Romance › Re: Why Will You Befriend Your Ex On Social Media When You Have Me? by PunkyV(f): 4:38pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
deturla: Na wa oh...Hmmmn...
Exes are humans, ain't they? There might be reasons why he is your ex. Badt ass terrible relationship or mutual agreement.
If the latter is the case. Do you delete them off your social media handles completely too? Yes, they're humans, humans you have history with, so it's totally unacceptable. We're obviously on different ends of the spectrum here. So please tell me, why are you still friends with yours? Because for me, once the relationship part is over, I see no other reason to be keeping them around. I didn't know them before we started a relationship & I don't wanna know them after the relationship is done. It's that simple. Partly because I don't like reminders & also because I'm a minimalist. Having an ex in your life is comparable to carrying old dusty baggage along with you wherever you go. At least that's how it feels to me. So by dropping them, the load lessens on all levels. I'm not friends with exes, not even one. The reasons of the break-up don't even matter, I just want them out! |
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Romance › Re: Why Will You Befriend Your Ex On Social Media When You Have Me? by PunkyV(f): 4:20pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
halfricanadian: Yup i told ya u didnt bliv me
How are u  I'm great, hun. And you? |
Romance › Re: Why Will You Befriend Your Ex On Social Media When You Have Me? by PunkyV(f): 4:03pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
halfricanadian: Straight arrow LOL, we almost always seem to agree on these things. We really are alike. |
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Romance › Re: Why Will You Befriend Your Ex On Social Media When You Have Me? by PunkyV(f): 3:54pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
I'm not gonna lie, I do not like exes in the picture. I don't get why some people just can't cut people off & move on. So a partner that's still friends with exes would grate on me big time. I'd want them completely wiped-out or the relationship won't feel right for me. I think I'd even end a relationship over that because it is a big deal to me. Past & present just don't go together in my book. |
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Romance › Re: Snooping On Partner. Right Or Wrong? by PunkyV(f): 3:15pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
I'm a shameless snoop. I do it because I'd rather know & be hurt by the truth, than be made a fool of. |
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Fashion › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016 Grand Finale by PunkyV(f): 1:19pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
I vote for Lanicky
CC: NLJega |
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Romance › Re: Can You Date Someone Whose Name Is Endurance?? by PunkyV(f): 5:44am On May 25, 2016 |
It's not a bad name imo. It sounds like the name of a man with a strong character. Someone that never gives up. Someone that faces adversity head-on without turning the other way, scurrying away. It's good name. |
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Romance › Re: South African Man Claims To Have Slept With Over 100 Of His Twitter Followers by PunkyV(f): 10:37pm On May 24, 2016 |
daretodiffer: I haven't got love for some SA men but my hatred is contextual. I know for certain that we don't hate SA women, on that basis please ignore these boys. I noticed you have been trying hard not to reply them in kind, ignoring them might do the trick Thanks, love  Will do. |
Romance › Re: South African Man Claims To Have Slept With Over 100 Of His Twitter Followers by PunkyV(f): 10:35pm On May 24, 2016 |
LeSudAfricaine: Every thread that has to do with SA, you will see one Nigerian throwing insults and the rest follow, and they wonder why they are not liked by other Africans What amazes me is that they expect people not to respond in similar fashion. They can throw insults all day, but you shouldn't or you'll be gaslighted & projected upon. |
Romance › Re: South African Man Claims To Have Slept With Over 100 Of His Twitter Followers by PunkyV(f): 10:12pm On May 24, 2016 |
SmartChoices: I'LL like to request that you stop making outlandish statements insulting Nigeria....and Nigerians...punkyv. I have observed that it has been your past time. Not sounding good. Excuse me? Selective reading much? Go to the 1st page & see who started the insults. I only responded in kind. My past time se gat! I spend most of my time on NL avoiding any kind of conflict with people. But if a push comes to shove, then you best believe I will push back. |
Romance › Re: South African Man Claims To Have Slept With Over 100 Of His Twitter Followers by PunkyV(f): 8:28pm On May 24, 2016 |
folksync: I have been a guest since 2013. A pathetic story of a mob action against some university lads made me discover Nairaland!!!!!
But... OK, no buts. Oh ok. You come across nice & level-headed  |
Romance › Re: South African Man Claims To Have Slept With Over 100 Of His Twitter Followers by PunkyV(f): 8:23pm On May 24, 2016 |
TheSonOfMark: [color=royalblue] Black SOUTH-AFRICAN lives are so worthless that they need Whites to form a human wall to protect them in a country they call their own.
Eternal slaves! 
PunkyV, LeSudAfracaine, MDUZA, how about that? [/color] Should we send some your way to shield you too from the bomb blasts? We got plenty to spare  Our police force is not as brutal to us as yours is to you. We even complain that they're too lenient & need to be a little more harsh, especially in their dealings with criminals. Our citizens are protected from police brutality for the most part, so it boggles my mind that you're busy beating your meat to this  |
Romance › Re: How Do You React When Another Lady Is Having Attitude For Nothing? by PunkyV(f): 7:49pm On May 24, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: South African Man Claims To Have Slept With Over 100 Of His Twitter Followers by PunkyV(f): 7:46pm On May 24, 2016 |
folksync: I have always gone by this moniker!!!!! Nice meeting you too. Your profile says you registered last year. Doesn't add up. You were not a registered user back in 2014? |
Romance › Re: South African Man Claims To Have Slept With Over 100 Of His Twitter Followers by PunkyV(f): 7:31pm On May 24, 2016 |
folksync: Thank you!!!!! I suppose you write stories. Your use of words is captivating. Has always been. I don't write stories lol. Nice meeting you again  Did you always go by this moniker? |
Romance › Re: South African Man Claims To Have Slept With Over 100 Of His Twitter Followers by PunkyV(f): 7:26pm On May 24, 2016 |
TheSonOfMark: [color=royalblue] Good thing you've agreed you're a joker!
Zulu beaver, I bet your ear-rings are made of squirrel bones and your relatives have navel piercings of snail shells. THE GODS MUST BE CRAZY if you think you're any better than a farm horse. [/color] This is one of the things that bore me with some of you. The lack of creative writing skills, lack of sense & your fondness of juvenile insults. What do you call this tosh you just posted? It sounds stupid coming from a grown man. What, are you 4? Chisos  LMAO |
Romance › Re: South African Man Claims To Have Slept With Over 100 Of His Twitter Followers by PunkyV(f): 7:12pm On May 24, 2016 |
KINGOFJAPAN: You've a spiteful way of replying/posting comments, especially on naija vs sa thread's.  |
Romance › Re: South African Man Claims To Have Slept With Over 100 Of His Twitter Followers by PunkyV(f): 7:10pm On May 24, 2016 |
folksync: Yes. And on a particular thread that would later turn into a South Africa vs. Nigeria battle. I don't remember the other thread. But yeah, the BBA thread was a battle royale. My raise to stardom  Just joking  You're very perceptive. Wow. |