You see all you've written sir,ask her how she would feel if you are doing the same thing with your siblings/parents too. How would the need at home be met??
On the other hand,its her money ko? But hmmmm... she should cultivate the habit to saaaaaave ooooh! Siblings matter no dey ever ever finish! See ehn,when you begin to have babies now,e no go continue to be like this oh.
I'm not saying she should not help her siblings and parents but Hun Hun Hun...!
I also think they know she's the type that cant say "NO" so they took the advantage of that. She's your wife,you know better how to make her come to terms with what you want.
One guy is currently blackmailing my female friend with her nude. Apparently, they had a video call, while on the call she was showing him her boobs, unknown to her the bastard was screen recording it. They stopped talking for a while, only for this guy to suddenly reappear again, called her & threatened to post her nudes on social media. He went as far as searching her profile on Facebook and threatening to post the video unless she travels to his city to do whatever he wants her to do.
I’m pissed at this girl cause she was stup*d enough to do this with someone but we can’t throw away the baby with the bathing water. I can’t post the chats here cause the bastard might be on this platform too. But he has been communicating with her with his phone number.
Please I need help on what to do. She’s confused & devastated already. Pls I need una help.
Ezendimmuo: I feel like hurting my ex I wanna hurt her so bad I wanna hurt her for everything she made me go through while we were together... She's older than me by a year... She's 26 and I am 25.. She's in her final year... I noticed she found it difficult talking about how many people she has been with... I noticed she was always on calls even when I was present demanding things from guys..even when I gave her everything I had I had to go through her phone.. She was flirting with other guys... denying she had a boyfriend... I also there was this married guy she was always going to see then... Whenever I objected... She'd turn it into a huge fight.. I'd just have to finally let her go see him... I found out that she has been fucking him and even had an abortion for him 3 times(according to the chat she had with the guy) This is someone that refuses my own advances because she is either tired or has headache o.. I went through her browser and also saw she has been researching about abortions as well She was complaining about serious stomach pain saying it's ulcer..it all started making sense When I confronted her.. She wasn't sorry... She was angry I went through her phone... The next morning.... She came and apologized.. I stupidly accepted her back... There is a particular guy I always see around her in her lodge.. I became suspicious and confided in people I trust in her lodge... One told me she was always sleeping over in the guys room.. The other stupid person I told when to tell her about it and she got angry?? Do you blame me?? She came into my life and made me insecure... I was having high bp anytime she doesn't pick her calls (most times, she will tell me she was with "a friend" I just had to end it all... For my mental health.. I still love her... that's the annoying part... I stalk her status... Today...she posted a picture with a tag "I need a hug"... That's how cheap she can get... I hate her for making me love her!!!! I know I'll get over her soon sha
Guys.. Don't ever let any lady take you for granted... You are the prize!!
^^^^story ..bro...go n watch blue mennn!! !(no oofeinse)
Ezendimmuo: I feel like hurting my ex I wanna hurt her so bad I wanna hurt her for everything she made me go through while we were together... She's older than me by a year... She's 26 and I am 25.. She's in her final year... I noticed she found it difficult talking about how many people she has been with... I noticed she was always on calls even when I was present demanding things from guys..even when I gave her everything I had I had to go through her phone.. She was flirting with other guys... denying she had a boyfriend... I also there was this married guy she was always going to see then... Whenever I objected... She'd turn it into a huge fight.. I'd just have to finally let her go see him... I found out that she has been fucking him and even had an abortion for him 3 times(according to the chat she had with the guy) This is someone that refuses my own advances because she is either tired or has headache o.. I went through her browser and also saw she has been researching about abortions as well She was complaining about serious stomach pain saying it's ulcer..it all started making sense When I confronted her.. She wasn't sorry... She was angry I went through her phone... The next morning.... She came and apologized.. I stupidly accepted her back... There is a particular guy I always see around her in her lodge.. I became suspicious and confided in people I trust in her lodge... One told me she was always sleeping over in the guys room.. The other stupid person I told when to tell her about it and she got angry?? Do you blame me?? She came into my life and made me insecure... I was having high bp anytime she doesn't pick her calls (most times, she will tell me she was with "a friend" I just had to end it all... For my mental health.. I still love her... that's the annoying part... I stalk her status... Today...she posted a picture with a tag "I need a hug"... That's how cheap she can get... I hate her for making me love her!!!! I know I'll get over her soon sha
Guys.. Don't ever let any lady take you for granted... You are the prize!!
ElBenny: I was craving bread & groundnut with Pepsi last night (it's good to east suffer man food sometimes though), so I went to the Kiosk close by.
I reside at Agip Estate, Mile 4, Port Harcourt.
Got the round bread for ₦170, I asked for groundnut and the old woman said, “My son, ₦50 groundnut no dey again oh. Na ₦100 I dey sell.”
I was absolutely shocked and lost for words. “This woman must be very greedy,” I said to myself. I declined and bought only the bread from her and visited the next Kiosk.
Got there, “Madam evening, ground nut dey .” I said.
“Yes but na ₦100,” she replied.
I said no word, left hurriedly, got home and was in agony.
I slept with a burdensome heart of sorrow; my heart wallowed in the deep of grief beyond the grasp of hope.
I woke up this morning, remembered the ordeal last night and shouted, “Jesus! What a life.” ��
bro am a londoner please & we hav cashuwnut, currey nut & so on.... ...which one is ground nut again please??(no oofeinse)
KristaPretty: Having gone through your profile, I have concluded that you are a big lousy illiterate who seeks attention. You reek like the bad economy of Nigeria, stupid acclaimed londonder. Only a pair of my shoe would feed your generation. You should be ashamed of yourself, nairaland indeed has brought too much familiarity to the extent that some who are to be used as footmat are same people who go around typing meaningless things and wanting to drag you to their shallow thinking level. No gigolo! You are not worth it. You actually should have been flushed down the toilet in a condom but you ended up here by a huge mistake.
Now go for people English lessons before you ever mention me again.
Riff-raff and low class citizen!
so say yor shoe pair will eat a generation...hwo?....so u sayin u eat shoe..correct? truss me..u dont only need husband....u need help....u want moiney, ask me nicely!(REAL TALK)
KristaPretty: Having gone through your profile, I have concluded that you are a big lousy illiterate who seeks attention. You reek like the bad economy of Nigeria, stupid acclaimed londonder. Only a pair of my shoe would feed your generation. You should be ashamed of yourself, nairaland indeed has brought too much familiarity to the extent that some who are to be used as footmat are same people who go around typing meaningless things and wanting to drag you to their shallow thinking level. No gigolo! You are not worth it. You actually should have been flushed down the toilet in a condom but you ended up here by a huge mistake.
Now go for people English lessons before you ever mention me again.
Riff-raff and low class citizen!
Karisha...listen..u very rudes. why u goin thru my profile for? u tink am single....u dont stand a shance datin me & u definately not my type, u aint even lightskin....and by the way, am a londonder & i have moiney, juss in case u ask..but dont bother!!!!(no oofeinse)
willi926: My younger sister aged 19 years is the baby of the house( last born). She never know wetin life dey talk, we still dey pamper her. So it just happens that she fell for the wrong guy almost her age mate(20). When the guy was coming for her, I would see both of them outside our gate, and would always ask her who be this guy wey dey visit u sef, him no get work?. She will just reply he is just a friend. I started noticing the closeness was becoming something else wen the guy don dey get mind to enter our compound. I personally called my sis and told her I don't like the guy, that from the look of things the guy just want to have his way and move on, that she shouldn't give into any of his sexual advances, they should just be friends. Called the guy separately as guy man and asked him wat he wants from her, he said nothing oo, just friends. I told him it should be sooo. After some few weeks ago, I started noticing she have been quiet and reserved, her fair face, pale and red. The calls she always make and recieve don reduce drastically, I already know the signs, she was heart broken. Na so I called her yesterday night, told her God blessed me with small money, that she should join me to an eatery around our area,( I just did it to bring her out of the house and ask her few thing). When we got to the eatery I saw she been lively again, we ordered what we wanted, I begin ask her questions, she opened up and told me the guy said he is no longer interested, that he has seen another person he truly wants, that she should no longer call him, neither will he pick her calls. I asked her if they had sex and she answered yes and apologised. So I adviced her not to ever call him again, that he will be the one to call wen he is sex starved, immediately I finished the statement the guys call entered, it rang for 2 times, I told her to pick the third call and put it on speakout, the guy just dey, dey propose love, dey talk how he missed my sis, asking of her were about, after two, that he couldn't sleep. I laughed cos the plans I have for that guy is not of good..
dis question goes to the single ladies/ gentle men in the building...
were do u wish to marry from and wats ur reason?
As for me,i want to marry an ijaw grl bcus they got almost all the stuff i nid in a woman. i mean they got the dark complexion...the killer curves and they are frdly to be with..
so guys tell us,were do u which to marry from....
cheers.....
fuk Nooo...if u marry, u be stock wit one babe...Bro do u wanto become a prisoner? fuk no!
dis question goes to the single ladies/ gentle men in the building...
were do u wish to marry from and wats ur reason?
As for me,i want to marry an ijaw grl bcus they got almost all the stuff i nid in a woman. i mean they got the dark complexion...the killer curves and they are frdly to be with..
KristaPretty: What are you saying? Like what on earth are you trying to say?
Read what you wrote and tell me if you understand yourself. Abeg shift
[ Karisha...dont disgrase yor sef please...too late...u claim u cant find husband becuz church cant find u man (READ YOR LAST POST)..and now u gettin updet coz we expose as single person... is it my fault u cant find man..if u nice to me i can help u coz am a londoner. ...& then u complain u cant find mans on nairaland. Take a shance & have faith & one day, God will find u a man on nairaland!!! (((THANK ME LATER)))
shortgun: Hello guys, I've been talking with this girl for like 3 months now, anytime I ask of her age her response will be "old enough".
She is beautiful, intelligent and a smart young woman but I don't want to have anything with a minor. I've tried severally for her to tell me her age, she will prefer we end the conversation than say her age
She's in 200l according to her. Is it possible she's still underaged?
Islandlady: I mean do male animals also rape their female counterparts without her consent too
I just read a news where a man raped a 3yrs old girl to death and it makes me wondered if this men are even worth calling an animals
Maybe animals are better than them toh!
Just thinking out loud
actually my former police dog call Bingo yanshed all the dogs in my area last year includin one pit bull terrirer.. but then when he went after my cat...we left him on the bridge! (TRUE STORY)
annisy: Let me drop my 2cent Understand yourself very well (your strength and weaknesses) then look out for your opposite!! Someone whose strengths is your weaknesses and weaknesses is your strength most time you will find the perfect one in them!!! Before I forget most times they don't appear in the kind of package we expect (shape, size, curve, height and so on)
helo anals, how r u.so was yor nomba & when can i call?
truthfully360: Popular Nigerian actor, Baba Ijesha collapsed while heading to Kirikiri Correctional Facility in Lagos following his 16 years imprisonment sentence.
davien: I'm curious to know what people think if you find out after marriage that your partner was a serial cheater in all their past relationships. Would you feel safe or trust the person not to do the same in marriage?
...but why will u complain has long has u gettin free puccccci?.....who cares if she sleeps wit buhari.. are u sopose to be a viiirgin? ..I begggggy!!!(no oofeince)
davien: I'm curious to know what people think if you find out after marriage that your partner was a serial cheater in all their past relationships. Would you feel safe or trust the person not to do the same in marriage?
Favourchris: In a religious nation like ours, u call Muslim Muslim ticket smart... ok. Let's see how smart it is
helo. am a movie directors & we lookin for models to help advatise the movie...do u were thong & r u lightskin & please describe yor body shape & weight in kilogram?...and do u were mini sket?
Goahead: Voting for Tinubu is patting Buhari on the back for a job well done.
Vote Obi for prosperity.
Really?...So u want us to vote OBI so when he enter, he can join up wit that IBO Terrrrorist IPOD Nnadi Kanu group so they can break away from Nigeria & destroy everybody??...........AINT HAPPPPENIN!!!!!(((no oofeinse)))
SteadyGrinding: I'm in the most confused state of my life.
Please I need advice from mature fellows.
I've been in a relationship with this girl for 6month now. We planned things together. And I swear to God. She's very supportive. When every family ran away from me. She stood by me.
Even supported me when I had some spiritual issues.
We've got plans together. We plan everything together. Life and all.
I will not lie. She is very supportive. She's just my kind. This girl have to break her savings to make sure I achieve some plans. Go broke to see me smile in my difficult times.
I've moved to a new apartment when my landlady was bewitching me. All my business dried up. She stood by me. Supported me in looking for another apartment. Financially she was there. Now I'm just one week in the new apartment. We had our first sex and I contacted gonorrhoea from her.
Now I'm not a simp I know this infection is a sexually transmitted one. She has been swearing with her life that she didn't cheat. Swearing with this. Swearing with that. I know it's all lies. Abi have anyone experience this. Because she was saying maybe it hid in her body system that she didn't sleep with another man.
Now this is the case. I don't want to dump this girl like that. I feel guilt in my mind. After all she has done for me. Please someone talk to me I'm going crazy. This is a girl that has fought spiritual battles for me. I know what I'm talking about.
ok..so u sayin u get yor landlady pregnant & u want us to supot u becuz u love yor woman....corrrec?...bro i dont meanto sount rudes but are u ok sir? (no ofeinse)
SteadyGrinding: I'm in the most confused state of my life.
Please I need advice from mature fellows.
I've been in a relationship with this girl for 6month now. We planned things together. And I swear to God. She's very supportive. When every family ran away from me. She stood by me.
Even supported me when I had some spiritual issues.
We've got plans together. We plan everything together. Life and all.
I will not lie. She is very supportive. She's just my kind. This girl have to break her savings to make sure I achieve some plans. Go broke to see me smile in my difficult times.
I've moved to a new apartment when my landlady was bewitching me. All my business dried up. She stood by me. Supported me in looking for another apartment. Financially she was there. Now I'm just one week in the new apartment. We had our first sex and I contacted gonorrhoea from her.
Now I'm not a simp I know this infection is a sexually transmitted one. She has been swearing with her life that she didn't cheat. Swearing with this. Swearing with that. I know it's all lies. Abi have anyone experience this. Because she was saying maybe it hid in her body system that she didn't sleep with another man.
Now this is the case. I don't want to dump this girl like that. I feel guilt in my mind. After all she has done for me. Please someone talk to me I'm going crazy. This is a girl that has fought spiritual battles for me. I know what I'm talking about.
helo . did i mention I travel to london anyhow & i beento london like 8 times & i have moiney...juss in case u ask?.....anyways please can u commmto my place tihis eveing so we can talk over dinner?...do u like rice & beef stew with boiled eggs?
Shugavee: when my dog died when I was young I cried so much
ok so u here pretendin to be fine babe but then u cook dog & now u feel sad coz u chopped yor dog...correct?..SHAME on u for eaten dog meat!!! (no ofense)
Semiaddict: I'm seriously considering yahoo, a friend of mine already taught me a format and I don't really know if I should continue or just tell him I'm no longer into it.
son...juss remember ther will be plenty of boyfriend waiting 4u in prison & they might end up changing yor name to "Blessing!!*(((THANK ME LATER)))