other social platforms for their fellow yahoo scums...

Graphic designers... Content writers... Property agents... Crypo-miners • • •Nearly every male Nairalander falls into one or more of the aforementioned categories...

Not dissing your hustle... One love!

But when these men particularly seek virgins... It's just weird...

Like, what makes you different from the others? What do you have to offer? What makes you worth a woman whose virginity to you is an added bonus?

If you're poor, kindly focus on alleviating yourself from poverty... ❤

Your quest to tear a hymen... It's not gonna help you the least bit... Especially if you aren't worthy of doing so...

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Virgins are very CHOOSY... They've saved themselves for mister PERFECT...

Ask yourself the question, "Am I in the position to want a virgin?"... "Am I worthy of deflowering a virgin?"... "Do I even deserve to be intimate with one?"...

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Other things that qualifies you to approach a virgin:

1. You are wealthy: you actually have something to offer instead of you unrealistic dreams...

2. You are a virgin...

3. A virgin genuinely cares for you: if she gives you the green light... Then you may approach her... Never otherwise!

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I'll add more after consulting with the chairlady of the Virgin Association of Nigeria...

Thanks!

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Ocholu:
Seun rule 2 & 3

Ocholu:
Seun rule 2 & 3

Gospelpreacher1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uOMpqYcYKl8

https://www.news18.com/amp/news/buzz/nasa-has-hired-a-priest-to-prepare-humans-for-aliens-4593494.html

dre11:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/12/dog-eats-drunk-herbalists-private-parts-in-calabar/


Pic: The late herbalist’s house.

Olamilekxy:
You can say whatever you want or call people like thegidredpiller or any redpiller on this forum whatever name you like but trust me those guys are enlighten some of us. They got it wrong at times but at least some of us have learn one or two things from them.


The below chat is chat between a guy and a girl from my hostel that are dating each other, the guy send me their conversation cos I'm close to the girl and he want me to tell him all the bad things I know about the girl, thank God I refused and told him the girl may later accept or reconcile with him and they will begin to see me as a RAT or bad person ( that kinda of thing)

And to my surprise they have reconcile cos I saw the guy posting pics of them outing together on Christmas day, I just pretend like I didn't see it.


What cause their fight is that the guy checked the girl phone and noticed the girl is talking to her ex back.


@Datboredberry I Read alot of your comment and notice you dont do girls supporting girls thing which is good and I'm giving a shout out to all the female using nairaland you're really trying. Ladies dont have a say when I joined nairaland but you girls have changed the narrative.

Nairaland is battlefield only the fittest survive.

Olamilekxy:
You can say whatever you want or call people like thegidredpiller or any redpiller on this forum whatever name you like but trust me those guys are enlighten some of us. They got it wrong at times but at least some of us have learn one or two things from them.


The below chat is chat between a guy and a girl from my hostel that are dating each other, the guy send me their conversation cos I'm close to the girl and he want me to tell him all the bad things I know about the girl, thank God I refused and told him the girl may later accept or reconcile with him and they will begin to see me as a RAT or bad person ( that kinda of thing)

And to my surprise they have reconcile cos I saw the guy posting pics of them outing together on Christmas day, I just pretend like I didn't see it.


What cause their fight is that the guy checked the girl phone and noticed the girl is talking to her ex back.


@Datboredberry I Read alot of your comment and notice you dont do girls supporting girls thing which is good and I'm giving a shout out to all the female using nairaland you're really trying. Ladies dont have a say when I joined nairaland but you girls have changed the narrative.

Nairaland is battlefield only the fittest survive.

TeddyJammy:
Whatever

Datboredberry:
Sorry...

TeddyJammy:
i didnt create dix thread to fiqht woman, i was only flexing my thumb with victor.

and if i create thread for woman! How that take consiqn u?

won't u mind ya own busness?. or u jux wanna simp? (no offence

TeddyJammy:
Why seun dey allow this numbskull's to dey enter NL Anyhow?


jux luukat wat diswan is sayin?


abeq pumpumswinq stop taking meth. . Is nt gud 4 ur body..

true2god:
Are you sane at all? Please visit a psychiatric home ASAP.

ahmthankgod:
You passed covid-19 oh not the latest version omigron

siofra:
Practice with your mother. Thank you sir

larryking540:
how much is that in dollars,,guy go hustle abeg ,

siofra:
Yes please. I'm jobless and broke

siofra:
I bet you didn't know Kanye dated a black woman

But like he said in his song And when you get on, he'll leave yo' ass for a white girl

Anyway, who's prettier? Kim or this girl whose name I don't know.

siofra:
I bet you didn't know Kanye dated a black woman

But like he said in his song And when you get on, he'll leave yo' ass for a white girl

Anyway, who's prettier? Kim or this girl whose name I don't know.

siofra:
Okay. Go and try with your wife at home.